Pastoral Care

Facebook Privacy Settings Cyberbullying and Etiquette

Strand: PD/H,

Outcomes V2 Experiments with different aspects of spoken language

Indicators TS2.1
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Unit Focus:
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The unit aims to develop skills in

Facebook Permissions online etiquette Resilience to cyberbullying

Learning Activities
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Social Networking sites Are an extension of yourself. Anything published online is out of your control. Consider photos videos they can be saved by anyone who has access to your file eg: Last week 16 year birthday Discuss what are facebook permissions, what are they, why have them Demonstrate by finding a page that displays pictures, save the picture to My Documents. How to set facebook permissions Don t show your photos What should you reveal online, the difference between the wall and email.Uses. Discuss body language, loss of visual cues with written word and communication difficulties
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Posting and forward information and pictures of you and others, risks, implications Who looks at open profiles? Employers Teachers or schools could look at your page, particularly if acusations are made or through friends of friends Undesirables eg: 16 yo birthday party

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Etiquette use of caps, emoticons, online language, acronyms Beware of electronic communication, do not use it if you are angry. Walk away and come back.

What is the law? What should you do? The law that applies in the street applies online.

eg: A man was charged with Cyber Terrorism for spamming a government site he called it protesting (hacktivism), the law called it cyber terrorism. 17yo (18 next week) boy was charged with using a carriage service (the internet) to harass/offend contrary to the Commonwealth Criminal Code Act, NSW Police said. This carries a maximum penalty of 3 years jail He was responsible for the 16 yo birthday invitation going viral. 190 000 people replied to an open invitation on the web This would be law that would apply for sending sms and emails.

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If you receive unwanted posts delete them. If you get unwanted posts and you think it could become a problem you can Print the page before deleting the post Mark as Spam Report as Abuse Blocking users - it is possible to block users this means they will not be able to find you. Keep emails and texts as evidence, if you are sent cruel emails. Do not reply to unkind emails, sms, wall posts. Who do you tell, your parents, a teacher, if they are not helping you can go to the police

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Resources http://www.fbemoticons.com/facebook-smileys/ http://www.fbemoticons.com/facebook-symbols/ Netiquette http://www.smartcomputing.com/Editorial/article.asp?article=articles/archive/aol/aol54/aol54.asp&guid = Cyberbullying http://www.stopcyberbullying.org/kids/msparrysguidetonetiquette.html http://www.stopcyberbullying.org/kids/are_you_a_cyberbully.html http://www.stopcyberbullying.org/what_is_cyberbullying_exactly.html http://www.stopcyberbullying.org/lawenforcement/telling_the_difference.html www.acma.gov.au Cyber Safety site http://www.netlingo.com/acronyms.php http://www.positive-way.com/body.htm

http://au.news.yahoo.com/latest/a/-/latest/9010675/sweet-16-party-goes-viral/ http://www.whatsonsanya.com/news-15367-nsw-boy-charged-after-chatswood-girl-jess-birthday-partygoes-viral-on-facebook.html

Evaluation How can this unit be improved? What additional resources could be incorporated? What does the school need to assist with this text type? Were the topics relevant to the students?

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Emoticons An emoticon is a facial expression pictorially represented by punctuation and letters, usually to express a writer s mood. (www.wikipedia.org )

