Tyler's Revamped HOTSEAT, The Tranformational Experience

Review

The SHARING mentality - Frame: WIN - WIN. Be the Sun, Make it about the group (everyone in
the room) E.x when you pull & close the girl always thanks you. Give engagement and wit ->
add to the vibe, get out of your own way.

Magnatism = Letting go, GIVE! -> you gotta be DONE. nothing more for your self-image to
protect. Letting go is expansion. Competitive vs. Colaborative. Beam out of your eyes. Have
joking non-serious relatable fun. CREATE ENERGY. BECOME THE GROUP GO INTO THEIR HEAD -
MERGE -> YOU are the club. New moto "your the club ;p".

"Self concern drives capitalism" - Owen Cook. Social conditioning or perhaps the ego vs. self-
esteem & self-actualised you is achieved through habituated mass social pressure. Growth or
DEATH.

This is a raw draft. Will be updated for spelling and grammar errors.

I had a great time at the hotseat. The biggest thing I got from it is being aware of stifling
feelings, and how to detect and assess those feelings. That was the major theme of
Tyler’s revamped section. One paradigm of assessing those feelings is thinking of them
in terms of expansive vs protecting energy. The purpose of protective energy is
controlling an image about yourself. Expansive energy is exerted only for the purpose
of sharing and becoming one with the group. (btw if anyone reading this has a unique or
different take feel free to post and add to a discussion)

Protective/energy energy is telegraphed in our voices, and can be detected by they way
we shout or say sentences (“you! I’m in your head!”).

Tyler does an amazing job teaching this. Overall the hotseat was very good. I took a
hotseat earlier this year, July 2015. I wrote about a little in a review I did here rsdnation
DOT COM /node/581119, but overall I didn’t quite resonate with it as strongly as a
hotseat I took in 2013. This one however, I felt was better than the 2013 hotseat I took.

Sam and Madison had improved a lot since the last hotseat. Madison had better stage
presence, charisma, and humor. Sam has better gravity and information density in his
explanations; his speaking was more ‘Tyler-like’.

Madison’s section was actually his own infields. He kinda has his own mini-hotseat
now. One feedback is that it was kinda hard to hear what was being said, but Madison
repeated everything that was being said so it wasn’t a big issue. Other than that, his
infields were pretty good. He has some great lines. “I already know your number, its
911’. I also like the clip where he contrasted the bootcamp student to himself.
What I liked about Sam’s part is that he pointed out advanced bodylanguage in some of
the clips. For example, the one where the tall girl was with her mom, I never realized
how flustered she was when Tyler left, and i’ve seen that clip 2x before.

The main reason why I felt this hotseat was better than the 2013 one is Tyler’s section.
It has a strong focus. He showed only one clip which best exhibited clear focused
energy (cutter cutter pickup) and then the exercises were based on getting us get into
that state. It’s the infeild featured on his revampted hotseat previews vid.

I feel that this is the best way for Tyler to go about doing a live program because of his
talents in being able to explain layered concepts and shift states. When I went on my
ride-a-long of Tyler’s bootcamp (review posted here rsdnation DOT COM
/node/581119) , I made the following observations
I can't really remember the speech exactly anymore but I absolutely remember the
effect, it was like a sports massage for my brain, it massaged out certain mental
tensions/imbalances I had. Madison and Sam had gone over not judging yourself in
approaching, that *every* approach you do is a 10/10! But logically knowing this does
not mean it’s totally incorporated into my mental rhythms. Tyler uses a lot of emotional
gravity when he talks, which is effective in causing an effect to shift your state. Which
is effective in your results because you want to think less and feel more while gaming.
So a logical command like ‘don’t judge yourself’ can get washed up in the night.

He was drawing attention, since he was giving an intense speech in the middle of the
club driveway. One of the girls was like, ‘you’re friends are paying so much attention to
you!’. I took that as a lesson for expressing your energy and being grounded in your
intent. When I started approaching again, I definitely felt more outcome independent
when I approached, and the goal was much more clear, building momentum.”
It was really interesting to see Tyler’s powerful speaking abilities being used towards
bootcamp instruction. I think this is one of the main reasons why he’s such a sought
after bootcamp instructor, they way he speaks goes deeper than surface-level logical
instructions about game, and is able to cause shifts in your state and subconscious
assumptions. For me at least anyway. I would imagine it would be the same for anyone
who is ‘addicted to hearing Tyler talk’.
Tyler's great at disrupting and introducing thought patterns and shifting peoples states.
I'd guess that plays a role in his game as well as producing transformations.

So I feel the revampted part of the hotseat lets Tyler utilize more of his talents. He
doesn’t get to do nearly as much of the stuff mentioned above during an infield-only
hotseat. In fact, If Tyler wanted to make his section an all day thing he should
definitely go for it.

What was the 2nd part like?-------------------------

If Tyler’s blueprint/youtube videos were like Batman Begins, then this was like Dark
Knight. Where Batman Begins was a lot of setting up, and then Dark Knight was when
that shit went down. And the beautiful truth emerges from the chaos. Except the joker
turned out to be some harmless clown, instead of a genius psychopath.
Tyler started us off by priming us, with his incredible speaking skills. As I mentioned
he’s very good at energizing people, and shifting people’s states and thought patterns.
My ADD-ish thought patterns shifted into more focused ones.

He primed while showing one hotseat clip. The cookie cutter one. It’s featured on one
of his hotsteat preview vids. I describe it more in my raw notes section.

Then came the exercise section. I can’t describe this section too much because it sort
has a story to it, so it can be sorta ‘spoiled’. But we were mainly working with our voice
to detect stifling and work on expressing present energy. We would yell ‘ayyyyyyy’ and
‘you! I’m in your head’. And we would listen to nuances where we can detect stifling
caused by social conditioning. And how it induces us to exert a ‘protective’ energy vs
an expansive one. Protective energy is the reason why a lot of people can’t do chill
game. Expansive energy is how Tyler can do silent openers or approach girls from far
away.

