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Parenting lessons
a generation apart
Dads shun
bimbo image
By Cathy Campbell
By Cathy Campbell
INSIDE
Brain food: Quality
child care is not a
luxury, its brain food
for the next generation, page 3
On track: A major
national survey tracks
Canadian children,
page 7
Our Top 10 list:
Parents guide to
caring for their offspring and themselves, page 8
Page 2
President
Robert Glossop
Executive Director of
Programs and
Research
Staff
Denise Avard
Editor
Cathy Campbell
Writer
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dle the baby influence important hormones, which will, in turn, affect the
wiring of the brain. In other words,
sound, touch, smell, taste, cuddles and
smiles all stimulate the development
of the nervous system. In contrast, if
the brain does not have the benefit of
such stimulation in the first few years
of life, then the child will be negatively affected. In experiments, scientists
covered the eyes of primates in the
first few weeks after birth. The result
was permanent, life-long blindness.
It appears that if you dont use it,
you lose it, Dr. Chance says.
Researchers on brain development
say that children are highly influenced
by their parents and other adult caregivers, such as day care workers,
grandparents, teachers everyone
who cares for them. They thrive in
communities that are safe and supportive.
There are no down times in
child development.
See Wiring on page 3
Page 3
children?
Parents should read to
kids because kids cant
read themselves. I cant
get to sleep without a
bedtime story. Books
make me feel happy and
they taught me how to play spin the
bottle.
Logan, age 4
VOICES
Why is it good
By Denise Avard
and Cathy Campbell
CHILDRENS
Its a fact
By the age of three, the brains
of children are two and a half
times more active than the
brains of adults and they stay
that way throughout the first
decade of life.
Rethinking the Brain
by Rima Shore
Page 4
Crying
A generation ago, for example, parents were discouraged from responding
to their babys every cry. Formerly,
parents let them cry it out, thinking
they would expand their lungs. They
also wanted to ensure they wouldnt
become spoiled or dependent on us,
Ms. Robeson says. And now were
recognizing that having babies needs
met helps them have this positive environment to grow and develop and actually helps the development of the
childs brain.
Breastfeeding
A generation ago, women were told
that formula was the best food for their
infants.
Clearly, we know that breast feeding
is the best method for feeding infants
and that formula is a distant second,
Ms. Robeson says.
However, she adds, parents did the
best they could with the information
they had at the time.
Toilet training
A generation ago, toilet training a
baby was recommended by the childs
first birthday. If they werent trained
by age one then all was lost, Ms.
Robeson says.
Former federal Liberal cabinet minister Judy Erola, who retired last year as
head of the Pharmaceutical
Manufacturers Association of Canada,
is a board member of the Canadian
Institute of Child
Health and a grandmother of four.
She says that grandparents have so much
to offer to todays
families.
I think grandparents
of today are going to
have a very real affect,
more than ever, on the
next generation, she
says. Grandparents
today are young, physically active and they are
wealthier ... I think they
have a much greater
role in the nurturing of children.
Ms. Erola supports the institutes
plan to get grandparents and parents
talking about child-rearing, but, she
says, I think its a two-way street.
Very often its easy to poo-poo what
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Dads: A culture
of fatherhood
project aims to get fathers more
involved in the lives of their preschool
It (TV) is overlooking the imporchildren.
tance of involved fathering, Dr.
Prospre was proposed by a team of
Campbell says. In Canada, the reality is researchers from the Universit du
that 78 per cent of families have a
Qubec Montral, the public health
father who is on the scene. And yet,
department and Montreal youth centres,
our media image portrays something
says Christine Bolt, former program
different, he says. We need to reco-ordinator.
establish a father ideal.
In both communities, committees of
Dr. Campbell is trying to do just that
local representatives develop specific
through his Dad Classes, prenatal classprojects to respond to the fathers who
es for men.
live there.
Dr. Campbell established Dad
Prospre promotes a culture of
Classes about a decade ago in London.
fatherhood, Ms. Bolt explains.
Since then, he has seen 600 expectant
Posters and pamphlets have been crefathers earn their Dad diplomas.
ated with slogans such as Pre sa
And he hopes to expand the program
manire (Father in his own way) or
to six other centres in Canada within
Pre pas pas (Fathers step by step)
the year.
There have been prenatal classes for
Babies dont come with owners
Dads, a welcome visit to new fathers,
manuals, says Dr. Campbell.
counselling services, breakfast meetMen take Dad Classes to find out
ings for fathers, a father-child vacation
how to be good fathers. They learn to
camp and community events to
recognize a babys different cries, how
strengthen families.
to hold infants, soothe them, talk to
Making fathers more aware of their
them and cuddle them. They also talk
role benefits children, Ms. Bolt says
about the relationships they had with
The project also tries to give fathers
their fathers and how they see their role
recognition for what they are doing
today.
well.
