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The Author is unknown,so please don't ask me, Who wrote this?
is a new beginning.
If only we believe.
I just loved this art of words.These words truly speaks my heart.Well its only my faith in God
and his blessing that will help me to achieve what I deserve. I am just waiting for some
wonderful surprises....................
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MOTHERHOOD
M-O-T-H-E-R
Put them all together, they spell "MOTHER,"(This is written by Howard Johnson)
For quite some time I wanted to write on motherhood but just couldn’t think of words. None of
us have enough words to praise our mothers. Among the greatest gifts God has blessed
womankind with is the motherhood. A mother is said be better than a hundred teachers
Mothers whose indispensable care and nurturing for her children imbue her children with faith
and moral values, as only she can and raise them courage, honesty, truthfulness, patience ,
perseverance, love and kindness. The role of mother is so majestic and noble that even God
smiles at her patience. The nurture, love, protection, values, education she gives her child is
Beyond compare. It is a role God has gifted her with the capabilities to accomplish, the sense
Children’s natural affinity for the mother is the key to successful upbringing. A mother places
the needs of the child before her incomplete dreams. It is not really sacrifice, but is an
investment which reaps great dividends when her child learns to walk in the race of life.
teach. Adventure because each day is different and there are always some unexpected bumps
in the road that only a mom can handle! A mother can cry for every child if she sees them in
any distress, which the humble and loving heart of a mother. Her ceaseless prayers with new
The initial carving of our nurture solely lies in her blessed hands; the first cry the affectionate
touch holds the whole world happiness in the little fist. The first smile or a splutter, nibbling in
the first meal, the stumble or first baby step, the claps of appraisal, It’s just a fresh memory in
My mother is the best mother on this earth and every child would say the same. Being born
totally unaware of the outside world my mother played an important part in introducing me to
the world and the outlook I have towards life reflects my mother. I have gained a lot of her
traits. My mother's prayers have always followed me. They have clung to me all my life. Well
my mom gave me the best life. She never made me realized the reflection of my mirror which
just has ignoble reflection. She sacrificed eight years of her life for me. She used to take me to
every corner of the globe where a little hopes she saw. Yet today she lives a dream that will
never be a reality. She is the one person who comes right after God for me. I can’t thank God
enough for blessing me with such a wonderful mother who portended me,reacquainted me
from the bustle and scrunch of the world shunning them away.
Well I believe as a matter of fact a woman can raise her children all alone fulfilling all the
responsibilities while men cant. I m not generalizing but I know a handful men raising their kids
single handedly. They always needs woman help.(A mother, wife ,sister or a friend) in this
process but women just has mastered the art of joggling all the hurdles she faces in the
process. Seeing my sisters and friend’s attitudes and approach marking a full circle makes me
pray that the process from being a girl to a woman at attaining motherhood is something one
can’t miss. I really don't want to miss it at any cost. My fight with God is still on until HE grants
I dedicate this blog to a special person in everyones life who has given us this beautiful gift of
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I was waiting to watch TZP since months. I atlast got tkts( though ryt in the front of the screen).
Indeed TZP pars excellence.I don't know any word that is better than excellent .The movie is
flawless.The way such an untouched issue is handled with brilliant approach, I bet every
parents & would be parents outlook to their children will surely change after watching this
movie.We normally expect so much for a little child, the poor child cant take that burden and
applauds for their small milestones they reach.If we all can rethink on our approach towards
children we can save many Ishaan. Indeed children thinking,imagination and living spirit is par
above we can think or achieve.They indeed are stars on the earth.. What an apt title..... gr8.
The dialogues between Ram and Ishaan's dad were awesome.The acting of Tisca Chopra was
brilliant as a mom who had to be calm when her husband could'nt relate to his child's needs
and interest.They way his dad is made realize where he stands and his son is excellent.The
scene when Ram speaks his heart at Ishaan's home, with the principal,His dad (personally
when Ram spoke about Solomon Island) and the final two painting.... amazing!!!!!! I loved the
music and songs. Especially .." Tujhe sab pata hain na maa?" and the title track.
I saw myself in Ishaan as I was the same.But my parents the best parents to sit and complete
my books, sit hours with me to teach me simple mathematics and words. I was alway called an
Idiot,duffer,useless and today I am capable of doing word play .All thanks to the support my
parents gave.Every child has a special quality,interest and a unique gift that we should attempt
to bring out with best abilities that the children can use.
This boy Darsheel had made me cry bucketful.Thank God for Bum bum bole or I wud hv make
actor. He acted so naturally.His eye's spoke in majority of scene's where he dint have
This movie is a landmark in Indian cinema.This movie will be seen by generations to come.The
I always wanted to be a teacher but failing my ECCE ( Early Child Care & Edu) left me
dishearten.But yet I m with kids. I just love my kids.Their smiling faces makes me forget
everything.Well children are our future generation.I can never hit or yell at these angels. They
are Gods beautifully created angels without light.The foundation stones of their life's are in our
hand and we should arrange these stones with up most care and love.For that we ourself have
to come down to a child's level and respond to the sheen in their eyes filled with million
question marks. Let not these stars be left ephemeral and hold their little fingers to reach
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Friendship is a relation that stands on mutual knowledge, care, affection and understanding.