We would go around to other people and say ‘hey! I’m in your head!’ to try to get
people into their heads, while you get out of your head and become present when you’re
the one saying that. It’s a bit hard to explain this part without a Tyler explanation haha.

We also would yell ‘ayyyyy’. And look for the nuances of how a stiffled (protective
energy) sounds like. Then, he had us all yell ‘ayyyy’ in a group at the same time. He
then pointed out that none of us yelled it with protective energy. We are all part of the
group (expansive energy).

Tyler did more along these lines but I’m not going to mention what they are because
they might ‘spoil’ the experience for anyone who hasn’t taken it.

Other exercises that we did with Tyler.

-In groups of 4 or so one person talks about what they learned in a present manner while
the 3 three guys mess with him.
-Everyone in the hotseat mess with one person at a time
-Wacky silly dance off
-In groups of two spend a few minutes speaking a word as it comes into your head, and
the words can’t be related to each other, and you have to let them bubble up inside you,
instead of you having to think about them.

Throughout the whole thing, one person was ‘picked’ to go through to interact with
Tyler. And we got to see his transformation from protective energy to expansive energy,
like in that one hotseat preview vid. He would also work with a few other people a bit
here and there but there that one main guy.

Questions------------------
I mentioned that I would answer any of these questions RSDnation DOT COM
/node/603217?#comment-1447036 in the review. Here it is.

how is the program structure different from previous hot seats?

Looking back at my email from 2013 hotseat, first day was Sat 5-11 which was all
Tyler, and I think a little bit Julien. 2nd day was 6-10, and it was mostly Julien and
some Tyler. There was one interactive exercise where Julien would mess with people as
they were walking, and the whole room would watch.

The one I went to in july 2015 was 1-11 pm I think. The first half (1 to 5ish) Madison
and Sam broke down Tyler’s footage. The 2nd half was Tyler. Tyler continued the
infields and spent a lot of time talking about self development concepts kinda like how
the freetour is. There were a few interactive exercises.

The Dec 2015 was 11:30am to 12 midnight with a 20 minute break. First half was Sam
and Madison (11:30-6:30ish) and 2nd half was Tyler. Tyler spent some time priming us
and showing an infield that he broke down more than any other infield he’s broken
down. Then it was the revampted part with the exercises. This is my favorite hotseat.

is it really as interactive as he said.

lol not sure what he said, but you work in groups of 2-4 and sometimes with everyone
in the entire hotseat. One person works with Tyler deeply as an example to everyone
else, and works a bit with a few others here and there.

Also Sam and Madison’s section had exercises too.

Most of the exercises are things I’ve come across in Improv class, but there were a few
key exercises I’ve never seen before which were central to the theme.

does he show student infield

There was some bootcamp footage in Sam and Madison’s section, but the instructors
were still the star.

does he show very different girls/situations/locations/time of nights

Yes. Daygame, club game, street game. Girls of different types of who have different
blueprints. Different types of game. Chill game. high attitude game. silly game. We also
get to see Julien and Madison (what about Sam??).

is his game relatable (aka not more flash game than necessary)
Yeah a lot of chill and long interactions, with explanation why his seemingly simple
stuff is actually quite layered.

is the shit he teaches sustainable (independent of mood, wings, type of girl etc)

Hmm not sure what you mean by that. But I think yes. Especially since the focus on the
revampted part is being able to do chill focused present game like in the preview. I think
the some of the stuff achieved through the group may ware off, which is why I think it’s
important to form groups to continue the work after the hotseat every week or so.

Disclaimer: I think i have a very high resonance with Tyler so I might be getting more
out of the experience than an average person would with Tyler. Then again, he seems to
be the most popular instructor so maybe most people have a high resonance with tyler.

I think the revamped section may have a bit more of a situational potency than the
regular infields, but everyone who I got to talk to at the end loved it.

Feedback--------------

Like I mentioned, Tyler is so good at shifting states, disrupting and introducing new
thought patterns, and being a catalyst for adapting certain energies. I think if Tyler’s
wanted to have the entire hotseat all exercises, he should definitely go for it as it would
be the type of program that best utilizes his amazing talents. I think his hotseat should
emphasize his strengths, and if someone wants=ed a more infeildy hotseat we can just
go to another instructor’s hotseat. With the extra time I think it would be good to have
Tyler work 1-1 with each of the students, at least for 2-3 minutes. He mentioned how in
5 minutes that he can pick apart a bunch of things that they’re doing wrong.

The Hotseat got out a bit late, like 12 am. I do appreciate appreciate packing as many
hours as you can into the event (it went from 11:30am to 12am) but I would’ve liked to
get out a bit earlier to further test our new powers in the field. We left the hotseat in an
amazing state. Maybe put the revamped part in the middle, and after that if people want
to stay they can watch more infeilds as a bonus.

I think some video work would be good to, where people can see and hear how they are
via recorded video. I bet the guy who worked with Tyler the most, would be fascinated
by how his demeaner looked on film.

Bolded because it's the most important. Another thing I would add is encourage
people to get together to make a weekly/monthly meetup group to do these
exercises, and other acting/improv exercises. I kept the awareness of when my
energy is in protection/expansion and how to move towards one or the other, but
nothing can replace the power of the group! Also, lasting transformation take
weeks, so it would be best of people continued to get together often and utilized the
power of the group.

We did the exercise where we try to describe something and have 2-3 people mess with
us. But I think Julien's version is more effective when he did his hotseat, where he
would mess with people, and have the entire room watch. Julien is really good as
messing with people, and having the entire room watch adds strong pressure to induce
stiffling.

Last thing I would add is for the ‘bubble up’ exercise. have the people make strong eye
contact with their partner as they are bubbling up. When I did similar exercises in my
improv classes, they would teach us to do it while making eye contact to stay present
and let things truly come to you, if people looked way they would be more prone to
digging into their brain to find things.

