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DONALD LEE
Copyright © 2019 Donald Lee
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ISBN: 978-1-9992109-2-2 (paperback)
ISBN: 978-1-9992109-0-8 (ebook)
Published in Canada
Except for me, the characters in this book are fictional. However,
any resemblance to people you know is not entirely coincidental.
ABOUT THE BOOK
To Jesus,
My brother and yours, may all of us become
more aware of His presence among us,
until we meet again, face to face.
CONTENTS
INTRODUCTION............................................................................xiii
PART 1: PREPARATION................................................................... 1
Parable 1: I Can Only Teach You What You Want to Learn............3
PART 2: PRACTICE........................................................................... 9
Parable 2: I Can’t Play That................................................................ 11
PART 3: PERFORMANCE.............................................................. 17
Parable 3: We Have to Perform...........................................................19
CONCLUSION................................................................................... 37
INTRODUCTION
Music is the language of the spirit.
—KHALIL GIBRAN
(Early 20th-century Lebanese-American writer, poet, and artist)
a
Welcome to my world—the world of a school band director.
You might imagine that every moment of my life is just like
the yearend concert, with all the lights and make-up and
the students behaving their best and performing flawlessly.
That would be as realistic as imaging the Playboy centerfold
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really looks like that when her husband arrives home from
a business trip and she’s been looking after the four kids by
herself for a week. Life’s not like that.
But the life of a schoolteacher is filled with teachable
moments. Moments when the antics and drama of kids
present a glimpse into eternity—when you realize the les-
son isn’t just learning the alternate F-sharp fingering on
clarinet, but something eternal, something transcendent,
something spiritual.
I started writing some of these moments down on paper.
That’s how it began. How did it end? Well, …you’re holding
that in your hands. It gradually became a project, then a
mission, then a book.
This is a spiritual book—a book of modern-day para-
bles. It’s filled with metaphors. In fact, the whole book is
one big metaphor, because music is a metaphor for life. As
Khalil Gibran says in the opening quote, music really is
the language of the spirit. And how can we possibly under-
stand spiritual things except through metaphor? The Master
Teacher is famous for his metaphors—his parables—but they
need a little updating. Hardly anyone tends sheep in the
hills or sows wheat by hand anymore. But everyone’s been
a kid. And everyone’s been to school. Everyone can relate
to these stories. You might even see yourself in them. They
are inspired by real events, as the Hollywood movies say,
but names, dialogue, and other details have been changed to
protect the guilty and to suit my own devious purposes. My
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wish for you is that you’ll be drawn into these stories and,
through them, see your own spiritual journey in a new light.
a
“You turn your head this way and let him hit you on the other
cheek as well.” I turned my head and pointed to my cheek.
“I’m not gonna do that!” Bradley declared defiantly.
The boy seemed emphatic and, to be honest, I quite
agreed with him. But I had to play the teacher. He was doing
a perfectly capable job of playing the child.
“The point is, that beating somebody up, or having them
beat you up, is not a very desirable way to solve problems.
So, what is the problem? What started this fight?”
“I just borrowed Kenny’s pen and he had a hissy-fit and
hit me,” Bradley said flippantly and, no doubt, incompletely.
“He took my pencil case. He’s always taking my pencil
case. He takes all my pens and then I get in trouble for not
having a pen in class!” Kenny gave an uncharacteristically
concise description of the problem. It was almost a good
enough reason for hitting Bradley.
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I have organized the book to reflect the typical performance
cycle in a band program. It’s a metaphor for our cycle of spir-
itual growth in life. At the start of the school year, there’s
lots of preparation to be done: getting class lists, checking
instruments, picking music, setting goals for the various
levels of bands. Then we get down to practicing: learning
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the skills, new notes, and all the things the kids will need
to master for our first concert. All too soon, the performance
comes. It’s a mixture of success and failure. Some things go
well, some poorly. Afterward, we reflect on the performance
and redirect our efforts for the next concert. This is the per-
formance cycle in Band—preparation, practice, performance,
then reflection and redirection.
It’s a great metaphor for all forms of growth in our lives.
I look at spiritual growth, which is the biggest reason we
are here on this earth. Some people have no idea they are
spiritual beings, some have an inkling about it, and some
realize it completely.
