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Music and sound are key elements in a persons life. Things are heard every day and people
interpret those sounds to create an understanding of what is around them. Every person
experiences this except those who are deaf. Those that are deaf have very little or not functional
hearing, which is not be confused with someone who is hard of hearing, which is someone with
mild to moderate hearing loss (Deaf and Hard-of Hearing: Some Definitions). The percentage
of people worldwide with some type of hearing loss is over 5% (Deafness and Hearing Loss).
Many of these people who are deaf have children, 90% of which are hearing (Brother). These
hearing children, known as CODAs or children of deaf adults, often struggle with feeling like
they completely belong to a specific culture because they grew up surrounded by both Deaf and
hearing cultures, not truly belonging to either. This is how Paul DeGraw, a CODA with two
1, 2. Paul and his three siblings were raised by their deaf parents. Growing up with deaf
parents, the DeGraw children learned in different ways. Their first language is American Sign
Language, also know as ASL, and their parents obviously could not teach them English. Paul
recalls learning English from his siblings and other relatives, but mainly through watching
television. He often says, in a joking but also serious manner, that Sesame Street taught him
English. It was fairly easy for him to learn because he was surrounded by the English language.
Communication in the home was unique as well. Because calling out to their parents to get their
attention was not possible, Paul and his siblings either have to run to where their parents were
and wave to get their attention or they would flicker the lights. Their home had many duel
switches for this purpose. Lights also flickered in different patterns when the doorbell was rung
or when the phone rang. Other ways they would get their parents attention was through tapping
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on the shoulder, stomping on the hard floor (to have them feel the vibration), or to wave at them.
Rules Paul grew up with not to run through the kitchen and to be quiet. For the longest time Paul
did not understand this rule, until he understood the vibrations of him running or yelling would
bother his mom. She would get headaches or she would be startled by the sudden vibrations.
They also had the rule where hearing friends needed to go home when deaf family came over out
of respect to the family members and the language. The main reason for this rule though was to
build family relationship. One standard cultural rule is if you know how to sign you always sign
if a deaf person walks into the room. This is because if you do not, it can seem you are ignoring
Paul learned many hearing cultural norms through school and friends. The deaf always
inform those around them where they are going and what they are going to do. This is so
everyone is aware of where that person is because their means of communication is all by sight,
and if you cannot see the person you are wanting to interact with, you have no way of knowing
where they are. This was a standard Paul was accustomed to, so when he was with hearing
friends of classmates he would tell them where he was going and what he was doing. Paul would
tell them he was going to go to his backpack and put his book in it and be right back or he would
tell them he was going to the bathroom. His friends would react like what he said was odd and
unnecessary. It was through experiences like this that Paul began to understand communication
differences between Deaf and hearing cultures. Paul struggled communicating with adults when
speaking because he was used to communicating through signing. This was a problem in school
and at a parent teacher conferences his teacher brought up this issue. Pauls sister Doreen was
interpreting for their mom. When the teacher expressed her concerns and worries of Paul having
a speech issue and was slow in his learning because he wouldnt talk to the teacher and other
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issues in class, Paul interrupted and told Doreen he wasnt slow and began defending himself.
His teacher then realized Paul was a very intelligent student but he was uncomfortable with
Pauls family would run into people every day did not understand the Deaf culture and judge
their family, specifically their parents. People assume, because they cannot communicate with
the deaf, the deaf are unintelligent, where in reality the deaf are very intelligent and throughout
time have always found ways to communicate. The older Paul has gotten the more he has
become aware of this judgement and he struggles at times not be mad or angry. This judgment
would often happen in places their family would go to like restaurants. Places they frequented
the people there liked Pauls parents. A main reason for this is Pauls parents understood the
hearing culture so they could easily get along with those around them. Paul enjoyed going to
these places because he could see his parents were well liked. This is how Paul grew up as a
3. Growing up as a CODA is very different than growing up in any other culture. In all
cultures there is some element of hearing. In the Deaf culture, there is not. So growing up as a
CODA can be difficult and social issues arise because of this. One issue is communication. Paul
shared an example of difficulty through communication. At the beginning of first grade his
teacher asked each student to bring Kleenex to school by the end of the week. Not having a
specific sign for Kleenex and not understanding the teacher meant a box of tissues, Paul
explained to his mom what he needed, signing blowing his nose. What his mom understood was
toilet paper. She was floored to think Pauls teacher wanted a roll of toilet paper but, trusting
what her son told her, she sent Paul to school with toilet paper. At school the teacher saw the
toilet paper and thought it was a joke. She was became angry and expressed her frustration to the
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class, asking who brought the toilet paper. Paul never confessed. This is just one example of the
problems that arise with communication and translation. CODAs will often be translators for
the parents, as seen in Pauls story of parent teacher conferences, but this can cause
miscommunication especially when children are asked to interpret adult conversations and
subjects the children may not understand (Tylerbeardshow, What is CODA Culture).