Friends come in our life to add the right proportion of merged colors in our life to bring a new
outlook towards life. Friends are the sibling's God forgot to give us. Our friends in very real
sense reflect the choices we make in life.We all need someone to talk to, someone who would
hear us patiently and guide us.We need to be valued and given encouragement, importance,
care, affection, love, understanding and possess the treasure that is much precious than Gold.
Gold is cold heartless and lifeless while the presence of friends is full of blessings.
Living like a wretched fool in an eclipsed world I was wandering in the darkest grope seeing no
glimpse of hope when I made my first friend .I was 17 years then. I did make friends before
that but none considered me as a friend. Even today people walk in my life to use my kindness
and discard me as we discard our forwarded emails.Friends are Angels without wings that
brighten my day with their concern care, gestures, guidance, thoughtfulness and the gift of
their valuable time that they give to me. .My parents & elders taught me values and made me
aware of my responsibilities and directed me to the path I wanted to walk on but without the
support of these wonderful friends I see a dead end. I am walking ahead in life due to these
My friends are my counselor's who taught me to believe in myself and bounce back from low
trampolines of life. They made me appreciate life the way it came and made me live life to the
fullest and I explore rainbows of life. Life is full of colors and I saw these beautiful colors with
their smiling eyes. They taught me to chase my dreams and never settle with less as I deserve
the best in life. When I am in the deepest valley of problems, agony, loneliness, sadness,
depression and at a T junction of life it's my friends who gave me a dose of scolds and taught
me to make the best out of the challenges and take each challenge as a stepping stone to
success. Their kind and positive words has endure better traits in my nature and now I know
the art to change my lookout towards the current situation and sharpen my way of thinking to
be a better human.They whisper magical words in my ears when I am all alone talking to my
self in the darker days. My eyes flicker with a spark to end the dream and It makes me so
happy that my friends don’t even leave me in my dreams too. Well I noticed that each person
enters our life for a reason and teach us some or the other valuable lessons. I also noticed the
people for whom I cared the most are taken away from me soon.
Well there are few friends without faces whom we just know by moving the mouse in the
wizard room which is no less than a maze. I am referring to internet pals or chat friends. I have
made wonderful friends from this source who have been real and true friends. They helped me
with all emotional turmoil and break downs. It's so strange that we can be good friends without
even meeting each other. Well I did meet a few people whom I met through the wackiest maze
and feels so nice to meet them in real. Certain people came like a rush that brought a surety
for a true friendship but the reality was different. Just recently I had made a wonderful friend
and was sure to add the name in my good friends list. It was very shocking too realize that my
new friend never wanted to care for my emotions, feelings, likes and dislikes. How much I truly
cared but I knew the fact that I can't expect even a 10% in return for my 110% of efforts to
maintain my friendship. A small little word that was a joke hurt my dignity & my soul so bad that
mistakes. I cried for a whole week as I was deeply hurt. I shared my pain with my other friends
& all supported me that the way my friend joked was very wrong as we can't joke this way with
a person we hardy know for a short time. All my buddies said "Zahra you deserve wonderful
friends as are you are a wonderful person." It made me realized this was a false friendship.
False friendship is like a stained glass window which shines in the sunshine but the darker
times require the glass to find it own light to remove the stains. This is how I would define my
relation with that friend as Zahra was never a concern, her kindness, care and affection was
only the requirement. A few net pals are like snow a flakes - a slight high temperature ends the
relation leaving no trace. I feel horrible that why do I get so many false friends. I hope God gifts
I need friends who correct me when I m wrong, who scolds me like my parents ,accept me and
my principles, my emotions, needs, support me no matter what so ever circumstances be, who
understand my worth & who speak nasty things about me on my face & not behind my back.
Friendship often ends in love but love in friendship is for infinity. It's rightly said two people
cannot be good friends unless they haven’t hurt each other as that is when we realize the
value of that friend and that bonds in a stronger bond. I have burnt my heart to maintain my
friendships and I can confidently say that I am blessed with few but blessed with the best of
friends. I am the sweetest and an amazing person you can find on the blue planet but if one
hurts me on purpose it take's a second for massive lava to erupt. My friendship is like a clay,
one can mould me in any form but at the same time I am like aqueous composition of
emotions. My friendship is also like a crystal - precious and sparkling but a slight scratch will
Never underestimate the power of your actions as with small gestures of humanity you can
change a person's life for the better or worse.True happiness consist not in multitude of friends
but their worth and choice.God invite us in each other's life for a reason to make us realize
each other worth. I cherish my friendship with each and every friend as I share a special and
different bond with each one. I mould my self according to my friends nature & attitude as its
very essential to change yourself and value the people who enter our life with a reason. I can
never afford to lose my friends. My dear friends who are my guardian & support and the friends
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2. Work at something you enjoy and that's worthy of your time and talent.
6. Be generous.
13. Understand that happiness is not based on possessions, power or prestige, but on
14. Be loyal.
15. Be honest.
16. Be a self-starter.
18. Stop blaming others. Take responsibility for every area of your life.
19. Be bold and courageous. When you look back on your life, you'll regret the things you
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LIFE is double-sided
There’s a wrong side and a right side; A sad side and a happy side.There’s a good side and a bad side; A
black side and a bright side.So if things seem dark to you, just change your thoughts about.Life will look
Source: pravsworld
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The best action – Keep the mind clear and judgment good.
The cleverest man – The one who does what he thinks is right.
