Ki Suh Park was a demanding architect in Los Angeles who always demanded total effort and wanted things done his way. After experiencing the 1992 LA riots, he took on a project to rebuild parts of LA and found that he had to be more empathetic to others and consider the bigger picture rather than just his own perspective. This experience changed his view that a victory at all costs and always getting his way was not truly a victory, and that making a contribution to the overall needs was more important.
Ki Suh Park was a demanding architect in Los Angeles who always demanded total effort and wanted things done his way. After experiencing the 1992 LA riots, he took on a project to rebuild parts of LA and found that he had to be more empathetic to others and consider the bigger picture rather than just his own perspective. This experience changed his view that a victory at all costs and always getting his way was not truly a victory, and that making a contribution to the overall needs was more important.
Ki Suh Park was a demanding architect in Los Angeles who always demanded total effort and wanted things done his way. After experiencing the 1992 LA riots, he took on a project to rebuild parts of LA and found that he had to be more empathetic to others and consider the bigger picture rather than just his own perspective. This experience changed his view that a victory at all costs and always getting his way was not truly a victory, and that making a contribution to the overall needs was more important.
Attempting to succeed in every single thing you do, to win every
disagreement, and to get to do everything your way would lead you to a myopic focus on meaningless confrontations instead of a big-picture focus on what you really want. KI SUH PARK is one of the leading architects in Los Angeles. He accepts nothing less than total effort from himself. And he demands total effort from those around him. He was known for setting records for fi ring people and insulting colleagues when he returned their memos to them with grammatical errors highlighted. When Los Angeles suffered through the violence and destruction of the riots of 1992, his perspective began to change. Ki Suh was asked to lead Rebuild L.A.—an initiative to both replace destroyed buildings and reinvigorate the economy of impoverished sections of Los Angeles. The experience changed his perspective dramatically. “I used to look through my eyes on everything, form an opinion from my eyes. But I learned that you really have to have empathy for other people, how they see the same thing,” he says. When he took on the project of helping Los Angeles, he was sud denly thrust into thinking about the big picture. His purpose has changed, from getting everything done his way to making a contribution to what needs to be done. When new projects—projects that refl ect his vision as well as the wishes of the community—open, though, “it is,” says Ki Suh, “exhilaration.” The will to succeed comes in two distinct forms. Hypercompetitive people (about 60 percent of competitive people) focus on winning all the time, regardless of the importance of the matter. Self-oriented competitive people (about 40 percent of competitive people) focus on doing well, but with an emphasis on improving themselves so that they can do even better in the future. (Glaman 1999)