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calmed down, it gets them out of the
room. Generally, those kinds of breaks
don’t last more than five, 10 minutes at
the most, but still it’s pretty disruptive.”
AND SERVICE.
Before a recent policy change limiting
the method, the school system had one of
the highest incidences of using restraint
and seclusion. He said, “It was discovered
that we were doing it more than most.
And so, we had to take a hard look at
ourselves and say why is that and what
are our practices and when do we do it?
Maybe we shouldn’t.”
Curry explained, “We need to reduce
Superintendent Dr. Daniel Curry
our use and we have a new report that just
By Dick Myers came out and it’s based on last year’s data
Editor and we just started making our changes
this school year. So, this latest report
Calvert County Superintendent of won’t show us any better. But we know
Schools Dr. Daniel Curry held his 4th An- already with our data from this school
nual State of the Schools Luncheon Jan. year, that we are much better than we
30 at Calvert High School. The Event, have been for this particular issue.”
whose proceeds benefit the Calvert Coun- Curry also talked about the achieve-
ty School Foundation, featured a recita- ment gap between minority and non-mi-
tion of the systems many accomplish- nority students. He said, “We have to dig
ments, an update of school construction down and find causes and address issues
projects and a discussion of the school that might be barriers to that particular
system’s Strategic Plan. group of students scoring much better.
But, at one point during his Power We have a couple of schools that have
Point presentation Curry said, “I’m go- been for the last couple of years focusing
ing to step aside from the strategic plan on increasing the number of students who
slides for a moment and get real honest. don’t traditionally enroll in advanced
There’s a couple of areas where we’ve placement class, low income and minor-
gotten some big publicity, not real flatter- ity kids. There’s a gap there.”
ing, in the last year.” He was referring to Curry also noted that the four-year
the controversy over Restraint and Seclu- agreement with the county commission-
sion and what he categorized as “More ers for a local funding formula ends next
Challenging Student Behavior.” year. Curry said, “It has worked well,
Curry later described the challenging especially at times when we were los-
student behavior as “unflattering facts of ing enrollment. So, we know that the
life that we have to deal with.” board of education would be interested
The two issues brought hundreds of in negotiating a formula with the county
speakers to the school board meetings commissioners.”
Public Comment sessions and many of The Calvert County School Board
the speakers were highly critical of the Foundation has issued eight grants this
superintendent and the board. The con- year. They are:
troversies have put a damper on the sys- Peace Room: Cristin Williams, Calvert
tem’s accomplishments outlined by the Elementary
superintendent at the luncheon. Yoga for Kids: Leigh Cox, Barstow
Regarding student behavior, which has Elementary
resulted in teachers and other students Creating Citizens: Jayme Pieretti &
being assaulted, Curry said it’s an issue Christie Williams, Huntingtown High
plaguing every school district and every Enriching Cultural Diversity: Megan
superintendent in the country, describing Ellis Perry, Huntingtown High
them as “more challenging behaviors than Family Math Night: Megan Zebron,
SERVICE we’ve ever seen before in our schools.” Dowell Elementary
Taylor Gas Company offers full service installation and repair for a He said some of the behavior problems Whiteboard Tables: Rachel Hull, Cal-
breadth of propane related systems. are coming from the youngest elementary vert Elementary
age children. “We have had some staff get Student Voice Initiative: Sheila Bruck-
DEPENDABILITY ner & Bonnie Brown, Patuxent High
The customer is our top priority here at Taylor Gas. We provide 24 hour hurt. This is primarily an issue for some
of our special populations. It involves Chesapeake Beach Community Mural:
emergency service and deliveries to the Sourthern Maryland area.
improving on training, it involves proper Tracy Bensing, Beach Elementary.
EXPERIENCE equipment. It involves sometimes regu- A creative lunch was served by the
Combining extensive training with 68 years of on-the-job experience, lating that kitchen.” That means, he said, Culinary Arts students at Calvert Career
you can be sure that you’ll be getting the best service available. finding “a right level of medication they and Technology Center. The color guard
might need.” was provided by Calvert High NJROTC.
He said when problems occur in the The school’s Chamber Choir and Musical
21434 GREAT MILLS RD. • LEXINGTON PARK • MD Theater performed for the audience.
classroom, some people don’t understand
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LET’S
Transportation Plan Headed for Public Hearing
Plans Growth Scenarios Questioned
By Dick Myers
Editor
TALK! cycle, but that is “not the norm.”
growth scenario” in the plan continues. Hutchins urged the plan to take note ofCalvert the fact thatLibrary, revisionsMeeting based on comments Roomheard Two from the BOCC.
The proposed plan was presented to the BOCC by roads in Calvert are connected to traffic 850 Costley Way, Prince Frederick
corridors dickmyers@countytimes.net
Planning and Zoning Director Mary Beth Cook and thar run through other counties. Route 4, he said, be-
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LET’S
The discussion of the plan was interrupted at one and ends in St. Mary’s Southern Maryland Regional Supervisor, Maryland Coalition of Families
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Being a teenager can be difficult. Stress,
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realize their full potential, cope with life’s stresses,
changes to indicate that the scenario was presented improvements.
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Homeless in Calvert:
Out of Sight but Not Out of Mind
By Dick Myers But it is Project Echo and their Echo House that is the admitted. “They know kind of the date. It’s just hard be-
Editor hub of the effort to get the homeless in a safe environment cause it takes two incomes to find a place to rent. Some
and to provide them with the support to break the cycle of them have criminal backgrounds and landlords don’t
One day Allison Buck-Stenson, a licensed counselor, of homelessness. want to touch it. And then the waiting list for low income
was getting ready to leave her office on Duke Street in According to Project Echo’s website: “In 1992 the Ecu- housing is a long time.”
