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Genograma Sexual: Uma Estratégia de

Intervenção em Terapia de Casal¹

Betina Casanova Forgearini²


Helena Centeno Hintz³

Resumo

Hof e Berman, em 1986, desenvolveram o genograma sexual, instru-


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em suas famílias de origem, com suas vivências atuais em sexualidade.
Frente a esta ideia, será apresentado um estudo de caso em que o instru-
mento foi utilizado para auxiliar na compreensão dos padrões atuais de com-
portamento do casal em questão, assim como as origens destes padrões.
Apresentamos, no decorrer do artigo, estudos teóricos sobre a transmissão
de padrões familiares exercidas pela família de origem, a formação do casal
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da vida dos cônjuges, correlacionando estes temas com a prática clínica.
Palavras-chave: transgeracionalidade; família de origem; sexualida-
de; intimidade; genograma sexual.

Sexual Genogram: An Intervention


Strategy in Couple Therapy

Abstract

Hof and Berman, in 1986, developed the sexual genogram, an ins-


trument created in order to relate the individual experiences in the family
of origin with the current sexuality of the couple. This paper presents a
case study in which the sexual genogram was used to assist a couple to
understand their present behavior patterns, as well as the origin of those
patterns. We present theoretical studies about the family patterns transmis-

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de coordenação do Domus, orientadora do trabalho de conclusão.

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sion exercised by the family of origin, the couple formation according to the
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life, correlating those aspects with clinical practice.
Keywords: transgenerationality; family of origin; sexuality; intimacy;
sexual genogram.

Introdução

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Transgeracionalidade

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de relacionamento que este irá desenvolver durante a vida. (Boszormenyi-
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são:
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família considera certo, formam a base da identidade familiar. Mito familiar
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mitidas a seus descendentes.
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um equilíbrio na relação com a família de origem.

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O casamento

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que ocorre na intimidade do casal.
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de se diferenciar emocionalmente de sua família de origem. A habilidade
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de casal existe um aumento gradual da aceitação, tolerância e até da ca-
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eterna condição de ser um desconhecido na nova família, um agregado que
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entre dois indivíduos, mas entre duas famílias.
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através do encontro dos sistemas de crenças das famílias de origem dos
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de origem, e é no casamento que ocorre o encaixe entre sistemas míticos
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intergeracionais.
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mília de origem e a qualidade do relacionamento conjugal, além de entender

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que o distanciamento das famílias de origem é saudável. A mesma autora


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o estabelecimento de vínculos afetivos, as características das alianças
estabelecidas entre o casal e a atração amorosa e sexual.

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is negotiable. Sex as an act of love-being and intimacy can only be
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outro ser humano dentro de si mesmo, reconhecendo que existem riscos
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são negociáveis em uma relação de casal, ao contrário do uso do dinheiro,
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que a modernidade traz ao conceito de sexualidade, agora diferenciado de
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Os casais, que já não sonham juntos ou que tenham sonhos divergentes,
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relação, mas é um indicador crítico que deve ser levado em conta.
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afeto é demonstrado através do ato sexual, enquanto o outro acredita na
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Berman e Hof (1987) consideram que a sexualidade constitui uma
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98 Genograma Sexual - B. C. Forgearini; H. C. Hintz

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de disfunção sexual entre os membros da díade tornam os casais mais
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$VH[XDOLGDGHpRSURFHVVRRQGHH[SUHVVDPRVRTXHVRPRVFRPR
SHQVDPRVHVHQWLPRVVREUHQRVVRJrQHURQRVVRVyUJmRVVH[XDLVQRVVR
FRUSRQRVVDDXWRLPDJHPHVFROKDVHSUHIHUrQFLDV$H[SHULrQFLDGHHVWDU
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Leiblum descreve a intimidade sexual:

A intimidade sexual é um ato de generosidade e egocentrismo.


