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What Is Bullying?
There are many ways one child can bully another and they are all harmful to the well-being of a
child. Bullying includes constant teasing in a hurtful and unkind way, threats of violence,
property damage, theft of money or valued possessions, and physical, verbal and psychological
torment.
Bullying must be addressed as soon as parents are aware of it or it can cause serious
psychological and developmental damage to a child. It can lead to a loss in self-esteem and, in
the worst cases, bullying may cause so much distress that a child commits suicide. Children may
not tell parents or school officials themselves if they are being bullied. It is important to watch
your child for changes in behavior that are known signs of being bullied. If your child displays
signs of anxiety or depression or changes in personality such as fear or sudden avoidance of
social settings, talk to them as soon as possible to find out what is going on in their lives. Stay
calm as you listen to your child. Empathize with your child and thank them for sharing their
situation with you. The intervention of an adult can almost always stop bullying and prevent
more serious harm.
The cause of bullying may be that the bully is imitating aggressive behavior they experience at
home from parents or siblings who exert authority through verbal and physical force,
perpetuating a cycle of abuse. They may be imitating media violence or rough behavior they see
on television, on the internet, or in video games. Bullies may be trying to show their dominance
over weaker children in order to gain popularity or a sense of control at school. No matter the
reason, bullying is wrong and cannot be stopped by the child alone. Adults must step in and
protect a child if they are being bullied.
Bullying is also not good for the child perpetrating the behavior.