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2 Social Dynamics 5
2.1 Sex and Society . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 5
2.2 Girls – Which to Avoid, which to Engage with . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6
2.3 Women and (Alpha) Males . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7
2.4 Beta-Ization and Shittests . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8
2.5 Why Men & Women are so Different and Why this is GOOD! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 9
2.6 A Hot Girl’s Reality . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10
2.7 3 Pillars of Natural Seduction – Attraction, Arousal, Connection . . . . . . . . . . . . 11
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CONTENTS
6 Sex 37
6.1 Full Closing and Sex – Becoming the Intimate Lover of the Fantasy . . . . . . . . . . . 37
7 Relationship Management 41
7.1 Beyond the One Night Stand – Managing your Relationships . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 41
7.2 Finding “The One” Special Girlfriend . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42
8 Wingmanship 43
9 Lifestyle 45
9.1 The Man in His Prime Lifestyle . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 45
9.2 Social Circle Game . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 47
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Chapter 1
• “There must be something about this guy. . . ” Without the right looks and awesome confidence,
you stand out from everyone.
• Do take care of yourself physically. It shows that you respect yourself, that you live
up to your potential.
– Eat healthy.
– Go to the gym.
• Money
– Rich people don’t give a fuck. They have a purpose. They come from abundance.
– They have been through adversity, which means to build something from nothing.
– Alpha Male Behaviour = Rich Guy Behaviour → he doesn’t take shit from other
people.
• Girls want the nice guy, but they react to the douchebag.
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1. Defining your New World
– Humor: humor about her (do not take her too seriously) and humor about him. Come up
with stupid spontaneous things.
– He’s Social.
– He has Goals: he is busy doing his own thing. If you are passionate about something,
that is reflected in bed.
– He’s always in a good mood (despite adversity): no matter what’s going to happen,
he will be fine.
– He has his own Reality: he doesn’t make other people’s opinion dictate his reality.
1.2 Self-Assessment
• Redefining your new reality.
– Be shameless!
• How do I want to come across to people + What will it take me to get there?
– After getting up in the morning, before going to bed at night, before doing anything that
scares you.
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1.3. A Natural’s Frames
• There are frames that bring you down and frames that lift you up.
• Your voice will always be there, but you can CHANGE YOUR VOICE.
• FRAMES
– Personal Frame: Things you honestly Life/Dislike; what makes you unique; How strong
are your values; Learn to say NO (super attractive); I don’t want to be around people that
drag themselves and others down, that are manipulative
– Play epic music in the background, and read your Frame out loud to you.
• Be aware of what you want in Life → your need for external validation is eradicated.
• GO YOUR WAY.
• Your Purpose as a Man is to Give Love → Love in terms of your passion, work, thoughts. . .
• “I’m still doing my Art, even when shit is being thrown at me”.
• Overcoming Hardship: the more you get blown out in Game, the better.
• Lower her Standards: just act normal among any 10. Don’t try hard on her (Beta-Male
Behaviour), just focus on BEING instead of DOING.
• Girls will never fuck you because of your Game. They will fuck you because of
YOU.
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1. Defining your New World
• Don’t believe everything your thoughts tell you. Reframe your reality.
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Chapter 2
Social Dynamics
– There are whores on one side, and there are Madonnas on the other side.
• We have lost our Masculinity and Feminism Core → Hollywood has torn apart Man – Woman
Dynamics
• “When I pick up a girl, is just fun, fun, fun, and the last joke is my dick inside her.” −RSD
Tyler
• SEX
• HOOKING UP
– If two people like each other, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with hooking up.
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2. Social Dynamics
– A Great Woman: she doesn’t care what society thinks about her; she has sex
whenever she wants with whoever she wants.
• MADONNA-WHORE COMPLEX
– Girls have a little bit of both.
– Make the girl feel okay with both sides (Madonna and Whore).