Prince Frederick when she looked out the window to the menical Council of Calvert County formed a task force The Housing Authority owns three facilities, Calvert
parking lot below. She saw two girls huddled together. to start a homeless shelter: the Ecumenical Council for Pines in Prince Frederick and Southern Pines I and II in
She went out to investigate and found that they were the Homeless. Project ECHO, Inc. was incorporated as Lusby, with a total of 176 units.
homeless. a 501(c)3 non-profit and in 1993 our emergency shel- Echo House has programs to help break that cycle of
Buck-Stenson found that the girls were from Anne ter opened with 16 beds. In 2010, our current residence homelessness. “We used to have small groups but now we
Arundel County and were living with some folks in Cal- opened with room enough for 40-plus men, women, and just have big groups and we work on self-esteem. Most of
vert County, but they had to leave because of drug activ- children. More than just beds and meals, we provide a the resources are outside their therapy. DSS (Department
ity there. They had no place to go. clean, safe, family-friendly environment to those who of Social Services) now has a job source so they go over
She took them in, cleaned them up, fed them and gave need it most. Our unique 90-day program gives each resi- there. A lot of the resources are available.” That includes
them a place to sleep. The next day she visited the lo- dent the opportunity to stabilize his or her life and offers addiction treatment.
cal homeless shelter and found that they only admitted many supplemental programs that encourage personal She explained, “Basically what we do is kind of give
county residents. She continued to help the girls until growth and independence. them a structure, feed them, build their self-esteem up.
they were able to find housing. “What many people may not know is that Project We do projects with them doing hands on hands. We talk
This story is just one of many about being homeless in ECHO, Inc. has been more than just an emergency shel- about family homelessness, what the community thinks
Calvert County. Each circumstance is unique. During the ter for many years. In 2000 we began to branch out with about us and now that they’ve become homeless, what
course of The County Times investigation for this story, a transitional housing program for families. In 2012 we do they think about themselves? That’s always a tough
it became apparent that it’s not easy to get a handle on the included a program for people in recovery and opened one. We talk about family a lot because a lot of them have
magnitude of the problem. Last month the annual Point in our first Oxford House. In 2015 we expanded into perma- burned their bridges with family.”
Time homeless count was conducted, a count that those nent housing with a shared-living program for individu- The facility is run by a staff of five and there’s a vol-
who work with the homeless don’t put much faith in be- als experiencing homelessness. We have since opened a unteer board of directors. Funding, she said is about half
cause it’s just a count for one day. second Oxford House and a second shared-living house. and half grants and fundraising.
The results for this year are not yet in. The data is sent In 2017 we opened our very own thrift store in an effort Instead of expanding Echo House, the trend is to add-
to the Three Oaks Homeless Shelter in St. Mary’s Coun- to become more fiscally independent.” ing homes in the community as was mentioned earlier
ty from the three Southern Maryland counties and then Lori Hony is the executive director of the shelter which for more longer-term needs, “for them to have permanent
transferred to federal authorities who use the information is located behind the Housing Authority on Main Street housing and not just temporary. Here we kind of have a
to determine funding. in Prince Frederick, their third location. The existing fa- band-aid and we work on their self-esteem and you can
Three Oaks Executive Director Lanny Lancaster says cility opened its doors on October 26, 2009. The Housing see that their pride and they’re structured and they’re
last year the count in Calvert was 59, which includes fam- Authority owns the Echo House building. “It was easier stable. But then after those 90 days, what happens if they
ilies and individuals who are both living in shelters and for them to do it,” she said. don’t find housing? So, these houses are permanent and
are unsheltered. Estimates for this year range from 30 to Their second location at 30 Main Street was purchased it’s working with them consistently to make sure they
100 in the county. by St. John Vianney Catholic Church, Hony said, and the maintain.”
Buck-Stenson is president of a new group called Cal- monies raised from that helped to build the new facility. Hony said the community is wonderful to them. “Peo-
vert Rainbow Alliance, which represents the county’s Hony has been with Echo House almost since the be- ple donate. Our community is awesome. Very much. We
LGBTQ community. She has LGBTQ family members ginning, first as a volunteer. even have our meals provided each night by volunteers
and has provided counseling to the community. They At first, she said, “It was very hard for the community from different churches.”
meet every Friday and their membership is growing. She and the county commissioners didn’t realize that there She said the shelter’s partners “help keep this place go-
found that some were homeless. was homelessness. But back in the day there was a bus ing.” They include churches, Rotary clubs, and boy and
Her investigation led to a homeless encampment be- behind the Ford dealer, and they would be there.” She girl scout troops.
hind Walmart in Prince Frederick. That camp is no lon- added, “It was just an ad hoc old bus that never ran, and And all the agencies we spoke to said money is always
ger there. The homeless in Calvert don’t stay long in any they just went up there to get out of the elements.” a good donation to their cause because it can be used
one place because when landowners find out they call the Hony said to get into Echo House, you first have to wherever the need is. And of course, being a customer at
sheriff’s department, which shoos them away. go to the Department of Social Services for a refer- the Echo House thrift store just down Main Street, helps
Attempts by The County Times to find a current lo- ral. “The referral gets set up through assistance, like fill the coffers. They are open Wednesday, Thursday,
cation were unsuccessful. They camp in the valleys of food stamps, medical assistance, and then they usu- Friday, Saturday, from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Donations are
the country’s deep ravines and keep out of the way, until ally tell the staff worker that they’re in need of shelter.” dropped off between 10 a.mn. and 2 p.m. on those days.
rousted again. Often their piles of trash give them away. Some don’t want the help. “There are those that only want Others are doing their part, too. The Calvert Rainbow
Now, in the dead of winter, there are several options for the food stamps and the medical assistance, but they don’t Alliance is holding a Rainbow Backpack Project to raise
the homeless, particularly those who, for whatever reason want the real help. And that’s basically because of sub- $10,000 to supply backpacks filled with necessity sup-
choose not to apply for admittance to Echo House, the stance abuse or mental illness or they’ve done this before, plies such as but not limited to nonperishable foods, toi-
county’s homeless shelter run by Project Echo. and it just seemed like the system’s not working for them letries warm clothing, condoms, fresh fruit and stationary
During the day, Monday through Friday, the home- and they choose to be out there in the woods.” supplies.
less can get out of the cold at the On Our Own facility in She added, “Those that are out in the woods kind of Safe Nights is all-volunteer, and Rev. Jones said they
Calvert Industrial Park. According to their website: “On choose to be out there because they don’t want to follow could use more churches for shelters and to monetarily
Our Own is a peer support organization. We assist mem- the rules. They don’t want to stop using or they just like help. Checks can be sent to Safe Nights of Calvert Coun-
bers with information and referral serves to community their own little freedom.” ty, P.O. Box 3707, Prince Frederick, MD 206678.
agencies and services. On Our Own is a 501 (c) (3) non- Some come into Echo House and decide it’s not right Hony was asked why she’s done what she’s been doing
profit organization. There is no charge for our services. for them. “Don’t tell me when to eat or you can’t tell me for so long. “Cause if I could make a difference in one
We are operated by and for people needing mental health that I can’t come in drunk or high. I have to protect every- person’s life, it’s worth it.”
services, homeless services and/or addiction support. On body in the house.” The Safe Nights program is an option She’s made a difference in a lot of them. “There’s about
Our Own offers social support, advocacy, training, fam- for those people, she said. 120 that come through my house a year. Overall that’s
ily outreach, and empowerment in the area of rights, re- The facility can accommodate 18 men and 20 women thousands. In one year, we have over 25,000 bed nights.”
