The Art Of Self Recognition
By Komana Tembo
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t’s the 21st century where technology booms everyday, new things are being invented hourly and people connect from all around the world. Sadly with all these things and much more people feel more alone than ever. Young people in their early teens and twenties they are already experiencing regular stress, panic attacks and high levels of anxiety. With powerful tools such as social media platforms very few use them as tools to promote positiveness.
You may note that there individuals that have a lot of people following them on their social media platforms or are financially well enabled but have suffered enormously psychology-wise imagine how many more ordinary people go throw this globally?
Just because they do not care or don’t talk about it that much should you not care.
I personally know how it feels to look strong on the surface yet surfer so much on the inside, having people you trust ad love walk away from you when the going gets tough and even questioning the sole purpose of my existence.
This book is to help those who are going through depression, rough patches in life,inspire and motivate or for those who simply just want to improve on themselves mental-wise.
I can not emphasize enough that your presence in this word matters, you may have no one that validates, encourages, cares or loves you but that should not be the reason you quite on life.
I’ve personally learned that being at your very lowest reviles who is and who is not meant to be in your life, things happen to enlighten us of our surroundings and what we are to do next. As much as we pray for good breaks in life we ought to be thankful for the bad breaks as well, the reason being it’s better to know what holds you back so you can make better decisions on how to move forward from that particular scenario.
Komana Tembo
Komana Tembo is a self made author, aviation, photography, cinematographer enthusiast and an aspiring public influencer. Majored in computer science he is establishing multiple companies aimed at providing services to all classes of life and drawing diversity though out the tech world.His love and desire to contribute to the communities inspires many, in 2013 he over saw a group of international volunteers in South Africa that was in charge of distributing food and supplies to homeless people on the streets of Johannesburg. In Tanzania alone he has hand built over 300 Church facilities for communities in need with a non profit organization. His engagement to public health sectors, education systems, equality and youth empowerment doesn’t go unnoticed.
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The Art Of Self Recognition - Komana Tembo
The Art Of Self Recognition
Author
Komana Tembo
Editor & Co-Author
Sylvester Tembo
2020
Dedication
It’s the 21st century where technology booms everyday, new things are being invented hourly and people connect from all around the world. Sadly with all these things and much more people feel more alone than ever. Young people in their early teens and twenties they are already experiencing regular stress, panic attacks and high levels of anxiety. With powerful tools such as social media platforms very few use them as tools to promote positiveness.
You may note that there individuals that have a lot of people following them on their social media platforms or are financially well enabled but have suffered enormously psychology-wise imagine how many more ordinary people go throw this globally?
Just because they do not care or don’t talk about it that much should you not care.
I personally know how it feels to look strong on the surface yet surfer so much on the inside, having people you trust ad love walk away from you when the going gets tough and even questioning the sole purpose of my existence.
This book is to help those who are going through depression, rough patches in life,inspire and motivate or for those who simply just want to improve on themselves mental-wise.
I can not emphasize enough that your presence in this word matters, you may have no one that validates, encourages, cares or loves you but that should not be the reason you quite on life.
I’ve personally learned that being at your very lowest reviles who is and who is not meant to be in your life, things happen to enlighten us of our surroundings and what we are to do next. As much as we pray for good breaks in life we ought to be thankful for the bad breaks as well, the reason being it’s better to know what holds you back so you can make better decisions on how to move forward from that particular scenario.
A special note of gratitude
To My father for being an amazing mentor through out the course of witting this book as well as my family for the enormous support and friends that have stuck out through and through!
Writer’s Note
To fully understand ourselves and the purpose of our existence can be an overwhelming thing. If ever we did discover the meaning, it would if we assume in any case be incomprehensible yet, in truth, the subject is for everyone, it is for all of us to wonder about, and define a meaningful existence.
However, knowing ourselves gives us a clear picture of what life has to offer to our existence. Each one of us has a unique role-play in our today life to form a complete meaning of our purpose of existence.
We may lack confidence to confront someone to speak to about our pain, problems or weaknesses that we wish we could solve. Therefore, you will learn to first tackle your own personal battle of getting to know yourself in a different perspective, showing you the value of yourself and the impact you pose to the society around you.
This book is designed to walk you through daily life situations that will be needed for you to make positive decisions in critical moments and yet be able to embrace the joy of helping others in one way, or another.
CHAPTER ONE
Who Am I
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A person’s value isn’t measured by awards, wealth, status , sexual orientation nor his or her race
but by empathy and the quality of service to others
- Komana Tembo -.
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How many times have you ever asked yourself, ‘Who am I ?’ Am I a father or mother, a husband or a wife, a friend, a doctor, a passenger or a patient? The unhidden truth is that you are a son/daughter because you have a father/mother. You are a husband because you have a wife, a mother because you have children and a family to take care of. An explorer because you are on a journey. All your identities, everything you believe yourself to be, are all dependent on something else. So then, who are you? A father, a husband or a traveler?
By not knowing the answer to the question, 'Who am I?,' you keep on creating new identities of yourself, consequently going farther away from your true Self. All the suffering in life is because of not knowing your identity. Until you realize your true Self, you’ll believe yourself to be the same. that has been given and entitled to you.
So who are you? In actuality, you are a perpetual Soul. For an infinite past, the Soul has been hidden beneath a veil of ignorance. Due to this, we have been unable to experience the true Self.
No one really has any suspicions or doubts regarding the issue of, ‘Who am I?’ However, that suspicion does not arise in the first place! On the contrary, we strengthen our ignorance of our identity and because of that, anger-pride-attachment-greed remains intact. One has held on to the non-truth, this has caused an awareness of this non-truth to be the truth. If one hangs on to the non-truth for a long period, that non-truth becomes the truth for him. If the non-truth becomes deeply ingrained in his belief, it becomes the truth and then he will never come to the realization that it is the non-truth; it will always be the truth for him.
Hence, anger-pride-attachment-greediness will go away if suspicions about ones identity arises, but such suspicions never go. How would they? Who would help you in doing so? Man has been suspicion-free about his real identity for endless past lives, who can create suspicion in this matter? Whatever name one has been given in any life, he or she assumed it to be the truth. Suspicion has