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Small Bites to Family Style—Catering Trends
Create Savory Comfort.….….….….….….….….….….….8
Equally important as the ceremony that unites
the bride and groom in holy matrimony is the Columns
wedding meal that unites us in celebration. ABC Member Insight: Alan Berg.….….….….….….… 27
Current catering and pastry trends offer variety,
creativity, and bursts of unforgettable flavor. Departments Master Bridal Consultant Profile:
Plus, wedding tasting tips from the pros. Real Wedding—Chagrin Falls, Ohio.….….….….… 13 Ariel Yve, MBC™. ….….….….….….….….….….….….….….…29
Four ABC members were involved in this
Attending Bridal Conferences? hometown destination wedding planned by
Here’s What to Do—and What Not to. ….….… 17 Mary Dann McNamee. In Every Issue
Master Bridal Consultant Frank J. Andonoplas ABC President’s Letter .….….….….….….….….….….….7
shares his tips for bridal show etiquette. Real Wedding—Chicago .….….….….….….….….….… 15 Editor’s/Publisher’s Letter .….….….….….….….….….7
ABC novice planner Saminta Harris took on ABC Members You’ll Meet In This Issue.….… 19
Business of Brides Nov. 6-8, 2011: the challenge of planning her own nuptials to ABC Meetings & News .….….….….….….….….….….… 19
Be Charmed and Be Dazzled in Baltimore.… 18 partner Stacey Williams. Advertiser’s Index.….….….….….….….….….….….….….… 34
Don’t forget to register soon for this inspiring
conference. International—2011 Destination Weddings
Puerto Vallarta FAMinar, “Where Mexico
Floral Shows Inspire with Glorious, Comes to Life” .….….….….….….….….….….….….….….… 25
Entertaining Displays. ….….….….….….….….….….….… 21 ABC members learned all about Puerto Val-
Pamella Pride, owner of Epicure of Design shares larta during a trip to this city, which holds the
her floral insight gleaned from the 2011 Newport designation “sexiest romance/honeymoon
Flower Show in Rhode Island and the 10th destination.”
World Flower Show, held this year in Boston.
ABC Member Best Practices .….….….….….….….… 31
Military Wedding is Massive Success— Members share must-have contractual tips for
21 Couples, 39 Vendors. ….….….….….….….….….….… 23 protecting you and your business.
Seven ABC member businesses gave back to
the service men and women who protect our
country by donating services and time to a mass
wedding of military members in celebration of
Armed Forces Day in May.
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pleasure. In pursuit of culinary delights to satisfy our cravings, we have
explored the world, savoring the succulent tastes of food from different
countries and cultures. For those who haven’t traveled, the world comes
to us through ever increasing, multi-cultural populations that inspire
changes in our menus and recipes. In fact, food is so central to our lives
that it’s served in all manner of celebrations. “The best things in life hap-
pen around the table,” says Jerry Edwards, CPCE™, with Chef’s Expres-
sions Catering in Timonium, Md. Weddings are no different. “A wedding
is like inviting guests into your home. The meal you serve them should
reflect you and your desire to entertain them,” says Kevin Fabritz, chef de
cuisine at Jay’s Catering in Garden Grove, Calif. That desire, coupled with
the individual’s increased cuisine knowledge, thanks to blogs, magazines,
and television, has led to the latest catering trends.
At The Waterfront, comfort food requests have included everything from While wine and food or dessert pairings remain popular, beer pairings
mac and cheese bites to a Wisconsin favorite—fried cheese curds. Con- are on the rise. “We do some micro-brew stations,” says Edwards, in-
sider the traditional peanut butter and jelly sandwich. Chef’s Expressions cluding beer-cheese and beer-popcorn stations. “We’ll pair something
serves bite-size triangles of white bread with peanut butter skewered with like lemon-chili popcorn with an amber beer. Wine and beer pairings
a pipette of grape jelly, allowing guests control over how much grape jelly continue to grow. Clients want their guests to have an experience.”
continued on page 11
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Grand Marnier frozen mousse on a chocolate macaroon
and Thai Basil ice cream on a ginger doughnut. Deep-
fried basil, mango, and ginger créme anglaise. (The
Waterfront Restaurant and Tavern, La Crosse, Wis.)