– You should encourage her, and not to judge her, because of her Whore (Archaic Core) and
Madonna side.
• LOVE
– Happens naturally and is based on Sexual Arousal.
– You cannot love someone if you haven’t had Sex with her.
– “Of all these girls I met, I can say this girl is amazing, and although I don’t need her, I
would choose her.”
• Never brag about your sexual encounters. Let people do it for you.
• Girls will invest in you even more – “I’m going to be the one to make him my boyfriend.”
– They are drama queens – if they start a fight for no reason, only to get the attention.
– They test you a lot (Shittests) – their shittests have no boundaries! (ex.: burn the
dancefloor)
• The Halo Effect – when we see a pretty girl, we automatically project the perfect lifestyle of
hers, we get soaked into her world.
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2.3. Women and (Alpha) Males
• With LSE girls, only engage with them for One Night Stands, maximum Fuck
buddies. They can fuck up your life.
• Low Self-Esteem + Low Sex Drive (LSE + LSD) → worst type of Girls (raped, mo-
lested. . . )
• A High Self-Esteem girl treats you well IF YOU TREAT HER WELL, and treats
you badly IF YOU TREAT HER BADLY!
• A High Self-Esteem girl just says “Thank you” for you complimenting her.
– Welcome to Heaven!
• Still, sooner or later, they feel the need of having an Alpha Male again, to satisfy their sexuality.
• ONCE THE WOMAN FULLY REALIZES THAT SHE OWNS THE ALPHA MALE,
SHE LOSES INTEREST.
• 1st Possibility: Women take an Alpha Male and turn him into a beta male
– This is a Shittest.
• The Alpha Male fucks her well, the Beta Male provides her the resources.
• Girls will tell you much to open yourself more to her, to be more available, to have more time
for her. . . All these things, but secretly, deep down inside, they hope that you don’t.
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2. Social Dynamics
• LIST OF SHITTESTS
– Jealousy – the Beta male will be very reactive (become butt hurt). The PUA guy will
call her, confront her. The Natural looks her deeply in the eyes, listens to what she says,
and then tells her: “You know what? That guy sounds amazing! Do you have his number?
You should call him. You should fuck him, he is amazing! So anyway. . . ”
– I’m not sure about my Feelings about you – the Natural understands her – “I totally
feel you, girl. How can you be sure about anything? You’re great”. Kiss her and leave her
alone with her bullshit. Give her a DHV (Demonstration of High Value), and tell her you
had to leave to meet another girl, for example.
– Either them or Me! – the Natural listens to her carefully, holds strong eye contact,
smiles at her, hugs her and gives her one of the most attractive words in the world: No. . .
– You’re a Player! – the Natural humors about it – “I’m a Virgin” OR “Yes, I may be a
Player, I love meeting girls, girls are beautiful, I love having sex with other girls, but that
doesn’t mean I don’t respect you, Lisa. You’re an amazing girl, I love hanging out with
you. And whenever I am with you, I love being with you.”
– You say that to all the Girls – the Natural humors about it, again – “You see an
attractive person on the streets, and maybe you will never see her again, so why not giving
a shot and approach her, why not?” Always be honest and unapologetic.
– You just want to Fuck me! – the Natural looks up and down to her and says: “Of
course I wanna fuck you, you’re gorgeous, you’re amazing. So anyway. . . ”
– Girl Freeze Outs – maybe going to the bathroom OR “Wait here for me.” The Natural
follows her to the bathroom and interacts with other people/girls on the way, and when she
leaves the bathroom, introduce her to your new friends.
– She doesn’t text back – the Natural doesn’t care if she responds or not, and spends more
time doing his stuff, hustling during that extra time, and hits on another girl. Later, send
her something of LOW INVESTMENT (never a question), like a funny image or text her
a strange situation you just witnessed in front of you (in the supermarket, college, bar. . . ).
