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The Self
CHAPTER
I n the movie To Die For, Nicole Kidman, who plays the generally clueless main
character, comments somewhat insightfully about the impact of television on the
perception of ourselves: “You’re not anybody in America unless you’re on TV. On
TV is where we learn about who we really are.” Being on the Internet today, like being
Does Facebook Use Change Our Offline
Behavior?
Self-Presentation Tactics
Facebook—if you can still find their profile there—is something crucial about that Self-Control: Why It Can Be Difficult to Do
person still here with us? Jack Brehm, a great social psychologist who spent most of Self-Esteem: Attitudes Toward
Ourselves
his career at the University of Kansas, died in 2009 at the age of 81. After his death, a
The Measurement of Self-Esteem
memorial page was set up for him on Facebook. Since then, it has been rather amazing
EMOTIONS AND THE SELF
to see over 150 people become “friends” of his online, and several hundred people Does Talking Positively to Ourselves
Really Work?
visit Jack’s Facebook page every month. Perhaps people “check in” at his Facebook
Is High Self-Esteem Always Beneficial?
page to enhance their memories of him by seeing photos from his life; it is possible
Do Women and Men Differ in Their Levels
too that writing comments about their experiences with him is a means of “keeping of Self-Esteem?
him alive.” Do you think it is possible to claim that Jack and others live on in any real Social Comparison: How We Evaluate
Ourselves
sense by their continued existence on Facebook? According to Newsweek’s (Miller,
Self-Serving Biases and Unrealistic
2010) coverage of this growing trend of people creating tributes for friends using Optimism
Facebook, and the high number of requests to maintain the Facebook pages of people The Self as Target of Prejudice
who are deceased (“R.I.P. on Facebook”), this year Facebook changed its policy to allow Emotional Consequences: How Well-
Being Can Suffer
people’s pages to remain active in perpetuity.
Behavioral Consequences: Stereotype
By providing this sort of cradle-to-grave social existence of the self, Facebook Threat Effects on Performance
may be regarded as a new and important social environment. Although Facebook is
a constructed environment, we argue that it is one in which many interesting aspects
of self and identity can be readily observed. Like the social environment of your family,
your school, work, or ‘other’ social life, the Facebook environment is one where you
can expect to have friends, carry on conversations with others, and express yourself
and your preferences (e.g., indicate your favorite books and movies). You may even
use Facebook as a place where you document your personal growth—many people
post photos of themselves at different stages throughout their lifespan.
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104 CHAPTER 4 The Self: Answering the Question “Who Am I?”
The nature of the self and how we think and feel about ourselves have been central topics
of research in social psychology. While examining a number of important issues that have
been investigated concerning the nature of self, we’ll also consider the impact of Inter-
net technology on how we experience and present ourselves to others. As the cartoon in
Figure 4.2 suggests, we can choose to withhold some crucial information about ourselves
CHAPTER 4 The Self: Answering the Question “Who Am I?” 105
when communicating over the Internet. So, how does our ability
to control what others learn about us via social networking sites
and other Internet venues affect how we see ourselves and, impor-
tantly, how others see us? Who is more accurate in predicting our
behavior—ourselves or others who know us well? In this chapter we
examine research that has examined these questions.
After we consider the issue of whether people present them-
selves online differently from how they present themselves to others
offline, and whether we ourselves change as a result of Internet use,
we turn to the larger question of the methods that people use to gain
self-knowledge. We also consider whether people have just one self
or many selves and, if each of us has many selves, then a critical issue
is whether one aspect of the self is more true or predictive of behavior
than another. Do people experience themselves the same way all the
time, or does their experience of themselves depend on the context
and the nature of the social comparison it evokes? What role does
social comparison play in how we evaluate ourselves?
After considering these questions, we turn to several important
issues related to self-esteem: What is it, how do we get it, and how
do we lose it? Is there a downside to having high self-esteem? Are
there group differences in average level of self-esteem? Specifically,
FIGURE 4.2 Not All Aspects of Ourselves Are
do men and women differ in their levels of self-esteem? Finally, Equally Available When We Communicate Over
we look in depth at how people manage when their self is a tar- the Internet
get of prejudice. What are the consequences of feeling excluded or As shown in this cartoon, it may be easier to conceal
devalued based on group membership for a number of self-related important information about ourselves on the internet
processes, including the emotional and performance consequences than in face-to-face encounters. (Source: Peter Steiner, The
of such potential rejection of the self by others. New Yorker, page 61 of July 5, 1993).