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Summer/Fall 2011 Summer/Fall 2011 $3.95

Featuring the Finest Businesses for Planning Your Dream Wedding or Any Special Event

Carolina Bride Columbia, South Carolina

Cover Bride: Allison Lawton

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Edit Let or's t er

As the Celebrations Editor, I get to help brides and families with the announcements they place in the Sunday newspaper. I love the conversations, hearing about their family traditions and the latest trends. Even though I have been married for three and a half years, it never gets old talking to very excited, soon-to-be brides. Im usually the one of the last stops on the wedding train, talking to brides-to-be (and a few grooms-to-be) days before the wedding. I hear all about their anticipation, their nervousness and how much they are looking forward to relaxing on their honeymoons. However, they are not quite at the finish line and there are always a few outstanding items on their check lists. I do a bunch of listening, and I like that. Every now and then I share one of my own stories. When I planned my wedding, my mom and I had been to the florist several times to finalize all of the flowers. However, we couldnt decide on the centerpiece for the buffet table at the reception. After a lot of back and forth, we finally decided on something. The kicker is that after three and a half years, I still have no idea what the centerpiece looked like. I never saw it at the reception, and no one took a picture of it. My mom tells me it was beautiful. I laugh now, especially since it consumed much of my pre-wedding worry. Like so many of our brides, I had a wedding check-list and my list got done. Those flowers had no effect on the wedding or our marriage. My husband and I had a fabulous time, and we are very happily married. Remember that everything seems to get done somehow and in some way. Take a deep breath. At the end of the day youre married, and thats all that matters.

Anne-Kathryn Flanagan Celebrations Representative akflanagan@thestate.com

Table of Contents
6 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Wedding and Engagement Announcements 10 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Once Upon A Time 12 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Stationery Checklist 14 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Simple Elegance at the Siebels House 22 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Rain or Shine: It was Going to be a Special Day 30 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Two for the Goal 36 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Skype Saved our Wedding Day 42 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Wedding & Engagement Album 50 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Obtaining a Marriage License in South Carolina 51 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Elegant Expressions 52 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Wedding Day Checklist 54 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20 New Wedding Dress Trends 60 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Catering Considerations: Food for Thought 62 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Don't Forget! 10 Details Every Bride Overlooks 63 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Happily Ever After 64 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Reception Venues in the Columbia Area 66 . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Adver tiser Index

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SPRING VALLEY
C O U N T R Y C L U B

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Cover Bride: Allison Lawton Photo provided by Katie Har t, Har t Photogaphy, special to Carolina Bride Gown by Bella Vista Bridal

Volume 7, Number 2

Summer/Fall 2011

President and Publisher

The State Media Company Henry B. Haitz, III (803) 771-8693 publisher@thestate.com Vice President of Advertising Jeff Kuerzi (803) 771-8351 jkuerzi@thestate.com
Publications and Projects Manager

We believe its the details that make the difference. Whether your needs encompass a small bridal luncheon or a large stand up reception, the clubs staff is ready to make your special day what youve always dreamed.
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Bett Farrell Williams (803) 771-8437 bfwilliams@thestate.com

Art Direction

Louie Lanford llanford@thestate.com

Celebrations Representative

Anne-Kathryn Flanagan akflanagan@thestate.com (803) 771-8431

For additional copies and back issues:

(803) 771-8431
For general information and inquiries:

CarolinaBride@thestate.com
This is one of the biggest days of your life. You want it to be special.... so do we!

Carolina Bride is a publication of The State Media Company and is not associated with the editorial department of The State Media Company. Carolina Bride is printed twice yearly. All contents Carolina Bride magazine. All rights reserved. Reproduction or use in whole or in part of the contents, without prior written permission of the publisher, is strictly prohibited. The magazine is not responsible for unsolicited manuscripts, photography or artwork.

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Wedding and ae Enggment s Announcement

The price of your wedding or engagement announcement is determined by its total size in column inches. Total column inches are calculated by number of columns wide multiplied by number of inches high, not the number of words in the announcement. (Example: 2 columns wide x 4 inches high = 8 column inches). Color is an additional $40. Rates are: Text and/or photo totaling 3-5.75 column inches:

$30/inch
Text and/or photo totaling 6-9.75 column inches:

$25/inch
Text and/or photo totaling 10-17.75 column inches:

$24/inch
Premier Package
2 column x 4.5 Color photo

Text and/or photo totaling 18 column inches and up:

$21/inch
All announcements are featured online at www.thestate.com/weddings. Proofs are e-mailed and price of your announcement is provided at this time. Customers will be quoted prices for all photo sizes compatible with the dimensions of their photo. Anniversary announcements are 50% off wedding and engagement rates.

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Standard Package
1/2 Column x 1.38 B&W Photo.

Deluxe Package
1 column x 2.75 color photo.

PROOFS AND QUOTES

A proof of your announcement will be sent to the e-mail address provided. We do our best to provide proofs and final pricing as quickly as possible upon receipt of your photo and text. All corrections must be made by noon on Wednesday before publication. If we receive no corrections from you by the deadline, we will consider your announcement approved. Please read your proofs carefully. We do not run correction on approved announcements under any circumstances. The State reserves the right to edit announcements for grammar and style.

Basic Package
1 column x 1.5 B&W photo.

Payment must be received by noon Wednesday prior to publication. Cash, check,Visa, Mastercard and Discover are accepted. Deadline for publication is 3 p.m. the Monday before the desired date of publication and online posting.

PRESS PLATES
A press plate is a reproduction of the plate used to print the full page containing your announcement. $20 each.

ADDITIONAL COPIES
Announcements may be brought to the newspaper office, 1401 Shop Road, mailed to: Wedding News,The State Media Company, PO Box 1333, Columbia, SC 29202 or e-mailed to weddings@thestate.com Office hours: Monday through Friday 8:30 a.m. to 5:30 p.m.. We are closed on Saturday and Sunday. Contact Anne-Kathryn Flanagan Phone: 803-771-8431 Fax: 803-771-9363 E-mail: weddings@thestate.com Please see our website for more detail - TheState.com/Weddings.

Additional copies of the newspaper - $5 for a set of 10. Pre-ordering is encouraged as some days can sell-out. Copies will be held for 3 weeks and can be picked up in the lobby.