Yes, common sense is very uncommon these days .What is important is to balance common sense with
sense...I have learnt to change for good & the better. I hope these Law of Success did help you in a
certain way .
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Do we remember how we felt in out mother’s womb? How she nurtured us? How much care she took of
her diet? Love is the first eternal emotion to be felt .We really don’t know how wonderful it was for us
to be in our mothers hand for the first time or how she felt holding us for the first time. Love just can’t
I yet remember getting in one bed sheet with three siblings kicking each & playing until our back ached.
How much we shared and cared. Today my sisters are far from me. How much I wished I could hug and
tell then how much I love them. My day starts with my brother’s hug and blessing from my parents.
Many times when back answer I don get my daily dose of blessing and my day goes so bad. My family
is the first base where I seek and want love and many times didn’t get the deserving love. Where should
I go? Where can I buy love? I believe it’s the right approach I need to know the blessing I can count on.
I do expect the same in return and that is what pinches me and hurts me the most. I try to be loving &
forgiving and understand the needs of my family, friends.I can never hurt my family or friends just for
my fun.Yup!!! I did hurt them unintentionally and ask forgiveness as that makes me humble and
believe to give so much love, affection, care and happiness to people around me that they get forced to
I yet remember my school and college days when I survived without a single peer, seeing empty benches
around me, lonesome picnics and presentations & yet lived all those phase. How calm, shy and quite girl
I was but being a human I need love as well. I can’t continue an isolated life. Today I wish I was the
same quite and reserved girl but I lost her and can’t find her even after a hunt with myself. Though never
been accepted in this cruel world few soul accepted and stood by me at all times. I would have been
shattered if AK, MS, MB & MP were not around. You all are far away from me yet so connected. I wish
you all were here. The strange part is I have never met MP but yet you are one of my best friends. You
all came in different times and pulled me out of the grave I had built for my self. I love you guys.You all
have introduced me to my inner soul and made me love and realize how capable I am. My life is nothing
Love is felt holding hands to hear the whispers of passion, warm caress, the affection, the hug, and the
throbbing heat with warm satisfaction. These moments that belongs to you can never define as the
moments says it all than words. Love is universal emotion. A loving watering hand can blossom flowers
in a barren garden. A warm and a kind touch can be precious than pearls .The one with a clean heart is
the one who always tries to do the best for those whom they come in contact and values the annihilate
Love is like a knife It can stab the heart or it can carve wonderful images into the soul.It’s only the way
we use this blissful emotion.Relationship will have heartaches and the tears but these are the things that
help us to grow and made our relation even better. Love is gradual. I see my parent’s relations stronger
with the ups and downs of life they stood by each other. I wonder how couples get divorced for their
selfish ego and needs and forget that the children need their parents to be together. I hate such people
who can’t be adjusting when they are committed in a pure bond of marriage. Marriage is not a bed of
roses. One should remember no rose is without a thorn.Marriage is equal to living half your religion
according to Islam.
I have always been a relationship counselor in college and now a marriage counselor. All in my junior
college called me granny. I had solutions from relationships, health,diet,fights & depression. I find great
happiness in getting a patch up done.I got three friends matched and at the time of their marriage the
blessing I got from their parents made me feel in Heaven. I yet remember their parent’s speechless
vocals blessing me.I always crave for more dua’s as dua’s will only save my life. Probably I could land
Love is in the small things that we do for the people we care so that we can see that one smile on their
faces for the efforts done. Love is giving; the more we give the more content it feels .I believe never give
it with an expectation of anything in return as expectation reduces the real essence of love. It is to accept
Love strives in hurting. If you don’t get hurt you don’t learn how to love though the hurt still remains to
test you and help you to grow. The real voyage of discovery consists not in seeking new landscapes of a
relationship, but in having new eyes with each passing moments. I believe we fall in love with the same
person each and every day as each day we explore them even better and love then with more than b4.
Love begins at once to live, and I count each separate day as a separate life.Sometimes we tend to miss
the chance to by waiting for love to but at times your love is right in front of our eyes but we don’t really
recognize it. Find love is doing small things for others. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you
need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. I lost my love probably because it was one
sided but I believe I lost him as God has some other plans. I strongly believe we lose some1 only due to
our mistakes as if we were right we would have never lost that concerned relationship.
At times we lose someone’s love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even
more than we love ourselves. In my family I saw two cases where a married couple broke and met their
real soul mate to explore the new relation that was meant to be the real destiny.Love is to caring, create
and adventure a world filled with purity and blissfulness. Consequently, the actualizing of our emotions
can become the most exciting adventure of our lifetime. The best and most beautiful things in the world
cannot be seen or even touched and felt and that the real joy when go beyond words. It is one of the most
beautiful compensations of life is no one can sincerely try to help another without helping themselves.