Truffled lobster claw (Chef’s Expressions, Baltimore, Md.)
Desserts and pastries make bold
statements
The small-bite concept and current fashions are
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LUXU RY I NCLU D E D ®
honeymoon
ABC member planner: Mary Dann-McNamee, warm, low lighting, and the family gathered in one
Mary Dann Wedding and Party Coordinators, Los room with comfortable seating arrangements. The
Angeles. videographer was also important to capture the
Photographer: New Image Photography. family time. There were over six hours of toasts in
ABC businesses: Godfather Films, Ladyhawk Events, the two-day period.
and Your Dream Day. Color palette: Earth tones such as champagne,
Other businesses: Heidzillas, The Hillbrook Club, green, and white with gold accents.
Jonathan Koslen Photography, Lasting Impression Budget: Approximately $40,000.
Rentals, Heatherlily Inc., Cakes By Nadine, Classic DJ Guest count: 180
Service, A1 Mr. Limo, and Arra Beauty Salon. Most unique design element: The placement
The couple: Tim was the last of seven children to of the cake was in an atrium-type alcove with
marry. He grew up in Chagrin Falls, Ohio, but had residential furniture around it. When we cut the
been living in Manhattan Beach, Calif., for 20 years. cake, the family was able to come in close and sit
He and Sharise dated for over a year when, at 40, comfortably. It felt intimate.
she became pregnant, so they planned a destina- Biggest challenge: The first challenge was weather.
tion wedding in winter in the groom’s hometown On Friday, the airports were snowed in for at least
within 60 days. eight hours. Thankfully, all guests were inside before
Inspiration: They wanted something simple and the snow hit, but it still presented some transporta-
inexpensive. Inspiration came from my own expe- tion issues. Another challenge was planning from
rience when I was 40, pregnant, and wanted my Manhattan Beach with only one trip to the location
wedding emphasis to be on family. Naturally, I felt 30 days before the event.
a strong bond with the couple. When we met in Impressions: In my 20 years of planning weddings,
December, I planned to get them started and find I’ve never experienced a more thoughtful and Hindsight: There are a lot of great vendors
an Ohio planner to finish. But things progressed talented group of guests. Over 15 people wanted throughout the country. I couldn’t believe the
well, and they asked if I could stay on in Ohio. to give toasts and sing songs. It was a challenge high level of service from really great professionals
Style: The wedding was simple and organic. The to keep the timeline and allow everyone time to located 35 miles from Cleveland. It increased my
bride wanted to ensure the stems of the flowers speak, but it made for a very special wedding for faith of high standards in service even if you are not
were visible through the glass vases. She wanted the bride and groom. at a luxury hotel. ••
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Payments Master Bridal Consultant Frank J. Andonoplas, Chicago, produces a bridal show for the Drake Hotel to showcase
weddings through seasonal vignettes. Above, left, is a winter design, with a background view of fall and, at right,
Contracts is summer with a gazebo and sweetheart table.
Guest Lists
Photos/Graphics Bridal shows are a great opportunity surprises. If they say no, respect their decision,
Wedding Party for wedding consultants to meet new vendors and do not register under an assumed name.
...All the Details!!! and see new trends—all under one roof. Still, Some consultants might be offended that their
as with any social event, there are rules of competition is coming and taking their ideas and
etiquette that must be followed to avoid the resources. Likewise, vendors who are displaying,
type of gaffes that can tarnish reputations. may want to invite their lead list, but should
check with the person or company producing the
Avoid unethical behavior show before inviting other consultants.