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GUIDELINES FOR PUBLICATION AND POSTING ON WWW.THESTATE.COM

1.Wedding and engagement announcement must be received at The State Media Company by 3 p.m. the Monday before the desired date of publication and online posting. (For information to be published the Sunday following a holiday, the announcement should be in our office no later than 10 days before publication.) 2. Photographers who do not have a blanket release on file with The State should sign below. If a signature cannot be obtained, be sure to include the photographers name and telephone number. The State will return wedding and engagement photos only if they are accompanied by a stamped (two first class stamps), self-addressed envelope when presented for publication. The State is not responsible for loss of or damage to photographs under any circumstances.Text (Microsoft Word document) and photos (.jpg) may be e-mailed to weddings@thestate.com. 3. Announcements should be typed or clearly block-printed with the day and date of the wedding. The State cannot accept responsibility for, and will not run corrections on information that is illegible or incomplete. The State reserves the right to edit announcements for grammar and style. 4. Announcements may be brought to the newspaper office, 1401 Shop Road, mailed to Wedding News, The State Media Company, PO Box 1333, Columbia, SC 29202, or e-mailed to weddings@thestate.com. Payment must be received by noon Wednesday prior to publication. Cash, check, Visa, Mastercard and Discover are accepted. The following completed and signed form must be received prior to publication. 803.771.8431, fax 803.771.8363.

WEDDING/ENGAGEMENT RELEASE
(the person placing the announcement), certify that the information submitted for publication I, and online posting is true, not defamatory, does not invade the privacy of any person and does not infringe any copyright. I agree to indemnify and hold harmless The State Media Company, its employees and agents, from and against all claims and expenses (including attorney fees and expenses) arising out of the publication of material supplied by me for the publication. Signature ______________________________________________________________ Date ____________________________

Printed Name ______________________________________________________________________________________________ Address ____________________________________________________________________________________________________ E-mail address where a proof may be sent ________________________________________________________________________ Phone Number ________________________________ Cell Number ________________________________________________ If we are not able to reach you at the above numbers, your announcement will not run. By submitting material for publication as a bridal announcement, I, for myself and others identified in the material submitted for publication, consent to the republication of the announcement in promotional materials without compensation.

PHOTO RELEASE
Photographer, , as the owner of the copyright in a photograph submitted for publication in The State Media Company, hereby grants to the The State Media Company, a limited license to publish the photograph in The State and post online at www.thestate.com without cost or photographers credit. If the photograph is republished in promotional material for bridal announcements, photographer grants to The State Media Company, a license to publish the photograph with credit given to the photographer in the promotional material.
Photographers Signature __________________________________________________ Date Photographers Phone Number Photographers Address ____________________________

________________________________________________________________________________

______________________________________________________________________________________
Please only include information you wish to be published.

City/State of wedding ________________________________________________________________________________________ Bride /Bride-elects full name __________________________________________________ of ____________________ City/State

Bridegroom /Bridegroom-elects full name ________________________________________ of ____________________ City/State Were married/Will be married ________________________________________________ at
Date of wedding

____________________________
Place of wedding

The __________________________________________ceremony was/will be performed by ______________________________

Time of wedding Full Name and title of officiating clergy

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Once upon a t ime

Photo by Calico Photography, special to Carolina Bride

Catherine Bogeajis and her father, Michael Bogeajis, share a special moment seconds before walking arm and arm down the aisle towards her future husband, Chris Stroud. Originally from Massachusetts, Catherine didnt realize she would find the love of her life when she moved to the Carolinas. They were united at a private home on Lake Murray with Chriss beautiful daughters by his side. The newly-formed family now resides together in Lexington.

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Simple Eleg ance at

Allison Lawton fondly remembers the first time she saw her husband, Trip. They met in the month of mistletoe--Trips sister and another of Allisons girlfriends conspired to bring the two together at a Christmas party. The attraction was instant, Allison says. Eight months later, we were engaged, and eight months after that, on April Fools Day (2011), we were married. Theirs was a long-distance courtship. Trip was a lawyer in Charleston at the time and Allison an elementary school teacher in Columbia. After one of their many weekend visits, Allison remembers telling Trip how much she hated to have to part from him on Sundays. It wont always be that way, he replied. Thats when it hit me, where we were headed, Allison says. On Friday the thirteenth of August, 2010, Allison came home from a back-toschool night (disheveled and exhausted from cleaning her classroom all day) to find Trip at her house. He had all the lights on in the house, and I walked in and asked why they were on. I turned around,

t Siebels House: he and Trip Lawtons Special Day Allison

and he was on one knee. I was shocked. I knew it was coming eventually but didnt expect it that night. After the proposal and the resounding yes, Allison asked Trip why he had turned all the lights on. He said it was so the ring would sparkle, she laughs. Trip had chosen the 1.5 carat solitaire set in platinum all on his own, but Allison says it was exactly the ring she would have chosen for herself. Trip is so considerate, she says. Our friends laugh when I say that because he and I are both the youngest of three children,

By: Heather Dawkins Stalker, special to Carolina Bride Photos provided by Katie Hart, Hart Photogaphy, special to Carolina Bride

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and youngest children arent known for their consideration of others; but he truly is. He genuinely is a kind person. Excited, the couple called friends and family with the news and then headed to Momos Bisto on Devine Street for dinner, where Trips family had pre-ordered a bottle of champagne for the couple, waiting at their table. There they talked of plans for their wedding. For Allison, the most important decision to be made was the location. The couple wanted something outdoors but also intimate. She and her mom scouted a halfdozen locations before settling on downtown Columbias Siebels House. Owned by the Historic Columbia Foundation, the Doric-columned home with its long piazza is thought to be the oldest house in Columbia. Surrounded by beautifully restored architectural gardens, it was exactly the kind of place Allison had in mind. It had that backyard, Lowcountry, warm, hospitable feel, she says. It was more intimate than a ballroom or a hall. Allison hired Julianne Sojourn of My Friends Garden floral shop to enhance the intimate, outdoorsy feel with lanterns, purple orchids and bouquets of flowers in yellow and white. Blooms on shepherds hooks lined the aisle she walked down, escorted by her father, Rick Sprowls. Allisons white, strapless, A-line dress from Bella Vista was simple and unembell-

ished, perfect for the intimate, elegant theme. She carried an all-white bouquet of hydrangeas, roses and daisies and wore around her neck a diamond pendant that had belonged to Trips grandmother and then his mother. Her something blue was Trips grandmothers sapphire and diamond ringon loan from Trips sister; and taped onto her shoe was a sixpence from an aunt to serve as something old. Her single attendant, a close friend since childhood, wore a simple strapless dress in deep grey. Trip and his father sported classic navy blue suits. The ceremony was officiated by Judge James C. Williams, Jr., for whom Trip had clerked. It was meaningful to have a family friendsomebody who knows Trip very well--perform the ceremony, Allison says. Though there were a few of the usual hiccups, (strong winds knocked over a floral bouquet and a table), the ceremony went beautifully, Allison says. Walking down the aisle in front of all those people made me nervous, she recalls. But once Allison saw Trip, smiling and calm, the nerves quickly settled. He was trying to catch my eye, but I knew I would start crying if I made eye contact with him. The reception after the ceremony continued the Lowcountry theme. There were deep-fried oysters, barbeque platters and a grits bar prepared by Classic