Men take Dad Classes in an effort to
Were trying not to send a message
move more towards the heart of the
that you have to be the perfect guy or
family and away from the sidelines,
the perfect, complete father, Ms. Bolt
where many feel that they have been
says.
placed, Dr. Campbell says.
Were trying not to be too moral or
Dads who take the five-week course
too judgmental ... There are different
have been found to
types of fathers.
exhibit a tendency
This year,
Were
trying
not
to
towards more
researchers from Dads
send a message that Can and Prospre
involvement with
their children
have begun working
you have to be the
touching, talking
together, with the help
perfect father.
and holding, says
of money from Health
Christine Bolt, former program
Dr. Campbell.
Canada.
co-ordinator, Prospre
He has developed
Dads Can and
a manual for the Dad Classes, called
Prospre have expanded a web site on
Coaching into Fatherhood.
fatherhood (www.dadscan.org).
Dads Can is working with the
Prospre researchers are conducting a
Ottawa-based Canadian Institute of
major study of fathering projects across
Child Health to secure funding for its
Canada, and the two groups are orgaplan to publish the manual and expand
nizing a national symposium on fatherits program.
ing, to be held in Montreal next spring.
10 + 1 Tips on how
to be an involved father
1.Support and respect the mother of your children.
2.Work together as a team, sharing equally in all child-rearing
tasks.
3.Spend time with your children.
4.Show love and affection
toward your child.
5.Protect your family.
6.Spend time together as
a family.
7.Tell your story.
8.Encourage your place of work
to be father-friendly.
9.Be an example.
10.Recognize that being an
involved father is for life.
+1. Believe in yourself and your
potential to be an active, caring
father. Every child deserves a loving, involved father.
From the Dads Can web site,
www.dadscan.org
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Dads: Taking
a greater role
Continued from page 5
And finally, fathers are looking for
places to turn for support. Until now,
there have been few resources available.
To compound the problem, many of
todays dads didnt have involved
fathers as role models.
Certainly a child benefits from having both an involved father and an
involved mother and growing up in the
space in between, Dr. Campbell says.
Researchers seek
fatherhood projects
Montreal group
to present findings
at national meeting
By Christine Bolt
Universit du Qubec Montral
his spring, researchers at the
Universit du Qubec
Montral are embarking on a
survey of fatherhood projects across
Canada.
It involves an extensive search of all
activities, programs, initiatives and
resources, including one-time events
such as staff training, workshops,
symposia and special days, which support fathers involvement with their
children.
The survey will allow us to publish
a directory of best practices that
will be used to encourage any interest-
Its a fact
Child abuse and neglect occur in every province and territory, in large
cities, small towns and rural areas.
While children of all ages are at risk, those three years old or younger are
most frequently investigated for neglect.
Children 12-15 years old are most frequently investigated for physical
abuse.
Health Canada: Child Abuse and Neglect.
The National Clearinghouse on Family Violence, February 1997
Preparing
parents, caregivers
to Get Set for Life
National campaign
on parenting
begins May 10 in Halifax
By Cathy Campbell
ew research that concludes that
the preschool years shape the
rest of a childs life has
sparked a national public awareness
campaign to promote good parenting.
Get Set for Life targets parents, relatives, friends and caregivers of children
up to age five.
Led by CBC television, Invest in
Kids Foundation a national nonprofit group that promotes healthy
development of young children, and
Canadian Living magazine, the campaign, which is to be launched in
Halifax on May 10, is a media blitz to
convince Canadians that they have a
role to play in providing a safe, caring
and stimulating environment for young
children.
Get Set for Life is a media promotion and education campaign that really
pitches the message that parenting is
important, says Yvonne Blanchard, a
member of the campaign steering committee and executive-director of the
Nova Scotia Council for the Family.
The program also has resource materials for parents and people who work
with parents and caregivers.
Get Set for Life, which was initiated
by the CBC, wants to spread the message about the latest research on brain
wiring, which shows that the quality of
care that children receive in the early
years affects the way neural connections are made in their brains.
The campaign includes The Zap
Family vignettes, which appear on
CBC during its Saturday morning childrens programming. The 60-second
animated parenting lessons, told
through a family called the Zaps, offer
simple truths about raising children.
The Zap Family members are cartoon characters who dont actually say
anything, but what they do is convey an
educational message to parents and
children, says Jennifer Gillivan, of
CBC in Halifax.
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Its a fact
Parents now are splitting up
when their children are
younger. In 87% of the cases,
children under 12 remain with
their mothers when their parents separate; 7 per cent live
with their fathers; and 6 per
cent live in joint custody
arrangements.
CCSD, The Progress of Canadas
Children, 1998
Page 8
Sources
Fatherhood issues: Dads Can web site: www.dadscan.org or call 1-888Dads-Can.
Zero to Six: The Basis for School Readiness: This paper by Gillian Doherty
presents the results of an extensive review of the curent literature on school
readiness. General inquiries about this paper and other papers published by
the Applied Research Branch should be addressed to
nancy.zalman@spg.org
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