My Relational Style Action Plan

This Action Plan Worksheet will provide material for the final project; complete the following 17
items with sufficient detail (citations/references) to service the writing of Part 2: The Counselors
Style. Take advantage of this growth and development opportunity to integrate insights from the
readings into your action plan. Review all 3 Self-Assessments and the Power of
Connections document very carefully and prayerfully develop a plan to enhance your
relational style under the influence of an overarching goal for life. Continue working on the
action plan throughout the course (strive to complete by end of Week 6) and place it in the
Appendix of the Final Project. It would be helpful to share your plan with a mentor(s) to support
and secure relocation (moving from where you are to where you need to be under the influence
of your overarching goal for life) desired.
1) My overarching goal for life is:_________________________________________________
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2) My three highest spiritual gift tendencies are:
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This means I also tend to be more
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3) The overuse of these gifts sometimes makes me

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4) My highest personality profile plotting point in Graph 1:

Graph 2:

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This means I tend to be more

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5) The overuse of this type sometimes makes me

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6) My most obvious combination personality and spiritual gift type (relational style) is:
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7) To communicate and relate with others more effectively I should

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8) My greatest blessing and/ or struggle concerning my giftedness is

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9)

I should guard or improve my following spiritual gift tendencies

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10)

I should guard or improve my following personality tendencies

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11)

I will check/control my relational style, in order to demonstrate fit with a D relational style,
through the following strategy __________________________________________________
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12)

I will check/control my relational style, in order to demonstrate fit with an I relational style,
through the following strategy __________________________________________________
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13)

I will check/control my relational style, in order to demonstrate fit with a C relational style,
through the following strategy __________________________________________________
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I will check/control my relational style, in order to demonstrate fit with a S relational style,

14)

through the following strategy __________________________________________________

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15)

To grow more spiritually, I will utilize the following spiritual disciplines

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16)

To avoid and resolve conflicts more effectively, I will covenant with God to engage the
following protocol:
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17)

My prayer in discovering my relational style and demonstrating fit through my life and
profession/ministry is

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