Love is supposed to be the most wonderful feeling. It inspires you and gives you joy and strength. It
makes you humble and a better human being. Loving someone means giving him or her the freedom to
find his or her way, whether it leads towards you or away from you as love seeks the happiness of our
mate .Love is loyal & wants the best for the other person. Love is caring about the other person's
emotional needs and feelings compromising and working things out in a way that you both can win.Love
is trying to come together in a way that makes the bond immortal.Love is a painful risk to take but the
risk must be taken no matter how scary or painful, for only then one will experience the fullness of
humanity and that is love. One becomes so calm and understanding in love, as that is the time you love
Love sustains in losing too. I lost so many loved pals due to my bad luck, their bad luck or probably my
temper but the empty space still belongs and reserved for them and I still miss them a lot. I wish I could
back on a time machine and mended that time. I wish I never lost them No matter they didn’t value me I
yet cant stop caring for them. I hate this trait about me. I can’t forget them no matter how much bad they
did. Why cant I forget is the question that has yet to be answered. I guess that what makes me depressed
always and that is what makes me miserable. Yet I put efforts not think of all the misery and put efforts
to forget the lost relationships but of all the beauty (for those pals)that still remains as memories I
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Ramadan is over for this year.Its Eid!!! Its Eid!! Its Eid!!! I cant really believe a month of my life got
over so soon.hehe.....So everyone, time to eat, drink, and sleep well again! No more sleeping in bits and
Ramadan for me was learning how to be religious/sincere without being strict on myself .I always
noticed in the Holy month of Ramadan I am so calm and quite.I do not really lose my cool as I know I
am fasting. Fasting is just not staying away from food and water from dawn to dusk but its is staying
away from a lot more. I notice that my skin glows without my nourishing creams.Ahan!! is that the
blesings of fasting. Yes,It indeed is.Fasting is given to us as a prescription and a prescription is given to
us by a doctor, telling us to take a certain medicine at and for a specified time, to effect a cure for a
certain illness—in this case, Almighty God Allah is the doctor prescribing for all of humanity.
When I used to leave for morning prayers I was always early to reach Mosque but one day I was very
late as I was sleeping. I got up and hurried for Namaaz.On the way I saw all muslims running towards
Masjid as they were late too.At that moment I imagined Allah smiling at his follower's and feeling proud
on Himself.Yeah!!! How dumb of me. I donno why did I imagined that but cant help my imagination.I
remember being a kid lailatul Qadr was a night to sit with my friends and eat all kind of nuts and run
arround and ignoring my mom's yells.I never knew the importance of this night.Now on growing up,
who has the time to eat nuts when time is short for offering prayers to Allah.Gosh!! Every year I fall
short of time to offer maximun prayer's to Allah.Well this is the beauty of this night.Not even a single
muslim will be satisfied with their payers as they all know that they could have offered more.I pray that
Eid is a time of joy, after a season of fasting and prayer and reflection. Each year, the end of Ramadan
means celebration and thanksgiving .So as Its Eid I wish all of you very happy Eid.Well being a kid I
used to love eid as I used to get new and expensive dresses to wear.I used to get lot of Eidi...I used to sit
with my brother sisters and count who got more eidi but Agrrhhh!!We all had the same amount.I craved
to boast and showmy siblings,"See I got more Eidi"But that never happened. Eid was a big occassion for
me being a kid but now Eid is just another normal day.But Eid is always a time to celebrate.EID
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have yet many unanswered questions.I thought to pen my feelings to divert my mind.
I am human, I am alive
The day will come what you stored shall turn into vacousness
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CURSED!!
I was only 17 when I made a friend in my early college days. Within a short time we became buddies as
if we knew each other way back. We are totally different people by thinking, nature, dreams, ideology,
religion and lifestyle but yet we were like a replica personality. We laughed, cried, giggled, and shopped,
partied and dreamed together.We saved each other from high tides of life. But life has brought a high
tide of blames, ego and misleading beliefs that has destroyed the roots of our relation. My friend claims
we are great friends and said we will be friends forever. It isn’t true. This has brought back all the losses
I'd endured with my personal life and this is worse than the pain I felt when people tagged me Ugly,
When any side of the walls of a relation gets cracked life moves on as life doesn’t wait for anyone. But
when emotions gets a blow can that relation ever be the same ? Nothing had prepared me for this day
when I have realized a close friendship is shaking. Whether it's been suddenly destroyed by an act of
betrayal or fainted of being blamed and insulted. Few life changes are Unforgettable and Regrettable .
My angel buddy, whom I just knew I could count on, doesn't really realize the need to respect and trust
my dicision. Often the hardest part is accepting it and moving on. But how do I forget the pain when my
friend broke my heart? To whom can I turn for advice when my ACE CARD and number one confidante
who always had solutions for me has now become an ACHE? Yeah!!! ACE and ACHE. Just a letter ‘H'
changed the whole definition.I guess 'H' stands for humiliation,hatred and hard ego.
My friend thinks I make excuses for everything, I CURSE people, I lie, I am arrogant, I m egoistic, I m
filmy and melodramatic, I over react and look for opputunities to hang arround with swines. I lie to
people about my self so that some man accepts me. Why the hells will I lie and if my parents are lying
also they are not wrong. They are doing all that because they love me and are worried about me. I m not
a person who had come in this world to tie my self with a man nor I am a looking for opportunities to
meet stranger and observe what they will think of me when they meet me and then I will talk about my
identity. I am true person with few principles in life and not being Mother Teresa. Yes I am egoistic and
why I shouldn’t . I am forced to be egoistic by my surroundings. Even after saying so much my friend
feels that I over react on small things and there is nothing to feel bad about. I hope my friend realizes
that no one is a saint.Million times I have explained my friend that I don’t CURSE any one. I even
warned that never put this tag on me and that will be the last .But someone important to me has so much
of dirt and misconceptions about me which are now unbearable. I told my dad about my grieve and he
said I m useless and cant maintain a single relation in life . Might be I am only bad and can’t maintain
relations. But my moms said never allow anyone to come so close to your heart that in the end shakes
your identity. I agree I never imagined my life without my friend even in my nightmares.