For example, for the last few years I have
produced a high-end wedding event/bridal Make a courtesy call. If you are attending the
show for one of Chicago’s top hotels. The event show with a current client of yours, please tell
Software for Bridal Show and Trade is very “boutique” and is meant for brides, the consultant who produced the show, and/
Show Producers grooms, and their families. The entire room or any consultants participating in the show,
is vignettes. There are no vendor booths as is that this is a client you have already contracted
common at other bridal events. and that s/he is there to see other vendors that
are displaying. This will avoid an awkward
While we explain this to those registering, we do moment. A courtesy call to the event producer
still get a few consultants who attend. This past is appropriate. Respect the decision they give.
year, two women reserved and did not say they
were wedding planners. While attending the Do not solicit business. Under no circum-
Booths
event, they approached brides, passed out small stances is it acceptable to approach prospec-
Exhibitors
gift bags hidden in their large purses, and openly tive clients attending the event and pass out
Sponsors solicited business. One of my current clients wit- business cards or collateral material. Those
Vendors nessed this and told me after the event. When participating may have paid a great deal of
Timelines I received the names of these women, I immedi- money for this marketing opportunity, and it is
Checklists ately called my Association of Bridal Consultants not professional to market yourself when you
Payments (ABC) state coordinator who confirmed they were did not pay for this opportunity.
Attendees not ABC Members. When I tried to contact the
...and Much More!!!! consultants via email, phone calls, and finally, Be respectful. When you meet the event ven-
registered mail to express my dismay, I received dors, introduce yourself and get their contact
no return communication. The action of these information. Tell them you will call to meet
(619) 441-9664 two consultants illustrates completely unethical
and unacceptable professional behavior.
with them one-on-one. Be respectful of the
vendor’s time as they need to meet hundreds
of prospects who are attending the event. This
Simple rules for event etiquette will go a long way with the vendor, and when
So just what is acceptable behavior for attending you schedule an appointment, you will have
a bridal fair, show, or event that you have not more time to learn about their services as well
www.MurphysCreativity.com/Products.htm produced? Here are a few simple guidelines: as they to learn about yours.
Seek permission. Before the show, call the When attending bridal shows and events, the
individual or company producing it and ask if bottom line is to treat others as you would like
it is acceptable to attend. This way there are no to be treated. Those are words to live by. ••
ABC Members You’ll Meet In This Issue... Veronica Foster, ABC™..................................................................31 Elisabeth Petersen, MWV™.......................................................25
Accreditations—all recent....................................................... 19 Friar Tux............................................................................................23 Jean Picard, MBC™...................................................................29, 31
Judy Alden, MBC™..........................................................................31 Fusion Linens..................................................................................23 Pamella Pride, Epicure of Design...........................................21
Lilia Anciola....................................................................................25 Stacey Gitten, Hitching Post Public Relations................23 Richelle Raney...............................................................................25
Frank J. Andonoplas......................................................................17 Godfather Films......................................................................13, 23 Christina Safford, PBC™..............................................................25
Elaine Barker................................................................................... 19 Saminta T. Harris............................................................................15 Joyce Smith, MBC™.......................................................................25
Linda Barness...................................................................................31 Hitching Post Public Relations...............................................23 Mary Spicer.....................................................................................25
Candice Benson, MBC™........................................................25, 31 Kim Horn, MBC™............................................................................ 19 Sara Studebaker............................................................................25
Alan Berg, Left of Center Marketing & Publishing........27 Jay’s Catering.....................................................................................9 Pedro Tellez Giron Hernandez...............................................25
Lauren Block....................................................................................31 Howard Kier.....................................................................................31 The Waterfront Restaurant & Tavern....................................8
Lisa Chapman.................................................................................25 Carmen Laborin.............................................................................25 Bethany Thomas, Commemory™ Fine Art by Bethany.....23
Barbara S. Clark, ABC™................................................................. 19 Ladyhawk Events...........................................................................13 Lynn H. Wheatley......................................................................... 19
Sally Conant, PhD, MWV™........................................................ 19 Robyn Martin, ABC™.................................................................... 19 Lynn Whittenberg.........................................................................31
