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Create Happiness
For most of us, happiness is what life is all about. Our dreams and goals revolve
around happiness. And it seems that we know what is best for us, because when we are
happier, we are also healthier. Research clearly shows that happier people have fewer
physical ills, they age slower and live longer. There is no one happiness formula that is
right for everyone, but the behavioral experts continue to prove that there are several
factors that contribute most to meaningful happiness.
Happiness is a state of well being, filled with positive feelings toward yourself and
the world. Of course, truth is what works for you, and if you believe something to be, it
becomes so for you. So your own ideas about happiness are important to the attainment
of happiness. If you stop to think about it, just about every decision you make is based
upon what you think will bring you more happiness. All of the important aspects of
your life, your love and relationships, your job, your level of success, your friendships,
your sexuality, and spirituality are a means to bring you happiness. Among the
encouraging news found in psychological research studies comes knowledge that people
are infinitely changeable. Once they have established clarity of intent, they can alter their
personalities, rise above neurotic patterns, and find happiness at almost any age. The
experts claim that throughout your entire life relationships are continually reshaping
you. And an imbalance at one point can be corrected later on.
Most of the suggestions have already been shared in other chapters, but Im going to
repeat them again, together, because this combination of factors is most likely to
generate happiness.
1. Love yourself
Love yourself. This is critically important. Self-esteem is a cornerstone of happiness
and mental health. Contentment is a benefit of loving yourself and is the core of
motivation. Your self-esteem is primarily based upon what you do in life. When you do
things that make you feel good about yourself, you increase your self-esteem. When you
do things that make you feel bad about yourself, you lose self-esteem. (Read the
Enhance Self-Esteem chapter.)
Self-esteem is also the result of how you look. So if there is something you dont like
about the way you look, get to work on a program to change for the better. This is
sometimes the fastest way to begin increasing your feelings of self-worth.
value here. It seems that when you care about someone else, you feel better about
yourself.
satisfy someone else. If your behavior makes someone else uncomfortable, they have the
right to leave. The same goes for you. Often in a close relationship, one person will
compromise in hopes of achieving harmony. They change, and thus the other person is
now reacting to a different, changed person. And often they also change, not because
they are being asked to, but because they want to. In a situation like this, the change is
natural and will probably last.
Affirmations
The final chapter explains how to use the following affirmations as self-talk and how to
include them in a self-hypnosis format for daily mind programming.
Every day in every way I love myself more and more.
I make the time to do things that are satisfying and enjoyable.
I am self-confident and self-reliant.
I give love and I am open and receptive to receiving love.
I catch negative thoughts and turn them positive.