Spiritual development is an iterative process, just like
the performance cycle in Band. The more we make this
process a conscious one, the more we can control and direct
our own spiritual growth and not just bounce reactively from
one of life’s crises to another. This book uses the perfor-
mance cycle in Band as an analogy for Life’s Performance
Cycle. Lessons from the classroom become lessons in the
School of Life.
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“I see,” I replied slowly, trying to buy time while I thought
of an appropriate solution. Repeat and clarify. That’s always
a great tactic.
“So, Bradley, you needed a pen and you took Kenny’s
pencil case without asking him. Then you took Kenny’s
pen, that Kenny needs for himself. And this is a recurrent
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a
In the pages that follow, we might not actually break up
fights. But I hope you gain some insights into your own
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we’re doing. But we’re writing the note names on the music,
even though our teacher has shown us a better way. Who
is our teacher? I always turn to Jesus, the Master Teacher.
You may have someone or something else. You can choose
your teacher. Choose wisely.
Then, have the humility to follow the teacher’s instruc-
tions. We often resist the lessons, the teaching, the disci-
pline, the hardship. Don’t be like Ruby, because your teacher
can only teach you what you are willing to learn.
Reflection
Practice. You can do it too. You can learn to play your
instrument—whatever that metaphor means for you. You
can become the person you want to be. You can develop
whatever skill you choose to practice.
In your mind’s eye, see what you want to become—visu-
alize it. Or—in the case of music—hear it. Believe you can
achieve it. God does not put ideas into our heads that are
impossible for us. That’s why Napoleon Hill said, “Whatever
your mind can conceive and believe.” Then you have to
practice. It’s like the Nike slogan, you have to do it! Conceive,
believe, practice—then you will become what you want
to become.
This is a spiritual principle. What you
want for yourself is created in your spirit, God does
built in your mind, and manifests in the not put ideas
into our
material world. So think carefully about
heads that are
what you want for yourself. If, like Jessica,
impossible
you believe that you cannot achieve some-
for us.
thing, then your mind will make that a
reality for you. Don’t create a negative reality for yourself.
Imagine a positive reality of successful achievement instead.
Meditate on the person you want to become. Hold a
mental image of yourself the way you want to be. Then
practice acting and reacting the way that person would.
Practice responding with love, with peace, with happiness—
to whatever life throws at you. You will become the person
that you imagine yourself to be.
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We Have to Perform
The real test of a musician is live performance.
—NEIL PEART
(Drummer for Rush)
Reflection
In the great Performance Cycle of Life, there would be no
cycle at all, in fact no life, if there was no performance.
We must do. It is the necessary third part of the creative
process: thought, word, action. We thought about the music
we wanted to create. We held the sound of it in our minds.
We spoke it—talked about the music as we were practic-
ing, what it should sound like, and how to get that sound.
Now we have to do it. Then we will create the music, and
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Reflection
This last phase of Life’s Performance Cycle—reflection and
redirection—brings one iteration of the cycle to a close and
sets up the beginning of the next. That’s what the concert
debrief is for a band—a chance to reflect on the strengths and
weaknesses of a performance and figure out how to improve
for our next performance. In our spiritual growth, it’s more
of a constant process. Every moment is a performance—an
opportunity to experience life. And every moment presents
an opportunity to reflect. In a sense, all stages of Life’s
Performance Cycle happen instantaneously and constantly
in the ever-present “now”.
As James Joyce said, our mistakes are really portals of
discovery. Every experience is not only an opportunity to
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Reflection
We can never remain as we are—frozen in time—at any age.
We will change whether we want to or not. Our bodies will
gradually wither and wear out. But we are not our bodies.
Our true nature is soul. Bodies are temporary, Souls are
eternal. Life—even the life of the soul—is change, develop-
ment, and growth. So, spiritual growth must be an eternal
process. We often think of heaven as a place where souls
sit around and do nothing for eternity. That would be hell!
Surely God has more in mind for us than that. Whatever
happens to our soul when our physical body dies, I’m sure
that our spiritual growth continues.
It’s almost time to begin the
next leg of your spiritual journey. Our souls are
You have prepared, practiced, and eternal, so spiritual
performed very well. Just like the growth must be an
High School Band, you master- eternal process.
fully bring out the music of who
you really are. In the great Performance Cycle of Life, you
must now envision an even greater version of who you
really are.
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