Catering and situated on tables around the garden. Inside the house was a platter of wedding cupcakes in two flavors created by Cupcakes in the Vista-- white chocolate with raspberry and red velvet topped with Trips favorite--gooey cream cheese frosting. Friends and family danced the night away to the sounds of Augusta, Georgia-based band, The Unmentionables. They were fabulous, Allison says. They put on a great show, and everyone had so much fun. The coupleboth of whom are shy of the spotlightskipped the typical bouquet and garter tosses and cake-cutting traditions. The focus was instead on enjoying the eveningjust having our friends and family there. After all the dancing and celebrating was over, Allison changed into a cool white sundress and sandals and grabbed the arm of her new husband. Trip had a car waiting to whisk them away to Charlotte for the next days flight to a Nassau honeymoon. They ran to the car under a shower of yellow rose petals tossed into the air by their guests. It was so good to be able to take a deep breath and relax, Allison recalls. It had been a perfect evening. It was everything we wanted.

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Rain to be Shine:day or a special It was going

By Anne-Kathryn Flanagan Photos provided by Matt Brodie, Brodiefoto, special to Carolina Bride

Like all brides and grooms, Sheila Abron Bias and Joseph Bias planned their big day down to the letter. From the flowers to the food, no detail was overlooked. The two even established a Plan B for the big day because the ceremony and some of the reception would take place outdoors. Even with a year to prepare, the couple realized no amount of planning could stop Mother Nature and a few wardrobe mal-

functions. The forecast went from high 70s and sunshine to thunderstorms, and it pretty much rained all day long, Bias said. We couldnt set up the chairs for the ceremony until 4:30 p.m. for a wedding that started at 5:30 p.m. Bias said she and Joseph came up with a rain plan the night before the wedding in anticipation of the storms that would

undoubtedly happen.They agreed it would be best to move the majority of the chairs under a covered area for the ceremony. Instead of having the entire ceremony outside, they would do a quick reading of the vows and an exchange of rings and use the beginning of the reception for the remainder of the ceremony. We were all set to do this when it stopped raining about five minutes before

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the ceremony began, Bias said. At that point, I made the call to go back to our original plan and do the entire ceremony outside in hopes that the rain would hold off. Luckily for us, it did. Even though the rain held off, there were a few other mishaps that almost brought the wedding to a halt. One of our groomsmen left his tux at home, the best man put on the three-yearold ring bearers vest and couldnt figure out why it wouldnt fit and the zippers on my moms dress and one of the bridesmaids dresses broke. You might think all of these issues put a damper on Sheila and Josephs big day, but that wasnt the case. They were so happy to be getting married that the mishaps only added to the excitement of it all. With the few kinks worked out, other important aspects had already fallen into place. Sheila wanted the entire day to be special and sentimental, so she incorporat-

ed old photos of each of their parents and of her and Joseph through the years into the dcor at Springdale House. I placed pictures of our parents on a mantel in the Springdale House near the guest book, Bias said. I also displayed pictures of Joseph and me through the years in the reception area. For example, I found a picture of us each at two years old where both of us were wearing sailor suits. Another very special touch for Sheila was having her mother walk her down the aisle. Sheila lost her father and then a stepfather when she was young. It was extremely important to have her mother at her side on the big day. I also got Joseph engraved cuff-links and wrote him a special note on my last piece of stationery with my maiden name on it, Bias said. During the reception, Joseph and his groomsmen performed an Irish jig, and he and his younger brother and sister

also performed a dance they came up with many years ago but tend to reprise every so often. Having the perfect wedding day means something different to each individual bride, and Sheila definitely accomplished that. She recommends that brides should know what they are willing and not willing to compromise on when it comes to planning. Shelia did some things on her own and shopped around when it came to my vendors. Columbia is full of talented wedding professionals that really can work with all types of budgets. Most importantly, Sheila and Joseph didnt let anything get them down on their wedding day. They decided to go with Plan A regardless of the mishaps they faced and wouldnt change a thing if they had to do it over again.

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Two for t g he oal

Making wedding related decisions together came naturally for Brennen Long and Donnie Fetner as they checked off To Do lists leading to I do. Separately, the two athletes had been setting and achieving goals for most of their lives.They became a couple by working toward goals together. Donnie was Brennens trainer at Hampton Hills Athletic Club when they met. Choosing colors, cake and casualness fell into place fairly easily as they envisioned their magical day. But even as they planned their wedding, goals that would affect their future demanded equal deliberation. By the time they decided at the altar how long theyd hold their first kiss as man and wife, they had worked through a number of lifeshaping decisions and had attained signal accomplishments. Brennen was my biggest fan when I set a career goal of getting into medical sales, Donnie said. Especially because I love fitness and athletics, I have loved being a trainer at Hampton Hills Athletic Club, and during off-business hours, I still am. Thats where we met, and now Brennen is working there as a trainer as well. In fact, we coach a Biggest Loser team together, something that means a lot to us as a couple. But I aspired to be in the medical sales profession, and she backed me all the way. It took some time, but joining Nephew and Smith made the wait well worth it. Donnie has been my biggest supporter, said Brennen, referring not to her husbands 67 frame, but to the way he has stuck with her as she worked through steps and stages of her own career goals. Donnie was clearly proud when he explained, Brennen worked very hard preparing for her first fitness/figure competition the Europa Show of Champions was held not long before our wedding. Many of the sacrifices, especially in terms of nutrition and working out,