Selected parts from my Raw Notes. -------------

Madison’s Part

Sharp edge first. Initially, push the boundaries. That’s why tyler does fast physical
escalation, often picking girls up. right after ‘hi, nice to meet you’. Probably there were
those he flinched at picking her up and he did a SOE and shifted sands.

I would totally make you my winter girlfriend, I would make a winter snow fortress for
you.

are you the pull your hair back and spank you type, or are you the flowers and candle
type

Blueprinting: some girls may either resonante with physical, verbal, or location
escalation.

you are so ______, I just want to _____ to you _______ , I think last one is name.

Read Radical Honesty. About how to build attraction with radical honesty.

judgement fatigue, I am judging everything I say, “Is it good enough”

persona fatigue, what people think of you ‘stop judging yourself’.
decision fatigue.

Did some improv exercises. Sentence random associate. Bubble up . Try not to be linear
about it. .aim not to judge self.

The more random your thoughts are, the better your game. And remember, Tyler (and
Julien) was SUPER random. Keep this in mind while doing bubble up game.
why do we fight so much. the best part of fighting is making up.

I already know your number, it’s 911.

SAM’S PART

he started with a staring contest exercise. not a contest. but just look into each other's
eyes. get comfortable with the eye contact.

Then Sam showed tyler clips.

If you want them to stop, you *actually* want them to stay. This is a deep subconscious
emotion. But may think you want them to stop, but you want them to leave and you’re
projecting that you want them to leave.

I can tell by the look on your face.

i can tell by the look on your face that _____

Advice: move girl within 4 minutes of the interaction.

Silly with attitude.

saying with even a little bit of anger, ‘attitude’.

telegraph than if she leaves, you are still having a fun time.

90% of the conversation is very random, free associate

randomly slow dance while in conversation.

“I am non-needy” said that to girl. then he talked about stuff like enjoying the process,
be engaged, being free from outcome, got kinda deep. he talked rsd principles to the
girl.

do you date a lot of bad boys/asshole? -checking if she’s into bad boys or providers.
figuring out her bluepring. -

read the personality types thing, myers briggs, great for cold reading and blue print

exercise, throw a story on them, and go back and forth. ‘who did you eat all the
lasagna?’ and they have to justify. it’s a justification exercise..
Part 2

-Themes. not ‘trying’. alpha male mannerisms. tender aggression. non-challant. blase.

-Tyler had lack of eye contact when he was talking about. asked sam. ‘active
disinterest’. Tyler is very good at subcomms and can do it in a way newbie cant so
newbie should lean toward eye contact. Tyler was telegraphing ‘don’t give a fuck’.

Sam on 2-3 am texts. Where are you at. come to pizza.

A huge theme is kino while you talk.

JULIEN VIDS (btw, read about shifting sands before hotseat to get a better idea of what
Julien is doing)

“what if I just ______” fill in the bank. in that one i think put his hand down on the bike
and stopped it.

Julien always saying new things every opener. really emphasizes opener doesn’t
matter.

Hug me like you’ve never hugged a man.

Julien is persistent, but always gives her space to leave. Sam says “space! space!
space!”

A.D.D game. Random questions and random statements. shifting sands.

exercise. Talk to someone’s back very very fast without stopping, like in the Julien
video. If you stop other guy gets to lightly punch you. Would make a good infeild
exercise, maybe with a wing.

‘Sex is like’ improv game.

END JULIEN

SAM AND MADISON’S PART

If you give a physical compliment, overexaggerate.

‘you have an amazing ass. are you a booty queen?’.

“Omg sorry, you squat don’t you? can we take a look?”

Exercise/Mission: compliment sexually in an exagerrated fashion.

TYLER’S PART

-everything is a joke. even pulling is a joke. It’s just that in isolation she gets horny.
-tyler: silent salesman analogy. the second the customer feels that you would hurt if they
leave, THEY LEAVE (protective energy), and that’s what happens if the salesman is
silent. What the salesman should do is right when they’re thinking about it, the
salesman pushes them over the edge.
->Tyler sends lots of cues of indifference (which is why he would take without eye
contact).
-->when you show yourself, being an idiot, shows that you don’t have an agenda, you
don’t give a shit. (hard to do when the girls go to the bathroom). Want, not need.
--->go fun fun fun, lead to a place of isolation where they naturally get horny.
-Tyler - ‘i’m so calm during the pull that is surprises me.
-More good emotions, more ‘i don’t give a fuck’.
-freak people out about how funny and icy you can be.
-Tyler doing sorta like a ‘mind meld’ with the girl from far away. Willing her to open
from afar.
->like walk up, point to her, turn around and backwards high five.
-’exercise making momentum’.
->bad: look at the girl, and then scanning, looking for an excuse not to approach (what i
do)
-->BUT tyler is still environmentally aware of everything that’s happening, cuz of
potential for danger.
Tyler: the second girls will feel that you would feel sad you leave, they leave. Tyler
gave an example of how guy offered to do organic gardening and he felt that he would
be sad if tyler refused so now he feels like refusing.

