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(Adapted from a talk by the author— self-sacrifice at the root of heroism can ties for the benefit of others.
ed.) be show n w ith the help of the follow ing A side from all this, selfishness m akes
analogy: us love only ourselves, not others. Th us
J
ohn cam e to m e yesterday and de- L et us suppose that a beautiful m an- self-love and selfishness are synonym ous.
clared, “I’ve severed all connections sion in a certain neighborhood has caught B ut w hy do w e have selfishness? W e
w ith R ichard!” fire. A large num ber of neighbors are m ay im agine that a perfect w orld w ill be
“W hy? I thoughtyou and R ichard w ere standing around the burning house. Th ey a w orld free from selfishness. B ut in this
very close friends!”I asked w ith surprise. are lam enting that such a beautifulhom e “as is”w orld, in w hich w e live, everyone is
John replied, “W e aren’t friends any- is being gutted by fire. born w ith selfishness.
m ore! I don’t like selfish people. U ntil Suddenly som eone yells, “E verybody N ew ly-born babies, w hom w e consider
yesterday I didn’t know R ichard’s true w ho w as in the burning house are out of little angels, are the m ost selfish, totally
color. A ll these years I didn’t know that the house except the m aid w ho w as in the incapable of m aking any self-sacrifice.
he w as the m ost selfish person in the basem ent.” Th eir only language is crying. W henever
w hole w orld!” H earing that, one person in the crow d they need anything, they cry. Th eir cries
T hen John told m e that he badly rushes into the burning building and are dom inated by the thoughts of I, me
needed one hundred thousand dollars to w ithin a few m inutes com es out carrying and mine. B y crying they say, “I am hun-
expand his sm all grocery business. B ut the m aid over his shoulder. In rescuing gry, feed me. I am uncom fortable;com fort
as his credit w asn’t that good, he couldn’t her, he gets m inor burns allover his body. me,”and so on and so forth. Th eir parents
borrow the m oney from his bank. So he B ut stillhe is able to save her life. give them allkinds of loving care day and
w ent to borrow it from his m ultim illion- H e instantly becom es a hero. B efore night. Yet the babies don’t thank them
aire friend, R ichard. B ut R ichard told him rushing into the burning house, he w as even once!
that since all his m oney w as tied up in just one of the m any concerned neigh- A s they grow up they gradually learn
investm ents, he w asn’t able to lend John bors standing around it. N ow he is a hero to m ake m utual self-sacrifice in order to
any m oney at that m om ent. Th is upset because he did som ething that the other adjust to hum an society. If they do not
John extrem ely. Th at’s w hy he cam e to m e neighbors couldn’t do. R isking his ow n learn to do this they are labeled antisocial,
to com plain about R ichard. life he entered the burning house to save sociopaths, etc.
B ut John w as oblivious of the fact that the m aid’s life. It is this act ofself-sacrifice If w e analyze hum an behavior, w e shall
he w as judging R ichard by his ow n self- that has m ade him a hero. find that selfishness is a device to protect
ishness. Since R ichard didn’t fulfillJohn’s W ho are good parents? T hose w ho ourselves. W e are born w ith this instinct
ow n selfish expectation, he w as calling w illingly and lovingly m ake self-sacrifice to protect ourselves from everything
R ichard the m ost selfish person in the for their children are good parents. Th e that threatens to harm us physically or
w hole w orld. sam e is true for good husbands, good m entally. W ithout selfishness individual
H ad R ichard acted differently and told w ives, good children and good friends. In survivalw ould not be possible.
John, “W hy should you have to borrow order to be good, they all have to m ake Yet, as w e live in society, w e have to
m oney from m e? W e’ve been friends for willing and loving self-sacrifice for oth- learn to m ake self-sacrifice for other
so m any years. I’m giving you a check for ers. Self-sacrifice m ade under duress or m em bers of the society. W ithout such
tw o hundred thousand dollars right now . m ade reluctantly w on’t be the indication self-sacrifice of the m em bers, the society
It’s m y gift to you! It’s not a loan.” H ad of goodness. cannot be sustained.
this happened, John w ould have consid- N ow let us try to find out w hat selfish- A ccording to H induism , w hatever
ered R ichard the best friend in the w hole ness really is. In the sim plest term s, our sustains anything is called its dharma.1
w orld! ego is at the root of our selfishness. Th e T o explain, the capacity to burn is the
It is interesting that the criterion w ith first thought that arises in our conscious dharma of fire. Th is capacity sustains the
w hich w e judge goodness in a person is m ind is the ego. Th is thought is a factor fire-ness of fire. W ithout this, fire w ould
how m uch self-sacrifice he or she is go- of separation. It helps us to separate our- have ceased to be fire.
ing to make for us. Th is kind of thinking is selves from everything that w e think we Sim ilarly, m utualself-sacrifice sustains
undoubtedly flaw ed, nevertheless it points are not. O ur ego expresses itself through us as hum an beings. In our infancy w e
out the fact that unselfishness is better the three w ords I, me and mine. Th ese are sustained by our parents’loving self-
than selfishness. three form the very foundation of w hat sacrifice for us. H ad they not m ade this
A t the root of anything that’s good, w e call selfishness. W hen these three self-sacrifice w e all w ould have died in
great and noble there m ust be unself- are involved in our activities— m ental or our infancy.
ishness or an act of self-sacrifice. For physical— only to benefit ourselves and T o sustain a fam ily, allthe m em bers of
exam ple, heroism is considered a noble not others, w e are acting selfishly. W e act
quality in hum an beings. Th at there is unselfishly w hen w e perform such activi- 1. In Sanskrit, dhārayati D harma ityāhu.