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Admit it or not, we are all suckers for love stories. We fantasize. We seek every
nooks and crannies just to keep up our relationships just like what we read in novels or
what we see in movies. Pyramus and Thisbe's love, despite being separated by a wall,
sprang even just by communicating through nods and signs . But that does not apply to
reality. Who in the right mind would love someone through nods and signs? We have to
look for something just to make our relationship blaze like a scorching sun .
One of the most crucial fuels that we need to spice up our relationship and keep it
moving forward is romance. Savoring romance improves our relationship with our loved
ones, making it more exciting and more worthwhile. However, there are times when we
forget the essence of romance in our relationship due to the commitments and diversions
we have in our busy lives. Hence, we never find the time to be romantic and our desire
and adoration for one another slowly fades, making our relationship lost its spark.
There are various means to express our romance to our partners . Some would
express it emotionally, or physically or even both. One of the ways to express our
relationship. However, there are some couples who found themselves in dilemma when
talking about their lapses and needs in their sex life marking it as one of the most
contentious subject matters that some couple spends years trying to figure out just how
it is meant to work.
The introduction of the internet in our generation makes it possible to find sex
everywhere today. Suddenly, we, students were exposed to it through pornography which
can be found on phones, computers, social media sites and even in books, magazines,
TV and radio. Although the nature of sexual behavior in our relationship has undergone
changes due to evolving standards and media pressure , still, it remains a contentious
subject matter.
Being a contentious subject matter, it seems evading sex is the only excuse some
couples can make because they simply do not know how. As a matter of fact, there are
no secrets to sex. Most of the time, everything we need to know is right under our noses.
We just need to properly plan the course of actions to achieve the desired satisfaction the
same way the auditors want their audit to be executed. Auditor needs adequate planning
to ensure that appropriate attention is devoted to important areas of the audit , potential
problems are promptly identified, and the work is completed expeditiously. They
promulgate major audit planning activities which can also be applied to enhance the
In auditing, prior to the actual audit or the fieldwork, an auditor should obtain an
understanding of the client and its environment . It enables the auditor in assessing risk
and identifying problems and in planning and performing the audit effectively and
efficiently. This can be achieved through numerous ways such as proper communication
To apply this in love making scenario, we need to treat our partner as our client .
satisfaction. We do not possess the ability to read minds to know what our partner likes
Communication is a two-way street that embraces sending and receiving messages. The
clear communicator must therefore learn to also be a good listener. We need to listen to
our partner sincerely and talk about our innermost feelings honestly. It might seem
awkward or difficult, but there are simple steps we can take to communicate effectively
our expectations, concerns, sexual desires, sexual pleasure and sexual boundaries is a
key to great sex. In this way, it can avert misunderstanding, relieve resentments and
frustrations, and increase general and sexual satisfaction within the relationship. Also,
potential problems and discomfort can be identified and addressed same as the objective
Taking into account our partner’s needs and boundaries and addressing this
properly allows us to fulfill our expected plans in sex. Open communication about it could
even provide certain benefits to our relationship. According to Montesi, Fauber, Gordon,
& Heimberg (2010), “good communication and a satisfying sexual relationship are two
Additionally, the two are directly related—sexual satisfaction hinges in part on effective
and/or dissatisfaction.”
Indeed, obtaining an understanding with our partner’s sexual desires , wants and
sexual satisfaction. Though some couples consider sexual communication as the hardest
thing to do, surely, the benefits of it will make them easier for them to have a satisfying
sex life.
but they are not reasonably expected to be experts in any other field . Therefore, in
performing the audit works the auditor needs the assistance from an expert to assist the
auditor in obtaining sufficient appropriate audit evidence in the form of reports, opinions,
Relating this to the subject matter, there are some couples who consider sex as a
taboo subject and only discussed behind closed doors. They barely talk about their sexual
problems over dinner conversations among friends or family and compel themselves to
figure it out on their own because they are embarrassed. The problem is that we are not
Every relationship has its ups and downs, and it is rare for couples not to encounter
into a few bumps in the road. One of these bumps is sexual dysfunction. Sexual
dysfunction refers to a problem occurring during any phase of the sexual response cycle
that prevents the individual or couple from experiencing satisfaction from the sexual
Sexual problems like sexual dysfunctions are nearly common to every couple. A
study shows that 43 percent of women and 31 percent of men reportedly suffer from it
(Phillips, 2000); yet many couple are still hesitant to discuss it. This can be proven in a
research conducted by Moreira, et al. (2005), which states that, “Although almost half of
27,500 sexually active respondents had experienced at least one sexual problem , less
than 19% of them (18.0% of men and 18.8% of women) had attempted to seek medical
Since we are already in an era where plenty of treatment options are available , it
time that we need to opt for the work of a psychiatrist, psychologist, sexual therapist or
personal healthcare provider; hence, applying the second audit planning activity.
Establishing Materiality and Assessing Risk
Based on understanding of the client and its environment , the auditor establishes
control risk.