sponsibilities and self-image.” and their children. The separation is especially for the She said the job has always been personal to her. “I hear
They provide transportation for the homeless to their safety of the children. That separation is also the reason their stories, even on my first day here as a volunteer.”
location which offers meals, showers and a day room. admitting a transgender person can pose a problem. They She added, “They are labeled homeless and in here we
They also assist in transportation for the county’s night- have to make special accommodations for them, Hony are their home and we are the family. How powerful is
time option for the homeless – Safe Nights. Eighteen said. that? People have that image of going into a place and
churches in the county rotate for one week at a time in As to the waiting list, she said, “It could be three weeks. nobody knows who they are. I get the privilege of talk-
which they provide shelter and a meal. The organization It could be a month because we start off as a 45-day pro- ing and hearing them and trying to lead in the direction I
provides the transportation and the cots. gram and if we see that they’re reaching out and hitting think they need to go. If they listen, that’s great.”
According to Rev. Joan Jones of St. Edmonds United the resources and trying to better themselves, then they’re
Methodist Church in Chesapeake Beach, this season they given two-week extensions up to 90 days.” dickmyers@countytimes.net
have been serving about 15 homeless every week. They have to stay out for six months before being re-
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Assisted Living
By Guy Leonard
Staff Writer
For the past 17 years Taylor Farm, an assisted living facility in Avenue,
has given families a quiet and peaceful home for their elderly members
who need help in everyday life.
Glenn and Kathy Taylor, who both have experiences in nursing homes,
either visiting them as part of a church ministry or as a care provider
for the aging.
What they saw made them want to do a better job for those who had
become so dependent on others for their daily needs.
“It was so depressing, and I just thought there had to be something
better,” Glenn said.
“I was a care giver at a nursing home,” Kathy said. “There were too many
patients to each caregiver.
“Here, there’s plenty of staff.”
At Taylor Farm, three custom-built residences can house 10 patients
each; there are eight private rooms on the ground floor for patients
who need the most care.
There are two second-floor apartments in each of the residences that
are spacious and have kitchenettes for residents who are ambulatory
enough to get up and down stairs.
Mechanized seats are there to help residents get up and down steps
if they need it.
Both Kathy and Glenn said the living quarters are like a college dormi-
tory but kept bright, clean, orderly and comfortable.
Just as unique as the location and the residences there, are the animals
on the farm. Some of them have even been fed and raised by residents.
There are horses, goats, geese, llamas and even a pair of cats roaming
the grounds.
Glenn Taylor, director of Taylor Farm, visits
some goats on the farm, one of many kinds of Each of the residents can contact either Kathy or Glenn if they need
animals there to make it a bucolic setting. help.
“Everyone has our cellphone,” Glenn said. “We want people to feel that
Holly, one of the care givers they have access to us so we can get it right.”
at Taylor Farm assisted liv-
ing, serves up icecream for Helene Fedoriska, 81, a retired registered nurse, has enjoyed her two
residents. years living at Taylor Farm.
“It’s very clean; if you’ve ever been in a nursing home you can smell
the urine,” Fedoriska said. “The staff are very nice to everybody.”
She said the country setting was one of her favorite parts of living
there.
“It’s far from everything and I like the quiet,” Fedoriska said. “They keep
it so nice outside.”
Moreover, the Taylors say their decision to found the assisted living
facility there was a based on their faith in God.
Both had careers as produce managers for a regional grocery store
chain and decided to quit their jobs, move to Avenue and purchase
the land where Taylor Farm now sits back in 1999.
Much hard work and financing went into the project, Glenn said, to
build everything from the ground up.
They not only have a relationship with each of their residents but their
families as well.
“Our [residents’] families are here all the time,” Kathy said. “We have an
open-door policy.”
“We took a big risk,” Glenn told The County Times. “I believe God
wanted us to do this.
“The reason we did this is because somebody needs to do it; God’s
done all this.”
guyleonard@countytimes.net
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approach the Evaluating memory: What you can expect I think it would give us both peace of mind if we talked with
conversation? a doctor.
It’s important to visit a doctor and get evaluated when
Try the following you or a family member or friend is facing memory loss If needed, have multiple conversations.
if you’ve noticed concerns. Knowing what to expect can ease anxiety and The first conversation may not be successful. Some people
changes in your- help you prepare for necessary tests. attribute problems with memory, thinking or behavior to
self: stress or normal aging and may not take your concerns
Learn About the Process seriously. Write down some notes about the experience
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myself, Many conditions can cause memory loss or affect thinking location, day and time; what worked well and what didn’t;
and I’m and behavior, so it’s important to get a full medical evalu- who was involved; the end result; and what could be done
ation. If the cause isn’t Alzheimer’s or another dementia, it differently the next time.
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with as a business owner, your basic corporate business owners have mistakenly classified their
documents must address what happens if one of employees as independent contractors that catch-
you dies or is disabled. The basic corporate Le- ing and punishing employers for this is easy.
galZoom documents will not help you. Go to a This subject, alone, deserves an article. Howev-
professional for the creation of the business and er, to summarize, if someone works for you full-
get it done the right way. time at your direction, they are employees and
Does just creating the correct business struc- you must withhold taxes from their paychecks
ture protect you from suit? No. Especially not and pay over the taxes to the government. If they
if you have not followed customary business do not work for you full-time and collect salaries
procedures. The way for an adversary to get to from other employers and meet other criteria,
your personal assets is to prove that you have not they can be classified as independent contrac-
run the business like a business. This is called tors. In that case, when you pay them, you do not
“piercing the corporate veil”. Basically, if you withhold taxes. They are responsible for paying
have all your business financial statements on the their own taxes. The IRS loves to challenge the
backs of envelopes, your contracts are oral, your classification of employees as independent con-
“business” bank account is actually your per- tractors since most business owners do not back
sonal bank account, and you do not refer to your up their classifications with evidence and the IRS
formal business name when conducting business, can easily re-classify employees, requiring the
there is a good chance in a lawsuit you would not employer to pay back taxes on amounts not with-
be able to protect yourself against piercing. held that should have been, along with penalties
and interest.