By Anne-Kathryn Flanagan Photos provided by Dave Gilbert, Dave Gilbert Photography, special to Carolina Bride

we made together. Their sacrifices were rewarded when Brennen was chosen first runner up in that prestigious competition. She plans to pursue competing on a professional level, to make fitness her trade, perhaps as a spokeswomen or model. She has the potential, and based on the results of her very first show in Orlando, I believe shell do just that, Donnie said. Spring also threw another dilemma in their path. Although Donnie said he would have suppor ted whatever decision Brennen came to after she tried out and made the first cut for the Carolina Panthers Cheerleading squad, the decision was all hers. Being asked to try out, then going to Charlotte and seeing the other 119 girls competing for a place on the squad was exciting, and I was thrilled to be among those asked back, Brennen recalled. The next step was to be interviews, but driving
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back from Charlotte, I realized the time demands would interfere with my being a wife, not to mention my day-to-day life and work in Columbia. Brennen decided to let that potential opportunity slide. The tryouts in Charlotte brought together many abilities Brennen had worked for, all the way back to grade school dance and gymnastics, said Donnie. Even though she decided not to pursue it to the next level, the competition was an effort that expanded Brennens network and broadened her base. She has always been competitive and very athletic. She played college basketball at Newberry and, before that, as a point guard in her high school; she was a standout. Then Brennen touted Donnies athletic achievements. He played both basketball and baseball at Anderson College. The Columbia natives next goal was to earn a Masters degree from the University of South Carolina, and he did. As athletes, their grooved-in discipline has paved the way to many of their goals, separate and shared.They know a regimen can be compromised with one misstep, sometimes just one tiny bite of a delectable not on the approved list. Id been on a very specific nutritional regimen associated with the Europa fitness competition, Brennen recalled. In preliminaries leading up to her cousins early April wedding, being a frequent guest called up its own set of decisions.As one of Ashleys maids of honor, Id started going to her parties and showers. Did she dare enjoy the refreshments at these parties - or stick to the regimen? Brennen had found her perfect dress after trying on only four, maybe five, not long after Donnie proposed during a family vacation last July.And, although the dress had a corset back, I was determined I wouldnt need to loosen the ribbon even a little for the wedding. Brennens oneshouldered diamond white satin gown, adorned with Swarovski crystals, was fashioned with a straight skirt that accentuated her fitness investment of time and determination.Besides, I wanted to save up for my own parties, showers - and our reception. With months leading up to the Orlando fitness competition now in the past, along with the nutritional regimen shed followed diligently, Brennen was looking forward to indulging. I had been eating a lot of fish,

chicken and oatmeal. I knew I was going to be ready for something else. Something good. She loves sweet potatoes, so the caterer suggested a sweet potato bar at which guests could add pecans, raisins or brown sugar to their baked yams. Of course, I never got to that at all, but being with our guests was much more impor tant, Brennen said. We knew we wanted everyone to enjoy

themselves, Donnie said.We wanted it to be a happy day, added Brennen. Believing their good luck at finding each other would carry over on their wedding day, they risked planning an outdoor ceremony. Donnie wanted his groomsmen buddies from Dreher High School, teammates from his Anderson College baseball

years, his dad and others in the wedding party - to be comfortable. Getting them to yes was easier when Donnie announced the groomsmen would wear khaki pants and regular shirts, not tuxedos. In turn Brennen wanted her bridesmaids to be able to wear their dresses for other occasions after the wedding. We decided on Lilly Pulitzer maxi dresses in a colorful yellow and green print the guys shirts were the same apple green. The dress my mother, Robin, wore was also Lilly Pulitzer, in a pink print, and Donnies tie was a Lilly Pulitzer print, Brennen said. Against the lush foliage in Wintergreen Gardens, the tropical colors set a resort tone. On that hot Friday evening, about the only food the couple sampled was a requisite mouthful of the four-layer vanilla on chocolate wedding cake they fed each other for the cameras. It was the next day before they finally dug into reception samples Brennens parents had taken home for them. Mom had already put the top layer of the cake in the freezer for our first anniversary, Brennen said. As soon as Pastor Alden Ellis pronounced them man and wife, Party Time South Carolinas DJ shifted the celebration into a different tempo. The bride and groom danced to Paul Brandts I Do. Brennen and her dad, John, danced to I Love Her First and next Donnie and his mother Debbie Fetner danced to Simple Man by Lynard Skynard. Since their honeymoon flight to Riviera Maya would not take off until the following day, the couple felt no pressure to make their getaway, so they stuck around and enjoyed their own party until 11 p.m. when the DJ unplugged the sound system. Two days later from their honeymoon quarters in Grand Paladium, the new couple tried to text home, to let their families know they had arrived on schedule and were having a great time. We wanted to tell them wed been snorkeling, seen sea turtles and stingrays, and even canoed in the ocean, but we couldnt get the exclamation point to work, Brennen remembered. Then we found out in Mexico exclamation points are written upside down. As they settle into married life, they expect to continue using lots of exclamation points. And they will always be each others biggest fans.

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The new Mr. and Mrs. Ryan Henderson pose for their first picture together as a married couple.

Skype Saved our Wedding Day

By: Heather Dawkins Stalker, special to Carolina Bride Photos provided by Helen Tackett, Calico Photography, special to Carolina Bride

Newlyweds Jessica and Ryan Henderson have a truly twenty-first-century love story to tell their grandkids one day. The Columbia natives not only met online, when Jessica was looking at profiles of fellow Dutch Fork High School graduates, but also planned their wedding in cyberspace. A naval engineer and mechanic stationed in Norfolk, Virginia, Ryan had put in for a transfer from ship duty to shore duty so that he could spend more time with the girl he planned to marry. However, the

move backfired. As soon as he switched duty, they deployed him, Jessica recalls. The transfer happened only one month after Ryan proposed. The thought of planning a wedding with the groom-to-be in Guantanmo Bay, Cuba, was overwhelming, Jessica recalls. But the same internet that had first brought them together made joint wedding-planning possible for the couple. We skyped a lot, and I bought an i-Phone so that I could show him things like the reception hall and the church while I was there.

Jessica consulted Ryan on colors (he chose garnet and black in honor of his beloved Gamecocks) and even sent e-mails with pictures of invitations, tuxedos and cakes for him to choose. Then in March of this year, with Ryan home on a two-week leave from his yearlong deployment, the couple were married at Salem United Methodist Church in Irmo, with a reception following at the Cotton House. Our wedding was wonderful, Jessica says. Thanks to a little help from the World Wide Web.

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Jessica waits patiently as her mother lovingly laces up her wedding dress. She is only moments away from becoming Ryan's wife.
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Cousin of the bride dances around with the daughter of the bride. These cousins have a lot to celebrate!

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Finally, Jessica and Ryan promise their lives to each other. They both have been waiting on this moment for years.