In relevance to the subject matter, we could also establish materiality and assess
the risks after communicating with our partner and obtaining an understanding of their
fancies, interests and limitations. We could use the knowledge that we obtained in
assessing the potential set of consequences that may come to light and in deciding on
that should be considered before engaging into sex. We need to highly recognize the
circumstance and actions that can affect the sexual satisfaction such as the gender of the
partner, kind of relationship, presence and type of contraception and sexually transmitted
infection prevention methods we’ll use. Moreover, recognizing the possible risks could
exist is great step in enhancing sexual satisfaction. The act of it can prepare us for
alternative procedures if potential risks could actually happen. Since we already know the
things that matter after the communication or our prior intimate experience with our
partner, we can determine and neglect those do not affect materially in achieving the
desired satisfaction. We just need to trust our gut instincts and do what feels right .
being audited, either intentional or unintentional, which are contrary to the prevailing laws
of regulation. The auditor, when planning the audit, needs to assess this for it may give
rise to business risks that have a fundamental effect on the operations of the entity, or on
possibility of nonconsensual sex- the possibility that our partner or we, ourselves is not
prevailing laws of regulation, nonconsensual sex could bring out severe negative
something. It means agreeing to an action based on our knowledge of what that action
involves, its probable consequences and having the option of saying no . When it comes
to sex in our relationship, consent is really important. It's important to remember that we
have a responsibility to make sure that we together with our partner feel safe and
In auditing, noncompliance with the applicable laws can cause a huge impact to the
operations of the client. Also, in sex, complying for consent is not only a sign of respect,
it is required by law and any sexual activity that is forced or done without consent is not
sex – it is sexual assault. It is an offense and can lead to serious legal problems and it is
not just a crime, it can create emotional consequences to your partner and it can last a
lifetime.
changes. We tend to be more comfortable with our partner’s sexual likes and dislikes .
We sometimes forget the importance of consent. This can be supported by Shotland and
Goodstein’s (1992) theory of sexual activity. They suggest that once sexual relations have
been established, there are expectations on the part of both men and women that those
patterns will continue. Their research found that men and women are more likely to
perceive a resisting woman as obligated to have sex, if the couple has had sexual
intercourse 10 times before versus once or never before the event (Shotland & Goodstein,
1992).
the regular to enhance sexual intimacy. It’s not okay to assume that once our partner
consents to an activity, it means they are consenting to it anytime in the future as well .
Whether it’s the first time or the hundredth time, nobody is ever obligated to consent to
something, even if we’ve done it in the past. We can decide to stop an activity at any
time, even if we agreed to it earlier. Above all, we have a right to our own body and to
Auditors are required to ask management about the identity of related parties and
transactions when planning the audit, they are also required to remain alert for related
party information that management has not previously identified or disclosed. To be able
to do this, auditors should understand the business, what it does, the nature of
transactions, with whom it trades and its normal terms of trade . Auditors should take
account of the company’s previous history of related party transactions and consider
whether the business is likely to have related party relationships and transactions.
To associate this in the topic, related parties are important to consider in achieving
the desired sexual intimacy. Just like some entity’s transaction with related parties,
sometimes the transactions with the related parties of our partner are not conducted at
arm’s length. These parties are used to cover up fraudulent activities and this is where
There are times when our partner cannot give sexual satisfaction and we wonder
why. Several possibilities could be inferred, it could be that they are tired, work is
stressing them out or they are not just horny. If we can’t really find the real possibility why
our partner cannot satisfy us in bed, we need to possess a questioning mind and consider
There are many forms of cheating. One of the most common forms of cheating is
physical cheating. It is the act of being sexually intimate with someone other than our
spouse or significant other and such act can have a profound effect on a couple’s sex life.
However, before concluding that our partner is having an unusual affair, we might as well
understanding of the client’s business and operations, and by discussions with others in
the firm who may have provided non-audit services. With respect to the topic, discussing
this to our partner is the most proper thing to do. Our first discussion with our partner
about this issue may not go very well. If we can see that our partner is willing to talk and
work with us in handling this issue, let us just be patient and do not let our emotions
overpower our rational thinking. Analytical procedures could also be a great help. We
cannot simply jump into conclusions if we have not yet gathered sufficient appropriate
among both financial and non-financial data. With regard to identification of related parties
and assessing if our partner is cheating, Thomas Martin the president of Martin
Investigative Services in Newport Beach, California, wrote the book Seeing Life through
Private Eyes, where he lists the 20 most telling clues that we could evaluate that may
indicate infidelity. According to Martin, spotting one or two of the signs isn't a reason to
leaving the house early and returning late, business trips, holiday or family event
email), hidden credit card bills, extra grooming, scent of someone else (typical lipstick on
the collar), buying gifts we haven't seen , unexplained items - condoms in the car are a
giveaway, joining a gym, missed calls from an unknown number, coded or secretive text
possible unusual affairs, most of us consider it as a very delicate, complex issue, and we
are often very sensitive about it. We need to talk about it sooner rather than late.
However, whatever twists and turns the conversation takes, it's important to not sound
accusatory. We need to come off as curious, respectful and open-minded to maintain the
value of the relationship and analyze properly the possible reasons why our partner
Development of the overall audit strategy and detailed audit plan and preparation
Based on the information accumulated from the previous steps, the auditor develops
overall audit strategy and converts the strategy to a more detailed plan . After that, the
auditor then prepares the preliminary audit programs which contain the procedures to be
performed for each account or class of transactions. This can be applied in enhancing
sexual intimacy in a way that after obtaining and assessing the desires , wants and
boundaries of our partner, we can now make an overall strategy and plan to address the
subject matter. It is nice to put in a little extra effort every once in a while and incorporate
some of the unique elements in our relationship. It makes our partner feel special and
desired.
Indeed, sex can elevate the relationship’s intimacy and it is human’s nature to aim
for the best just to alleviate couple’s misunderstandings. Like any other things, auditing
prepared for. When we are ready for something, we tend to have the best possible
There are a lot of concepts and principles that may be related to enhancing sexual
intimacy in a relationship and using audit planning activities on this matter is something
out-of-the-box, but surely applicable. Ergo, auditing planning activities will help us to
avoid misunderstanding with our partners. It will be vital for us to ensure potential
problems will be promptly identified. Finally, it will help us to carry out our responsibility