You can also use Social Media to your advantage, and make sure she knows what you’re
doing (partying, having fun, meeting girls, traveling. . . )
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2.5. Why Men & Women are so Different and Why this is GOOD!
– She shows up Late – the Natural doesn’t care (he is late himself) and doesn’t judge her
for that. After 15 min, text her (if you want to) or approach another girls.
– She dumps her problems on you – the Natural asks for a hug, kisses her, and changes
her topic. You don’t want to become a therapist, if you are not in a long term relationship.
• EYE CONTACT
– It is very important. . .
– Always hold extremely eye contact when they are giving you shit OR when you
are asking her questions.
• Always be aware of the difference between Shittests and REAL COMFORT TESTS.
– Open yourself up to a certain degree.
2.5 Why Men & Women are so Different and Why this is GOOD!
• Men and Women couldn’t be more different from each other (Ying Yang).
– Crying
– Gossip
– Drama
∗ Healthy drama: Role playing.
∗ Asking you to dominate her in bed. You can start dominating her.
∗ Healthy drama: Girls negging you.
∗ Unhealthy drama: Don’t touch me, fuck off (typical of LSE girls).
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2. Social Dynamics
• Generally, the hotter the girl, the weirder the way she gets approached.
• They all expect the same compliments. Guys try hard a lot, put them on a pedestal, they are
nervous.
– Too much positive feedback scatters our reality. We think we are the shit, but we’re
not. It’s the same with hot girls.
• The Halo Effect – the more beautiful the person is, the more we project a perfect
lifestyle onto them.
• They take a shit, they shave their armpits, maybe she is not that pretty every morning. They
are still human beings! Still, guys don’t look at them like that.
• They have extremely high amount of options, but scarcity of good options.
• DON’T BE TRY-HARD.
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2.7. 3 Pillars of Natural Seduction – Attraction, Arousal, Connection
• There’s no different kind of Game for 9s and 10s. ASSUME EQUAL VALUE.
• Don’t take her too seriously, don’t take yourself too seriously, don’t take the inter-
action too seriously.
1. ATTRACTION
• It is very subtle.
• Step 1: Take the pressure off yourself → Law of State Transference → You take the
pressure of her too.
• The biggest IoI the Girl can give you: SHE’S STILL THERE!
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2. Social Dynamics
3. CONNECTION
• Fastest way to connect with her: Talk about your feelings – Childhood, 1st
vacation. . .
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Chapter 3
• Other people don’t give a shit about you, dude. Don’t overestimate them.
• WARMUP
– The Golden phone call – call a funny buddy to transfer your state to a more talkative
one. You can use the phone to open someone – “Hey, excuse me? It’s for you.”
• Nothing bad happens when you talk to people. Everybody is your friend.
• HOW = WHY
• CALL TO ACTION: Get out there and talk to people, do the clap exercise, approach mini-
mum 1 hot girl.
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3. Building a Solid Foundation
• Ex.: “I love your style” (elegant, sporty); “I love how the color of your shoes matches with your
hair”; “I love the way you walk.”
• For Daygame, have Statement of Empathy (i.e. I know this is kinda weird, but I
just. . . ).
• Cold Reading, i.e. make up things about her based on her style. You are a free spirit, you are
easygoing person.
• Take out your headphones, forget your cell phone. Talk to your office mates, people at the metro,
at university, etc.
• While you’re being social, practice implementing the natural traits of an alpha male.
– Be a Leader.
– Invite people.
– Be Unapologetic. Don’t lecture other people, unless they ask for advice, even though
they are stupid.
• People will respect you. They won’t always like you, but they will respect you.
• Enter any room – open your eyes and up there, greet everybody with a smile and
loudly.
• CALL TO ACTION: From now on, you’ll talk to minimum 1 person a day.
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3.4. Natural Verbal Game
1. It’s not about what you say, it’s about how you say it
– a) Paint pictures in her head.
– b) Write songs in her head (not just songs, but also nature sounds).