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Laura to Tommy Morgan - April 9, 2011 Dave Gilbert Photography, Special to Carolina Bride Kellie Bates to Jamie Davis - January 22, 2011 Hart Photography, Special to Carolina Bride

Heather Grainger to Kevin Lucas - May 21, 2011 Hart Photography, Special to Carolina Bride

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Ramonda Warren to Marcus LeGrand- June 10, 2011 Calico Photography, Special to Carolina Bride

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Sara to Eric Eckstrom - April 23, 2011 Dave Gilbert Photography, Special to Carolina Bride

Ashley to Casey Jones - April 2, 2011 Dave Gilbert Photography, Special to Carolina Bride

Stephanie Lock to Jeremy Sallings - April 10, 2011 Dave Gilbert Photography, Special to Carolina Bride

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Amanda Slinger and Michael Steinhauer March 18, 2011 Photos by J. Kay Photography, Special to Carolina Bride

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Sout Carolina h
Obtaining a Marriage License in
Both the bride and groom-to-be must apply together at a South Carolina County Courthouse Marriage License Bureau. Most courthouses are open from 8:30 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Fees vary by county location, but only cash will be accepted. A drivers license and Social Security number are required; a birth certificate is not; nor is a blood test or a physical obligatory. You do not have to be a resident of South Carolina, or even of the United States, to marry in South Carolina. Once you have applied, there is a 24-hour waiting period before you can pick up your license. Your marriage license is good in any South Carolina county, regardless of which South Carolina County Courthouse it was obtained. Register of Deeds (Marriage License) in S.C. (803) 576-1963 or (803) 576-1992.

Getting Married?
Some important organizations and people to notify:
Social Security Administration Internal Revenue Service State Tax Authorities Postal Service Public Assistance Office Veterans Administration Passport Office Department of Motor Vehicles Credit Card Companies Financial Institutions (Banks, Investment Plans) Utility Providers Automobile Lenders Insurance Companies (Health, Life, Property, Automobile) Employer Healthcare Providers Professional Organizations Social Organizations Schools (Alma Mater) Magazine Subscription Services

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Eleg Expressions ant

A beautiful invitation, a heart-felt thank-you note both mirror the warmth and happiness you feel at this special time in your life. All your wedding stationery is a reflection of you and your wedding. It should be chosen with as much care as is given in choosing your bridal attire.
future mother-in-law, and let her know when the invitations have been mailed to guests. Consider ordering envelopes in advance so you can have them addressed and ready to go. Its a good idea to order extra envelopes in case there are any mistakes in addressing. If you are having a large wedding you might want to consider hiring a calligrapher to assist. Invitations should be mailed four to six weeks prior to the wedding. If your wedding is during the summer or holiday season consider mailing your invitations eight weeks before the wedding since people are likely to be traveling at those times. When ordering the invitations, dont overlook any enclosures you need to send along with the invita-

tion.These might include response cards, hotel reservation cards or directional cards. Your invitations and other wedding stationery can be ordered from stationery shops, department stores, specialty shops and print shops, just to name a few. Consultants will be able to assist you in the selection and proper wording. Just as in choosing a caterer or photographer, shop around. Make sure you have chosen a professional who will give you expert advice and service.

Announcements
If you have a small wedding, there may be friends and relatives you are unable to invite.You will want to notify them of your marriage with an announcement.The announcements should be mailed immediately after the wedding.

Invitations
The invitation is the first impression your guests will have of your wedding. It will play the important role of telling friends and family that you want them to be a part of this wonderful day.You want to create good feelings the moment your invitation is received. Today you can select from an assortment of papers, colors and styles for your invitation.You can remain as traditional as you wish or create something that is unique to you. Formal invitations should be ordered at least three months in advance. When ordering invitations of any kind, order additional ones in case more are needed to keep as mementos. Send several to your

Acknowledgments
Enough cant be said about the importance of a personal handwritten thank-you. First, it assures your guests you have received their gifts. Second, and perhaps more importantly, it is an opportunity for you to share your delight in their thoughtfulness. If the thank-you note is written after the wedding, you will want to let them know how much their presence at your wedding meant to you or how much they were missed if they were unable to attend.

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Wedding Day

On your big day, leave as little as possible to memory and

the last-minute scramble. Set aside your essentials the week before so that all you have to do is grab-and-go. Make a list

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of those things you will need to add at the last minute. Here are some essentials for any well-packed Carolina bride:
Makeup (foundation, blush, lip color, mascara, eye powder, lip and eye liners, powder) Makeup brushes Compact mirror Hairbrush Hairdryer Curlers, curling iron Hairspray, mousse, gel Hair pieces and hair pins Deodorant/antiperspirant Baby powder Eyedrops Cotton swabs Ibuprophen/pain reliever of choice Bottle of water Digital camera Clear nail polish Nail file Mouthwash Breath mints Tissues Panty hose (2 pairs) Wedding dress Shoes Veil/Headpieces Necklace, earrings, bracelet Bridal lingerie Grooms ring

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Designer/Dir of Sales - Andrea Wenger Clark

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Each AreRia Couture Styled Gown will include: A keepsake garter that matches the details of the gown Signature of an AreRia gown has blue pearl zipper for something blue Signature fragranced soy lotion candle created for the particular line of dress And so much more...

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Wedding Dress Trends

By Amy Eisinger, WeddingChannel.com (MCT) Photos provided by Andrea Clark, AreRia, special to Carolina Bride.

The editors of WeddingChannel.com scoured the shows at this spring's New York Bridal Fashion Week looking for the latest bridal trends. Here are the 20 new styles for the fashion-forward bride. The dresses featured are from AreRias gown collection, designed by Andrea Wenger Clark in North Augusta.

3. Feat g hers alore

From peacocks to ostriches, feathery skirts and boleros were big at bridal fashion week. We saw feathered frocks from designers like Carolina Herrera, Reem Acra and Project Runway darling Carol Hannah.

6. Geomet det ric ails

Like last season, crystals and beaded accents were big again. But this time, the beads and crystals took on distinctive new shapes, from small squares to rectangles and even triangles, which fit together on the gown to create an Art Deco-worthy geometric design.

1. Royal-inspired wedding dresses 4. Tip-of-t heTaking a cue from this year's two royal weddings Prince William's and Prince Albert's veteran designer Romona Keveza built an entire collection inspired by princess brides (like the "Grace" dress). With lacy details, modest necklines and full skirts, this new gown style would be perfect for a black-tie wedding.

shoulder sraps t
We love this universally flattering non-strapless dress option. Tip-ofthe-shoulder gowns with straps that rest just at the edge of the shoulders from designers like Romona Keveza and Lela Rose got an updated twist this season, thanks to fit-and-flare silhouettes.

