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but we’re seeing this trend around the As the Nordic countries have shown,
world. Steven is not alone. nothing has worked as much to move the
This incipient global transformation of needle as equality in parental leave. It
fatherhood is part of a redefinition of what needs to be paid leave and non-transferable
it means to be men. This is not something between men and women so men will use
that men are only doing for their partners. it. But parents can’t do it alone. Full
This is making men’s lives better. Studies equality for women in the workplace and
find that fathers who report close, non- for all working parents requires subsidised,
violent connections with their children affordable childcare. At the same time,
have fewer mental or physical health unless our workplaces become more
problems, are less likely to abuse drugs, are flexible and responsive to the needs of
more productive at work, and report being parents, families will usually revert to the
happier. Household surveys we’ve carried default position of mothers taking time off
out from India to Croatia report, not to be the exclusive caregiver.
surprisingly, that the female partners of
these men are happier with their husbands, Involvement by men also requires an early
including being more sexually satisfied. start. UK studies show that men involved in
pre-natal visits and parenting classes stay
Research also shows that greater more involved and set patterns of equality
involvement of loving, caring, non-violent that their children follow. We also need to
fathers is good for children: daughters support parents to raise their children
aspire to less traditional and potentially without violence. Parents need support to
higher-paying jobs and boys do better in learn positive disciplinary approaches.
school. A nationwide study in Norway Finally, we need to encourage more men to
found that such households had a third the work in childcare, primary school teaching,
level of household violence than homes and other caregiving professions to change
where women did the lion’s share of care the notion that caregiving is not something
work. feminine, but simply human.
So what’s the hold up? Thousands of years We should strive for nothing less then men
of history, outdated ideas, and social and doing 50% of the care work on the planet.
economic structures get in the way. What No more smirks. No more incredulity. Men
then do we need to do to push forward this can do it.
transformation of fatherhood and full
equality in the home? © Gary Barker & Michael Kaufman, 2015
The State of the World’s Fathers Report published by the
MenCare campaign is out now: www.sowf.men-care.org
This week we are launching the first State Gary Barker is founder and international director of
of the World’s Fathers. It’s part of an Promundo and co-founder of MenCare and MenEngage.
international campaign on involved Michael Kaufman is Senior Fellow at Promundo and co-
fatherhood, called MenCare. Drawing on a founder of the White Ribbon Campaign, the international
effort engaging men to end violence against women.
growing body of research, the report
provides good answers to that very www.michaelkaufman.com
question. Twitter: @genderEQ