TYLER’S CLIP

-The Cookie cutter pickup (the one where tyler puts on her glasses and says ‘can i be
asian’ and makes funny noise and pecks her on the lips.
-pupils are like ass and titties to girls, so make em look good. No flinching, no averting
your eyes, no crazy too much eyes contact -> these 3 show that you don’t give a fuck.
soo non-chalant because it make sense that she is talking to you and would go home
with you.
-tyler is the type of guy she dates.
-Tyler is doing intricate small moves and she is reacting in big moves to qualify. Sorta
like ballroom dancing, small intricate moves lead to big reactions from her. -> being at
the cause and not at the effect.
-She was looking deep into Tyler’s eyes/pupils. IOI and that’s why he went for the
peck.
-He puts his hands up, I think brushing her hands, and he puts is fingers seperate, and
she clasps
-”are we going to dance”?
-”I’m a stripper by trade”
-her: ”if I sit on the couch will you give me a lap dance”. Tyler: “i’ll do you in the
bathroom or anywhere you want” and he picks her up and spins her. more physical
escalation while talking.
-”is my lipstick ok”, she’s reacting , which is feminine space. malculine causes.
-Tyler: “are you a positive person. Are you a possie? . . .come with me” and he leads her
somewhere.
-’nice boots’.’oh thank you’. He’s not thinking too ahead about the boots he’s just
enjoying the moment.
-he’s looking right into her eyes. she is reacting?. he’s having a normal conversation
now. it’s man to woman, unlike couple next to them.
-’soon this will be swollen with my seed’.
-Tyler is talking less. she’s talking more. a lot of the times he’s just saying ‘mhmm’.
-fluid relaxed present
-they kiss.
-his male presence is penetrating her
-he’s at ease, it’s normal, it’s happening without force or agenda.
-if a woman can make you react, everything in the world can get you reacting
-free associate, lead, clear in intent.
-no crazy anxiety scheme. more like you enjoy what you want to feel.
-no persona fatigue, when you’re playing a persona.
-getting tired or anxiety by girls is caused by social conditioning.
-if girls are shutting you don’t, cuz you want them to, cuz you wouldn’t know what to
do , and that is what’s being telegraphed to them (hmm wanting them to leave or you
not knowing what to do).
-sweet spot. Just communicate in a natural chill way. -> BUT she can feel something
different -> it’s being chill without trying to be chill.-> that’s why ‘chill’ game doesn’t
work for a lot of people. They’re ‘trying’ to be chill.
-Let go of needing permission to be at the cause. “become the group”. he made him yell
‘ayyy’ and he was stiffled. then made everyone else yell and everyone was not stifled
including him ‘become the group”. and then he make the main person yell again and he
was stifled but he was better. “only 3 seconds in and he’s stifled”.
Tyler would do lots of ‘ayyyys’. he did some unstiffled ones. and he also did some ones
he would be stiffled. and then he would do some where he would imitate being stiffled
which would also get laughes because he was actually unstiffled when he did it.

TYLER’S INTERACTIVE EXERCISES SECTION

-”hey!” use as a burst of present energy.

-”hey! I’m in your head”.
First ‘I’m in your head’ with Tyler unstifled and guy wasn’t.
Then we did the exercise.
Then we all yelled and none of us were unstifled
and then he yelled and it was better but you could tell when he was stifled.
then tyler did ‘im in your head’ but he was doing it when he was quiet.
-Expansive vs protective energy. -> getting people to do what you want them to do.
-After all that he made the main guy yell again. It was like 80% power, 20% force. We
could actually tell when the force was creeping back in, near the end of his yell..
-There’s nothing to beat when youre in win-win , aka, expansive energy.
-so that’s expansive energy, and is how he can do silent openers. walk towards girl and
point, turn around, and do low backwards highfive, and it’ll make her laugh.
-easy to do expansive energy in a group when everyone is doing it. (all yelling
‘ayyyyy’). when no one else is yelling ‘ayyyy’ with expansive energy, it gets
HARDER.
-> Why tall good looking guys have it so easy-> because he is the group.
-we also did some meditative ‘mmmmmmmmm’ hums too.
-Say something that’s logically amazing so you can say it with amazing emotion then
use same amazing emotion to say something that’s boring logically. Exercise we did,
talk about car ride in most exciting way possible.
-Exercise: Mess with someone as they’re talking about what they’ve learned today, to
throw them off. I was having a hard time.
-Exercise: Have everyone in the group mess with one person, everyone goes..
-Final Exercise: Super silly wacky dance off

A thread to discuss and share thoughts about the concepts from the new tranformational
hotseat.

One thing Tyler talked about is not having an agenda, otherwise people will turn on their
filters. I've had sets where i've done that and it becomes an excellent interaction. But a lot of
the times those interactions don't have much escalation. I think it's because I'm carrying an
emotion that escalating is a big thing. I think I need to focus 'Agendaless escalation'.

Taking so much action that your minds shuts off. Again, when my mind shuts off and my
natural personality comes though, the escalation seems to be a bit stiffled due to escalation
not being a part of my natural personality. But it's getting better over time since I spend time
reflecting over my night, and thinking what actions I would've done if escalation was a natural
part of my personality.

The biggest thing I got from it is being aware of stifling feelings, and how to detect and assess
those feelings. That was the major theme of Tyler’s revamped section. One paradigm of
assessing those feelings is thinking of them in terms of expansive vs protecting energy. The
purpose of protective energy is controlling an image about yourself. Expansive energy is
exerted only for the purpose of sharing and becoming one with the group.

Protective/energy energy is telegraphed in our voices, and can be detected by they way we
shout or say sentences (“you! I’m in your head!”).

Tyler mentioned loud noises is how your brain turns off. I think that's why that's so
emphasized in martial arts. Another way to turn your brain off is through body movement, or
genuine laughter.

I think 'being a part of the group' is another paradigm to look at empapthy. When you are a
part of the group, you forget about needing permission to be at the cause. This reminds me of
an Acting workship I saw with Michael Caine, (btw, if you love this stuff I highly reccomend you
watch this) youtube DOT COM /watch?v=s3adUch8mTU . "The camera is your best friend. You
like him and he likes you and is very interested in everything you have to say" = you are the
group --> small nuances in your subcommunication. I highly reccomend people watch the
whole workshop. Actually I'm watching it again and I'm surpised at the similairities between
this and Tyler's hotseat. After doing the hotseat, I can see details that I never saw before, like
the spontanious laughing when Michael Caine isn't doing anything particularly funny.

Being at the cause and not at the effect. One thing I've noticed about Tyler's cookie cutter
pickup is that it kinda reminded me of ballroom dances. Where the guy leads by doing small
intricate movements, and the girl reactions with bigger movements. So I think that the chill
sweet spot game Tyler was emphasizing is the small sublte things that you do when you have a
expansive energy. Maybe doing small intricate moves may not be enough for initially get her
attention in a chaotic enviroment, but once she has your full attention I think it would be time
to allow the sweet spot to do those small nuances in your personality.
I feel that just having this sweet spot alone may not be enough for a lot of people, but I think
this sweet spot is the abosolute ideal when you're in the feild. When you get home to analyze
is when you can pull your self out of it and think like a scientist.