7. Text fabrics ured

For brides looking to add a little something extra without going overboard, there's this subtle trend to try. Raw silks and unfinished edges on airy fabrics like chiffon add volume and texture a great alternative for the bride who doesn't want a pattern to overwhelm her dress.

2. Plung ing necklines

At Sarah Jassir's runway show, it was all about sexy, figure-hugging styles.And one theme that stood out to us from multiple designers was the "how-low-can-you-go" plunging V-neckline.

5. Blush g owns
From celebrity bride Reese Witherspoon to soon-to-be-bride Crystal Harris, blush and pink gowns are huge this season. Pale-pink dresses from Monique Lhuillier with delicate crystal and flower detailing graced the runway, as did similar designs from Theia, Oscar de la Renta and newcomer Victoria Nicole.

8. Sparkly t iaras
Another nod to the royal wedding, sparkly tiaras in all shapes made a big comeback at this spring's bridal fashion week especially at the Reem Acra show. From delicately beaded styles to those studded with crystals, diamonds or even small wire flowers, brides will want to wear these headpieces all night long.

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This White by Vera Wang strapless organza fit-and-flare gown with draped bodice and hand-cut bias flange skirt is $1200 at David's Bridal.The blush color is on-trend for wedding dresses.The dress also comes in traditional white and ivory. (Provided by Vera Wang/MCT)

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9. Bold cuffs
Not all of your wedding jewelry has to be dainty. Bold satin cuffs, studded in crystals and pearls, came in lavender and ivory at the Ines Di Santo show this season, as did similarly bold necklaces on some of the models at the Alvina Valenta show.

10. Subt print le s

Intricate brocades can add the perfect touch of old New England style to a wedding day look. For a springtime garden wedding, these types of dresses from designers like Carolina Herrera and Theia added a perfect feminine touch to complete the look.

11. Dramat backs ic

We saw lots of low V's, wide cutout keyholes and dramatic bare backs from designers like Heidi Elnora and Anne Bowen. A backless dress can be a great way to keep a relatively modest neckline, while still offering that wow factor brides want for the dance floor.

12. Hig necklines h

Brides looking to minimize their bust or simply to wear something other than a strapless dress need look no further than this trend. Higher necklines with illusion fabric or intricate beading including those from Isaac Mizrahi and Marchesa are back, big time.
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13. Two-t iered skirt s

Two is better than one, right? That's the idea behind the two-tiered skirt trend. The extra layer adds volume and a whole lot of movement to an otherwise classic A-line gown.

18. Peekaboo skirt s

The skirts we saw with multiple tiers often featured pickups that revealed another layer of fabric hiding underneath, like designs from Vera Wang and Alfred Angelo. The overall effect, as the models took to the runway, was plenty of movement (and we're pretty sure it'll also look stunning on the dance floor).

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14. Illusion and lace sleeves

With delicate embroidery and small crystal details, this trend is definitely for the romantic bride. The sleeves on some gowns from Marchesa, for instance, were held together by sheer netting. Wear a dress like that on the dance floor, and all guests will see is shimmer.

Punch up the traditional strappy gown with this added touch: a twist in the fabric at each shoulder. Lots of dresses this time around whether with one strap or two featured some type of twist or fold in the fabric.

19. Splashes of t aupe

While last season we saw touches of blue and black in the sashes, this time it was all about that earthy hue: taupe. The soft-brown shade is great for a wide variety of skin tones and can easily be accented with a crystal brooch.

17. Bold bows and ribbons

15. Embroidered edg es

Vintage brides take note: Scalloped edges on dresses by Anais and Augusta Jones were embroidered with a myriad of tiny flowers and vines. The overall look was timeless and just a little earthy, perfect for an outdoor fete.

Bold bows and ribbons continued to dominate some of the gowns we saw from St. Pucchi and even Oscar de la Renta. It's an old-school trend with a new modern take, thanks to the placement and size of the bow.

20. Raw-edg ed fabric

For the bride who wants a truly nontraditional look, there's this trend, which features an unfinished hem on light, airy fabrics, like chiffon or tulle.The result is effortlessly chic, and because the edges aren't weighed down with stitching or any additional beading, it can be a great way to add lots of volume with a small amount of fabric.

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Cat ering Considerat ions

food for thought
Whos not a fan of food? It can be one of the most important aspects of your wedding, and finding a caterer should not be taken lightly. Dont wait to begin your search; start early and keep in mind some of these factors once youve narrowed your choices: Do they specialize in a particular type of food? (especially important for theme weddings) Are there sample menus that you can view? Is it possible to do a tasting? What are average price ranges? And what do those prices include? Who specifically will be working at your wedding? What will they be wearing? How many hours will they be contracted for? What is the level of their involvement? Do they cue the cake cutting, etc.? Will your main contact be working any other weddings/events on the same day? What time do they arrive/how long will they stay? Is clean-up included in your price? Where is the food prepared? What type of deposit is required? When do you need to provide a final head count? Can you be given a list of references?

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The WellDressed Groom

Take what the men wear seriously. You want the men to look like they own what they are wearing. All tuxes are not created equal and the fabric can make a difference in the photographs. You want to choose a material that is of a quality to look good in the photos. Is the wedding indoors or outdoors? Both? Are you getting married in the heat of the summer or on a crisp winter day? There are different weights and styles of fabric. While the basic black tuxedo is customary, many are opting for more casual attire. Tan suits and navy blazers with khakis are gaining popularity, especially for outdoor weddings. Your basic black tuxedo will have one or two buttons. Does the groom have a preference? Make the groom standout. Consider an ivory tie for the groom and a black tie for the groomsmen. How about a long tie for the groom and bow ties for the groomsmen. You also have some options with vests and cummerbunds. Ivory and white dont match. If the bride is wearing ivory, the men need to wear ivory shirts. The difference will definitely show up on your photographs. Be careful with colors for the tie/vest/cummerbund. The classic black and ivory is timeless and will never look dated. What time of day are you getting

Carolina Bride had a conversation with Keith Rowland, the formal wear specialist at Granger Owings Classic Clothiers. He shared with us his thoughts for the grooms and groomsmens formal attire.
married? Six p.m. or later is considered by many to be formal, especially if you are getting married in the winter months when it gets darker earlier in the evening. Formal attire includes white tie and tails on the jacket. The shirt, ties and vests will be pique. Dont forget the white gloves. Many couples opt for tails during the holidays when everything seems to be more formal. The ivory dinner jacket (not white!) is a very handsome option to the black tuxedo jacket, especially in the summer months. Dont forget the cuff links. This is a great opportunity for the groom to wear something sentimental.