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HQJROLGRVHQRVSHUGHUPRV$RPHVPRWHPSRGHYHPRVVHUFDSD-
]HVGHHQWUDUHPQyVPHVPRVGHQRVUHQGHUPRVjDXWRDEVRUomR
TXDQGRQDSUHVHQoDGRRXWURDFUHGLWDQGRTXHHOHDLQGDHVWDUiOi
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oblitera o outro de uma forma que vai contra o ideal de intimidade.
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DSHQDVFRPLQGLYtGXRVTXHQmRFRQKHFHPEHPRXFRPTXHPQmR
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É nessa intimidade que se estabelece a consciência do outro e o


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IDWRUHVUHVSRQViYHLVSHODVH[XDOLGDGHGRFDVDO$FUHGLWDTXHRIRUWDOHFL-
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&RQVLGHUDTXHDPRUHGHVHMRWrPUHODomRFRQÀLWDQWHRXVHMDRSULPHLUR
EXVFDDHVWDELOLGDGHHQTXDQWRRVHJXQGRGHSHQGHGDQRYLGDGHGRPLV-
WpULRGRLQHVSHUDGR$IDPLOLDULGDGHHDFRQWLQXLGDGHSRGHPVHJXQGRD
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³GLVWkQFLDFRQIRUWiYHO´GRRXWURDSRQWRGHGLIHUHQFLiORGHQyVPHVPRV
(Leiblum, 2012).

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Genograma Sexual - B. C. Forgearini; H. C. Hintz 99

Genograma sexual

Não existem áreas da relação conjugal nas quais as famílias de


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PDQ H:DFKWHO ,Q+RIH%HUPDQ SDUDFULDUXPLQV-
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H YLYrQFLD QDV IDPtOLDV GH RULJHP LQÀXHQFLDP HP VXD YLYrQFLD DWXDO GH
VH[XDOLGDGHHLQWLPLGDGH2JHQRJUDPDFOiVVLFRpXPGLDJUDPDGHSHOR
PHQRVWUrVJHUDo}HVTXHFRQWrPDVSHVVRDVTXHID]HPSDUWHGDIDPtOLD
EHPFRPRVmRVLQDOL]DGRVQDVFLPHQWRVyELWRVFDVDPHQWRVHVHSDUDo}HV
HDOpPGLVVRLQIRUPDo}HVVREUHFRPRVHUHODFLRQDPRVPHPEURVGDID-
PtOLD(VWHPDSDIDFLOLWDDFRPSUHHQVmRGHPXLWDVIRUoDVTXHWrPLPSDFWR
no desenvolvimento e funcionamento dos sistemas individual, de casal e de
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2 JHQRJUDPD VH[XDO p XPD IRUPD GH REWHU LQIRUPDo}HV TXH SR-
GHPDX[LOLDURLQGLYtGXRDFRPSUHHQGHURVSDGU}HVGHLQWHUDomRIDPLOLDU
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GDVJHUDo}HV(VWHLQVWUXPHQWRSURSRUFLRQDDH[SUHVVmRGHDIHWRVDQWHV
ocultos e faz com que o indivíduo tenha uma visão mais objetiva de ques-
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do casal (Hof & Berman, 1986).
Para utilizar o genograma sexual é indicado que a avaliação inicial
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de desenvolvimento individual, de casal e de sistemas familiares. Na fase
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HVFXWDPDKLVWyULDGRRXWURGHXPDQRYDSHUVSHFWLYDHFRPPDLVVHQVLELOL-
GDGHHHPSDWLDFRPRUHVXOWDGRGHVXDHVWUXWXUDomRDWUDYpVGDYLYrQFLDGR

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100 Genograma Sexual - B. C. Forgearini; H. C. Hintz

PHVPRSURFHVVR$OpPGLVVRXPSRGHFRPSOHPHQWDUFRPLQIRUPDo}HVR
GLDJUDPDGRRXWURMiTXHQmRHVWiHPRFLRQDOPHQWHHQYROYLGRQRSURFHVVR
(Hof & Berman, 1986).
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FDVDOTXHVW}HVUHODFLRQDGDVDH[SHULrQFLDVHPHQVDJHQVGHkPELWRVH[XDO
vivenciadas na família de origem, bem como ideias que outros membros
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Hof e Berman (1986):

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Fonte: Hof & Berman (1986)7

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VROLFLWDGRTXHFDGDXPFRQWHVXDKLVWyULDHRXoDDGRRXWURSDUDFROHWDU
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7
Tradução das autoras.

