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Thesis
The goal of all parenting is to get them out of the house, yet
the job of parenting never ________ for any of us.
An Experiential Exegesis of Everyday Parenting
1. It is ________
2. It is ________________, so provide
A. Loving ____________________—where actions bring

Parenting Solo and Duo parental consequences, ages 1-5

B. Dedicated ________________—actions have natural
July 29 Lord’s Supper Sunday Building a Family Altar consequences, ages 5-12
C. Determined ________________—where conscience
Aug 5 Promotion Sunday becomes convictions, ages 13-17
A Biblical Blueprint for NextGen, Psalm 78
D. Faithful ____________________—full responsibility, 18+
Aug 12 Smoothies for Blended Families, Prov 24:3
3. It is run by Bible ____________________
Aug 19 Establishing Spiritual Paternity, Rom 8:14-17 A. On ________________ kids
• Rules, Eph 4 • Roles, Eph 5 • Goals, Titus 2
Aug 26 Setting the Stage for Family Strength, Deut 6
B. On ________________________ kids

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 3 Kinds of Parents
1. ______ parents
2. ________________ parents
3. ____________________ parents
The 8 Keys to Christlike Parenting!
Good parenting by the Good Book
1. ____________________, Eph 4:32; 1 John 4:7-8
3 Ways to Express Your Love
A. Affection through acceptance of their
____________
B. Affirmation in empathy for their
__________________
C. Attention by consistency in _______________
2. ____________________ (Direction), Deut 6:4-7
A. __________
B. __________
C. __________ (guide, direct, correct)
D. Bible principles
Caveat: They also have an unfettered free will, which
is why God gives us a ____________________.
3. ____________________, Heb 12:5-6
A. ____________________ (quickly, calmly,
supportively), Prov 13:24
B. ________________________, Prov 19:18
C. ________________________
4. ____________________ (coming from
competence by edification)
5. ____________________
6. ____________________, Eccl 11:8
A. Through supervised ____________________
B. By giving age-level appropriate ____________
7. ____________________
The True Goal of Parenting: Grow them from
Parent Control —> Self Control —> Spirit Control
8. ________________________
Definitions
• True parenting is creating kids, then constructing
the kids you create
• Compassion is love (being kind) mingled with
________ (mercy, tenderheartedness) so that
you are forgiving, Eph 4:32
• Mercy means you act to discipline in such a way
as to break the __________ and prevent the
behavior
Point One
A biblical value system establishes a consistent,
stable, healthy, safe, and growing _____________-
_________, while crime and criminality comes on
the heels of having no divine, absolute standard.
Point Two
Faith results in confidence, and every child needs a
cheerleader who encourages them to leave
________________ behind, and give a faith-
response to their circumstances.
Point Three
Good parents ______________ their kids in the
happy times for facing the hard times by preparing
them with a mindset for facing challenges with
faith in God to either deliver them, or go through
with them.
Point Four
Do not raise a child that has to ______________ all
your bad attitude and behaviors before they can
build the godly life God has for them.
Motto:
MINISTRY FIRST
Scripture References
Eph 4:32 Be ye kind one to another,
tenderhearted, forgiving one
another, even as God for Christ’s
sake hath forgiven you.
1 John 4:7-8 Beloved, let us love
one another: for love is of God; and
every one that loveth is born of
God, and knoweth God. He that
loveth not knoweth not God; for
God is love.
Rom 3:13-18 Their throat is an open
sepulchre; with their tongues they
have used deceit; the poison of asps
is under their lips: whose mouth is
full of cursing and bitterness: their
feet are swift to shed blood:
destruction and misery are in their
ways: and the way of peace have
they not known: there is no fear of
God before their eyes.
1 Tim 1:9 The law is not made for a
righteous man, but for the lawless
and disobedient, for the ungodly
and for sinners, for unholy and
profane, for murderers of fathers
and murderers of mothers, for
manslayers,
Heb 12:5-6 And ye have forgotten
the exhortation which speaketh
unto you as unto children, My son,
despise not thou the chastening of
the Lord, nor faint when thou art
rebuked of him: for whom the Lord
loveth he chasteneth, and scourgeth
every son whom he receiveth.
Prov 13:24 He that spareth his rod
hateth his son: but he that loveth
him chasteneth him betimes.
Prov 19:18 Chasten thy son while
there is hope, and let not thy soul
spare for his crying.
Eccl 11:8 But if a man live many
years, and rejoice in them all; yet let
him remember the days of darkness;
for they shall be many.