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The Hidden Feelings of Motherhood: Coping With Stress, Depression, and Burnout
Cindy A. Stearns
J Hum Lact 2003; 19; 96
DOI: 10.1177/0890334403019001021
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Good Nights provides new parents with scientificbased arguments that will make them feel confident
about their decision to share their beds with a little one.
Dr. Gordon, a strong advocate of breastfeeding, presents all the advantages of bed sharing that enhance
breastfeeding as well as the benefits of breastfeeding as
it complements bed sharing. By including a discussion
of the concerns of bottle-feeding parents, the book will
appeal to all new families.
Some information focuses on the importance of
touch and human contact for the newborn based on their
maturity and ability to survive outside the womb. The
book is laid out with an easy-to-read typeface and
makes good use of white space, bulleted lists, short
quotes, and sections, making it a quick read for busy
new parents. I enjoyed the question-and-answer format,
along with the entertaining Top Ten Things to Do With
Your Crib list. I also enjoyed the humorous arguments
against the idea that parents who sleep with their baby
will never have sex! Creative options are discreetly discussed in the chapter Love in the Laundry Room and
Other Creative Places to Have Sex.
The back cover includes testimonial statements on
co-sleeping from celebrity couples who bring their children to Dr. Gordons pediatric practice. New parents
will be impressed with the sensible and sensitive way
this information is presented. Good Nights is a significant book to recommend to new parents. Lactation professionals will enjoy it as well.
Mary Kay Smith, RN, IBCLC
Romeoville, Illinois USA
The No-Cry Sleep Solution: Gentle Ways to Help
Your Baby Sleep Through the Night
Elizabeth Pantley
Contemporary Books (a division of The McGraw-Hill
Companies), 2002
254 pages, illustrations and charts, index, (US)$14.95,
softcover
Orders: Contemporary Books, 130 E. Randolph Street,
Suite 900, Chicago, IL 60601
Tel: (312) 233-7597; fax: (312) 233-7570
URL: www.pantley.com/elizabeth/
For sleep-worried mothers, Elizabeth Pantleys book
will probably be helpful. If the mothers goal is for baby
to sleep more hours in a row, co-sleep without breastfeeding at night, or even sleep alone, Pantley offers a lot
of suggestions quite different from the old and insensi-
tive let him cry it out advice. She does not offer quick,
magic solutions, but rather shows how to slowly,
patiently, and kindly bend infants behavior into parental expectations.
Ideas include putting baby in the cradle while still
awake; removing baby from the breast, bottle, or pacifier while still awake; ignoring little noises the baby
makes when asleep (but never ignoring crying!); limiting
daytime naps; introducing a transitional object; establishing a bedtime routine; making a book or a poster to
teach the child this routine; and much more. The reader is
advised to select those ideas she thinks more useful for
her and her baby. A welcome surprise is the authors ability (unlike most child care experts) to cast doubt on her
own advice, thus allowing the reader to do the same.
The method is not without work. The preliminary
detailed charting (writing down an account of all naps
and all awakenings for a 24-hour period) has to be
repeated every 10 days to check progress. Many mothers all around the world do not share these goals and
expectations and would not understand why sleeping
longer or alone, or having few feedings at night, should
be important enough to suffer all this trouble.
The section on sleep safety is too detailed; sound
advice (eg, sleeping on the back, not smoking) is mixed
with untested ideas that can make new parents think that
sleeping is really very dangerous (eg, avoid strongsmelling perfumes, learn how to perform infant
cardiopulmonary resuscitation).
The book is easy to read, illustrated with black-andwhite photographs and spiced with mothers testimonials. Forms (sleep logs, lists of ideas) are given to photocopy and use. There is a useful index but no references. I
would recommend this book only to those mothers
really worried about sleep or considering a cry-it-out
method.
Carlos Gonzlez, MD
Barcelona, Spain
The Hidden Feelings of Motherhood: Coping With
Stress, Depression, and Burnout
Kathleen A. Kendall-Tackett, PhD
New Harbinger Publications, 2001
225 pages, (US)$14.95, softcover
Orders: New Harbinger Publications, Inc., 5674
Shattuck Avenue, Oakland, CA 94609
URL: www.newharbinger.com
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