Mary Dann McNamee.................................................................13 Joel Maus, Studio EMP...............................................................23 David Wood, ABC President...................................................25
Toby Dodge, PBC™........................................................................ 29 Mexico Board of Tourism.........................................................25 Your Dream Day.............................................................................13
Dina Eisenberg, JD, www.PositivelyWed.com..................31 Camelú Millán Vargas, MBC™..................................................25 Ariel Yve, MBC™, Ariel Yve Design........................................ 29
Elise Enloe, MBC™.........................................................................25 Olive Juice Studios............................................... Cover, 8, 9, 11 Pamela Zapata................................................................................25
Flower Fusion.................................................................................23 Mark Paquette..........................................................................19, 31
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AIFD, PFCI gave a hands-on demonstration of or tropical affair. The bright yellow, orange,
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“On May 22, I remarried my best friend and hero. I was greeted by live social media feed for those not in attendance; and a Commemory™
20 other eager brides. We all shared the same stories, so we weren’t strangers featuring the ceremony location, bride’s dress, and military branch in
because we share a bond that cannot be broken. During the ceremony, as they a custom, multi-layered textured painting for each couple. Bethany
read each couple’s ‘short story,’ I noticed some brides couldn’t help crying, Thomas, with Commemory™, says she “jumped at the chance to help
because we all are faced with the reality that comes with being married to each couple remember their wedding day with a painting because of the
someone in the military. After the beautiful vows, we saluted our grooms sacrifices they make for us.” Thomas dedicated each painting in memory
with a kiss and [joined our guests] as husband and wife. Each person who had of her nephew, HN Daniel “Doc” Noble, who served in Iraq.
a hand in this event did an amazing job—the details, the organization, the
personalization they gave to each of the 21 couples, all at the same time. No The event left a lasting impression on all. Joel Maus of Studio EMP, says,
words will ever express the gratitude I have.” – Amy, Bride “The whole day, I felt like we were all connected and were all experienc-
ing this thing together. All the vendors were gracious and all the couples
On Sun., May 22, 39 wedding vendors, including seven Association of were grateful—the sense of community was overwhelming.”
Bridal Consultants (ABC) members, generously donated their goods,
services, and time for the first-ever Mass Military Wedding at the Hyatt The Mass Military Wedding has been featured on the front page of the
Regency Huntington Beach Resort & Spa in California. Orange County Register and on numerous wedding blogs, including Style
Me Pretty—California, California Wedding Wave, and Style Unveiled. To
As a way to celebrate Armed Forces Day, 21 military couples from all watch highlights of this event, visit www.MassMilitaryWedding.com.••
branches of the Armed Forces gathered oceanside to be joined in holy
matrimony or renew their vows in a ceremony officiated by Gary Bryan, ABC Vendors Involved
morning show host of K-EARTH 101, along with a military chaplain. Photography: Studio EMP
After the couples were pronounced “husband and wife” and walked Boutonnières: Flower Fusion
through the saber arch presentation, they celebrated with their seven Videographers: Godfather Films
invited guests at a cocktail reception hosted by the hotel. Tuxedos: Friar Tux
Couple’s Gifts: Commemory Fine Art by Bethany
Over 400 hours of planning as a give back to the troops Promotions: Hitching Post Public Relations
The event originated in November 2010, the brainchild of Toni Purry of
Purry Communications Group and Stacey Gitten of Hitching Post Public Other Vendors:
Location, Caterer: Hyatt Regency Huntington Beach; Photography: Da-
Relations. Countless hours of communication were required to ensure this
unconventional wedding had as many traditional and moving elements as mien Smith Photography, Gavin Wade Photography, Happy Photos, and
possible. K-EARTH 101 and the USO helped find the interested couples, Luminaire Images; Coordinator: More Than Just Weddings; Ceremony
and More Than Just Weddings coordinated the details. In total, more Floral Design: Natural Charms Floral Design; Bouquets: Floral Occa-
than 400 hours of planning and coordination were involved. We tried sions; Stationery: Copper Willow Paper Studio; Cake: Simply Sweet
Cakery; Cake toppers: Ginger Babies; Cake serving sets: Wire a Cake;
“to ensure it was a personal experience and that they (the couples) were
able to have their dream wedding,” says Wenda Evans, owner, More Than Dessert table design: Charm Event Design; Dessert table cakes,
Just Weddings. Hyatt General Manager, Cheryl Phelps, “thought it was cupcakes: Fork in the Road Catering; Dessert table sweets: Gotta Have
a creative way to give back to our military troops by doing what we do S’more; DJ and photobooth: J & M Entertainment; Linens: Fusion
best—beautiful weddings!” Linens; Videographers: Memento Video; Hair: Design Visage; Makeup:
All Made Up Team; Gowns: Diva Bridal Legacy; Couple’s gifts: Apple-
Unique features made event memorable for Revolution, Caring Dental, Dough a Deer, El Torito, Simply Charming,
couples and vendors and Wedding Chicks; and Promotions: The Bob Hope USO at LAX, Elite
Some of the most unique elements of the day were cake topper figurines Social Managements, K-Earth 101, Manola Empire Photography, Planet
of the couples, personalized with details such as military uniform; a Zaya, and Purry Communications.