"Not pulling is MAKING IT ABOUT YOU."

Paradoxically, not escalating... not MAKING IT FUCKING HAPPEN... is absolutely selfish, petty,
and self concerned.

If you like her, you should get it done.

Look at my recent Hot Seat sales video. Look how urgently I tell people to buy. I can do that
because I'm HELPING them.
I can look the camera in the eye and hard close like that because IT ISN'T ABOUT ME.

It's about the client having a good time, and how fucked his life will be if he misses the event.

Stop making it about YOU and actually pull and help the girl.

So ya that's the idea of it.

Tyler

I saw that video and even wrote notes when you said that, but I didn't connect the dots of how
it's related to my issue until you mentioned it here, although it's pretty obvious now haha.

I feel that I am in expansive energy in those sets that I described, but it's probably just that I
am in the most expnasive energy state I have ever felt before(there are higher levels). But
there's still nodes of protective energy, especially associated with escalation/pulling. As learn
to recognize those nodes of protective energy and bring those from the subconscious to the
forefront, I can replace those protective energy nodes with expansive energy.

Funny, I instinctivly felt a bit of surprised when you called it a 'sales video'. Even though that's
what it is, I don't think I conscously catagorize it as a sales video maybe because the type of
energy didn't change that much from the sections where you're selling hotseat to teaching
conecepts; expansive energy.

So there's another level of expansive energy that I am now aware of. Being aware of another
level instinctivly always gives me a bit of anxiety haha, but I realize it and try to shift into 'being
comfortable with the unknown' modes. Pretty cool that in a while I will be feeling a state I've
never felt before (one of my favorite things about Game).

I went to the one in Las Vegas one sat.

The new thing I paradigm about was using release muscles vs control muscles. In your
movement. In your speaking. When you're talking you should be releasing. Tyler used the
analogy It's like taking a shit where you clench a lot vs when you're just releasing it lmao. If
you're fatigued by the end of the night then it's because you're using control muscles, not
release muscles.
Aiming for being in so much release that what you say surprises you. I think that's when there
is truly no filter.

I am wondering In release vs control muscle, is there a limit to how much you can use? Like, is
Tyler in 100% release when he's in state. Or is those things than can always get stronger. I
suspect the later, because Tyler mentions he looks at Elliott Hulse on how he can get looser, so
I think that he looking to further 'strengthen' his release mode.

Im not sure if this related but there are some muscles that you can't control, the smooth
muscles, they're involuntary, but a lot of them react to your emotional state. I think that's
where a lot of reading of subcommunications comes from.

Tyler showed what's it's like to be approaching loosely. Vs approaching robotically. When he
fainting going for the instant makeout, I could really feel the emotion coming off of him. The
radiation of good emotion. It has sort of a jolly jovial rhythm to it. an act of love. child-like
innocence. It looked like a kiss you would do to your girlfriend/wife/lover. ‘Good game is
invisible’. I guess good game should look like a couple interacting, and not a pickup.
There were also similar examples in the hotseat infeild, Madison's effortless/engaged kiss was
like that.

I thought looking at the social conditioning of the first guy's face was pretty interesting. I
couldn't tell what exactly it was, but when Tyler pointed it out, I could see the 'social
conditioning'. It looked like he had a blank expression on his face. Kinda seemed like he was
watching a mindless tv show. Staring into the middle distance. No emotion. No reaction to the
energy of the room. He wasn't looking at Tyler. When Tyler pointed that he was coming into
his care, the obvious think I saw was that he was smiling with his eyes, he was actually looking
at stuff. He seemed to be into the rhythms and energy of the room.

Intent. It was really clear to me, when Tyler was speaking in a normal voice while the other guy
was yelling. Some could still her Tyler move. The other guy was using a lot of Force. Tyler was
using power when he spoke. So a few people actually heard Tyler better than the guy that was
yelling. Because force causes us to turn on our filters. Tyler's intent was just to share with us.
The other guys was to compete; be louder than Tyler. Attempts to overforce causes resistance
in the receiver. Tyler wanted to be in our heads.

It was really interesting that the 3 people who did 1st, 2nd, and 3rd in the yelling exercise with
Tyler, did the reverse order in the 'owning Tyler' exercise. Maybe it was competitive energy
that stifled them. They see one person doing good in the exercise, and now their intent is
mixed with comparing themselves to them; they saw the first person do good and now they
wanted to do good. The last person might have had the most competitive intent between he
was last.

Another thing I learned is that in the protective energy mode, we've always aware of the end
of things. End of movements, end of our motions. Tyler told the other guy to keep yelling when
Tyler stopped yelling, but he couldn't do it. Too much focus on the end of the action instead of
making love to each action.
I think making love to each motion is why Tyler's dancing is fun to look at, even though it's not
high level dancing. He's making love to each motion. I think that's something to think about,
not only when you dance, but moving in general. Speaking in general. making any noise in
general. Kinda reminds me of ch in Art of Seduction called poeticize your presence. The whole
book is about promoting protective energy now that I think about it, but you can reinterpret it
into how everything you do can be fun for you, engaging for you, changes your emotion.
People are there for you. The energy is there for you. Instead of resisting them, collaborate
with them. Collaborative energy.
All the stimulus in the club, it's there for you.

I realize that when I'm in 'state' in a club, I feel like I want to dance to the music, even walking
around the club I want to move to the music. I think in state you look to collaborate with the
energy around you.
I remember in the infield when that guy was trying to cockblock Tyler very aggressively and
Tyler still make him laugh, because he was collaborating with his energy even though it was
against him.
I thought this was an interesting example of expansive energy at play. Usually Colbert ‘owns’
anyone who isn’t ‘ethically congruent’. But this guy was becoming part of Colbert’s energy and
was able to also direct the interaction.
cc com /video-clips/m00z1i/the-colbert-report-colbert-super-pac---frank-luntz-commits-to-
the-pac

A major theme seemed to be innocence. Child-like emotions. Acting more like a kid when you
do
Integrity + Action = Best Results

One of my favorite ex girlfriend's was sort of a mini luminary in the spiritual community, but
also ran a multi million dollar business.

