People say things and make promises they have no intention of keeping on a daily

basis. You can tell someone you love him or her as many times as you want, but until
your behavior coincides with that, the other person will probably not believe you.
Some feelings cannot be expressed in mere words; they require actions to speak for
them. Words are cheap, anyone can tell someone they love them, but they will not feel
the immensity of these emotions until they are acted upon.
This concept applies to almost every situation in a
person’s life. In relationships, if one partner is
consistently coming home late from work and not
answering his or her phone, the other will probably think
this person is cheating. This is a valid concern, since the
partner’s actions are running contrary to how a
relationship should be. This concern will only grow as the
actions contradict the faithful promises that were once
made. No protests of love will be able to convince
otherwise because the actions are looked at over the
words.
“Love is sustained by action, a pattern of devotion in the
things we do for each other every day.”
Promises mean nothing without proof. People lie all the
time and say things just to appease others. You can only
learn about a person’s true character by watching their
behaviors toward you and toward others. Actions should
meet verbal commitments, not conflict them. If you
promise something, people might not believe you until
they see you actually do it. If we give off two
contradictory messages, verbal and nonverbal, people
will have the tendency to believe the nonverbal over the
verbal.
We must consistently monitor our actions so that they
coincide with the words we say. Words are easy to throw
around, but it takes a righteous person to follow through
with actions that back them up.
“When all is said and done, more is always said than
done.”
The way people conduct themselves in different
situations is a greater determinant of behavior and
character than the words through which they choose to
express themselves. What you do holds much more
significance than what you say.
The act of teaching a lesson demonstrates how effective
this concept is. People want to have a leader whom they
can admire that fulfills their common goals. If you want
to convince people to listen to you, you need to do what
you say. Most often, lessons are more effective when
put into practice rather than just receiving a lecture.
“People may not tell you how they feel about you, but
they always show you. Pay attention.”
Many people have trouble expressing their emotions to
partners because of the way their parents treated them
and each other. If a child does not see his parents
embracing each other and acting lovingly toward one
another, they mature thinking this interaction is normal.
Furthermore, if children are not embraced or hugged by
their parents as they grow up, they will not believe they
are truly loved.
“Action speaks more powerfully than words, but when
you use words as your actions, you probably won’t stop
talking.”
We can apologize for our mistakes over and over, but if
our actions do not change, the words become
meaningless. You need to be careful of what you say to
someone who loves you, if you are not able to support
what you say with actions. It is much more effective to
simply act the way you wish to instead of giving
someone false hope. Do not lead this person to believe
you are actually remorseful if you are just going to go
back to your destructive behavior.
At the end of the day, whatever your actions may be will
show what you are trying to prove. If you are simply
talking, nothing is happening, but when actions take
place, you are actually engaging in this behavior. Actions
prove who someone really is while words only show what
someone wants to be.

“Action speaks louder than words ” is an age old proverb with a deep hidden meaning inside.
Most of the people have the habit of boasting about what they are going to achieve in the future in
an exaggerated form. This sounds crazy but it is indeed true. People have the habit of making
castles in the air and actually feeling and boasting that they have achieved a great milestone
without actually doing so. It is extremely essential to remember that if your achievements are
worth noticing, people will sooner or later come to know about them merely through the word of
mouth. It is better to take a step ahead and work hard in achieving your dream rather than feeling
proud about it. If for example, you are a good student and you keep saying that I will come 1st in
my class, it will not give you the pride and respect that you will earn when this fact actually comes
true. The day you come 1stin class, it will be known by one and all sooner or later.

What is noticeable about the achievements of the great personalities in the world is that they
always dreamt big but never boasted about achieving something big even though they were highly
capable of achieving more than what they dreamt of. These eminent personalities were aware of
the fact that they can achieve more than they desire but never boasted about their hidden qualities.
The day you achieve what you dreamt of and what you worked for your action will certainly speak
louder than your words. You will not even have to give an explanation of your achievements. The
world at large will come to know. Take the example of Abraham Lincoln, Mahatma Gandhi, they
achieved phenomenal results in their works but never boasted about the fact that it was their
leadership that brought a change in the world. Here the saying “action speaks louder than words”
can be aptly applied.
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Do not just say that I will change the world, do your part in changing the world and success will
ultimately follow. If you are determined to bring about the change, your efforts are bound to be
recognized. But keep a single fact in mind; do not boast about anything not only before but also
after you have achieved it. You won’t be able to work harder to achieve your next goal if you do
not come out of the pride of your first achievement. Ego and pride can kill any achievement and in
cases reduce the value of any achievement to zero. All the people who remain down to Earth have
achieved phenomenal success in the his history of mankind. Just follow your dreams and try to
achieve whatever you desire; your actions will definitely speak louder than words.
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