– c) Talk about your feelings.
3. No Filters
– Do Pauses
∗ It makes it more impactful.
– Intonation
∗ NEVER REPEAT WHAT THE GIRL JUST SAID!
∗ Go down in intonation.
– Volume
∗ Be loud! Don’t give people a choice for not hearing you.
• CALL TO ACTION: GO OUT TODAY! Use DHV Storytelling. Talk about 2 of your passions
today. Tell a story using 1a 1b 1c.
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3. Building a Solid Foundation
• Lean backwards when talking to a girl on the phone. Open body language.
• Put yourself beside the girl and face her when asking her something or listening to
her. Then get back to facing the balcony. This makes the girl invest in you.
• Always put yourself in a position of advantage – standing tall against a wall or corner, so
that when a girl comes it is easier to make out with her or let her initiate it.
• If literally everything has been turning into shit in the field, do the 5 Seconds quick Assess-
ment.
– Write what went good, what went wrong and what you can do next time to improve yourself.
• Take educated guesses! Try to figure out what you have to improve.
3.7 Physicality
• Physical Escalation is one thing and one thing only: CALIBRATION.
• No Response
1. Stop.
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3.8. How Girls show they’re Interested
• Yes Response
• Use physicality to Ping – to see where you are in the interaction). Still, always assume that
she likes you.
• Sometimes the shy girls don’t escalate on you easily, so you have to take the first step.
• CALL TO ACTION: Go out and practice physicality and be aware if it’s a Yes/No/Neutral.
• When the girl is touching you out of the blue (some girls just do that with everybody
so, in this case, it doesn’t make it an indicator).
• The biggest IoI a girl can give you: the girl is still there.
– Look at your hands, look yourself in the mirror, grab your balls, your penis. . .
• Rejection will never stop, but you learn how to deal with it (you can change your
perception about it).
• Use the rejection to open other girls. They see you getting rejected, but they also see you
not giving a fuck! Never be butthurt! Laugh when if she rejects you.
• Detach your self-confidence from your Ego. Be free from outcome. Your self-confidence
is always flat. When you have amazing nights, it’s cool. When you have bad nights, it’s cool.
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3. Building a Solid Foundation
• Confidence doesn’t come from winning. True Confidence comes from losing and shameless
self-assessment, and getting the fuck back up!
2. Eye Contact
– You can’t fake how real you are.
3. Vocal Projection
– Breath in from your belly.
– Give them the opportunity (and only choice) to listen to you.
– YELL AS LOUD AS POSSIBLE FOR 5 SECONDS!
• Numberclose on a high note. (when she is laughing, into you, after kissing)
• Qualifying her
• Discretion
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3.12. Setting up Dates
– If she says “I have a boyfriend”, just say “Me too, I’m gay.”
– Text her after you have her number. (Simply write “Hey, it’s Carlos.”)
• Texting is low investment. A phone call includes your tonality, which makes it high investment.
Voice messages are a great alternative!
• GET HER BACK INTO THE EMOTIONAL STATE SHE WAS IN WHEN YOU
HUNG OUT.
– Write funny stuff to her or send her funny memes and gifs.
– If she says she cannot come, say to her “I might have time during the. . . ”
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3. Building a Solid Foundation
– Avoid questions marks – “What are you doing later”, and not “What are you doing later?”
– You can also call them. Call them twice (it makes it urgent). The moment she texts you,
pick up your phone and call her, because you know she is on the phone.
• Even if you’re not at the place she indicates you, say you are.
• Dance, don’t look around. Girls will come to you, because you are the fucking party! If you
have to look, move with your shoulders, and not with your head.
• When you make eye contact with a girl, keep it and just make it fun that she “chose”
you.
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Chapter 4
• There’s the social hook point – you are not a treat and she can talk with you – and the sexual
hook point – you are free in your expressions, and you need to feel a connection with the girl.