To protect yourself and your business, any
TIP #2: DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT US- employer who deals with independent contrac-
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Contracts, agreements, financial transactions ment signed by the contractor and employer that
must all be written and made easy to understand. recites all the IRS guidelines and represents that
The major problem all small service businesses the contractor and employer are following such
face is not using a written contract with standard guidelines.
terms and conditions that relate to your business. Tip #5: PAYMENT FOR SERVICES
It takes a professional to help you figure out what
your standard contract should address. For ex- You are in business to make money. Not fo-
ample, if you are a wedding planner and your cusing on your form of invoices or requests for
customer cancels the wedding, who pays you if payment almost invites disputes with customers.
your services have already been rendered. Un- How will you be paid for your services? What if
less you have a contract that is very specific about the customer is not satisfied with your services
what happens if the wedding is cancelled, you and refuses to pay you. What will you do? You
are likely to be on your way to litigation. How need to focus on a policy to use under all circum-
easy it is to protect yourself with a visit to an at- stances. Imagine all of the “horribles” that could
torney to create a contract for your business. The occur with your customers and address how you
basic saying is don’t be “penny wise and pound will handle those up front directly to the cus-
foolish.” Pay money up front to get your business tomer. The rule to follow is no surprises for your
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In Remembrance
The Calvert County Times runs complimentary obituaries as submitted by funeral homes
and readers. We run them in the order we receive them. Any submissions that come to
jenicoster@countytimes.net after noon on Mondays may run in the following week’s edition.
Stephen Patrick Dean, Sr., time. There was never a child in need Holland of Bishopville, SC, Stephen and Serenity Hickman, and a great-grandson,
if Steve was nearby. Whether he or she Harmonie Hiers of Lusby MD, and Tan- Damian Hickman. He is also survived by
Stephen Patrick needed an ice cream or new cleats, Steve ner and Madison Reynolds of Vienna VA. two sisters-in-law, Teresa Trueman Gib-
Dean, Sr., 63 of made it happen. He coached t-ball and He leaves behind over 40 nieces and son, and Shirley Cranford Gibson, as well
Lusby, MD passed baseball until stepping up to be the presi- nephews and countless great nieces and as numerous nieces and nephews.
away on January dent of Solomon’s Youth Baseball, the great nephews. His legacy as a gentle- Visitation will be Friday, February 7,
28, 2020 at his Optimists baseball league, and then the man and a friend will go on in the hearts 2020, 10-11 a.m. at Emmanuel United
residence. Solomons Steelers Football league. Steve of all who knew him. Methodist Church, 1250 Emmanuel
Stephen Pat- briefly coached basketball for his son’s In lieu of flowers memorial Church Road, Huntingtown, MD 20639.
rick Dean, Sr. was team, but truly loved outdoor sports. contributions may be made to any group A memorial service will follow ar 11 a.m.
born in Arlington Steve was an active registered Girl Scout that reminds you of Steve. at the church. Interment will be private.
Virginia and was and was known by many campers at Bay Funeral arrangements were by Rausch Memorial contributions may be made
one of six children Breeze Girl Scout camp as Rockfish. Funeral Home. to Burnett Calvert Hospice House, 4559
to Tom and Edith Steve proudly served on the board of Sixes Road, Prince Frederick, MD 20678
Dean. They were the Chesapeake Ranch Water Company. or Emmanuel UM Church, PO Box 484,
perfect children and never gave their par- Steve often donated care packages to Richard Carl Gibson Huntingtown, MD 20639; 410-535-3177;
ents any trouble. troops overseas and a proud member of Link: http://eumchuntingtown.org/
He proudly served in the Army as an the NRA. Richard Carl Funeral arrangements were by Rausch
MP in the mid 70’s at Wildflecken, Ger- As an avid fisherman, Steve was will- Gibson, 94, of Funeral home.
many and Fort Belvior, VA. ing to take his children, grandchildren, Huntingtown,
He was married briefly to Terry Cale- nieces, nephews and friends out fishing. MD passed away
bro and they had a daughter, Stephanie. He was willing to bait the hooks, take the peacefully on Theodore Richard “Chip”
He was then married to Nancy Edwards fish off and even filet it; he just wouldn’t February 2, 2020 Allen, Jr
and they had two daughters, Sarah and eat it. at the Burnett
Holly. He then met Charron Corthell, Steve passed away on Tuesday night Calvert Hospice Theodore Rich-
had two kids, Margaret and Stephen Jr, surrounded by his wife, children, two sis- House. He was ard “Chip” Allen,
bought a house, got a dog, AND THEN ters, and two grandchildren. His favorite born in Hunting- Jr., 59, of Lusby,
married her THREE TIMES... song was on the radio as he transitioned town, MD on MD passed away
Steve held many jobs, which showed to his next adventure. Steve was preceded April 26, 1925 to on January 31,
his diverse talents and interests. He was in death by his parents, Tom and Edith Mattie Roberta 2020. Born July
a plumber and general handyman be- Dean, his Father-in-law, Sidney Corthell, Cranford and Arthur P. Gibson at the 23, 1960 in Wash-
fore he decided to learn about comput- his grandson, Erick Holland, his broth- Gibson family home on Cox Road. He ington, DC, he was
ers. Steve learned about computers while ers-in-law, Chester Hurt, Dennis Peck, was the youngest of 10 children (2 girls the son of Theo-
they still took up most of a room and the and Carlton Good, and his niece, Vanessa and 8 boys), all of whom predeceased dore R. Allen,
IT guys wore suits and ties while fixing Good. him. After graduating from Calvert High Sr. and Carol Al-
a problem. Steve leaves behind his loving wife, School in 1942, Carl attended Stray- lene (Warrington)
Steve worked for several defense con- partner in crime, and best friend, Char- ers Business School in Washington DC, Allen.
tractors, supporting the new technol- ron Dean of Lusby, MD. but was called back to the family farm Chip moved to Calvert County from
ogy. Steve met Charron while install- Steve leaves behind two brothers; Mike after his brother joined the Army dur- Landover, MD in 1974. He graduated
ing weather dissemination devices at (and Jewell) Dean of Richmond, VA, and ing World War II. He remained on the from Northern High School in 1978. He
Air Force Bases around the country. In Jeff (and Polly) Dean of Stafford, VA; farm until 1949 when he began working served in the U.S. Air Force from May
1993 he transferred to the Pentagon and a Brother-in-law, Basil Fox of Colonial at the U.S. Civil Engineering Laboratory 23, 1979 until May 22, 1983 in War-
worked the help desk for the Secretary of Beach, VA; three sisters, Sharon Dean in Solomons, Md. On February 15, 1951, ner Robins, GA. Chip married Julie
the Navy. of Solomons, MD, Nancy Good of Stan- he was drafted into the US Army during (Kempton) Allen on February 16, 1980
In 1997 he moved to Southern Mary- ley, VA, and Susan Fox of Lusby, MD; a the Korean War, and was later discharged in Camp Springs, MD. He was a Deputy
land with the NAVAIR move and loved Mother-in-law, Joann Corthell of Haver- on February 14, 1953. He returned to his Sheriff for the Calvert County Sheriff’s
the laid back life near the water. Steve hill, MA; and a beloved aunt, Sister Ma- previous job at the Civil Engineering Department for twenty one years, retir-
worked on base for several Information rie Jeannine of Philidelphia, PA. Lab, but subsequently transferred to An- ing on June 29, 2007. He was a member
Technology and Security contracts until Steve leaves four daughters; Stepha- drews Air Force Base, working for the of the Fraternal Order of Police (FOP),
2012. nie Holland-Michelson of Bishopville, Operations and Tracking Department. In the American Legion Post 274 and the
In 2012 Steve got even MORE laid SC, Sarah (and Robert Jr) Higgenbothem the early 1960’s he moved to the Foreign Moose Lodge 2401.
