Religious Educaion

Cheyselle Ann F. Bayan January 24, 2011

BSN 3A Mr. Boragay

“Love can die, but it only dies when the person concerned give up to the other”

That was inspiring quotation for me… That’s right… sabihin na nating
kahit gaano mo pa pinapahalagahan ang isang bagay kung hindi nman talaga ito para sayo eh
balewala din yon.. kagaya nlang din ng kahiy gaano ka pa kahalaga sa isang tao kung hindi mo
naman kayang iappreciate ang pagpapahalagang ibinibigay nya sayo baka dumating yong araw
na di mo namamalayan na unti- unti na pala syang lumalayo sayo…Just like my experience, that
was when I was in High school,4th year…I had my boyfriend, Our relationship last for almost 1
year. So we broke up when I start studying here in Lucena. He broke up with me because he
don’t want a long distance relationship, he said and that was a painful experience for me. I
thought magiging okay pa kami, but I was wrong. I tried to be happy here in Lucena with my
friends but I can’t. I admit it is very difficult for me to move on maybe because we have no
closure on that, because he just texted me that he wanted to break up with me, and after that we
did not talk. There are times that I missed him and every time na nakikita ko sya pag umuuwi
ako sa Quezon, Quezon andun pa rin yong feeling…andun pa rin yong pain…there are times
naman na okay ako na happy ako pero ib apa rin talaga….After a year akala ko natigil na ang
kabuangan ko…di pa rin pala… To make this long story short nakamove on ako after 2 years…
finally…ang tagal talaga ng healing process ko…(abnormal daw un)…This time I moved on na
talaga…

I shared my experience because in that experience I learned so many

things. And it is like the quotation above. That love can really die, na kahit pala gaano mo pa
kamahal ang isang tao darating at darating ang araw na mapapagod ka, hindi dahil hindi mo sya
mahal, siguro dahil pakiramdam mo worthless ka na sa kanya… Giving up is my option, because
I felt pity on myself, I cried to those who cannot appreciate me, and it’s time siguro for me na
sumaya not on finding another relationship but on my family and friends that really appreciate
and love me on my weakness. They say past is past but we have to be thankful on our past
because without them we did not experience this kind of happiness that we had now.

That is my personal experience in life. A sad experience but I found

happiness to those people around me, those who can appreciate me and can stay with me as long
as I want. An experience that teaches me how to be strong and be independent. Be with myself,
being contented and learned to accept everything, learned to forgive and learned to love myself.
And now I was happy because as time goes by I become matured. I’m not a little child anymore
na kapag nadapa eh walang ibang gagawin kundi umiyak. Sabi nga nila…when you are on the
top there is no other way but down…and when you are in down there is no other way but up…
Everything’s changes…. There is no permanent thing but change... Our life is just like a wheel it
is not always happiness, there are times that we can feel loneliness or sadness…Learn to be
happy… and learn to appreciate and love especially yourself…