– Flatline Talk – “Hello, what is your name?. . . ” It is general information, the interview
mode. There’s no emotional impact on the girl.
– Emotional Spikes – “I love you, I hate you.” It has to include positive and negative
emotional spikes.
– You wanna have a balance (Flatline Talk alternated with Emotional Spikes).
Again, LISTEN TO YOUR GUT FEELING! Girls want a Man, not a fuckin’
clown.
• Relevance
• Assumptions
– Shove her in her head by giving her the opposite compliment. Ex.: She is really well dressed,
and you say “Oh, are you a waitress?”
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4. Sharpening the Skills
• Sexualization
– Tell her “You like the funny guy, with fat belly, eat burgers all day and combs your hair.”
• If the girl remains giving you shit, the Natural remains Persistent.
– The Statement of Empathy takes the pressure of the girl and it is a DHV.
• IF THE GIRL GIVES YOU SHIT, KEEP YOUR FRAME AND BE UNAPOLO-
GETIC.
• Don’t give her Premature Ejection! Give yourself (and the girl) a chance.
• Also, don’t Prematurely Ejaculate/Escalate – for example, if she hugs you initially, don’t
instantly go for the make out. Give her time and space to invest and then do it later.
– There are no loses. You always get better than you were before.
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4.4. Natural State
• You can open the girl first, but acknowledge her friends as soon as possible. Also, be aware of
their reactions, because possible cockblocks can come from them.
• If the girls’ friends are leaving, make a sad face – even though you know that, from now on, it’s
open road to pussy!
• ANY STATE I FIND MYSELF IS JUST FINE. This takes the pressure of yourself.
• GIRLS DON’T LIKE THE PERFECT GUY, THEY LIKE THE GUY WHO’S
PERFECTLY FINE WITH HIMSELF.
• In-Club Meditation
– Letting yourself be overwhelmed by the music, the lights and the feeling.
• Learn from the Low Phases, enjoy (and Learn from) the High Phases. There’s
always pussy at the end!
• Just because your results get better, that doesn’t mean your Game is getting better!
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4. Sharpening the Skills
4.6 Shittests
• Shittests = She just wants to make sure the guy she’s dealing with is an Alpha Male.
• It doesn’t matter what you say. What really matters is how you react.
• If she texts you at 2:00am to have sex, you should flake on her. How well you stay on
your purpose is way more important than giving time to her.
• Passing a Shittest: The Alpha Male not striving off his path.
• Real-Tests: it looks like a shittest, but it is given by the girl so that she feels safe
around you.
– Don’t ask the guy if he is her boyfriend. Ask instead “How do you guys know each other,
by the way?”
• TYPES OF GUYS
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4.8. How to Get Laid from Dates
• You are making this date epic, not the date itself !
– Ex.: Shopping and having a beer, walking and smoking a pipe, riding the motorcycle and
playing video games.
– Never make the 1st part of the date a silence moment! (going to the movies, having a
coffee. . . )
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4. Sharpening the Skills
– You’re late yourself (you’re hustling, working hard, meeting other girls. . . )
– While you wait for her, chat with other people (mainly, girls) or just simply talk with
someone on the phone.
– If she texts you, text her back saying “Fine, drinks are on you ;)”
• Date Logistics
– Just for you to make sure you have enough time with her.
– Do that step back before she does, i.e. “only if you promise to be cool” or “only if you
promise you don’t steal anything” or “only if you promise to behave”.
– If during the date you have a topic like “Oh, you’ve never seen that movie?”, say to her “I’ll
show you later.” Do this for every topic that leads to bring her closer to you.
– Normally, when she says this, the sex moment is very close.
– It is good she says this, because this means she is already thinking about sex!
– Respond with humour (“Oh, I’m still a virgin.”) or be more serious if you want to (“We’re
not gonna do anything that makes you uncomfortable, it’s OK.’). This takes the pressure
of her and also hits on her ego.
