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Parents who have securely attached children are able to think about behaviour in terms of
underlying mental states so we must offer this to looked after children - through mental
A staggering 80% of children showing behavioral problems at the age of five go on to develop
state talk
more serious forms of anti-social behavior 1(Mental Health of Children and Adolescents in Great
Britain (Office of National Statistics 2004) 2 (Sainsbury Centre for Mental Health 2011)
Offering troubled children, secure attachment and attuned empathic responses
When we are consistently and repeatedly emotionally responsive to children then top- down
On average it takes a child 10 years to receive help for a mental health problem
brain pathways…calm the reptilian part of our brain and its primitive impulses of flight and fight
The Centre for Mental Health 2015 Cozolino, LJ. (2006) The Neuroscience of Human Relationships, Attachment and the Developing Social
Brain. London: W.W. Norton and Company
In a year, over 40,000 children are refused help across 35 Mental Health Trusts in UK
(NSPCC 2016) The Genetically Ingrained Emotional Systems Deep in the Old Mammalian Part of Our
Brain
80 percent of people in prison had a conduct disorder as a child RAGE
Sainsbury Centre for Mental Health 2011 FEAR
PANIC/GRIEF (those in red – high levels of stress hormones)
Half the people with mental health problems in the UK had their first symptoms by the age of 14 ATTACHMENT
No Health without Mental Health 2011 SEEKING
PLAY (those in black anti- anxiety and anti-aggressive chemicals)
So a nonsense: (Jaak Panksepp 1998)
“Let’s just crack on with the curriculum and make these troubled children try harder”
The Biochemical Basis of Secure Attachment
Where in the brain is capacity for good behaviour, social skills, passion for learning and • Oxytocin
ability to manage stress well? • Opioids
The frontal lobes – emotional, social and cognitive intelligence - so impacted by relationship • Prolactin
experiences for better or worse that they are called the ‘social organ’ • GABA
• Ability to learn, • Benzodiazepines
• Ability to concentrate • (brain’s natural valium)
• Good Impulse control • (plus others)
• Emotional regulation When opioids and oxytocin are optimally activated in the child’s brain
• Empathy we do not want to fight (Anti- anxiety/ anti- aggression molecules)
• Ability to reflect
• Emotional and social intelligence. So what’s gone wrong for so many troubled children in their early years/childhood
INFANTS ARE OFTEN HUGELY EMOTIONALLY DYSREGULATING FOR THEIR PARENTS Parents not enough space in their minds to be an emotional regulator for their child
Under fours can have a need every 20 seconds- There are important emotional regulatory • Depression
or explorative events • Lack of support
• To show you her plastic dinosaur for the fifth time • Too many people’s needs of them
• To soothe her when she cries because her fairy doll has broken • Anxiety
• To say ‘wow!’ again when she shows you how she can hop like a frog • Unprocessed trauma /loss
• To pick her up and give her a cuddle when she hurts her knee on the toy car • Alcohol/substance abuse
• To help her be the one who switches off the cold tap when you brush your teeth • Suffering from loss or bereavement
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• Financial worries Conradt et al ( 2014) Dev Neurosci. 2014;36( 3-4):306-15. Jul 15.
• Domestic violence victim Physiological correlates of neurobehavioral disinhibition that relate to drug use and risky sexual
behavior in adolescents with prenatal substance exposure.
With children and teenagers who have suffered abuse or neglect, the reptilian brain can Key intervention to heal brain and mind: EMPATHY
be in the driving seat for much of the time Empathic listening leads to good vagal tone….