We're life long friends and she's one of the smartest and most widely respected people I know.

One thing she pointed out to me again and again was how in the spiritual communities of Los
Angeles, it was a "badge of honor" to be broke... and it was viewed as the price of maintaining
your "spiritualness" and "integrity".

In reality, this is an excuse for failing to produce results.

At the highest level of success in business, INTEGRITY IS EVERYTHING.

I've seen what's happened in my own life when I've lacked integrity. Or anything I've done
being less than 100% win/win.

The results are always disasterous.

Put out negative energy... that energy gets MIRRORED back in the form of negativity being
slammed right back at you.

Take a short cut.... that short cut gets MIRRORED back in the form of the house of cards you've
built coming tumbling down.

OTOH when I've focused on contribution and offering value, the results have been
fantastic. And continue to be to this day.

So here's how I'd break it down to you.

#1 Integrity + lack of action = the least results.

#2 Lack of integrity + massive action = better results. But those results eventually come
crashing down - ie: no longevity.

#3 Integrity + massive action = best and most lasting results.

That's obviously a rough approximation, but you get the idea.

===
When you offer something of value, you get value back.

Yes it would be nice if you're a good guy with high integrity and you get rewarded JUST FOR
THAT. But the reality is you ALSO have a responsibility to TAKE ACTION as a good dude.

IMO if you identify yourself as a high integrity, high vibrational being... then you owe it to
yourself and society to put out your best work, to learn how to market it so it reaches people,
and contribute your gift.

And yes, it is absolutely fine to be compensated for your work.

That's basic "ying/yang" that for there to be continued output, you need input. The plant that
feeds you also needed sun, soil, water, and nutrients. You are a living being, and when you are
fairly compensated you are respecting your own happiness and valuing yourself and your
work.

In fact I'd say it's even more important to live a great, prosperous life, to provide an example
that good people live good lives. Giving an example that a good guy is living a scarcity based
life only encourages people not to be good.

Be the opposite - be the best you can be and CRUSH it, so that others are inspired to do the
same.

Don't let anyone who has poor results tell you it's because they have more integrity than the
guy who succeeds. That's an excuse.

They may have integrity which is great. But they also have to take action.

Be a good person. Keep cultivating integrity as a life long journey (nobody has it perfect and
anyone who says otherwise is lying). Improve.

At the same time... take that amazing person you are and SHARE it with others. TAKE ACTION.

The best pick up artists are GREAT people. I have never seen a "low vibration" PUA get better
results than guys who are win/win and high integrity beings.

The other day I picked up a world famous actress who is one of the most centered, beautiful
people I've met in my life. How did I do it? By being a person who tries his best to embody the
principles of light and positivity - and she could easily sense this because she's been around the
world and "seen it all" - so she immediately was into it.

I walk around in my day to day life just SHARING. I am at a point in my life that I have very
little outcome to any interaction with a woman. I know who I am and what energy I want
around me, and I share positivity with the people around me and inevitably the highest quality
women sense it and offer their numbers to me, want to hang out with me, and want me in
their lives.

That doesn't mean sitting in my mom's basement meditating and I'll somehow "manifest"
these girls. I work to create a great present, positive energy inside myself... and I SHARE that
with others.

That's why "expansive energy" is such a focus in RSD. And the more you're SHARING the more
EXPANSIVE your energy is going to be.

People can sense the genuineness of it, and want ot be part of it. Same reason my videos are
successful and will continue to grow, as I grow in my own integrity and positive energy.

At the same time they'll also grow because I become more effective at producing the videos,
cutting them, and putting them out. So there's a law of MASSIVE ACTION that has to be
adhered to as well.

If I believe I'm a good guy, I believe I must take action and get my ideas out there.

Life isn't a simple truth. Just being a good guy doesn't immediately get you a lot of
prosperity. Being a bad guy who cheats the system doesn't get lasting results either. It's about
being a good guy who also takes action, gets out there and shares his vision, creates great
things that help other people.

Whether that's picking up a girl or business or your career the rule applies.

Integrity + high vibration energy + MASSIVE FUCKING ACTION = the most success.

Be a good dude and get out there and share it. The results will blow you away.

There's never a need to create a "scarcity based identity" and believe the world is a negative
place that rewards negativity.

The world is a wonderful place that rewards positive people who take the action needed to
share positive things.

Tyler
I went to the one in Las Vegas one sat.

The new thing I paradigm about was using release muscles vs control muscles. In your
movement. In your speaking. When you're talking you should be releasing. Tyler used the
analogy It's like taking a shit where you clench a lot vs when you're just releasing it lmao. If
you're fatigued by the end of the night then it's because you're using control muscles, not
release muscles.
Aiming for being in so much release that what you say surprises you. I think that's when there
is truly no filter.

I am wondering In release vs control muscle, is there a limit to how much you can use? Like, is
Tyler in 100% release when he's in state. Or is those things than can always get stronger. I
suspect the later, because Tyler mentions he looks at Elliott Hulse on how he can get looser, so
I think that he looking to further 'strengthen' his release mode.

Im not sure if this related but there are some muscles that you can't control, the smooth
muscles, they're involuntary, but a lot of them react to your emotional state. I think that's
where a lot of reading of subcommunications comes from.

Tyler showed what's it's like to be approaching loosely. Vs approaching robotically. When he
fainting going for the instant makeout, I could really feel the emotion coming off of him. The
radiation of good emotion. It has sort of a jolly jovial rhythm to it. an act of love. child-like
innocence. It looked like a kiss you would do to your girlfriend/wife/lover. ‘Good game is
invisible’. I guess good game should look like a couple interacting, and not a pickup.
There were also similar examples in the hotseat infeild, Madison's effortless/engaged kiss was
like that.