– Make sure she knows you’re alone with her and nobody else is coming!
• Escalation
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4.9. How to Have a One Night Stand
• Warm Up
• Your Frame
– The We Frame.
3. Any state I find myself in, is just fine – Don’t force it.
– The Beginning: people are coming in. It’s like the first day of school. People need to be
warmed up.
1. Be Social.
2. Maximum Numberclose.
3. Push your own buttons. Find things that you always like doing.
– The Night is a Marathon Run, not a Sprint. Eat really well before going out – keep
the energy levels high!
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4. Sharpening the Skills
• 3 Stages of Pull:
– Commit – There’s gonna be some shit. Still, still to the girl you chose.
– Babystep
1. Don’t Ask.
2. Don’t Wait.
3. Time constraint – let’s go outside for 5 min.
3. Her Chasing – She feels like she deserves coming with you. Give her space and shut the
fuck up!
• Chick Talk – give her space and let her talk with her friends.
• Doing the step back before she does. – “only if you’re cool” OR “only if you behave”. It
takes the pressure of her.
– It depends.
– If you feel you are being put in the Friend Zone, make out with her before.
• The Magic Elbow Move – the easiest way to make a girl trust you and move her.
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4.10. Working on your Ego – Continuing the SHAMELESS Self-Assessment
• The Loss of an Alpha Male – “I’m not going into the cab with you” OR “No way I’m entering
there” OR “Oh common!. . . ”
– Make her feel that losing you will be so bad for her.
– If you’re eating something, make sure it’s something quick, so that she doesn’t have time
to rationalize.
• CALL TO ACTION: Be shameless, write down what you still need to work on and what
you’re grateful for.
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Chapter 5
– Not every girl will feel comfortable to have you at her place.
– You have to find an excuse (“My friend is out of town. I’m living at his apartment.”)
• You can also book an Hotel, but be careful! Hotels can make the girl feel slutty, as you
are paying for a place just to have sex with her. Make her feel as comfortable as possible!
– Where does she live? – “In which area do you live, by the way?”
– How far is it? – “That’s 10 min away from here, right?” (even though you have no clue
where)
– Is she alone? – “I bet your roommates hate you because you are so messy.” OR “I bet
you still live with your parents.” OR “You do seem like a girl who lives alone.”
– How down is she to bring you? – “Do you have drinks at home?” OR “Can you cook?”
OR “I bet your place is super messy.”
• Be careful with getting sexual at public places! You need to baby step and screen
her properly.
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5. Mastering Natural Game
• Daygame Logistics
• Your main priority should always be to pull (if logistics allow it)
3. “I’ve been through a lot, nothing can throw me off, I’m happy that I’m on my Journey.”
• Good Game is when you and the girl are having a good time.
• The Natural waits for a sign of dis-interest. And it barely ever happens. Remember to
laugh at this, because it is not logical.
• Know the difference between Token Resistance (Fake) and Real Resistance.
• There extroverted girls (they give you some signs) and introverted girls (they don’t
give you anything).
– “Wow, he trusts himself so much he came back to approach me. He must be so cool.”
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5.4. Passive Attraction through Others
• Phantom Escalation
– Go for the kiss, and step back just before kissing her. It makes the girl in her head.
– She will think “Why didn’t he kiss me? Do I have bad breath?”
• The We Frame.
• The Hub
– Go around and pick, at least, 2 girls and come back to that spot.
• Girl Bouncing
• CALL TO ACTION: Go out, handshake the bouncers, chat up the crew and create a hub.
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5. Mastering Natural Game
1. Me (Congruence)
– No more mask!
– REMEMBER: The girl doesn’t want the perfect guy. She wants the guy who’s perfectly
fine with himself.
2. The Girl
– Verbal Game
– Vibing
– Physicality
– When you are in the zone, slow down your approach and interactions. You will make it
easier for the girl.