back as he became the community man- of Leesburg, VA, Holly (and William) Trade department at the Census Bureau Chip is survived by his parents, Theo-
ager for Scientist Cliffs Association. He Reynolds of Vienna, VA, and Margaret in Suitland, MD, and remained there un- dore and Carol Allen of Huntingtown,
loved his job and the people he worked (and Nicholas) Loor of St. Petersburg, til his retirement in 1989, although he MD; his wife, Julie Allen; his children,
with. In this job he loved watching the FL; and one son, Stephen (and Megan) continued to work part time in the Mary- Theodore Allen III of Lusby, MD, Nich-
sunrise on the beach, and searching for Dean Jr of Solomons, MD. land State Income Tax Office in Annapo- olas Allen (Angelic) of Lusby, MD and
Sharks teeth. Steve leaves 7 grandchildren; Travis lis, MD, until 1990. Ashly Gray (Christopher) of Lusby, MD;
Steve worked tirelessly for the South- Higginbotham of Vienna, VA, Robert After his retirement, Carl pursued his five grandchildren; and sisters, Terri
ern Maryland community in his free Higgenbothem of Bristol, VA, Matthew passion for gardening, spending count- Bowen of Glen Rock, PA and Tammy
less hours during any season, planting, Fox of Lexington Park, MD. He was pre-
growing, and tending to his many flow- ceded in death by his brother, Timothy
ers, trees, and vegetables. Well into his Allen.
90s, he could be found outside every day Visitation will be Sunday, February 9,
continuing to tend to his family farm. 2020, 2-3:30 p.mm at American Legion
Now Offering... Carl was also an acknowledged expert Post 274, 11820 HG Trueman Road, Lus-
on the local Huntingtown and Calvert by, MD 20657. A life Celebration Service
RAUSCH CREMATORY P.A. County history and genealogy, and he
has left behind many priceless records
will f9llow at 3:30 p.m. ay the post. Inter-
ment will be pruv ate.
Calvert County’s of the early days of the county. However, Memorial contributions may be made
his deepest and most satisfying passion to the American Legion Legacy Schol-
ONLY On-site Crematory was reserved for his daughter, grand- arship Fund at https://www.members.le-
children, and great-grandchildren. His gion.org/tal/donatenow#legion-org .
family’s fondest memories of him will Funeral arrangements wetre by Rausch
Where Heritage and Life are celebrated. be of his incredible love and pride in all Funeral Home.
of them.
Serving Calvert, Anne Arundel, St. Mary’s, and Prince George’s Counties Carl is survived by his wife of 61
years, Gloria Bowen Gibson of Hun- Judith Kathleen Witherow
Lusby Owings Port Republic tingtown his daughter, Alice Dawn Gib-
son Suhosky (Robert David), Hunting- Judith Kathleen Witherow, 75, of Upper
20 American Ln. 8325 Mount Harmony Ln. 4405 Broomes Island Rd.
town; three grandsons (Justin Hickman Marlboro, MD passed away January 27,
410-326-9400 410-257-6181 410-586-0520 (Crystal), Fort Benning, GA; Nicholas 2020 at Adventist Healthcare White Oak
Suhosky, Huntingtown; and Matthew Medical Center. She was born November
www.RauschFuneralHomes.com Suhosky, Boston), a great-granddaughter, 1, 1944 in Punxsutawney, PA to James
Thursday, February 6, 2020 The Calvert County Times Obituaries 23
Daniel and Alm- Barbara Riggs England Kehoe duty in the South Pacific in 1945 and the to her the past two years. Barbara’s 98th
eda Faye (Miller) couple settled in College Park, Maryland, birthday meal of homemade Maryland
Hodges. Judith Barbara Riggs where they raised their family and Jim crab cakes and blackberry pie was the
K. Witherow was England Kehoe became the head track and field coach for perfect celebration of a life well lived.
a poet, essayist passed away Janu- his alma mater. Barbara was busy with Until her last breath she was incredibly
and storyteller. ary 25, 2020, at the all the activities of the four children and proud of her children and grandchildren,
A mixed blood Glenwood, Mary- also found time to teach Sunday school, her Frederick County heritage, her be-
Native Ameri- land, home of her serve as cub scout den leader and keep up loved state of Maryland and all things
can/Irish woman granddaughter and with her piano playing. She would often Chesapeake Bay.
raised in rural Ap- with loving fam- travel to track meets with Jim – and when A devout Christian, Barbara drew great
palachian poverty, ily members at he became Director of Athletics at Mary- strength and comfort from her Bible and
she writes about her side. She had land in 1969 she accompanied him on al- attended church services throughout her
her life experienc- celebrated her 98th most all of his travels. She was an ardent life, including at Emmanuel Methodist
es with disability, gender, sexual orienta- birthday on Janu- and beloved ambassador for the Univer- Church near her home on the Bay. She
tion, race and class from a perspective in- ary 13. Barbara sity and a huge asset to the athletic de- selected and shared with her children
fluenced by her early heritage. Judith de- was born in Ijamsville, Maryland, a short partment! Barbara never got over her love the verses and hymns she wished to be a
scribed the hunger and cold of being poor distance from where she spent her last for the Bay and the family built a small part of her memorial service and reiter-
in America in brutally honest first-person years. Her parents, John Walter England summer cottage in The Willows, close ated over and over again her unwavering
accounts. She suffered along with her five and Evelyn Riggs England, were descen- to Nick’s home. Here Barbara and the belief in Christ as her Savior – and her
siblings and parents the effects of malnu- dants of early settlers in the Frederick kids and their cousins spent happy sum- joy at the thought of seeing her beloved
trition and industrial poisoning as well as area. Barbara was actually born at the mer hours sailing and fishing and collect- husband and parents and brother after her
various problems with their small-town Riggs Cottage Sanitarium (now Gabriel’s ing sharks teeth – and picking countless death.