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Puerto Vallarta provides a stunning sculptors and artists work magic. Puerto Vallarta Adventures, then transported us to the popular,
backdrop for weddings or honeymoons. From is not only a safe city, it has charm and flavor. “Rhythms of the Night”— a boat trip to the
historic churches and all-inclusive hotels to Friendly, passionate, and willing to go above and remote island of Las Caletas where we dined by
year-round sunshine, beaches, and magnifi- beyond the call, it is the people of Mexico that torchlight and were entertained by Cirque du
cent sunsets, it is the perfect location for des- make this location the ideal spot for weddings, Soleil-trained performers.
tination experiences. Holding a running title celebrations, and honeymoons.
for “sexiest romance/honeymoon destination,” On our third day, Elise Enloe, MBC™, ABC
Puerto Vallarta was the site of an Association Experiencing the variety of Vallarta Florida state coordinator and director of educa-
of Bridal Consultants (ABC) FAMinar, thanks During our stay, we heard from Camelú Millán tion, shared information about stateside wed-
to the sponsorship and support of local tour- Vargas, MBC™, with Diseño Nupcial, Elizabeth dings and successful communication strategies.
ism offices, Tropical Incentives, and the Palace
de Petersen PBA™, director of ABC Jalisco, and Our whirlwind tour of site inspections began
Resorts. “It was wonderful to get a complete Lilia Anciola with Consultores Nupciales, who with Grand Velas All Suites and Spa Resort, a
view of Vallarta and what it has to offer,” says
gave us an overview of Mexican wedding tradi- property that brought the tropical paradise to
Lisa Chapman, of Brides Magazine. tions, weather patterns, the busiest months for life. Creatively inspired cocktails were followed
weddings (May and December), requirements, by an incredible lunch that highlighted the
The group stayed in Nayarit, best known as the and more. Local coordinators encouraged gastronomy Puerto Vallarta is famous for in
birthplace of tequila and mariachi music. The the prospect of working with their American which nouveau and familiar flavors are blended
evening of our arrival, a warm breeze welcomed counterparts and shared an arsenal of tips, seamlessly.
us, as our hosts at Palace Resorts treated us knowledge, resources, and information on the
to a perfectly set, private dinner on the lawn legalities that will make future destination We then toured sister resorts Velas Vallarta,
overlooking the ocean. events an exciting prospect. with its stunning ceremony site, and the Casa
Velas Beach Club, a charming boutique hotel.
