Hi. Aleph is a new school that offers Urdu tuition for children ages 4 and up.
We’ve made it easy and flexible for it to work
around your time, and your child’s time.
We use time-tested methods of teaching
combined with newer science-backed methods such as spaced retrieval practice. ...Psst. Here’s a quick summary of the book if you’re short on time:
Our parents arrived here from Pakistan. We
were the first to be born here and nobody knew what was going on in this new world.
But we grew up. And now we do know.
We can pass this wisdom on to our children.
Learning a second language is good for us.
Language is also the support system and framework which carries our beliefs and ideas.
What will life look like in 100 years as our
link to Pakistan gradually diminishes?
Will our grandchildren speak our home
language as fluently as our children?
Will we slowly lose our identity & values?
Nurture. پودے لگانا کھانا پکانا We invest so much of our lives on raising our children. We’ll give them healthy food, and clean water. We’ll provide a safe and hygienic environment for them. We’ll help them develop good habits, and we’ll support their education.
We will carve out a path for their prosperous
journey into adulthood.
With each positive action we take for our
children, we see them take a forward step towards fulfilling their potential and becoming the absolute best version of themselves.
But our future lawyers, our doctors, and our
engineers are at great risk of falling short and finding themselves perpetually stuck in low-paying, unfulfilling jobs. Our efforts and dedication should undoubtedly have a profound impact on their success. There are, however, many obstacles in the way.
We live in a society where social mobility is
difficult. Our children will become adults and will then need to compete for the top jobs against people from more affluent areas.
To make matters more difficult, there is
strong evidence to suggest that employers have an unconscious bias. If Bilal and Steve are equal on paper, statistics show that Steve is more likely to be asked for an interview based on his name alone.
These are uncomfortable facts we must face.
But our children may possess the potential to level the playing field with a secret superpower: Urdu. Science. سائنس Talk of Urdu being the secret ingredient to unlock you child’s superpower may sound farfetched at first. So, let’s look at a few facts about the benefits of being bilingual.
Fact 1: Studies show you become smarter.
People who only speak one language score lower on standardised tests in core subjects like Maths.
Fact 2: Studies show memory improvement.
People who only speak one language are worse at retaining shopping lists, names, and directions.
Fact 3: Studies show improved multitasking.
People who only speak one language are poorer at “juggling” two tasks or more. Bilinguals are better drivers. The facts don’t stop there. Bilinguals show an improvement in perception, greater decision-making skills, a better grasp on English, heightened focus, and are able to fight off dementia much more easily.
Neuroscientists are now discovering that
learning a second language during childhood gives people a significant advantage when attempting to learn a language as an adult.
Your child could learn French instead.
However, this would negate the distinct advantage of living in a Pakistani household. Practising language in multiple environments boosts the brain’s ability to learn.
Simply put, you can aid your child’s
development by conversing in Urdu at home.
Unleash your child’s super-brain powers.
Generation First-generation children are predominantly multilingual speakers. This advantage was sadly nullified because parents lacked the experience to guide a child through the difficulties and trials present in this country.
We are now encountering the reverse
problem. Parents who were born and raised in England are now raising second-generation children who don’t have a strong grasp of their ethnic language.
This trend is likely to continue as we progress
through generation after generation. The likelihood of our great grandchildren speaking Urdu or Punjabi fluently are slim.
A barrier in understanding between adult and
child can arise due to language disappearing from our tongues. As language wilts, the gap between generations widens. ...Gap. نسل کا فرق Aleph formula for success: British-born parent + Lessons in Urdu = Path to success Values. خاندانی اقدار The benefits of living in this country are numerous. It is a land of opportunity with plentiful resources. People have to adapt and acclimatize to their environment. This is an inevitability. We are adopting new ways of thinking, new ways of living.
However, there is a growing concern that the
rapid changes within our diasporic society may cause us to forget some of the valuable principles and lessons from the vast pool of knowledge accumulated in our rich cultural history.
The passing of the torch involves passing of
information. Some of our information is naturally passed on through genetics. We can give our children our eyes, and our lips. But the information of our values can only be passed on through language. We use language to teach our children the importance of the values. But what if the language of Urdu itself was able to shape our personalities? Could we influence our personalities simply by speaking a language?
Research in linguistics show that behaviour
and personalities can change depending on the language spoken. The findings suggest that people who speak English tend to value achievements, school, and generally display more individualistic characteristics.
So, what kind of cultural values does Urdu
intrinsically carry?
Theoretically, more collectivist values such as
unadulterated respect for elders, the importance of being well-mannered and having an aura of decency. What happens when we forget our cultural values? Confidence. It would seem bizarre to live in a world where your child forgot how to use his or her legs to walk simply because everyone else did.
However, this is akin to what is happening
with language. If we’re not speaking a second language that is easily available to us, then we are not taking full advantage of ourselves. We are limiting our children.
Similarly, a child can be highly skilled and
highly motivated. But these attributes are wasted if the child lacks confidence. If skills and motivation are the parts of an engine, confidence is the fuel.
The world is changing. We have
improvements in technology and learning methods. Our children, unfortunately, are also vulnerable to Twenty-First Century disadvantages. خود اعتامدی We are deep inside the digital age. Smart phones are everywhere. It is no secret, though, that technology is also hindering us. Families around the dinner table are talking less and typing more.
Our communication skills are degrading. And
our struggles in real-world interpersonal social interaction are eating away at our confidence.
At Aleph, we believe that the art of
conversation is a core ingredient of learning. Children are encouraged to talk amongst themselves. In this way, the development of their confidence and communication is also reinforced.
If your child has a poor grasp of their second
language, it can damage their confidence at a profound level. Identity. شناخت “I don’t know where I belong...”
A loss of identity is a feeling that is growing
among adolescents within our community. Can we really blame them if they have feelings of emptiness and aimlessness?
The youth of today have enormous pressures
placed on them. The balancing of two cultures is difficult for anybody. This pressure is multiplied when you add the factors of the increased negativity towards Pakistani culture in the media.
Teenagers and adults are pressured to feel
shame for the actions of a minority within their “group”. There are people who wish to intimidate us into cutting all ties to our heritage and history. They demand that we heavily dilute our way of life. Our rich and vivid background to lose all its colour. They desire for us to be pale, hollow shells passively drifting through life.
Our children deserve better.
We must let our children express their true
selves and embrace their identity, so they can grow up and power through the waves of discrimination to make lasting positive contributions that will benefit society as a whole.