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By Justine Lorelle Blanchard McClatchy-Tribune (MCT)

Think you've got it all covered? Think again. We're betting there are at least a couple items on this list you missed.
To pack a wedding night bag
You've micromanaged every detail of your wedding day but what about your wedding night? Put together an overnight bag packed with toiletries, sexy lingerie and clothes for the next morning.Then ask a bridesmaid to drop it for you at your wedding night room.

To tell family about reserved seating

It won't matter how cute your "Reserved" sign is if your family doesn't know the seats are meant for them. Have your wedding planner or bridal party help spread the word.

To bring your cell phone charger

You're going to get a bunch of calls on your wedding day from frazzled guests, lost vendors and anxious family members who need fast answers. Make sure your phone is fully charged and then put someone else in charge of answering it.

To pack an emergency kit

Head off any day-of issues by putting together an emergency kit with bobby pins, a sewing kit, safety pins, clear nail polish, extra hose, bandages, aspirin, antacids, tissues and anything else you think you might need. Even better, ask a bridesmaid to do this for you.

To buy a cake-cutting set

Considering what a big photo op the cake cutting is, you'll want to have something a little nicer than a plastic spatula. Buy a set or see if a family member or friend will lend you theirs and (a la your "something borrowed") don't forget to return it!

To bring extra cash

Whether it's tipping your hairstylist, the band or the hotel bellhop, you'll want to have some extra cash (including singles) on hand.

To create a weekend itinerary

Just because you know the schedule doesn't mean everyone else does. Make sure your family, bridal party and out-of-town guests know where to be when.This will save you a ton of phone calls on the big day, too!.

To get international travel documents

Don't get so excited for that honeymoon to Europe that you forget the basics. Check with your airline as soon as you book your flights to make sure you have all the documentation you need. It can take up to a few months to get a passport, so start early.

To write your thank-you speech

While you don't have to give a full public address, it is nice to say a few words at the reception to thank parents, bridal party members and anyone else who supported you through life.Take an hour or so to jot down a few thoughts to make sure you don't forget anyone.

To eat dinner (and cake!)

Remember all that time you spent deliberating over tastings and miniature portions of cake? Put someone in charge (your wedding planner, maid of honor or a close family member are all great choices) of making you and your groom plates of food (if it's a buffet) and then reminding you to actually eat it. At the very least, ask your caterer about preparing a to-go box (complete with a slice of cake) for you to share after the reception.

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Happily Ever Aft er

Photo cour tesy of Judy Kay Bryan Photography Photo by Judy Kay Bryan, J. Kay Photography, special to Carolina Bride

Kelly Meredith Ridgeway and Jason Scott Walters were united in marriage in an elegant ceremony at First Baptist Church in St Matthews, S.C., on April 9, 2011. Following a reception at beautiful Buck Ridge Plantation in Neeses, S.C., the couple set out on a romantic honeymoon to the tropical island of St. Lucia

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403 North Lake 403 North Lake Drive, Lexington Historic home with 1.5 acres of English gardens Contact: Marcie and Rodney Huber www.403northlake.com 803-808-2992 701 Whaley 701 Whaley Street, Columbia Flexible space available for large and small events
Contact:Tom Chinn http://701whaley.blogspot.com 803-771-0101

Recept Venues in t Columbia Area ion he

Al's Upstairs 300 Meeting Sreet, West Columbia 4 rooms with adjacent courtyard
Contact: Clair Anders www.alsupstairsitalian.com 803-920-9406

Ariel's Special Events 1734 Mobile Ave., West Columbia Banquet hall
Contact: Kelley Newman www.arielsspecialevents.com 803-936-0505

Buck Ridge Plantation 231 Gundog Trail, Neeses Banquet hall, covered veranda, gazebo
Contact: Event Manager www.buckridge.com 803-531-8408

Capital City Club 1201 Main Street, 25th Floor, Capitol Center Columbia SC 29201 Ballroom Contact: Pamela Richards www.capitalcolumbia.com (803) 256-2000 City Art 1224 Lincoln Sreet, Columbia Art Gallery Contact: Wendy Wells www.cityartonline.com 803-252-3613 Clarion Hotel Downtown 1615 Gervais Street, Columbia Ballroom and smaller banquets rooms available
Contact: Janice Jamison-Blair www.clarionhotelcolumbia.com 803-771-8711

Columbia Conference Center 169 Laurelhurst Ave., Columbia Conference center Contact: Martha Reid www.columbiameetings.com 803-772-9811 Columbia Country Club 135 Columbia Club Drive, Blythewood Ballroom and patio Contact: Sharon Everett www.columbiacountryclub.com 803-754-8100 Columbia Museum of Art 1515 Main Street, Columbia Museum, lobby, atrium, conference room, terrace and exterior patio
Contact: Special Events Office www.columbiamuseum.org 803-343-2212

Corley Mill House and Garden 221 Corley Mill Road, Lexington Home with garden space
Contact: Sheila Hall www.corleymillhouse.com 803-957-1818

Edventure Children's Museum 211 Gervais Street, Columbia museum, outdoor terrace, galleries Contact: tdozier@edventure.org www.edventure.org 803-7793100 Gibson Commons 140 Gibson Road, Suite C, Lexington Ballroom & outdoor gazebo
Contact: Amanda Kamnmer www.gibsoncommons.com 803-358-7122

Hanlee Hall (Kendall's Katering) 6230 St. Andrews Road, Columbia House Contact: Event Manager www.kendallskatering.com 803-731-4445 Hilton Garden Inn 434 Columbiana Drive, Columbia Ballroom Contact: Event Manager www.hiltongardeninn.com 803-407-6640 Historic Columbia Foundation-Hampton Preston 1615 Blanding Street, Columbia Mansion and gardens
Contact: Amy Kinard www.historiccolumbia.org 803-252-7742, ext. 22

Historic Columbia Foundation-Robert Mills 1616 Blanding Street, Columbia House and park Contact: Amy Kinard www.historiccolumbia.org 803-252-7742, ext. 22 Historic Columbia Foundation-Seibels 1601 Richland Street, Columbia House and garden
Contact: Amy Kinard www.historiccolumbia.org 803-252-7742, ext. 22