To avoid the problem of misunderstanding, the deaf are very blunt and straight forward. Paul
again grew up with this custom, and often would be seen as rude or offensive because of how
blunt he was. In many other cultures, especially with children enveloped in two separate cultures,
the children get the benefit of the doubt according to their behaviors. For example, a child who is
Hispanic gets that benefit of the doubt because it is visible they are Hispanic and involved in two
separate cultures. That is unseen in CODAs. Just by watching a CODA it is unable to recognize
he or she is also apart of the Deaf culture, thus the benefit of the doubt is lacking.
One of the things Paul struggles with the most, like many CODAs, is feeling he belongs
completely to either culture. CODAs are stuck between two cultures: they are hearing, but grew
up Deaf (McCarthy). Paul feels his heart belongs to the Deaf culture, yet at times does not feel
accepted by them. On one occasion when he was younger, he and his deaf cousin went to the
deaf community center to play basketball. As they were there, Paul could tell the other kids there
were bothered by him being there. Later, as Paul and his cousin were leaving, one of the kids
threw a basketball at Paul. Paul, hearing the ball bounce, turned and caught it, then threw it back.
When the kid got the ball back he turned to his friends and signed unkindly, See? I told you he
was hearing. Some of the deaf feel hearing people have it easy and resent them because of it.
Another experience Paul had happened a few years after high school. He was going out with a
deaf friend of his and his friends deaf friends. When the friends saw Paul and saw that he was
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hearing, they were mad because he was competition with getting to know girls. They saw that
Paul would have the advantage because he could hear. The friends wanted to be by themselves
because, in their eyes, the playing grounds were equal. With some groups Paul feel welcome,
and others not as much. These are just some of the social issues that arise for CODAs in both the
4a. Even though CODAs grow up in the Deaf culture, music is still apart of their lives.
CODAs love to turn their music up loud and never have the problem of getting in trouble
because their parents cant hear the music. The only exception would be loud bass, which the
deaf can feel the vibrations (Tylerbeardshow, Deaf and CODA Popular Culture). The song I
chose that best represents CODAs and the social issues they struggle with is Waving Through a
Window from the musical Dear Evan Hansen. This songs message is sung by the main character
Evan Hansen, who feels he is an outcast and will always be an outcast (Dear Evan Hansen). This
song relates to CODAs because of the particular feeling they have of not completely belonging
to the hearing community or the Deaf community. The chorus of the song really proves the point
of the social issue when this line is sung: On the outside always looking in I try to speak, but
nobody can hear (Pasek). The song had three different melodies, all of which the movement is
steps. The range is medium to large and the contour is descending. The phrasing is medium to
long as well. The rhythm is quadruple meter with simple timing and syncopation. The harmony
is major with a consonance sound. The texture of the song starts out transparent and grows to
full. It is also in homophony style. For timbre, there is vocals, piano, guitar, drums, strings, and
other percussion instruments. The tempo is moderate to fast, the sound is very pop and upbeat,
and the dynamics are mezzo forte to forte with a small part in the middle at mezzo piano. The
genre is musicals with a contemporary style period. The form is verse and chorus.
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4b. Even though the deaf cant hear, they still enjoy listening to music and even singing. A
perfect example is Many Harvey, a recent finalist on Americas Got Talent. She is deaf, yet she
would sing and perform her own music. She doesnt wear shoes when she performs so she can
feel the vibrations (Nick). Paul shared seeing his mom enjoy music by feeling the side of the
record player or holding a Styrofoam container in front of a speaker. There are even interpreters
that interpret music and concerts. They do so in such a way that the deaf can experience the
music in a similar way as the hearing (Gallego). As mentioned before, CODAs enjoy all types of
In conclusion, children of deaf adults have a lot of adjusting to deal with whether it is
communication, acclimating to different cultures, or understand others correctly. There are times
when it is difficult to feel like they fit in, yet they find unity with fellow CODAs. That unity is
what helps CODAs find themselves and truly know who they are.
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5. Bibliography
Brother, Millie, and Ray Williams. "Messages From Our Founder & President." Children Of Deaf
"Deafness and Hearing Loss." World Health Organization. World Health Organization, n.d. Web.
Gallego, Amber Galloway. "About Us: History and Mission." Amber G Productions. N.p., n.d. Web.
McCarthy, James, and Tom Harrington. "Hearing Children of Deaf Parents (CODA)." Children &
Nick, Stacy. "Feeling The Music With Deaf 'America's Got Talent' Finalist Mandy Harvey." NPR. NPR,
Pasek, Benj, and Justin Paul. "Waving Through a Window Lyrics." Musical Lyrics, Songs From
Tylerbeardshow. "Deaf and CODA Popular Culture." CODA: Children of Deaf Adults. N.p., 24 Feb.
2015. Web.
Tylerbeardshow. "What Is CODA Culture and How Does It Relate to Deaf Culture?" CODA: Children