But nightmares do get tied up with reality.Even after insulting me so much my friend yawns and feels
sleepy and laughs at me and my tantrums. I need to get a life.GOD!! Well my friend has crossed all
limits .One thing is for sure I will never forget this date , the taunts and tags ever but my best wishes will
always be with my friend as I have always LOVED U more than anything. I wish I had a punching Bag I
Well I have bored my friend enough as all this are tantrums and boredom but I know I am boring my
blog readers out here but I am sorry I have no other option to release my feelings out and I wanted to
type that out. I had to speak this fire balls out of my heart as cant take the burden. SORRY :-( very sorry
to disappoint my few friends who have always appreciate my blogs from day one.
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rules and regulation in life, no one to sit with a stick in hand to check our homework, no sleeping at
sharp 9 pm. Well at this stage of life when I am a mature individual I wish I were a kid running around
in garden and swinging my excitement on the swing, touching the air on a sea saw and jumping and
playing around in the veranda. Those days were so nice and memorable.
Just yesterday I was cleaning my room where I found a collection of my pictures at different stages of
life. I looked so cute and charming. Aww!! Can’t believe I was so cute. *Smiles* Where is the cute
smile that I had once upon a time? Where are those twinkles in my eyes that are so dry today? I look at
my sister’s kids and my friend’s kids being loved and pampered so much. Someone is always around to
watch them.At a stage in life our needs and requirements are taken for granted, as we are mature. No
matter we turn old at each stage love, affection, concern, trust and respect is upmost for survival.I
wondered at a point in life that why the hell I am living here I wish I dint have a family at all. I have
been to a few orphanage and realized how important is a family and how much it helped me to be a
better person that I am. I pity with a heavy heart for orphans who have on one to look after them, no one
Today my day starts parent’s blessings & with my brother’s hug. I cant do without these two things
every morning. I have realized very lately that how fortunate I am to have a lovely family that God has
blesses me with.I see my maternal Grandparents enjoying life sitting and playing with their
grandchildren. I used to feel they are so lucky as they have no work at all. I never thought what they
have sacrificed and gone through a tough life to give me a mother that I have today. My paternal
grandparents are no more physically present but their presence is always felt.A few years back my
parents got their daughters married and handed over their princess to some one else. Do we ever realize
how much our parents did and do for us? No, we never think about that. Today when my sisters are in
the shoes of parenthood they have realize the value of parents. Now my sisters say that upbringing
When I see people sleeping at benches of a garden and yet get up smiling early in the morning makes me
feel ashamed of my constant overburden on God. No matter how much we have in life we are yet crying .
1) Thank God for everything no matter how much unhappy you are.
Hmmm, a few things that we change in our thinking and attitude will bring fruitful colors to our life and
the whole outlook of life will change.When I look back at life I see my self-sitting at a corner sobbing
and shivering with fear. Today I see life with confident eyes where I have faith in myself to win no
matter how many obstacles on the way; no matter how much how much weight I have to carry. Because
Life is an unsolved puzzle for me, which get complicated day by day. Kaisi PAHELI zindegani.
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These words are not mine but they speak my mind ,so I thought to post it.Hope u all can relate with your
gone days.
Gone are the days when the school reopened in June, And we settled in our new desks and benches.
When we queued up in book depot,And got our new books and notes!
When we wanted two Sundays and no Mondays, yet managed to line up daily for the morning prayers.
We learnt writing with slates and pencils, and progressed To fountain pens and ball pens and then Micro
tips!
When we began drawing with crayons and evolved to color pencils and finally sketch pens!When we
chased one another in the corridors in Intervals and returned to the classrooms drenched in sweat!
When we had lunch in classrooms, corridors, playgrounds, under the trees and even in cycle sheds!
When all the colors in the world, decorated the campus on the Second Saturdays!
When a single P.T. period in the week's Time Table, was awaited more eagerly than the monsoons!
When cricket was played with writing pads as bats,and Neckties and socks rolled into balls!
When few played "kabadi" and "Kho-Kho" in scorching sun, while others simply played "book cricket"
in the
When we used to watch Live Cricket telecast, in the opposite house in Intervals and Lunch breaks!
When few rushed at 3:45 to"Conquer" window seats in our School bus!
While few others had "Big Fun", "peppermint", "kulfi", " milk ice !" and "sharbat !" at 4o Clock!
Gone are the days Of Sports Day, and the annual School Day ,
Gone are the days of the stressful Quarterly, half Yearly and Annual Exams,
Gone are the days Of tenth and twelfth standards, when we Spent almost the whole year writing revision
tests!
With so much fun in them, so many friends,so much experience, all this and more!Gone are the days
When we used to talk for hours with our friends! Now we don't have time to say a `Hi'!Gone are the
days
When we played games on the road! Now we Code on the road with laptop!
Gone are the days when we sat to chat with Friends on grounds! Now we chat in chat rooms.....!
Gone are the days Where we studied just to pass!Now we study to save our job!
Gone are the days Where we had no money in our pockets and still fun filled on our hearts!!
Now we have the atm as well as credit card but with an empty heart!!
Gone are the days Where we shouted on the road! Now we don't shout even at home
Gone are the days Where we got lectures from all! Now we give lectures to all.
