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Christian Couple
Non-Christian Couple
There is a huge difference between a Christian or Disciple couple and the Non-Christian couple in terms of
handling and dealing conflicts. The Non-Christian couple usually resort to allowing time to heal and going to their
respective parents for consultation despite the fact that they have their own family already. Leave and cleave is
something that they do not value as of the moment. They believe that their own parents still have some say on their
own relationship. On the contrary, the Christian couple acknowledges that conflicts are inevitable, thus, must be
addressed properly. Praying is an important element since they acknowledge that the covenant they are part of is not
only within themselves but also with God. Instead of running away from their problem and letting time heal, they deal
with it and if at times when they still do not agree, they decide to agree to disagree. Based on the interview, the non-
Christian couple exemplifies child-centered idolatry and rule-centered idolatry. During the interview, the wife
mentioned that they have to stay together for the kids, they do things for the kids, they work for the kids and they have
to ensure at the end of the day they remain together for the kids. In addition, she said that they are very strict in terms
of rules and regulations, instead of focusing on the core values. Hence, it is more on reward policy, if they get good
grades, they get extra screen time, if they fail to meet the desired grades, they get suspended from the use of gadgets.
Some parenting methods do not work well with me. It might have been effective at some point when my
parents practiced it but I don’t find it beneficial for my own kids. For instance, instead of physical disciple my parents
use verbal ways in dealing with our sins and disobedience. Personally I find the use of rod more effective in terms of
discipline rather than bombarding kids with words that might hurt them forever.