A charming, magical, and safe city We discovered many things about the city of Dinner found us at Dreams Puerto Vallarta,
In Vallarta, history merges amicably with Vallarta as Sara Sanchez Maldonado, promoter where we ate with our feet in the sand as the
modern influences as a backdrop to beaches with the Tourism Board of Puerto Vallarta, sun set over the ocean. After, we kicked up our
of soft sand with flecks of gold glinting in the shared the delights of the city. Following a site heels at the open-air River Café Restaurant,
waves. The city sits on one main thoroughfare inspection of Vallarta Palace Resort, we were along the famous Rio Culae. It was a delightful
along Banderas Bay. It is broken into zones that able to catch some sun. Ana Corona, director evening with lots of laughter, memories, and
give every visitor the opportunity to find their of sales with Tropical Incentives and Vallarta bonds of friendship. ••
niche—the hotel zone, the marina where the
cruise ships port, and a cobblestoned downtown
with local artisans, exceptional dining, and Resources: Grand Velas All Suites and Spa Resort—
Vallarta’s active nightlife. The malecon, or Vallarta Palace - www.palaceresorts.com www.grandvelas.com
“boardwalk,” is reminiscent of the Santa Monica The K Group—www.LoveMexicoWeddings.com Velas Vallarta—www.velasvallarta.com
pier as the evening lights flicker on and locals fill Tropical Incentives—www.tropicalincentives.com Casa Velas Beach Club—www.hotelcasavelas.com
the streets to shop, eat, dance, and watch sand Vallarta Adventures—www.vallartaadventures.com Dreams Puerto Vallarta—www.dreamsresorts.com
Take a look around. Everything you see designer, there would have been no value to
is the product of an idea that someone had at those words. Had I not actually printed it, then
one time. Your desk, your chair, your computer, no one would have benefited from the words
your shoes—each of those started as someone’s I’d written—not even me. I benefit from reader
idea. If you’re like me, you have lots of ideas on feedback. The idea to write a book became
pieces of notepaper or on a white board in your valuable through a series of actions.
office. There’s no lack of good ideas. But ideas
have no value until someone takes the actions The value of a good idea? Priceless
necessary to make them reality. Are you thinking about updating or making
a new website for your business? Are you With more than 20 years in wedding related sales
Where the magic happens working towards a higher certification or level and marketing, Alan Berg is uniquely qualified to
Some of our ideas are simple. Some are com- of training so you can do a better job for your help local wedding businesses achieve their goals.
plex. Some will take a lot of time and thought, clients? Are you thinking about writing a book He spent 11 years at The Knot, the leading lifestage
and some can be accomplished quickly. or learning a new language? Are you thinking media company, most of them as vice president over-
Without consciously thinking about it, we act about losing weight or stopping smoking? seeing the sales, education, and training of the local
on our ideas all of the time. If you started your While these are all good ideas, what actions sales team and local wedding pros around the coun-
own business, that was the product of an idea. are you going to take, today, to make your try. Berg is the founder of The Wedding Industry
If you created a new way of doing your job or idea a reality? It probably can’t be done in Leaders Conference, www.Wedding-Leaders.com, an
craft, that was the product of an idea. Where one step. Rather, it’s a series of actions. Most organization dedicated to the educating and consult-
the magic happens is when you put that idea projects can be broken down into many ac- ing of highly motivated individuals and businesses,
into action. If you think about doing some- tions. Once you think about them as smaller and the author of the new book If your website was
thing, but don’t take any actions, the idea has actions, you’re more likely to move forward. an employee, would you fire it?, published by his
no value. Not only does it have no value to company Left of Center Marketing & Publishing. As
you, it has no value to the countless others So what ideas have you had this week on a professional speaker and member of the National
who could benefit from it. which you’re not yet acting? What is the value Speakers Association, the leading organization for
of the ideas you’re having right now to you professional speakers, Berg speaks to thousands of
Have you ever seen a product and said, “I had and to others? If you take no action, they have business professionals every year through webinars
that idea”? Most of us have. The reason you’re no value. If you take some actions, they could and presentations. For more information on his
thinking that instead of profiting from the idea be priceless. •• speaking and consulting services, or to get a copy of
is that someone else acted on it first. You didn’t. his book, visit www.AlanBerg.com.
Action Makes All the Difference
The difference isn’t the idea. It’s the action.
When I published my book, I heard so many
If your
website was
people say, “I’ve been wanting to write a book.