neighbors. Judith’s attentions to femi- Inn) which was owned by her grandfa- bucketsful of blackberries which Barbara Barbara was preceded in death by her
nist issues were always encapsulated by ther, pioneer Frederick County physi- turned into the best pies in the state. She husband James Henry Kehoe, Jr., her par-
her greater understanding of class and cian Dr. George Riggs. Barbara and her could bake circles around Betty Crocker. ents, and her brother John Walter Eng-
race. Following the initial excitement of beloved older brother, “Nick”, grew up It was on one of these blackberry pick- land III (Nick). She is survived by her
the women’s movement was the disillu- in Arlington, VA, where she graduated ing expeditions that she clubbed to death four children: Courtney Ann Thomas
sionment that newly won “rights” were from Washington and Lee High School. what was reported to be one of the largest (Jim), James Henry Kehoe III (Cathy),
for middle class women who wanted an Her dad, a homebuilder, built a cottage copperhead snakes ever seen in Calvert Barbara Sue Kehoe and Mary Lou Lane
equal arena with men. Very little has in Breezy Point on the Western shore of County. She and Jim eventually retired (Gothard). She will also be greatly
changed for women of her background. the Chesapeake Bay where Barbara (af- to their cottage on the hill by the Bay in missed by grandchildren Emily Rushing,
Chronic pain and illness have shaped her fectionately known as “Bops”) and Nick the 1980’s. She loved that home and was M.D. (Nathan). Bradley Kehoe (Aline),
recent life. But she still shared her sto- spent many happy summer hours sailing heartbroken when she had to leave it for Rex Kehoe, Major Ruth Kehoe, USMC
ries with the world. Her four decades of and fishing and catching blue crabs. For good. Jim and Barbara maintained their and sisters in law Claudine England and
storytelling reflect this spirit and offer a the rest of her life, Barbara loved every- active lives after Jim’s retirement. They Genevieve Snodgrass. In recent years
rare chance to hear the voices of other- thing about the Bay and well into her often visited their home in Grand Lake, Barbara’s life was enriched by the arrival
wise silenced women. She remained po- later years she could still pick out and eat Colorado, near Rocky Mountain National of her two precious great grandchildren
litically active in various causes via her at one sitting the meat from a dozen fresh Park and traveled extensively throughout Nathan Rushing and Isabela Kehoe.
computer. The struggle to protect rights steamed crabs. She and Nick were not the West tracing the route of Lewis and Memorial donations in Barbara’s honor
and work to seek justice for the disen- only best friends but a great dancing duo, Clark and visiting ancient Native Ameri- may be made to: Burnett Calvert Hospice
franchised continued to be her forever winning many jitterbug contests during can sites in the Southwest. They usually House, PO Box 838, Prince Frederick,
battles. Judith’s first book All Things their high school years. While attending traveled by car and had an absolutely MD, 20678, 410-535-0892 or online at
Wild: Poems from the Appalachians was the University of Maryland (The “Terps”) wonderful time. But most of all they trea- calverthospice.org. Donations can also
published in 2003. With her life partner Barbara became a lifelong active mem- sured their time together at their home in be made to the charity of your choice.
Sue Lenaerts, Judith edited Sinister Wis- ber of Kappa Kappa Gamma sorority and The Willows, especially the daily thirty Funeral arrangements were by Rausch
dom #68/69 , “Death, Grief and Surviv- was also captain of the Terp cheerleaders. mile round trip visit to Pat’s Bakery in Funeral Home.
ing.” She later produced Strong Enough It was at Maryland that she met and fell Deale where they would enjoy coffee and
to Bend, a book compiling essays and in love with star athlete and future hus- a “death ball” as Jim referred to the deca-
poetry from her earlier works published band, Jim Kehoe. Together they devel- dent sweets he loved. A mid-morning Thomas Wayne Hutchins
in anthologies and publications. In 1994 oped not only a lifelong partnership but a cup of coffee and a pastry became a daily
she won the Audre Lorde First Annual fierce devotion to all things University of ritual that Barbara maintained for the rest Thomas Wayne
Award for Non-fiction. She was awarded Maryland that would last throughout the of her life no matter where she lived.. Hutchins, 78, of
“Community Builder for Decades” by rest of their lives. Barbara kept up with After 68 years of marriage Jim passed Prince Frederick,
WPFW (Pacifica) Radio in 2007. She re- Maryland athletics (and Yankee baseball) away in 2010 and Barbara faced the years Maryland passed
ceived an Award of Recognition from the up until the last days of her life. ahead with support from her children and away at Hospice
Baltimore City Council, 2010. Judith was As was so often the case with young her faith. She developed several signifi- of the Chesapeake
preceded in death by her parents, a son couples during the war years, when Jim cant health issues and moved to Colorado on January 29,
Steven J. Witherow and a sister Josephine and Barbara decided to spend the rest to be close to her three daughters. Thanks 2020.He was born
M. Reigle. Surviving are her spouse Ei- of their lives together, they wanted to to her Bible, excellent medical care and on July 30, 1041
leen Susan Lenaerts of Upper Marlboro; “tie the knot” prior to Jim’s deployment her lifelong daily habit of “doing my in Prince Fred-
sons Stacey L. Witherow and his wife overseas. They were married on May stretches” she overcame her health chal- erick, MD to the
Andrea of Chesapeake Beach and Mark 22, 1942, at Foundry Methodist Church lenges and she and her “girls” spent late Donald Henry
W. Witherow and his wife Dawn of Clin- in Washington, D.C. It was the morning countless hours together reminiscing and and Esther Upton
ton; five grandchildren Alan E. Witherow after she was maid of honor in her best sharing good food and many laughs. But Hutchins. He is also preceded in death
and his wife Jackie of Huntingtown, Car- friend’s wedding and just a few hours af- she longed to return to Maryland. The by his sister, Connie Ward and a broth-
rie F. Clagg and her husband Kyle of ter she took her microbiology final exam last two years of Barbara’s life were spent er Donald “Sonny” Hutchins.