Children moving into flight/fight/ freeze Children/ Teenagers, better able:
• To learn
Effective stress regulatory systems are not established in the brain • To use life well
Those children destined to be the most troublesome offenders in teenage years already • To concentrate
distinguished at age 3 by levels of aggression 10 times higher than the most peaceable 30% of • To enjoy relationships
toddlers Richard Tremblay (University of Montreal) • To be kind to others
Gottman, J, Katz, L, Hoover, C (1996) Parental Meta-Emotion Philosophy and the Emotional
The most violent adolescents did not become more violent in their adolescent years; they were Life of Families: Theoretical Models and Preliminary Data. Journal of Family Psychology 1996,
already very violent at age 6. Vol. 10, No. 3, 243-268
Philos Trans R Soc Lond B Biol Sci. 2008 Aug 12; 363(1503): 2613-22. doi:
10.1098/rstb.2008.0030.Understanding development and prevention of chronic physical Intervention for developmental delay
aggression: towards experimental epigenetic studies.Tremblay RE. Repeated positive relational experiences (Perry 2008) He suggests that school staff record
number of positive interactions with relationally deprived children, to ensure no child who needs
NEGLECT this is being overlooked
Some children have so few [positive] relational experiences that they have [major developmental
delay] in the capacity to be socially appropriate, empathic, self- regulating and humane. By the Cognitive tasks with relational regulatory breaks (Laura Bomber)
time they reach age 10, they have only had the number and quality of positive social interactions • Sensory Play
that a typical 5 year old gets. (Bruce Perry 2006) • Water play
• Sensory Play with Jelly
Child psychiatrists often don’t know how to diagnose underdeveloped brains resulting
• Calm Boxes
from relational stress and relational poverty
one 11-year-old girl diagnosed as having: • ( all these must be adult accompanied)
• ADHD
A key intervention having a dramatic impact on the brain’s frontal lobes is attachment
• Asperger’s
play.
• Mood disorder Communicating key psychological messages
• ODD • “You have my full attention”
• Soiling • “I delight in being with you”
• Dyspraxia • “You are delightful”
• Bedwetting •
• Bipolar The number of brain connections are significantly higher after experiencing the enriched
• PTSD environment of attachment play - Barbro B. Johansson and Pavel V. Belichenko (2001)
All dysregulated/underdeveloped brain and body systems – so this child probably Environmental Enrichment
developmentally delayed at around age 2
Also physical relational play- neurogenesis so repair of brain cell death due to toxic stress
Parental drug abuse in pregnancy
Hyper arousal in 1-month year olds Two key brain fertilisers triggers from attachment play vital for frontal lobe functioning
Behavior problems and poor attention in toddlers BDNF ( brain derived neurotrophic factor)
High cortisol levels in five year olds IGF1 ( insulin-like growth factor 1)
Poor impulse control,
emotional dysregulation, substance use,
sexual behavior, and delinquency and risky sexual
behavior in teenagers
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“If we just see behavior … with no reference to the context of [the child’s] life we do terrible
A Key resource offering a wealth of ideas for attachment play /relational play violence to the facts of what has happened to him” (Professor Mark Solms)
Dr Sunderland’s DVDS “Best Relationship” series also with brain science explained 6 questions and no empathy
( available on Amazon) CP (child professional) How was playtime?
Casey: Not good
CP: What happened?
Casey: Emre tripped me up
CP: Did he? What were you doing when Emre tripped you up?
Casey : Beating him up
CP: You were beating him up …and how did we get to fight?
Casey: He tripped me up then started laughing
CP: Ok did that upset you more than him tripping you up?
Casey: If he didn’t start laughing, I wouldn’t have went for him
CP OK
Teach them about the burglar alarm in their brain and to ask for emotional regulation Resilient Teenager studies ( Book :Out of the Woods )
when they need it “The resilient kids observe other people very carefully, and think of relationships –– as if they
were greatly important. They pay attention to how they act in relationships, and to the effects of
Communication by Impact their actions on other people.
So need a quick reference one-page cover story for each child in their file “They were interested in psychological experience, and their ideas about themselves and other
History of trauma, loss and attachment- so we can think and process communication by impact – people were discerning and thoughtful”
how they are making us feel what it was like for them (transference and projection)
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The contrast-group kids never accord relationships the scrutiny the resilient kids do. They
seldom recognise themselves as the common denominator Therapeutic Holding - two agendas
in all of their connections; and the process of relationships the way they work – seems not to Agenda One
interest them at all. Hauser et al ( 2006) • In the moment to stop them biting the teacher
Use of therapeutic story triggers and strengthens the part of the frontal lobes to do with the Agenda Two
capacity for psychological thinking • To help emotionally regulate his traumatised body, which has been holding years of
unbearable shock, horror, unbearable helplessness, rage and grief.
Coherent narrative to make sense of all this and Therapeutic Life story work • At last you are there to hold him now.