How did you do it?” I told them I wrote it one
word at a time. I started writing, and then I
an employe
e
wrote some more. Then, they asked, “How were
you able to get a book published?” I found an
editor and sent her my book. Then, I found a would you fire it
designer. Then, I found a printer. Then, I wrote ?
a check to each of them, and a few weeks later, I
had a pallet of books delivered to my garage. 5 th in gs you
wis h you knew
before you ma
de your websi
... and how to te
fix them now
Each of those steps required action. Had I only
thought about writing a book instead of putting
the words on paper, or in my computer, there A la n B er g
would have been no value to the idea. Had
I written it without giving it to an editor or
Above, left: A Riedel Crystal photo shoot styled by Ariel Yve Design. Middle: A 1st Anniversary cake-cutting party, designed and coordinated by Ariel Yve, featured on “Style Me
Pretty.” Right: A glimpse of Ariel Yve’s own, self-designed wedding, featured on WE TV’s “Platinum Weddings.” All images © Michael and Anna Costa Photographers.
Family: She and her husband, Joe, have two inspiration. Their vast knowledge and willing- get what she wants. Best of all, my clients trust
terriers and a horse. ness to share has proven invaluable. that I will bring their dreams to life, and they
Education: Attended the Fashion Institute of Goals: My ultimate goal is for Ariel Yve won’t micromanage.
Technology in New York City, and majored in fash- Design to become a household name. To have On Her Bookshelf: Tribal Leadership by
ion design. Attended Middlesex County College products, books, etc. that earn passive income Dave Logan, John King, and Halee Fischer-
in New Jersey and Ventura College in California, so I can work a bit less, spend more time with Wright, and Good to Great by Jim Collins.
where she studied business administration. my family, and travel for pleasure. In Her Free Time: I have very little free time,
On the ABC: It is the only organized, profes- Inspiration: I am inspired by business owners but I make time every day to do something
sional association I belong to. The network is in every industry who go after their dreams, cre- with horses. They keep me centered and sane.
vast and my fellow members are setting the ate solutions for their customers, and enhance I’ve also started writing a non-event related
example for ethical and professional business the lives of those in their communities. book, which is based on an incredible true and
practices in the industry. I am proud to be an Marketing Strategy: I do very little paid personal story.
ABC member. advertising. I focus on doing great work so my In the Media: Her work has been featured
On Becoming a MBC™: I’m not going to say that clients and preferred venues send referrals. I’m in The Knot Magazine, Ines Del Mar Magazine,
I am a perfectionist, but I always push myself. If also big on building relationships with maga- Your Wedding Day Magazine, Modele Weddings, I
there’s an opportunity to excel, I jump on it. zine editors, TV producers, and blog writers. Do Magazine, and Santa Barbara Magazine. She
The Business: Ariel Yve Design is a boutique, Staying Fresh: I attend ABC’s Annual has been a contributor for Your Wedding Day
event-planning company that specializes in the conference and Engage! I also go on a wedding Magazine and an expert advisor for Ojai Valley
production and design of high-end weddings information diet where, for weeks, I don’t look Visitors Wedding Guide. Plus, she’s been on WE
and events. I love designing everything from at wedding magazines or blogs, so I can recon- TV’s “Platinum Weddings” in February 2009,
start to finish—creating cohesive, over-the- nect with my own perspective and tap into “Get Married!” in spring 2010, and “Amazing
top, sensory experiences for my clients and my own inspiration. Outside of the industry, I Wedding Cakes” in May 2011.
their guests. attend business seminars and summits to see Words of Wisdom: Don’t be afraid to stake
Getting Started: I started my business how other industries take their businesses to your claim to your personal style. There are all
straight out of college in 2005, from my family’s the next level. different brides out there, and the ones who
home in California—a little town named Ojai, Ideal Client: My ideal client is a stylish, love what you do will find you.
