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Marriage & Relationship is the single most important aspect of life for which people are
flocking to the Astrologers, Marriage Counselors and Psychologists more than ever
before.This should definitely lead to a curiosity in human mind if theres a strong connection
of Vedic Astrology in offering help & advice to lead a happy married life and a successful
relationship.
We all know that for ages there has been a role for family priest in matching the Horoscopes
of the boy and girl before fixing the marriage, choosing the auspicious date and time of
marriage. But gradually some of the things considered important were done away with as.
And when the rate of failure of marriages increased, some wise old men (women included)
once again propagated the role and importance of fixing and arranging the marriages in
traditional ways, where Astrology had a definitive role. However, it would not be wise to
push down the throat of people who are driven more by the logic and scientific approach in
their life in establishing the credentials of Vedic Astrology as an effective scientific tool for
warding off the negatives and ensuring a healthy relationship & marriage. Hence the better
way would be to convince them by giving proof or explaining the link between the roles of
planets in deciding about the quality of married life of the native.
In the following cases we take up some well known and common rules of Vedic Astrology
related to marriage, its quality and likely problems along with some cases and real
Horoscopes.
Parameters and conditions which give happy married life
There should be a thorough examination of the 1st, 2nd, 4th, 5th and 7th and 12th house,
besides the quality of the overall Horoscope. In additional there is a need to spend more
time to check the divisional charts such as Navamasha and the operating Dasha system
besides the transit of planets. Following houses should be strong and their lords should be
well placed enjoying good strength. Also there should preferably be the aspect of benefic
planet on them. No aspect is better than the aspect of cruel planets:
5th house - it is the house of romance, house of progeny and state of mind /
emotions.
Planets in 7th house and the 7th house - from natural ascendant, 7th from Moon and
7th from Venus should also be examined.
12th house - house of sexual enjoyment. The affliction of the 12th house / lord by
malefic especially if they are lords of six is not good. As it may give impotency / frigidity.
There should be aspect of benefic planets on the house. The house should not be
afflicted by malefic. The natural malefic planets are Sun, Mars, Saturn, Rahu & Ketu.
It should be in shubh kartari yoga and not be hemmed in between malefic planets
It should have above average benefic points (27 and above) in ashtakvarga.
Jupiter: some astrologers are of the opinion that in the female Horoscope Jupiter
represents husband.
To give good results these significator should be strong. To be strong they should be
Exalted or
In other auspicious houses. For example, Venus in the ninth house gives good luck
and happiness and in tenth and eleventh, it makes for a happy and romantic marriage.
Similarly in the 12th it gives sexual pleasures.
Aspected by benefics.
The significator planet should be hemmed in between benefics which gives rise to
shubhkartari yoga - adding to its strength. Conversely, if it is hemmed in between malefic
planets it will not give good results.
Good position of Venus in the house of marriage along with Mercury which is
representing in this case the sexual pleasures.
Well placed lord of marriage - Saturn in the 10th house. Although it is debilitated, but
there is cancellation of debilitation also.
In navamasha (D - 9), the position improves further as five planets go to kendras and
Jupiter with Moon occupied the seventh house.
Of course, there was a significant of role of the favorable Dashas enabling him to
enjoy the marital bliss.
Kumar Manglam Birla
Quite a few points mentioned in the previous lines are confirmed from the Horoscope of well
known industrialist of our times Mr.Kumar Manglam Birla. For example,
There is aspect of benefic planets Jupiter and Venus on the 7th house.
Saturn the lord of 7th house is in an auspicious house - 9th which represents religion
(dharma).
Saturn also receives the benefic aspects of Jupiter and Yogkarka Mars.
Delayed marriage
Denial of marriage
Divorce or separation
Let us take up some examples.
Delayed Marriage
Ms. ABC
The lady got married at the age of 36 (November 2013), which is quite late as per herself
and the norms of her cultural and family background.
Some of factors responsible for this are:
The 7th house has Ketu in it
Jupiter though the 7th lord itself is with Gullika and is also retrograde
In Navamnsha also the 7th lord is Saturn and it aspects its own house (main reason
for delay).
Mars also aspects the 7th house and 7th lord in D-9, making her manglik and making
match making difficult (astrologically).
Jupiter and Venus are posted in the 6th house with Ketu in D 9.
Denial of Marriage
Mr. XYZ
This person is a qualified engineer, with a successful career in the IT field and is settled in
USA. However, despite the best attempts of the person himself and the family members he
could not get married and he seems to be now giving up the hopes.
As per the classics, following conditions in his Horoscope are responsible for this situation.
Venus is in the 6th house and is also the 1st and 6th lord. In addition, Venus is
retrograde too. One has many lovers but has no interest in marriage.
Mercury in the 7th with 12th lord Mars. Mercury is a eunuch planet and 12th
represents sexual pleasures. This combination destroys the sex aspect.
Two out of three lagnas, Sun, Moon and Ascendant having aspect of Saturn.
Therefore, in this case it is not just one or two but at least 8 conditions pointing firmly to the
denial of marriage.
Divorce / Separation
Divorce is a state in which the husband and wife decide to declare that they do not have a
compatibility or proper understanding and would now like to part ways.
Just as we have learnt about the good features which must be present in a Horoscope for
the marriage to be successful, there are also the negative features which are engraved in
the Horoscope. Natural malefic planets - Saturn, Mars, Rahu and Ketu are agents of
Divorce / Seperation, whereas Sun acts as a catalyst in such cases, adding fuel to fire.
Mr. RDZ
In this case, the native is separated from his wife for the last 4 years (then 37 years) and the
noteworthy factors are:
Mangal dosh ( mangleek) - the presence of Mars in the 4th house of domestic peace
has denied him the pleasure of a good and peaceful home and also denied him the
company of his wife ( 4th aspect of Mars)
Combust Venus in the 6th house ( it is a double negative)
The 2nd house in the Horoscope is considered to be the house of family growth.
Here this house is afflicted due to the aspect of natural malefic Saturn from the 8th house,
denying the native a good relation with wife.
Conclusion
It is possible to avoid the pain two people go thru when they are stuck in a conflicting or
disharmonious relationshop or marriage. One can go for matching the Horoscope for
relationship compatibilty in Vedic Astrology. It is best advised to head for a Love / Marriage
Compatibility reading than to regret later in a marriage or relationship turned sour.