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Genograma Sexual - B. C. Forgearini; H. C. Hintz 101

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lacionamento sexual. É na discussão dos insights, sentimentos e legados
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HREVHUYDomRREMHWLYDRTXHRFRUUHXHPVXDIDPtOLDHFRPRWHYHLPSDFWR
sobre todos os seus membros (Berman & Hof, 1987).
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GRVF{QMXJHVjVHVVmRWHUDSrXWLFD6XJHUHTXHVHIDoDVHSDUDGDPHQWHR
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IDPtOLDGHRULJHPpHVVHQFLDOWDQWRHPWHUDSLDGHFDVDOTXDQWRHPWHUDSLDV
GHIDPtOLDHLQGLYLGXDO5HODWDTXHHPVXDH[SHULrQFLDSHUFHEHUHVLVWrQFLD
GHPXLWRVSDFLHQWHVIUHQWHjSURSRVWDGHHQFRQWUDUDIDPtOLDGHRULJHP(P
XPSURFHVVRWHUDSrXWLFRHVVHDXWRUFRVWXPDSHGLUDRFDVDOXPDEUHYH
história das famílias de origem de cada um. Na sequência, questiona o
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102 Genograma Sexual - B. C. Forgearini; H. C. Hintz

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A seguir relatamos um estudo de caso em que foram utilizadas as
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GDGHVQDUHODomRHRVGLYHUVRVIDWRUHVTXHLQWHUIHULUDPQHVVDVOLPLWDo}HV

Caso clínico

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unidirecional (Câmara de Gesell). Realizamos os atendimentos em co-
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DWpFQLFDGHHTXLSHUHÀH[LYD10, gerando bons resultados e aumentando a
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8
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Genograma Sexual - B. C. Forgearini; H. C. Hintz 103

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PXLWRERPDWpDJUDYLGH],QLFLDOPHQWHLGHQWL¿FDPRVPXLWDGL¿FXOGDGHGH
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formação, tinha conhecimentos teóricos sobre o desenvolvimento infantil
e criticava as formas com que o marido agia com José Luiz.
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PHVHVGRSURFHVVRWHUDSrXWLFRFRPD¿QDOLGDGHGHFRQKHFHUDVHVWUXWXUDV
e funcionamentos das suas famílias de origem.

TABELA GENOGRAMA

Genograma de Luiza e Cléber

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tranquila, que ajudava aos outros. Era negro, alcoolista, vindo de família
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dosa e bastante organizada. É italiana, branca, dona-de-casa. Ambos os
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de Luiza engravidar dela, tinham uma relação bastante conturbada, com
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/XL]DWHYHSUR[LPLGDGHFRPDIDPtOLDPDWHUQDXPDWLDDRULHQWDYDVREUHDV
dúvidas que surgiram na adolescência, já que não havia diálogo em casa.
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104 Genograma Sexual - B. C. Forgearini; H. C. Hintz

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DRV¿OKRV/XL]DVySHUFHEHXGHPRQVWUDomRGHVHQWLPHQWRVGDPmHDSyV
o nascimento do neto José Luiz.
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'HVFUHYHVHXSDLFRPRXPDSHVVRDDXWRULWiULDTXHQmRJRVWDYDGHWUD-
balhar e que com frequência usava o ditado faça o que eu digo, não faça o
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DQRVVRIUHGHGLVW~UELRVSVLFROyJLFRVpGHVFULWDSHOR¿OKRFRPRWHLPRVDH
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RHVWXGR'XUDQWHPXLWRWHPSR&OHEHUIRLRUHVSRQViYHOSHORVXVWHQWRGD
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FRPHQWiULRVUHODFLRQDGRVDH[SHULrQFLDVVH[XDLVHQDDGROHVFrQFLDHUD
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(1986).
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quer demonstração de afeto, vinda de um homem, tem objetivo de contato
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tamente como a avó referia. Na de Cleber, uma família de muitos homens
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era vista como um objeto.
Em relação ao casal, atualmente Luiza entende que abandonou a
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mento de vazio, ao contrário do que vivenciavam antes do nascimento do
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era o único foco da família de origem dele, não havia fronteiras ou segre-
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sistemas diferentes. Na geração dos avós de Luiza e Cléber, os mitos re-
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