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TODDLER
1. To listen
Toddlers aren't the greatest listeners but there are a few
tricks you can use to help them pay attention. Firstly, get
down to their level by squatting down or picking them up
so that you can look them in the eye. Be clear, concise
and to the point - a toddler won't respond to a long-
winded explanation about why they should do something
- and reinforce your message by giving other signals to
make your point. For example, if it's bedtime, coincide
that message with dimming the lights or getting their
favourite book out.
2. To share
The best way to stop your child from screaming mine'
every time another child plays with one of their toys is to
teach by example. Offer them a slice of an apple you are
eating, or a chance to help you with a task such as
baking a cake or putting the washing out and use the
word share' when you invite them to join you. When your
child offers to share something with you or another child,
praise him so that he associates sharing with something
positive. But remember, they do not have to share
everything. So if they are particularly attached to a certain
toy, encourage them to put it away in a safe place before
their playmate comes around, to avoid any conflict.
5. To swim
While expecting a two or three-year-old to be able to
swim may be a tall order, they are at the stage where
they have enough coordination to start learning. Take
simple steps such as teaching them how to climb
correctly out of a swimming pool, blowing bubbles or
putting their face in the water and encouraging them to
kick. According to Dr Zainab Malik, specialist
paediatrician at City Hospital in Dubai, children as young
as four months old can be exposed to water, as long as
their vaccinations are complete. There are lots of
classes tailored to mothers and toddlers. "Swimming is a
great form of exercise, and perfect for the summer,"
says Dr Malik.
FIVE-YEAR-OLD
6. Table manners
One of the best ways to instil good table etiquette in your
child is to sit down at the table for a meal with them as
often as you can, to set the right example. Practise skills
such as passing food by asking for something rather
than reaching across the table, eating with the mouth
closed, using utensils correctly and sitting straight and
remaining seated until everyone has finished their meal.
7. To read
While reading ability differs from child to child, it's not
just a school's responsibility to teach your child to read.
Read books with your child from the moment they can sit
up, and once they start school, help them along by
learning the methods their teacher is using. Then set
aside a period of time every day after school, when they
are not tired, hungry or upset, or you are not in a hurry, to
read their school books with them. Finally, buy ability-
appropriate books not on the curriculum so that they do
not associate reading only with school.
8. To express themselves
By the age of five, children can be encouraged to
describe events and feelings in more detail than a
toddler can. According to Devika, this helps them
communicate beyond simple requests. "To develop
these expressive abilities, use words to help them
describe events and how they feel in as much detail as
possible. Try to build your child's feelings vocabulary by
using feeling words frequently in your conversations with
your child," she says.
10. To be honest
All kids lie, but sometimes they are just blurring the line
between truth and fantasy. While that is fine in some
instances, telling an outright lie isn't. Remember one of
the key reasons a child refuses to admit a wrongdoing is
when they wish someone else had done it, so ask them:
Do you wish that had happened?' and when they say
yes, give them a cuddle to acknowledge they have told
the truth. Then encourage them to put that wrongdoing
right by apologising if they have hurt another child or
helping you to clean up a mess they have made. If the lie
continues, look them in the eye to try to read their body
language, or, if there are other people in the room, step
outside so you can talk on a one-to-one basis.
TEN-YEAR-OLD
TEENAGER
16. To handle puberty
During adolescence, your teen will go through a series
of physical changes that can be confusing or worrying.
From changes in body shape to hormones, acne and a
whole host of other horrors, the early teen years can be
tough. All you can do as a parent is respect their need
for privacy, be accessible for conversation at any time
and know when to back off. You can also be proactive by
encouraging your teenager to lead a healthy lifestyle,
develop strategies to control mood swings and help
them realise that what is happening is completely
normal. And don't be afraid to sit down and talk about
puberty before it comes - they may have already learned
about it at school or talked to friends. But accurate
information, however embarrassing it may be, will aid
them through the process.