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AGGRESSION IS:
• getting your own way, no matter what
• getting your point across at other people’s expense
• getting people to do things they don’t want to do
• being loud or violent
• interrupting others
• winningat all costs
• always putting your own needs first
PASSIVITY IS:
• keeping quiet for fear of upsetting people
• avoiding conflict
• saying yes when you want to say no
• always putting other people’s needs first
• going along with things you don’t like or agree with
• apologizing excessively
• inwardlyburning with anger and frustration
• being vague about your ideas and what you want
• justifying your actions to other people
• appearing indecisive
ASSERTIVENESSIS:
• being open and honest with yourselfand other people
• listening to other people’s points of view
• showing understanding of other people’s situations
• having self-respect and respect for others
• dealing with your feelings
• dealing with conflict
• being equal
• expressing ideas clearly, but not at the expense of others
• compromising
Elsa-Fortis
Confidential
E Y E CONTACT
ASSERTIV E AGGRESSIVE PASSIVE
· com fortablydirect · staring intensely · lookin g away or
· staring off into down
distance with bored · blin king rapidly.
expression
FACIAL EXPRESSIONS
· open, frank, · clenching teeth · constant smiling
relaxed · flaring nostrils · smiling,
· jutting jaws laughing, or winking
· pursed, when expressing
tightlipped mouth irritation
· biting or wetting
lips
· sw allow ingor
clearing throat
· tensing and
VOICE and SPEECH EXPRESSIONS
· appropriately firm · o v e rlyrapid · o v e rlysoft
· appropriately warm · deadly quiet · mumbled
· expressive, · o v e rlyloud or · whiny
emphasis- ing key strident · monotone
words · sarcastic or conde- · o v e rlyslow
· clear scending
GESTURES
· well-balanced · pounding fists · covering m outh or
· erect · stiff and rigid lower face with hand
· relaxed · finger waving or · excessive head
· hand gestures, pointi- ing nodding
empha- sising key · shaking head as if · tinkering with
words other person isn’t to clothing or jewellery
be believed · constant
· hands on hips shifting of weight
· scratching or
rubbing head or
other parts of body
· w ring in gor
rubbing hands
· w ooden body
posture
Elsa-Fortis
Confidential