Like the one I'm doing now....!!Gone are the days But not the memories, which will be
Lingering in our hearts for ever and ever and Ever and ever and ever .....
Gone are the Days.... But still there are lot more Days to come in our Life!!
NO MATTER HOW BUSY YOU ARE , DONT FORGET TO LIVE THE LIFE THAT STILL EXISTS.
Source: Unkown ..I got this as a email and I thought to post it..
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millions of Muslims against Denmark. The pictures that disparaged Islam and denigrated the Prophet has
an offending images included Prophet Muhammad PBUH with a bomb wrapped in his turban. The
Not only did the images denigrate Islam's central figure;the drawings also equated all Muslims with
terrorism. How can a human dare draw such a cartoon of our Holy Prophet? We have no idea of His
appearance nor do we have His painting . He is the messenger of Allah. He is the chosen man to bring
down the Holy Quran and spread Islam. It's not the depiction of the religion's founder Prophet
Muhammad PBUH that is forbidden, but either the depiction of any of God's creatures OR the slander of
an Prophet. For me slandering a Prophet would, however not fall under something like "slander" or "hate
People who make fun of any religion belong to no religion . They have no faith. According to the Islam
it is blasphemous to make images of the prophet. The press in all the countries of the world has the right
to print what ever their law permits. But freedom of print doesn’t mean to make fun of our holy Prophet
Mohammed PBUH. I believe that freedom is not a right it is a privilege as long as you use it with full
responsibility. By provoking the Islamic world, I wonder what that Danish cartoonist achieved?The
majority of Muslim countries worldwide are boycotting Danish products. I am not boycotting Danish
products even though I am a Muslim because Danish people/Manufactures haven’t done anything. Why
should their economy suffer? I have nothing against the Danish people. Muslims should follow the
What the point in reacting violently as a reaction to devilish cartoons proves us no saints?? Islam is a
message for the salvation of humanity! Don't let the evil mongers distract us from our mission given to
us by the Almighty God.Today non-Muslim may be an atheist or an agnostic or you may belong to any
of the religious denominations that exist in the world today or have been a Communist or a believer in
democracy and freedom and no matter whatever religious and political beliefs, personal and social habits
happen to be—NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO MAKE A STUPID CARTOON and show a terrifying
Islam is a concept, not an agent. Thus it's not Islam that forbids anything, but the authorities on Islamic
law. If a few Muslims are responsible for the attacks in London and US the whole Muslims are not to be
blamed. Though those people who are responsible for terrorism has a Muslim name but are not Muslim.
A Muslim is whose heart and soul is pure.Today I see Islam and Muslims in danger as from everywhere
Muslims are targetted.I just wish that I can see the world togther and all Muslims as one comminity.
Aameen.
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I Love Mumbai
When I left from Dubai for Mumbai a 2 months back I was so excited to be at my land. I reached
Mumbai airport and started feeling hot, might be AC problem as usual. My driver came to pick me up.
The car was running on the roads but for me the speed was slow. I just wanted to reach home ASAP. As
I was passing through my lane my heart skipped a beat .The car was jumping over the rough roads. I saw
slums, gutter and naked children running in the slum area. I was welcomed with a sweet and a lovable
voice (that was my 3 yrs old nephew) He just hugged me and I was so glad being back home.My mom
and sister were waiting for me behind him.I heared the birds chirping early in the morning,the milkman,
garbage collector,maid,farsan wala,fruit seller and many more constantly ringing at my door.I got to
drink yummy cows milk and tasty fresh mint leaves tea and I ate fresh vegetables that are hard to see in
One of my good friend got married. I had no good stuffs to look 'out of the crowd' for her wedding . SoI
did my shopping and I just enjoyed all her functions of her marriage. She had requested me to be by her
during her Nikaah. Well I was the only friend with her as all other friends are working. When we sat in
the hall where her Nikaah was supposed to proceed she held me tight and said “Zahra darr lage che”(I
am scared Zahra). I touched her hand and said take it easy babes. I am sitting by you. She cried at the
time of her Nikaah and her reception.I cried too. I cried during my sisters marriage also. My whole life
went a flash back where I could recollect all my fond and grey memories.I shared all my happiness,
problems ,secrets and everything with her.I can go anytime at her home and stay over and talk all night.
But now that she is married when can I meet her? Can I stay at her In law place? Can I fiddle something
in her fridge? I just wish all the best to my friend her. She is from a broken home and now she is all-
important at her in laws place. She is the princess out there. I wish my friend all the best in whatever she
does.I have a friend who lives upstairs at my residence in Mumbai. I used to spend almost all evening at
her home and just chilled with her and her sister. I spend a couple of days with my best friend too.The
only drawback was that she lives a bit far from my home. Wow, I miss those days. I miss the food ,my
home,my friends and everything about Mumbai. I wish some how I can go back to Mumbai.I miss u my
buddies and Mumbai…..I learned driving in Mumbai .I thoroughly enjoyed the course. When I left
Mumbai I had tears in my eyes while locking the main door. I really miss Mumbai. I really do. Now I
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IT'S MEE..............