Chesapeake Beach, Constance T. Ben- (which she flunked and laughed about it back in her beloved state of Maryland liv- Wayne was the owner/ operator of
nett of Clinton, Mark W. Witherow, Jr. of the rest of her life). Jim was in officer ing in the beautiful home of her grand- Hutchins Plumbing Inc. in the county
Clinton and James H. Witherow of Clin- candidate school in the Army and they daughter Emily and her husband Nathan. for many years. He was an avid baseball
ton; six great grandchildren Reece, Layla promptly left on their “honeymoon” to Their love and generosity allowed grand- fan, especially the Cleveland Indians.
and Chloe Clagg, Alan E. Witherow, Jr. Jim’s first posting in Alabama. From mother “Bunka” to spend her remaining He is survived by his wife, Mary
and Sophie and Bryce Legeer; two sis- there they were transferred to Dateland, time where she most wanted to be; close Gregg Hutchins, a son, Michael
ters Joyce Bequeaith of Huntingtown and AZ. They both recalled their months to her own family and childhood roots Hutchins and his wife Stephanie, and
Jeannie Day of Lusby; and two brothers among the cacti and scorpions as some and her Jim. Em and Nathan’s little boy his daughter Karen Hutchins. He is also
James D. Hodges, Jr and his wife Ann of of their happiest and in later years often was the light of Barbara’s life with his survived by 2 grandchildren, Lindsey
Owings and John P. Hodges and his wife returned to Arizona for spring baseball daily “visits” to her as he scattered his and Connor Hutchins and his sister,
Brenda of Tazewell, VA. training and sojourns into the desert they toys throughout her room and delighted June Prodoehl.
Funeral arrangements werte by Rausch came to love. During Jim’s months over- her with his childhood chatter. She want- Memorial contributions maybe made
Funeral Home. seas the couple exchanged countless let- ed them to know how grateful she was to Hospice of the Chesapeake.
ters. All of those were in Barbara’s col- for their care and devotion as well as that Funeral arrangements were by
lection of treasured possessions when she of her daughter in law Cathy. The family Rausch Funeral Home.
died. She read and re-read them thou- would also like to give special thanks to
sands of times. Jim returned from active her caregiver Keila who was so gracious
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Thursday Acoustic Music at the Legion commence at 7:00 p.m. followed by and make their voices heard. For more
American Legion Stallings- Williams dancing from 8:00. until 11:30 p.m. The information, call Commander Ward
PWR!Moves Post 206; 7 p.m. - 10 p.m. price of $15.00 per person includes soft at 410-610-7217 or visit www.MD-
Southern Community Center; 11 a.m. For your listening pleasure, join us drinks or draft beer and light munchies. Post206.org.
- 12 p.m. in the Lower Level Lounge to hear Open to All. For information call 410-
PWR!Moves is a dynamic exercise acoustic music by Ross Crampton with 257-9878 or visit www.MD-post206. Thursday
program created for people living with the compliments of the American Le- org. Reservations at LBloyer@verizon.
Parkinson’s disease and helps seniors, gion Stallings Williams Post 206. Pub- net.
Sea Squirts
and people with neurological disor- lic welcome. For more information,
ders and physical disabilities including call 410-257-9878 or visit www.MD- Sunday Calvert Marine Museum; 10:15 a.m.
- 10:45 a.m.
stroke and MS. Classes are fun and en- Post206.org.
A free drop-in program for children
gaging with challenging activities that
change with each class and include en- Saturday Sweetheart Breakfast at the Legion
American Legion Stallings- Williams
18 months to 3 years old and their care-
givers. This month's theme is “Sniff,
durance, flexibility, strength, and bal- Post 206; 8 a.m. - 11 a.m. Touch, Taste, Look, and Listen - The
ance. To register call Emily Sullivan at Pepper’s Pet Pantry Adoption A yummy breakfast featuring Five Senses”. Space is Limited
410-535-1600, ext. 8205 or the Mary- Pepper’s Pet Pantry; 11:30 a.m. - waffles, ham, sausage, scrapple, ba-
land Relay for the Hearing and Speech 2:30 p.m. con, scrambled eggs, home fries, bis- PWR!Moves
Impaired at (800) 735-2258 or online at We will be holding a dog and cat cuits, fruit, and chip beef. Hosted by Southern Community Center; 11 a.m.
webtrac.co.cal.md.us/wbwsc/webtrac. adoption with local St. Mary’s county the American Legion Auxiliary in - 12 p.m.
wsc/splash.html. and Calvert County animal rescue the upper-level Dining Room. Public PWR!Moves is a dynamic exercise
groups so these wonderful pets can find Welcome. Adults $12; kids 6-12 $6; program created for people living with
Maryland in the Age of Sail: Amer- a forever home. kids under 6 free. Bloody Marys will Parkinson’s disease and helps seniors,
ican Revolution and the Bay be available for a nominal charge. For and people with neurological disor-
Calvert Marine Museum; 7 p.m. - 8 Zumba Gold-Toning with Bonnie more information call 410-257-9878 or ders and physical disabilities including
p.m. Northeast Community Center; 8:30 visit www.MD-Post206.org. stroke and MS. Classes are fun and en-
What role did the Chesapeake play a.m. - 9:30 a.m. gaging with challenging activities that
in the War for Independence? This talk Join us on Saturday mornings for change with each class and include en-
will explore the tactical and strategic
importance of the Bay during the Rev-
one hour of Zumba Gold-Toning with Tuesday durance, flexibility, strength, and bal-
Bonnie. This is a low-impact, easy to ance. To register call Emily Sullivan at
olutionary War, including important modify, Latin-inspired, dance/fitness 410-535-1600, ext. 8205 or the Mary-
battles and associated naval engage- PWR!Moves
program—all in a party atmosphere. land Relay for the Hearing and Speech
ments and strategies. Lectures are free Mt. Hope Community Center; 11 a.m.
No previous experience is necessary. Impaired at (800) 735-2258 or online at
and open to the public. - 12 p.m.
I guarantee you will love it. This class webtrac.co.cal.md.us/wbwsc/webtrac.
PWR!Moves is a dynamic exercise
is offered through the Calvert County wsc/splash.html.
Sea Squirts program created for people living with
Parks & Rec. Register online or call
Calvert Marine Museum; 10:15 a.m.
- 10:45 a.m.
410-535-1600 x8200.
Parkinson’s disease and helps seniors,
and people with neurological disor- Ongoing
A free drop-in program for children ders and physical disabilities including
Charcuterie Workshop with Mer-
18 months to 3 years old and their care- stroke and MS. Classes are fun and en- CalvArt Gallery
edith Leigh
givers. This month's theme is “Sniff, gaging with challenging activities that February 5 - March 8
Westham Butcher Shop; 3 p.m.
Touch, Taste, Look, and Listen - The change with each class and include en- Reception February 8; 5 p.m. - 8 p.m.