• CALL TO ACTION: Go out, expand your awareness about your environment. Take your
time to approaching.
• The girl will tell how to sleep with her. Be a Vigilante of her reactions.
• The Vacuum
– When it gets silent, smile and stare. By doing this, you a positive pressure on
her.
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5.7. Learning from a Newbie
– You get so much validation from a girl, and then suddenly you lose it.
– Give her shit – “That’s all you’re going to get for tonight.” OR “It was good to meet
you.”
– “Actually”
∗ It’s like you’re sharing something secret from you to her.
– “Oh. . . I see. . . ”
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5. Mastering Natural Game
– “Another one. . . ”
∗ The girl is not special.
– When she is explaining something to you, make your face look like you’re
confused or creeped out. It makes her feel weird.
• Silent Opening
3. Smile.
• Don’t give the girl any time to slut shame herself for going home with you.
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Chapter 6
Sex
6.1 Full Closing and Sex – Becoming the Intimate Lover of the Fan-
tasy
• Never forget the Humor when Escalating.
• Take the pressure of yourself, because you can never do it when you pressure yourself.
• The DTF-O-Meter
– If you ask her “What are you doing later?” and she answers “I don’t know, the night is
young”, that is a good indicator.
– The girl feels that she must chase you in order to deserve you.
– “No problem, there’s the door. There’s HD porn nowadays, I just jerk off after you leave.”
– That hits on her ego and makes her chase you, because you are free from
outcome.
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6. Sex
– She keeps giving you resistance, but doesn’t want to remove her clothes or touch your dick.
– From 0 to 100, you jump off her, you turn the light on, silence the music, and do something
else.
– Give her an excuse why you did that. (ex.: forgot to call a friend)
– Listen to her.
– Sex is natural. Every girl has the Madonna and Whore frame
– It is mutual.
– The Speech: “You know, sex is natural, everyone does it; even the Pope jerks off; but I
totally understand if you had bad experiences in the past or don’t want to do it; but when
2 people feel connected, their emotions will overcome everything and they will cuddle and
have sex, and it will be wonderful; when you want to have sex, just know that I will have
massive respect for you.”
– Take the pressure of yourself. The moment you chill, she chills.
– Keep the fun up! (especially when taking her pants or her bra)
– Give her compliments – “Oh my god girl, you drive me fucking crazy.” OR “You’re so
hot.”)
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6.1. Full Closing and Sex – Becoming the Intimate Lover of the Fantasy
– An erection is a state.
– Just make her feel good with it – “It’s OK baby, just let it go.”
– Before making her squirt, just let her know that “It is super-hot baby!”
1. She needs to be very aroused first.
2. Massage her clitoris.
3. Make sure she is hydrated enough.
4. Use your 2 fingers, penetrate her in a come here movement.
• GETTING FEEDBACK
– After the sex, ask her “What did you like the best?”
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Chapter 7
Relationship Management
– You wanna be known as the Player guy, but you also wanna be accepted for that.
– Always be fun and have a good time with her. The meeting should always be based on fun!
– You need to keep gaming your girls, before and after having sex with them!
• Managing Expectations
– Don’t let her see as someone she can talk too when she’s sad. She has her
friends for that.
• At some point, girls ask you “What are we?” You have to be fully honest with her.
– Hug her.
– “Oh, you’re so great Lisa, you are an amazing girl, but listen. You are searching for a
relationship, and I cannot give you that right now. I’m sorry, I just can’t. I really like my
freedom. I just don’t feel that I don’t want to settle down, at this point of my life, with a
girl.”
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7. Relationship Management
– “But I fucking love hanging out with you, do you know that? You are this, you’re that, you
are so hot, you are so gorgeous. When I hang out with you, there’s only you and nobody
else. I’m not thinking about any other girl. But if you can’t take that, if you don’t wanna
hang out and have fun, I totally respect that. We can stay friends, here’s the door, you can
leave.”