• The more you are held the more you can let go
Therapeutic story develops capacity for psychological thinking
Annu Rev Psychol. 2011;62:103-34. doi: 10.1146/annurev-psych-120709-145406.The neural “When I can’t manage the volcano in my tummy it’s wonderful to know that my mum can,
bases of social cognition and story comprehension.Mar RA. (mentalizing network composed of and that she manages it with kindness not crossness.
the medial prefrontal cortex, posterior cingulate, and bilateral temporal parietal junction)
From too much loss/ traumatic loss to Violence
Use of sandplay – therapeutic conversations Children like Charlie age 6 - His father had died, whilst in his car on a mobile phone to his
Ben speaks of his pain at living with a single parent depressed Mum mother…
“Mum gets stuck under the quick sand Sad is lonely. Sad had got to be deep deep and a bit He had become very aggressive in school. The school were thinking about expelling him…
scary too..I need a deeper, much deeper sand for lonely. So you see, ”Mum and I don’t really “opponent forces” are released in the brain…namely high levels of ACETYLCHOLINE - leaving
talk. I want to say to Mum,” Please don’t sleep all the time.” you very irritable at best and very aggressive at worst. Comforting can bring levels back to
normal.
“The trouble is I sometimes get buried in Mum’s quick sand too”
The biochemistry of unmourned loss
The capacity for therapeutic conversation is key to healing When there is a withdrawal of opioids in the brain (when you are coming off a person or heroin-
for lots of practical ideas for having such conversations see : it has the same effect) then what are known as opponent forces are released in the brain.
These opponent forces involve the release of a chemical called acetylcholine.
Headteacher
“ I didn’t want to exclude him but he was kicking and hitting my staff, so I had no choice.” After the withdrawal of opiates, acetylcholine very strongly and completely washes over the
brain, flooding the upstairs brain. It can make people very angry, hostile, irritated – unless they
get help with their grief, from a person who is good at comforting and from whom they accept
comfort.
The comforting of grief, will release opioids and oxytocin in the brain – these block this toxic
chemistry of acetylcholine. This is why it is vital for children who are suffering from loss to
receive comfort
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Roe JJ, Thompson CW, Aspinall PA, Brewer MJ, Duff EI, Miller D, Mitchell R, Clow A. Knowledge of the science of child development so parents and professionals can make informed
Benefits of emotional recovery from stress offered by green space and 'soft fascination’ decisions, we will have a far warmer, kinder, creative world.
in such things as butterflies, bugs and long grasses
Br J Sports Med. 2013 Mar 6 “The world is now in a race between our slowly improving child rearing practices and our rapidly
The urban brain: analysing outdoor physical activity with mobile EEG. evolving destructive technology.” (Lloyd de Mause)
Aspinall P, Mavros P, Coyne R, Roe J.
Green play settings: as good as medication for ADHD children For references and a far fuller account: see: What Every Parent Needs to Know Margot
Coping with ADD: The Surprising Connection to Green Play Settings,” by Andrea Faber Taylor; Sunderland ( Dorling Kindersley)
Frances E. Kuo; and William C. Sullivan
Environment and Behavior, Vol. 33, No. 1, January 2001 www.childmentalhealthcentre.org
Children with attention deficits concentrate better after walk in the park. (one day trainings in child counselling skills/therapeutic conversations/sandplay
Taylor AF, Kuo FE. J Atten Disord. 2009 Mar;12(5):402-9. therapy/therapeutic life story work )
www.artspsychotherapy.org
Discipline MA in Child Psychotherapy
Choices and consequences Diploma in Chlld Counselling
Parenting through Love and Logic Certificate in Therapeutic Play
(Foster Cline)
Building the Bonds of Attachment Copyright M Sunderland 2016
(Dan Hughes)
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk (Adele Faber; Elaine Mazlish)
How to Talk So Teens Will Listen and Listen So Teens Will Talk) Adele Faber and Elaine
Mazlish)
If you swear at me, it will cost you £2 each time off your pocket money and if you get to the limit
of your pocket money, I will have to take your sound system as pay, you can earn it back by
tidying, cleaning the house etc
If you smoke cannabis in your room the consequences will be..