I thought looking at the social conditioning of the first guy's face was pretty interesting. I
couldn't tell what exactly it was, but when Tyler pointed it out, I could see the 'social
conditioning'. It looked like he had a blank expression on his face. Kinda seemed like he was
watching a mindless tv show. Staring into the middle distance. No emotion. No reaction to the
energy of the room. He wasn't looking at Tyler. When Tyler pointed that he was coming into
his care, the obvious think I saw was that he was smiling with his eyes, he was actually looking
at stuff. He seemed to be into the rhythms and energy of the room.

Intent. It was really clear to me, when Tyler was speaking in a normal voice while the other guy
was yelling. Some could still her Tyler move. The other guy was using a lot of Force. Tyler was
using power when he spoke. So a few people actually heard Tyler better than the guy that was
yelling. Because force causes us to turn on our filters. Tyler's intent was just to share with us.
The other guys was to compete; be louder than Tyler. Attempts to overforce causes resistance
in the receiver. Tyler wanted to be in our heads.

It was really interesting that the 3 people who did 1st, 2nd, and 3rd in the yelling exercise with
Tyler, did the reverse order in the 'owning Tyler' exercise. Maybe it was competitive energy
that stifled them. They see one person doing good in the exercise, and now their intent is
mixed with comparing themselves to them; they saw the first person do good and now they
wanted to do good. The last person might have had the most competitive intent between he
was last.

Another thing I learned is that in the protective energy mode, we've always aware of the end
of things. End of movements, end of our motions. Tyler told the other guy to keep yelling when
Tyler stopped yelling, but he couldn't do it. Too much focus on the end of the action instead of
making love to each action.

I think making love to each motion is why Tyler's dancing is fun to look at, even though it's not
high level dancing. He's making love to each motion. I think that's something to think about,
not only when you dance, but moving in general. Speaking in general. making any noise in
general. Kinda reminds me of ch in Art of Seduction called poeticize your presence. The whole
book is about promoting protective energy now that I think about it, but you can reinterpret it
into how everything you do can be fun for you, engaging for you, changes your emotion.
People are there for you. The energy is there for you. Instead of resisting them, collaborate
with them. Collaborative energy.
All the stimulus in the club, it's there for you.

I realize that when I'm in 'state' in a club, I feel like I want to dance to the music, even walking
around the club I want to move to the music. I think in state you look to collaborate with the
energy around you.
I remember in the infield when that guy was trying to cockblock Tyler very aggressively and
Tyler still make him laugh, because he was collaborating with his energy even though it was
against him.
I thought this was an interesting example of expansive energy at play. Usually Colbert ‘owns’
anyone who isn’t ‘ethically congruent’. But this guy was becoming part of Colbert’s energy and
was able to also direct the interaction.
cc com /video-clips/m00z1i/the-colbert-report-colbert-super-pac---frank-luntz-commits-to-
the-pac

A major theme seemed to be innocence. Child-like emotions. Acting more like a kid when you
do
The las vegas hotseat ran about eleven hours with one five minute break. Eat a huge meal
before you get there...

The hotseat is essentially two programs right now, and although there is some connective
tissue between the two
they are mostly separate experiences. I'll divide this review into a classic section and the
transformational section for those
who've been to a previous hotseat.

Classic:
tl;dr: Madison's clips are solid with a couple very powerful lessons.
Tyler's clips will alter your perception of what is possible in terms of simultaneous outcome-
independence and total persistance.
Julien's clips display a level of purposefulness and self-amused dominance that are unreal.
Lot of good explanations of what's really going on in Madison's clips, less so for the others, but
they speak for themselves incredibly well.
Overall the first 4-5 hrs of infield is well worth the full price of the program.

The hotseat was run by madison and sam, Madison was up first with his own in field. The
girl was into him form the beginningbut he explained a couple very suave things he did that
really cemented the interaction and made it a lot more powerful. I wasn't blown away by his
infield but it was very very solid, it was what most good pickup should look like. He also did a
great job explaining the concepts.Afterwards madison played a clip with a student and himself
to show the difference and this clip was very valuable, seeing someonee who's acting through
their intention compared with someone who isn't really ingrained what those two mindsets
look like in action. Next, madison played a Tyler clip, it was a pickup rampage
at its finest and I saw things that shattered my reality of what persistence really looks like and
what really doing game is. The start of the clip Tyler is talking to a girl it's a
great look at what good self-amused game looks like. In the clip Julien tries to steal the girl
twice, and fails. Tyler leaves the club with her but she starts talking to a guy who
has a bodyguard. Tyler starts talking to the girl and the bodyguard actually blocks his path. He
doesn't react at all and just keeps talking to the girl wihle trying to sidestep the bouncer,
this goes on for a while, Tyler tells the bodyguard it is never illegal to talk to a girl in a friendly
non butthurt way. It's hilarious and it's a degree of persistence that I'd never seen before. He
eventually gets to the girl for a second but she gets whisked away in a limo. Tyler laughs and
immediately finds more people to approach it's a mixed set who immediately dismisses him
and tries to get rid of him. Her persists until it is very clear that it's not going to happen. He
then sees a girl with a ridiculously sexy body and a very model-like demeanor who's walking.
He starts talking and at first she doesn't respond at all. Then shortly afterwards she calls him a
silly man in a congruently mean tonality. He doesn't respond to it all and keeps going, she
continues to berate him telling him to fuck off and go away, she rejects his touch,she gives him
as many and as strong of iod's as is possible. He doesn't care and persists while not being
oblivious and eventually she accepts his touch and starts engaging with him. The clip ends with
him pulling her to his place.
Another Tyler clip is played with a girl who is likely a model, she's pretty fucking cool too, but
she's with her mother. This clip demonstrates being at the cause and total unreactiveness. He
says some seriously fucked up sexual shit with the mother in earshot and even interacts with
her no differently than he would with one of the guys. He just doesn't care and this girl loves it.
He also tells the girl he can start a conversation by treating girls like dogs and demonstrates
just that approaching other girls during the interaction which is a brilliant touch that
demonstrated a lot of value. Both these clips demonstrate different concepts on a level that I
have never seen and hadn't even conceptualized before, and I've been in the game taking a lot
of action for several years now...
Sam played Julien's clips, there were several, a daygame pull with a beatiful stripper in which
Julien is very blunt and incredibly self-amused, his opener is something along the lines of, "I
was gonna talk to girls but I'm not feeling warmed up and I wanted to get in the zone by
berating a nice, innocent girl." She responds by saying she's not that innocent and from there
he builds up the interaction saying a lot of off the wall and hilarious shit, draws her into his
reality and then they go to his place. Lots of useful nuances in this clip also.
We also watched an opener compilation of Julien, what really stuck out was his vibe. He was
very commanding and in a very self-amused way, his tonality was more emotionally intense
than I'd ever seen. He uses a lot of different opens and deals with a lot of different situations
but the main lessons come from his vibe which is really intense.
Same also played a clip in which Julien gets in the zone with a girl he's not that into and then
transfers that energy onto another girl who he is into. It's very powerful, Julien's game really
demonstrates the four pillars of sex worthiness to the extreme: Purposeful, Controlled,
Flowing, Self-Amused.

