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Love Marriage: Resembles procedural programming language.

We have some set funct


ions like flirting, going to movies together, making long conversations on phone
and then try to fit all functions to the candidate we like.
Arranged Marriage: Similar to object oriented programming approach. We first fix
the candidate and then try to implement functions on her. The main object is fi
xed and various functions are added to supplement the main program. The function
s can be added or deleted.
Love Marriage: It is a throwaway type of prototype as client requirements rises
with time thus it is a dynamic system and difficult to maintain.
Arranged Marriage: Requirements are well defined so use of waterfall model is po
ssible.
Love Marriage: Family system hangs because hardware called parents are not respo
nding.
Arranged Marriage: Compatible with hardware Parents.
Love Marriage: You are the project leader so u are responsible for implementatio
n and execution of PROJECT- married life.
Arranged Marriage: You are a team member under project leader parents so they ar
e responsible for successful execution of project Married life.
Love Marriage: Client expectations include exciting feature as spouse cooking fo
od, washing clothes etc.
Arranged Marriage: All these features are covered in the SRS as required feature
s.
Love Marriage: Acceptance test possible you can try before you Buy.
Arranged Marriage: Product is sold on an as is where is basis. Product once sold
will not be taken back!

Whenever we talk of Indian wedding, we try to associate it with arranged marriag


es. Due to the social structure, the concept of arranged marriage is prevalent i
n the Indian wedding scenario, since ages. On the other hand, love marriages wer
e considered as a taboo among many Indian people, who do not have a modern outlo
ok of life. For them, two people should tie the wedding knot only with the conse
nt of their parents and the blessings of their relatives.
Nonetheless, love marriages are prevalent in almost all the societies of India,
given the fact that they are still considered inferior to the weddings arranged
by many parents in the country. People supporting the concept of love marriage s
trongly believe that it is very important to know the partner before marrying hi
m/her. On the other hand, people who believe in solemnizing the wedding with the
permission of parents and relatives think that arranged marriages are long last
ing. In this article, we have discussed love marriage vis-à-vis arranged marriage.
Pros & Cons of Love Marriage and Arranged Marriage
When it comes to love marriage, the two people tie the nuptial knot only after f
alling in love with each other and probably, after knowing each other for a long
time. They get ample time to explore both the good and the bad things about eac
h other, well before marriage. This helps them to develop a good comfort level a
fter marriage, very effortlessly. On the other hand, if two people do not know m
uch about each other, when their marriage is arranged by their parents, then the
y might take some more time to develop a level of comfort, understanding after m
arriage. Here, love marriage scores more than arranged marriage in this case.
It is said that compromise is a factor that decides whether the marriage would w
ork out or not. In case of love marriage, people might expect more from their pa
rtner, largely because they have fallen in love before marriage. This leads to l
esser compromises, as the person expects more from his/her partner. On the other
hand, compromise and adjustments form the foundation of arranged marriage, larg
ely because the married couple does not have any preconceived notions or expecta
tions from one another. The compromise factor might work wonders in case of most
of the arranged marriages, while in love marriages, that might prove to be yet
another cause for altercation. Due to this factor, people consider arranged marr
iage as long lasting and better than love marriage.
In case of arranged marriage, the married couple could resort to their parents o
r acquaintance at the time of financial crises or other problems. In addition, i
f the marriage proves to be a failure, they have a number of people around them
to put seek support or to put the blame on. Their parents would come forward to
solve the problems between the couple, if they have married with the elder's con
sent. This is the reason why arranged marriages are considered secure for the pe
ople in India.
On the other hand, the couples who have solemnized love marriage would have to t
ackle all their crises on their own, because they might have been separated from
their family. Resentment drives the parents and the relatives to remain dormant
in case the married couple wants any financial or moral support - a common sigh
t seen in love marriages in India. Due to this factor, many people do not want t
o marry

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