I am a reserved, analytical and peace-loving girl who is blessed with intuition and intelligence that does
make me a unique soul. I whole-heartedly believe in the bond between Mother Nature and science. My
inquisitive nature and determination to get to the top of the world gives me the power to stand still in
today’s artificial atmosphere. I dislike braggarts, gossips and neurotic individuals. I also dislike men
who look at woman just as a sex symbol. Woman is the most powerful and beautiful creation of God as
she is capable of giving a birth to a new life. A baby’s smile makes me forget all the pains. They look so
cute…”Little angles” of the world .I can surely spend free time in a nursing home admiring the tiny
hands and legs shivering, red cheeks, soft hair and hungry jaws.
I do find socializing a bit difficult. And do face difficulty in expressing myself. I do not have a wide
circle of friends, but once I accept someone as a friend the bond is usually for life. I can keep the flame
of friendship burning for lifetime even though if I am not been able to keep constant touch with a few
friends. But yes if a person neglects me, avoids me I don’t even bother to know if the person exists on
the planet anymore. For me my self-respect is up most and I care a damn for such kind of selfish people
who leaves an individual as per their wishes.I am often misunderstood. In fact always misunderstood.
Many people feel that I am full of attitude. I guess that because I speak what is right according to me.
Might be people don’t like that. But I feel I am doing right deed by speaking what is in my mind rather
than backbiting. Its ethical to be frank rather than being artificial in my book. According to Islam
backbiting is a sin and is equal to a sin of eating the flesh of your dead brother.
I am vulnerable and isolated from everyone. At times I really feel very lonely and I feel that life has
come to a stand still. I perceive a high level of stress and a lot of apathy at times. I am filled with doubts
and I feel I will never have a way out of the mess in my life. These negative thoughts are my worst
enemies. But cant help it .We do have enemies all around. I really get choked as one after another I lose
every chance of success. I can clearly see chance and opportunities knocking at my present door and
putting extra effort to know and learn how to seize each of this opportunity as it arises. I am happiest
when I am alone to pursue my innermost thoughts and inner dreams. I do talk to my self and get my
problems solved. Our inner soul is our true friend as it always shows the right path.
I am a great music lover. Music keeps me company all the day .My favorite radio station is City 101.6
fm. If u don’t trust me keep this station on, you all will surely hear me every week on any of the shows. I
guess I could have been a radio Jockey. I have a sweet voice and I like going bla bla bla….I prefer old
songs as old is gold. I prefer soft, romantic, light hearted and peppy numbers. I don’t like hip-hop,
metallic and all the other stuffs. It’s just not my kind. I dislike going to pubs where a person is so lost in
I have been running in circles, unknowing which direction to take as life has always should me FOUR
WAYS. How do I get the right way? Well at the moment my inner soul is preparing a solution. I will let
u all know after I get the report attested with Gods signature.I truly believe that I deserve better than the
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Dreaming is an essential part of my life. Everyone dreams. We dream for as long as they live. Even
unborn babies dream in their mother’s womb. I have seen babies smiling and giggling when they are
asleep. They are actually in their dreams. Dream is an event that takes place in the mind when our
Dreams are the gateway to an inner world, a world that is as real as the one in which we live. As far my
knowledge permits dream images and activities though strange and meaningless show symbolic
structures also. I say this due to my personal experience as I do see weird symbolic structures and I fail
to recollect them after alertness. I was termed “Dream Girl” in my junior college as I have always
Dreams can be meaningless and meaningful too. I normally land up getting what I haven’t got in real
life. It’s a pleasurable experience but leaves a heart pinch in the morning when the dream world ends
with a jerk of reality. But dream doesn’t really mean that we have to sleep to dream. We don’t say to our
self that I will dream today. Dream comes by itself in its own form, phase and pace.Many people say
dreams have nothing to do with reality. It’s a fantasy world. Yes it is but the fantasy world is entangled
with our real world.I do have sixth sense. I have visional dreams that have actually turned to be a real
occurrence .In fact I have warned people about my dream but they used to laugh over it, that I am a
cracked egg. Certain dreams are some occurrence of our past that haunts us even today. Stating my
example .I had drowned in the swimming pool when I was a 5 years old kid and I yet get the whole
scenario in my dream as if I am actually drowning. This is the reason of me not being able to swim alone
The second category of dreaming is DAY DREAMING. I land up getting a tiny dream with my eyes
wide-awake. Huh…so strange. Well being a psychology student I do know the consequences of
excessive daydreaming. In fact anything in excess is not good. But dreaming is fun guys….A
psychotherapist important analytic tool is through the patient’s unconscious mind.He/she takes their
patients into their past. What is exactly happening, the patient is getting flashback of his/her life in the
form of dreams.Well I currently dream about my current life happenings and make things going the way
I want it to be and even dream about my tomorrow. How would be my tomorrow??? Well that will be
answered tomorrow.SO friends happy dreaming, who knows which happy dream that you dreamt is
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DONT QUIT
When things go wrong,
As they sometime will
When the roads your are trudging
Seem all uphill
When the funds are low
And the depth are high
And you want to smile
But you have to sigh.
When care is pressing you down a bit
Rest if u must
BUT DON’T QUIT
Success is failure turned inside out
The silver tintOf cloud of doubt
And you can never tell
How close you are
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REMINDERS –We are not self-sufficient. We need God or someone else to help.