Transformational experience:
Tl;Dr
Tyler demonstrates some pretty fucking trippy concepts that are going to leave you both
inspired, and initially somewhat confused.
Some of the exercises are very powerful and demonstrate the concepts he speaks about
effectively, helping internallize them.
After the seminar I was skeptical, but felt I got my money's worth. Knowing what's happened
since I would have payed $3000 dollars for the seminar.
Don't expect the hotseat to transform your life, expect it to give you the tools so that you can
change your life, and if you use those tools things will start happening that will change
your fundamental experience of reality.

Tyler enters and starts explaining what his goals are and talks about concepts like being at the
cause and intent. He demonstrates the power of intent by staring at someone in the room and
making him laugh without a word and then explaining what he did. He then does the same for
another guy. He brings people to the center who are stifled and gets them reacting to him.
Then has us do an exercise in which we try to get someone else reacting and then brings up
the same people and they do a much much better job. This is the "I'm in your head" stuff and
it's pretty fucking mindblowing, and out there shit. Some of his lecture does sound very new
agey but he demonstrates the concepts effectively and then we used them ourselves to plant
the seed of what the concepts feel like to embody. We do a variety of exercises, a couple of
them aren't particularly powerful, or weren't very clearly explained (the collaboration exercise)
but some are. One exercise has us berating eachother getting people reacting and it gives you
a real feel of what being in reaction is. After many exercises, Tyler gives a very passionate
speech about his intentions for us to be at the cause instead of the effect.
Immediately after the seminar I thought that was pretty cool, probably worth about 300$,
some of that stuff is a little too new-agey for me though..But then the last couple weeks
happened. When I've gone out I've gone harder than I ever had in the past and last night my
game was so on point that most of the girls I interacted with were visibly turned on, blushing,
playing with their hair not just occasionally but obsessively. The girls were visibly nervous (in a
good way) My intention has had more potency than I ever imagined it could, things I've
wanted to try or do differently usually involve a lot of work and resistance, but moreso than
ever these last couple weeks if I want to change something about myself or my experience I've
been able to do it. I noticed watching a recording of myself that my speaking was only in one
frequency, one tone. I thought I should try to vary it up and 30 minutes later I was speaking in
a way that engaged me and those I was speaking to than I ever had before. I've wanted to feel
emotionally more present and more in-tune and I have to the point where I've cried several
times in cathartic release because I was so overwhelmed with gratitude and the sense that I
had taken back control over my life after I had given it up by developing panic disorder after
the sudden death of my father. Everything I've wanted is becoming reality, this morning I
almost had a panic attack but through using my will I turned the panic attack into deep
presence.

To be clear, this isn't all happening just because of the hotseat, I've been taking a lot of
action and building self-efficacy on my own for several years now but since the hotseat it has
reached a new level. I've been more at the cause than I had ever thought was possible, I am
asserting choice over my subjective experience. On the one hand my game is better than ever
but even more importantly my life is better than I had ever thought possible. But I also don't
expect that these results are guranteed I've made a point to keep the relevant concepts from
the program in my mind with a couple different strategies and that has likely magnified the
effects I have gotten. I have never felt more empowered and capable than I do now and it has
dramatically changed in these last couple weeks, and certainly the hotseat played an
important role in that .Don't expect the hotseat to transform your life, expect it to give you the
tools so that you can change your life, and if you use those tools things will start happening
that will change your fundamental experience of reality.
Core Principles of Game:

1. Clarity of intent (the extent to which you engage the other person)

Catalyst : Feet off a break paddle while talking Exercises: -forceful hey! -powerful hey -
i'm sharing with you Goal: Become a powerful communicator

1. Entitlement

Catalyst: Free association (decoupling content from the emotion) Exercises: -tell a story
of how you drove up to the HotSeat Goal: Creates a dynamic between you and the girl,
where you say whatever you want and she sees your a high status male

1. Strenght of your reality

Catalyst: Colabboration Exercises: -colabboration vs competition -individual (me vs the

world) vs group frame -speaking while other people are trying to break your reality
Goal: Gives you massive ammounts of social power, reduces approach anxiety

1. Presence

Catalyst: Be yourself and don't judge yourself (congruence) Exercises: -say whatever
your mind comes up with Goal: Being at ease, relaxed, and leting go of the outcome

1. Draw state from within youself (make yourself laugh, make yourself happy)

Catalyst: Motion creates emotion Exercises: -get yourself laughing Goal: Having
emotional self-control. Being able to transition from logical headspace to social
headspace. Not needing external things in order to be happy