now famous for a number of celebrity weddings. self-confident woman who is driven and On Giving Back: I volunteer my abilities to lo-
Mentors: Jean Picard, MBC™, and Toby career-oriented. She appreciates beauty and cal nonprofits—from The Equine Sanctuary and
Dodge, PBC™, have been a tremendous help and great design and will spend what she needs to Theater 150 to our local Lavender Festival. ••
Wedding Planner Magazine 29
A B C m e mb e r b e s t p r ac t ic e s
“When clients are having a special day,
many guests don’t realize wedding
professionals are working. When you
are an employer, you have to make sure Contractual Musts!
you provide a workplace free of harass-
Protect Yourself
and Your Business
ment. Unfortunately, when guests mix
with alcohol, you have the potential
for your employees being harassed. I
include a clause that states unaccept-
able behavior will not be tolerated,
the warning/escalation procedure that “There are dozens of essential ele- “Wish your brides would book
will be used if there is unacceptable ments to a strong contract for wed- faster? Create a sense of expectation
behavior, and the consequences if the ding professionals. One that should be and urgency with your cover letter
behavior is not stopped.” considered by all who deal frequently and contract. Your cover letter must
- Howard Kier, Magical Moments
with clients from other parts of the share a tranquil picture of the inner
Photography, Schaumberg, Ill.
country or world is a Jurisdictional peace she’ll experience by having
Limitations Clause. No matter how you as her ‘wedding superhero,’ the
“In your contract you should include thoroughly professional, ethical, and planner who will protect her from
rehearsal length, so if everyone is late blameless we are, remember, anyone mishaps and mistakes. Be sure to add
you can charge overtime rather than can be sued for anything at any time! an expiration date to your contract/
waiting an hour for everyone to get And it would be dashed inconvenient proposal—and mention it in the cover
there. I usually do an hour and a half, to be sued in the client’s jurisdiction letter—so she’ll be motivated to act
anything after that is billed by the rather than our own!” quickly before you get away!”
hourly charge stated in my contract.” - Jean Picard, MBC™, ABC California - Dina Eisenberg, JD,
- Veronica Foster, ABC™, Behind the Scenes, state coordinator, Jean Picard Wedding www.PosivitelyWed.com, author, Who Else
Inc., Greensboro, N.C. Consulting, Venutra, Calif. Wants a Hassle Free Contract?, Boston
“Use of the word ‘deposit’ vs. ‘retainer’ “Clients who change a date for their wedding need to understand the financial
in your contract—which should you implications at the time they sign the contract.
use? The word ‘deposit,’ even if it is list- The consultant may no longer be available on the new date, so what happens to
ed as non-refundable, can be deemed the fees paid? If the consultant is available, does the client still owe balances due
refundable if no service has transpired on the deadline date or is the due date adjusted? Finally, if penalties are imposed,
or happened. A ‘retainer’ is a fee to re- they need to be clearly stated so there is no question about ramifications.”
tain a service or services for a specified - Mark Paquette, Events Unwrapped, Denver
date or time, etc. Better be safe than
sorry. If you then state in your contract
that the retainer is non-refundable, “Define what type of contact is provided to your bride. I have seen ‘unlimited phone
guess what, it is non-refundable.” and email contact,’ which is fine, but then set boundaries—like scheduled phone
- Judy Alden, MBC™, Illinois state coordina- conversations between 8 a.m. - 12 p.m. It is key to balance work and personal.”
tor, JuWil Weddings, Hoffman Estates, Ill. - Lauren Block, Lavender & Grey, Los Angeles
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American Disc Jockey Association................ 28
Educational Programs
ABC Professional Development Program..... 20
Insurance
Wedding Protector Plan................................. 22
Invitations
Carlson Craft.................................................. 14
Keepsakes
Art Vows............................................................ 6
Keepsake Floral.............................................. 16
ketubah.com................................................... 24
Margaret’s—the Couture Cleaner................. 20
The Unity Cross.............................................. 30
Media
The WV............................................................ 34
Wedding Planner Magazine........................... 24
www.weddingplannermag.com..................... 10
Resorts
Sandals Resorts.................................. 12, 32, 33
Software
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Murphys Creative Software........................... 17
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