OPPURTUNITIES- They pull us out of our rut and causes us to creativityBLESSINGS-They open
The life battles don’t always go to the stronger or faster track, but sooner or later the man who wins is
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The only thing I want in life is to experience motherhood. When I saw my sisters pregnant and the
different mood swing they had during each trimester, all sort of cravings, desires, needs were so weird
for me. But my mother said “nahi ye to hota hai asie waqt mein” Seeing them in their labor pain with a
smile on their face for their baby who is experiencing its first struggle of life. I believe a woman is not
strong by herself-God has empowered women with heavenly rays that sparkles on every women’s
When I first took my sisters baby in hand my hands couldn’t stop shivering .I dreamt each day about the
baby and the cute features. Wow!! The feeling is so divine .I love my sisters kids more than I love
anything in life. The three little angels have made me feel similar being a mother. Will I be blessed to
An evening in a little village down my native place in Dohad (Gujarat), I went to spend a few days with
my aunt. As usual the frequent electricity cuts. That evening the electric power was in no mood to serve
us. It was a cold evening. I sat at the veranda chatting with my cousin. We decide to sleep on the sand i.
e. outside in the woods as we were no mood to stare at the cracked walls. I lay my back on the thin bed
sheet feeling the little pebbles and granules pinching me gently. The earthen touch made me feel calm
relaxed and connected to my land. Looking at the sky above me glittering with stars, celestial rays and
extravaganza, smiling at me and forcing me to praise its beauty but I shied away. The sky looked like a
bride covered with diamonds and bighting the whole universe. I was awake all night playing hide and
seek with the sky and my glittering eyes that smiled with each twinkling star. I felt as if I was sleeping in
Gods lap. This is the most memorable and fresh night, which will be with me with fond memory.
I joined SNDT Women’s University with the hope to put the first brick of my higher education. Soon I
realized being lost my identity, as I was not recognized there. I was considered as nobody. With a broken
heart I pleaded God for help and there came a friendly hand who holded me tight promising me to grow
old and share our talks even with grey hair. Very soon I realized that this hand didn’t came by itself
towards me. God wanted me to be protected, guided and cared. And from here started an unbreakable
friendship that stands still against all the storms of life we both experience.
Being pushed by parents to complete my education I never took the needful interest to study hard and
always blamed God for weak memory. I hopped and skipped over many fields like kinder garden teacher
to hotel management to beautician. But couldn’t succeed in any. Frustrated entered tourism field by
doing my IATA.I studied and worked for 8 –10 hours a day to score a passing grade which was too high
to attain but I was sure to crack it. I landed getting my passing certificate by the hands of one of the staff
of educational Ministry of UAE. Oh heaven!!!! Getting a reputed IATA consultant certificate by the
hands of one of the staff of education ministry and front off a huge crowd made me realize my positives
I felt on cloud nine .Yet the warm hand shake and the clapping chores are yet heard in my inner ear.
Gulping the success and looking for more success I am running ahead with time.
I want more education and success. Kya kare ye dil maange more These are the few most fond and
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My Parents
God cannot reach and teach all of his children at the same time, that’s why he gifted each of us with
parent’s .By just thinking my life without my parents, saline water flows from my eyes and feels the
incompleteness and pain in an orphan life. We are in constant strain due to the generation gap we have
and at times parents seem to be an enemy in disguise but the truth remains that they are our legs, our
[“When we honestly ask ourselves which person in our lives means the most us, we often find that
it is those who, instead of giving much advise, solutions, or cures, have chosen rather to share our
pain and touch our wounds with a gentle and tender hand”( source: eslewhere)]
My parents are my soul. Without them I cant even imagine life. I yet remember my dad ironing my
school inform and packing my school bag and my mom running with the glass of milk if I had escaped
from the breakfast table.Yes I have troubled them intentionally and unintentionally due to my stubborn
nature.I always feel that I am not given the right that is righteous but they say that’s not true. I wonder
why do misunderstanding crop up, why do we feel neglected or alone, why?The answer lies within us.
Let me ask my self and get answers to the fountain of feelings that rises and falls in my hearts.
Oh my GOD!!!! The only things that runs in their mind is all this. The only thing they know to think is
the good fortune of their children and what I am giving them is yet an unresolved
question……………………….
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My Grandparents
They are no more physically present by me but their souls are positively around me.
My Dadajii was my teacher, guide, friend and I was like his disciple. Being born and brought up in UAE
it was only the time of summer vacations that I used to spend with them. Dadajii (dads father) used to
tell me religious stories and made me aware of my responsibilities as being a daughter and gave me a
dose of courage and a injection of hopes whenever I was sad and hurt. He told me that I am a princess
and just need to be groomed to hold hands with the world, which would love me for the person I am. His
soul rested in peace on a Friday where he breathed his last just after the Morning Prayer and left us with
his pure words to remember and be followed for the rest of our lives.
My dadimaa (dads mom) was another angel. I have disrespected her many times and never ever went
ahead to say sorry and she kept forgiving me for all my misbehavior .She kept on telling me that I have
to win the race of life. “The more will I fall the more will I rise and strive for success in whatever I
would do” was her only statement whenever I used to feel ignored and sad and a day will come when I
will be given a space in the world where I can put my firm legs. Today I stand firm with my feet’s on
heels, which are wheeled without control to cross all boundaries and obstacles of life.
[“Good and evil, reward and punishment, are the only motives to a rational creature: these are the
spur and reins whereby all mankind are set on work, and guided( source: eslewhere)]
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About Me
Zahra Shakir
Road of life will always be on rough patches with loads of jerks, it's all in our hands to make these rough
patches smooth and enjoy the perk's of life.I believe to live life to the fulliest as we never know the next jerk,