• When girls call you out (saying you’re sleeping with other girls)
2. Make it relatable (tell her you have a lot of fun with her).
– From all of the girls you’ve pulled, you choose the next best one from all of them.
– Ideally, a girl with whom you get along with the best and HSE + HSD girl.
• The more freedom you give a woman to walk away, the more she wants to stay with
you.
• If you want an exclusive relationship, make sure she’s very very awesome ;) (and
that fucks you super super well)
– Are you really in love with her or are you in love with the longing for love?
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Chapter 8
Wingmanship
• Your friends
• Wingman Rules
1. The guy who first opens the set is the guy who chooses what to do with that set.
2. Be willing to sacrifice your game to help your wingman.
3. Never make fun of him. Motivate him!
• ‘Cross Gaming’
– Communicate with your wingman’s girl and your wingman talks with your girl.
– Make sure they get to know about both of you, so that they can stay relaxed.
• Upon Pulling
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Chapter 9
Lifestyle
• Get out there and create the best expansion phase that you’ve ever seen in your
goddamn-fucken life!
2. What does it take to get there? What is the Mindset of a person who is there? What is
the first step that I can do right now to get me there?
• Fuck that “I’m not ready yet”. The moment you go do it, that’s when you are ready.
– Let go friends that drag you down. Stop hanging out with them.
– Drop down any addictions that drag you down (alcohol, cigarettes, porn, mas-
turbation, unhealthy food).
• Ask yourself this question everyday of your Life: “Is this bringing me further in my
Life?”
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9. Lifestyle
– Don’t hate yourself when you rest. Your self-love must come from you, not from your
achievements. You are doing this because you love yourself.
– In terms of pick up, pick the worst day of the week. That will be your off-day.
Spend that day just chillin’ with a girl or by your own, playing video games, going for a
walk or watching a movie.
– Have a cheat day (every month), and eat the nastiest fast food, don’t do anything on
that day and just chill.
• Read autobiographies.
– It shows you those celebrities are nothing more nothing less, than flesh, bones, skin and a
hell of a dream.
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9.2. Social Circle Game
– Don’t FAP!
– If you want to get an orgasm, go out and don’t go through a masturbation maratone!
• CALL TO ACTION: Create an Excel Sheet with your every day goals.
• There has to be continuity. History is made by people who finish the fucking thing
they’re doing!
• There will be no results in the first 3 months, but it will eventually happen.
• If the girl sees you have a lot of friends, she will automatically feel so much attracted to you.
• DO NOT TAKE A SHIT WHERE YOU EAT – do not pull girls from your workplace. It
can destroy your reputation. (or make you build another one)
• Create your Social Circle. Don’t isolate girls from the group. Let passive attraction
work for you, as you show yourself as a leader of the group, the one who makes things happen.
• Don’t ignore the chodes! They may suck with girls, but they are good at something else.
Expand the knowledge you don’t have (that they do) and make them feel more integrated in the
group every time you meet them.
• ONLY FUCK THE GIRLS FROM THE OUTER CIRCLE (FRIENDS FROM
YOUR SOCIAL CIRCLE)!
1. You have to be the Farmer, instead of the Hunter. Make connections and let Time
(your best wingman) work for you.
2. Be a connector – introduce/bring together other people to your social circle and provide
as much Value as possible.
4. Be a Scholar – be able to learn from other people. It makes you earn their respect.
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6. Be a Helping Hand – anticipate when your people might need help and do help them.
7. Be an Entertainer – people don’t really care what your problems are, they don’t give a
shit. If you’re in a bad mood, just stay at home (don’t tell them you’re in a bad mood).
Don’t go and ruin the vibe of the group.
9. Be Reliable – if you promise someone something, keep your word. KEEP YOUR
WORD. It hurts your reputation if you don’t.
10. Be a Defender – help people from your group who feel shy or insecure and other people
are trying to mess up with them.
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