SMADC and Southern Maryland
Five Senses”. Space is Limited durance, flexibility, strength, and bal- Visit the CalvArt Gallery and see
Meats are thrilled to bring author and
ance. To register call Emily Sullivan at their show “For the Love of Jewelry”.
butcher Meredith Leigh to Westham
Charcuterie Workshop with Mer- 410-535-1600, ext. 8205 or the Mary-
Butcher Shop, the Amish owned and
edith Leigh land Relay for the Hearing and Speech ArtWorks@7ths
operated meat processing facility, in
Westham Butcher Shop; 9 a.m. Impaired at (800) 735-2258 or online at February 6 - 29
Mechanicsville for a two-day charcute-
SMADC and Southern Maryland webtrac.co.cal.md.us/wbwsc/webtrac. Thursday - Sunday; 11 a.m. - 5 p.m.
rie intensive workshop focused on val-
Meats are thrilled to bring author and wsc/splash.html. Come see Arts and Hearts, the
ue-added pork production. In this two-
butcher Meredith Leigh to Westham ArtWorks@7th show for February fea-
day workshop, Meredith Leigh will
Butcher Shop, the Amish owned and “Let’s Talk” Workshop turing themed new works for the mem-
introduce value-added meat products,
operated meat processing facility, in February 11; 6:30 p.m. - 8 p.m. bers of the gallery.
from sausages and pates to fermented
Mechanicsville for a two-day charcute- Calvert Library Meeting Room 2
rie intensive workshop focused on val-
hams, and teach participants to confi-
dently cure meats via salt, smoke, and
Calvert Alliance Against Substance Upcoming
ue-added pork production. In this two- Abuse is pleased to offer these "Let's
dehydration.
day workshop, Meredith Leigh will Talk" workshops. These are free events
Maryland Arts Day
introduce value-added meat products, with refreshments provided. Due to
CBOCS Annual Meeting February 13; 8:15 a.m. - 2 p.m.
from sausages and pates to fermented limited seating, reservations are re-
Chesapeake Town Hall Council St John’s College, Annapolis
hams, and teach participants to confi- quired. To register or for more infor-
Chamber; 10 a.m. - 11:30 a.m. Maryland Arts Day is the largest
dently cure meats via salt, smoke, and mation, call 410-535-3733 or e-mail
In this meeting, we will be reviewing annual gathering of arts profession-
dehydration. CAASA@calvertcountymd.gov. The
2019 successes and forming our plans als in Maryland. With more than 500
workshops are not library-sponsored
for 2020. participants, representing every county
Fried Chicken Dinner at the Legion programs.
in the state and Baltimore City, this
American Legion Stallings- Williams Country Dance at the Legion statewide arts advocacy event con-
Post 206; 5:30 p.m. - 7 p.m. Sons of the American Legion
American Legion Stallings- Williams nects artists, educators, administra-
The $12.00 price tag includes all the Meeting
Post 206; 7 p.m. - 11:30 p.m. tors, volunteers and trustees with law-
trimmings and a beverage. Hosted by American Legion Stallings- Williams
For a fun time, come to the Ameri- makers from every legislative district
the American Legion Post 206 in the Post 206; 7 p.m. - 8 p.m.
can Legion Country Dance in the Up- in Maryland. For more information,
lower-Level dining room. Public wel- The Members of the Sons of the
per-Level Ballroom at the American please visit https://mdarts.org/events/
come. For more information, call 410- American Legion Stallings Williams
Legion Stallings-Williams Post 206. If marylandarts-day-2020/.
257-9878 or visit www.MD-post206. Post 206 will hold its monthly meeting
you can't dance, teachers will be avail-
org. in the Upper-Level Meeting Hall of the
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YoungatHeart
For more information & to register for events visit http://calvertlibrary.info
CLUES DOWN
1. __ Blyton, children’s author
2. Colleague
3. “The African Queen” writer
4. Crater on the moon
5. Toward
6. Overhang
7. Identifies something close
23. Automobile at hand
CLUES ACROSS
24. Secondary school (abbr.) 8. Sign language
1. Indicates number of days 25. Indicates before 9. Unbroken views
6. When you hope to get there 28. Male parent 10. Ancient Greek City
9. Hairstyle 29. Short-billed rails 11. Stretch out to grasp
13. Black (Spanish) 31. It pays to keep yours 12. Alcohols that are unfit for
14. Expresses pleasure 33. On occasion drinking
15. Away from wind 36. David __, US playwright 14. Humorous stories
16. Tech pros organization 38. Slang for cigarette 17. Long song for a solo
17. Wile E. Coyote is familiar 39. Vaccine developer 20. Barrels per day (abbr.)
Southern Maryland Paints LLC. with it 41. Returned to health 21. City of Lights
23976 POINT LOOKOUT ROAD • LEONARDTOWN • MD 20650 ACROSS FROM LEONARDTOWN HIGH SCHOOL 18. Clean 44. Toni Morrison novel 23. A place to sleep
19. Saints’ signal caller 45. Period between eclipses 25. Advanced degree (abbr.)
301-475-0448 • southernmarylandpaints.com 46. Veterans battleground
21. A way to hunt 26. The back
22. Poetries 48. Gang 27. Furniture-makers Charles
and “Ray”
Cross, Wood
Cross, W & Wynkoop
ood & Wynkoop
And AssoCiAtes, inC.
29. Songs to a lover
30. Gland secretion
32. 10 meters
Serving
and Associates, Inc. 34. Disfigure
Three The
NotchCommunity
Road, Suite 101 •Since 1994 MD 20659 35. Stores grain
28231 Mechanicsville, 37. Sacred book of Judaism
301-884-5900 (office) • 301-934-4680 (office) • 301-884-0398 (fax) 40. Catch
42. Promise
Group Health Insurance • Individual Market Health Insurance
info@crossandwood.com 43. Challenges
GROUP & INDIVIDUAL HEALTH • LIFE INSURANCE 47. Russian space station
Dental • &Vision
EMPLOYER • AFLAC
EMPLOYEE BENEFITS PLANNING 49. Banking giant
Life Insurance • Short & Long Term Disability 50. Served as an omen
52. Drenches
Payroll Services 53. Type of sword
55. Minor planet
Julie E. Wynkoop John F. Wood, Jr. 56. Messenger ribonucleic acid
President Vice President 57. Japanese ankle sock
58. Obtain in return for services
Call 301-884-5900 • 301-934-4680 • Fax 301-884-0398 59. Waste matter
info@cwwains.com • www.cwwains.com 61. A proposal to buy at a
specified price
65. Unit of loudness
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