Historic Columbia Foundation-The Big Apple 1000 Hampton Street, Columbia Banquet hall Contact: Amy Kinard www.historiccolumbia.org 803-252-7742, ext. 22 Historic Lace House at the Governor's Mansion 800 Richland Street, Columbia Historic home with garden area at the Governor's
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Mansion Complex Contact: Margaret Farish www.lacehouse.sc.gov 803-737-2235

House of Frames and Painting Gallery 2828 Devine Street, Columbia Art Gallery Contact:Tensia Cassinetti www.hofpgallery.com 803-799-7405 Leaside 100 East Exchange Pl, Columbia Ballroom, Florida room and secluded patio
Contact: Kristy Polk www.thesouthernway.com 803-783-9136

Lynlee Hall 1140 Bush River Road, Columbia Banquet hall Contact: info@lynleehall.com www.lynleehall.com 803-551-5842 Magnolia House of Lexington 220 West Main Street, Lexington Historic home with garden area Contact: Event Manager www.magnoliahouseoflexington.com 803-359-5001 Marriot, Downtown 1200 Hampton Street, Columbia Two ballrooms, tremendous 2 story atrium
Contact: Director of Sales www.marriott.com 803-771-7000

Millstone at Adam's Pond 5301 Bluff Road, Columbia Home with tentable areas, covered back porches, dining rooms
Contact: Kristy Polk www.thesouthernway.com 803-783-1061

Mitchell House and Gardens 421 North Lake Drive, Lexington Historic home; covered patio pavillion; holds up to 300 guests; full service facility
Contact: Phyllis James www.mitchellhouseandgardens.com 803-359-5325

Ristorante Divino 803 Gervais Street, Columbia Loft/Dining Room Contact: info@ristorantedivino.com www.ristorantedivino.com 803-799-4550 Riverbanks Zoo and Gardens 500 Wildlife Parkway, Columbia The Magnolia Room in the Botanical Gardens
Contact: sjjackson@riverbanks.org www.riverbanks.org 803-779-8717 x1123

River Center at Saluda Shoals Park 5605 Bush River Road, Columbia Park area (River Center) or conference center (Environmental Education Center/picnic shelter) Contact: Jason White (River Center) www.icrc.net 803-731-5208 River Road and Jasmine Houses and Gardens 2204 & 2208 North Lake Drive, Columbia Homes with garden space
Contact: Elizabeth Christmus www.riverroadjasmine.net 803-781-3315

Seawell's 1125 Rosewood Drive, Columbia Banquet hall Contact: Cal Seawell www.seawellscatering.com 803-771-7385 South Carolina State Museum 301 Gervais Street, Columbia Vista Room, Atrium, & Charleston Courtyard
Contact: facilityrental@scmuseum.org www.museum.state.sc.us 803-898-4922

Spring Valley Country Club 300 Spring Valley Road, Columbia Ballroom
Contact: Rhonda Stone www.springvalleycc.com 803-788-3080

Springdale House and Gardens 3150 Platt Springs Road, West Columbia House and garden pavillion
Contact: Kathy 803-794-5557

Tronco's Catering & Special Events The Medallion Center 7309 Garners Ferry Road, Columbia Contemporary conference and banquet facility with grand ballroom, salons, board rooms & spacious entrance foyer Contact: Katy Brennan or Page Crenshaw www.troncos.com 803-256-1222 Vista Events/The Congaree Promenade 320 Senate Street, Columbia Multiple indoor, outdoor, and garden venues in the Historic Vista Contact: Event Manager www.vistaeventsonline.com 803-748-4144 Windermere Club 1101 Longtown Road East, Blythewood Ballroom and patio on golf course Contact: Bill Chandler www.thewindermereclub.com 803-786-6088 Wintergreen Woods 1032 Corley Mill Road, Lexington Reception Hall, covered veranda, 2 courtyards Contact: Casey Covell or Dixie Covell www.wintergreenwoods.com 803-957-8888 Woodlands Country Club 100 Norse Way, Columbia Private dining rooms and banquet space Contact: Sandra Wilson www.woodlandscc.com 803-788-7771

This is just a sampling of diverse wedding and reception locations available in the Midlands. If you have a location that you would like to include in future publications, please contact CarolinaBride@thestate.com.
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Bridal Gowns

Photography cont.

PHOTOGRAPHY BY JUDY KAY BRYAN

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Catering

Catery on Broad Fine Catering and Cuisine

Its the Simple things in Life that make You feel most Special 803.425.1011 1011 Broad Street Camden, South Carolina www.thecateryonbroad.com

HART PHOTOGRAPHY

(803) 755.8355 www.hartphotosc.com

Clergy & Counselors

Transportation

FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH

The Secret to Making Your Marriage Last Forever & Ever Free 6-week Seminar for Couples Preparing for Marriage

CAROLINA CARRIAGES
Give your wedding day the perfect touch. Include a horse drawn carriage to create 18th century elegance and Southern charm.

For more information call: 803-343-8585 www.FirstBaptistColumbia.com

(803) 754-4724 Columbia, SC

www.carolinacarriages.com

Photography

BRODIEFOTO PHOTOGRAPHY
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COLUMBIA CARRIAGE WORKS

Weddings Parties Special Events

803-386-1513
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803-227-3833 www.columbiacarriageworks.com columbiacarriage@aol.com

Wedding and Consultants

PICASSO PERFECT PHOTOGRAPHY

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Coordination & Planning

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803.767.7244 ParksideWeddingStudio.com

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Wedding Planners

MEAGAN WARREN WEDDINGS

For an Artful & Flawless Wedding

SPRING VALLEY COUNTRY CLUB

We believe its the details that make the difference.

803.917.1761 PO Box 1791, Columbia, SC 29202 meaganwarren.com

803-788-3080 x103 300 Spring Valley Road Columbia, SC 29223 www.springvalleycc.com Contact: Rhonda Stone
Clubhouse Manager/Special Events Coordinator

Wedding & Reception Sites

COLUMBIA CONFERENCE CENTER

Need a place for your special occasion? Conferences Meetings Trainings Socials Receptions

SPRINGDALE HOUSE AND GARDENS

Celebrate the Time Honored Traditions of the Old South 803.794.5557 3150 Platt Springs Road West Columbia SC 29170 springdalehouse@att.net

803-772-9811 Off Fernandina Rd. between St. Andrews & Piney Grove Rds. at I-20 & I-26. Columbia, SC
www.columbiameetings.com

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