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How to read body language

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Up to 93 % of communication is non-verbal. Including tone of voice, eye movement, posture, hand gestures, facial expressions and more. The pressure of body language can especially be felt in emotional situations. Body language usually prevails over words. Are you good at reading body language? The eyes communicate more than any other part of the human anatomy. Staring or gazing at others can create pressure and tension in the room. Gangs have fought over the way someone looked at them. Researcher suggests that individuals who can routinely out gaze another develop a sense of control and power over others not so inclined. Maintained eye contact can show if a person is trustworthy, sincere or caring. Shifty eyes, too much blinking can suggest deception. People with eye movements that are relaxed and comfortable yet attentive to the person they are conversing with are seen as more sincere and honest. Eyebrow muscle draws the eyebrows down and toward the center of the face if someone is annoyed. If someone is empathetic and caring during dialogue the eyebrows will not show the annoyed facial grimace. The smile: There are 50 or so different types of human smiles. By analyzing the movements of over 80 facial muscles involved in smiling, researchers can tell when a smile is true. Look for the crinkle in the skin at the middle, outside corner of the eyes and if it is not there, the smile is probably fake. Authentic smiles are smiles that "crest" or change rapidly from a small facial movement to a broad open expression. Bodily cues are the most reliable of all nonverbal signals of deception to help you read body language. This is because a person generally has less conscious control over these than other signals. (Springer, 1996; Ekman & Friesen, 1974). Hand -to-face gestures and shrugs are strong markers of deception. Playing with or touching things nearby during conversations has been found to be associated with deception (Cody & O'Hair, 1983). Deceivers also are likely to have increased illustrator activity--quick and animated use of hands/arms during speech. Vocal cues can predict deception. More and lengthier pauses during conversation; a lot of such sounds as "uh," "um," word repetitions; intruding sounds not part of the actual speech, less lengthy answers or explanations where they would be expected to be. Space is important. Personal space is needed and if it is invaded intentionally and at times by oversight can cause an individual to feel uncomfortable or threatened. Studies have shown that individuals that do not respect others space are less popular and often rejected by others. Gestures communicate. Hand signals can communicate without the use of any speech. Touching communicates. Touching can be friendly or it can be aggressive. The way a person stands reflects their level of confidence and comfort level. If a person stands tall so to speak they are seen as more confident. If someone is standing with their hands on their hips that can indicate aggression or alertness. See our recommended reading list on body language and gestures. When you interact socially develop your listening and observations skills. The above are a guide for looking for the clues to deception they are not fool proof. Watch your body language. Avoid shifting eyes and head quickly during convers ation when someone asks you a question. Do not look down or to the side. Look directly at the person with a sense of confidence but not overbearing or threatening in nature. See article Body Created by Meridith Is yours turning people Printed 30 July 2011 Language - Ebbs 2011 away? Page 6 of 12 Note: If you want to win someone over a good rule of thumb is to mirror his or her body language. Read their body language and follow their lead.

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Here is a list of all Facebook Emoticon Codes

Show your emotion in the Facebook Chatspace with Emoticons to your friends!
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Smile/Happy

:-)

:)

:]

=)

Cute Cat Like :3

Frown/Sad

:-(

:(

:[

=(

Glasses

8-)

8)

B-)

B)

Tongue

:-P

:P

:-p

:p

=P

Sunglasses

8-|

8|

B-|

B|

Grin

:-D

:D

=D

Angel

O:-)

O:)

Gasp

:-O

:O

:-o

:o

Devil

3:-)

3:)

Wink

;-)

;)

Heart

<3

Grumpy

>:-(

>:(

Robot

:|]

Unsure

:-/

:/

:-\

:\

Pacman

:v

Cry

:'(

Shark

(^^^)

Kiss

:-*

:*

Penguin

<( )

Kiki

^_^

Upset

>-:O

>:O

>-:o >:o

Squint

-_-

Confuse

o.O

O.o

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This Facebook Chat Emoticons can be used in the Facebook Chatspace, simply type in the shortcut/code, once the message been sent it will automatically change the shortcut/code into emoticon(s).
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Example: Press Enter when you type (^^^) in the Facebook Chatspace. You will see (^^^) shortcut/code change to
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Facebook Smilies
(-: User is left handed. O :-) User is an angel (at heart, at least).

:-D

User is laughing (at you!).

~~:-(

So stupid, smoke is coming out of your brain.

:-O

Oops/Surprise/Yelling/Shocked.

:-$

Biting one's tongue/Put Your Money Where Your Mouth Is.

8-)

User is wearing sunglasses.

|-I

User is asleep.

:'-(

User is crying.

|-o

Bored.

:'-)

User is so happy, s/he is crying.

|-O

User is yawning/snoring.

:-@

Screaming/Swearing/Very Angry/About To -:-) Be Sick.

User is a punk rocker.

:-#

Been Smacked In The Mouth/Wears A Brace/My lips are sealed.

-:-(

Real punk rockers don't smile.

:-0

No Yelling!(Quiet Lab).

:- |

Has A Cold/Flu.

#:-)

Matted Hair/Fur Hat/Crewcut/Messy Hair. :-(*)

That comment made me sick.

&:-)

Curly Hair.

:-(=)

Bucktooth smiley.

(-:|:-)

Siamese Twins.

:-)

Tends To Drool.

(:+)

Has A Big Nose.

:-X

A Kiss/Lips Are Sealed.

(:-(

The saddest smiley.

:-P

Sticking Out Tongue.

(:-D

Has A Big Mouth/Grin

:-)-o

Smiley doctor with a stethoscope.

*<:-)

User is wearing a Santa Claus Hat.

:-)~

User drools.

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*<:-)>

Santa.

):-)

Impish smiley.

o-<:-{{{

Santa.

~:o

A Baby.

:-~)

User has a cold.

: 8 - Dragonfly smiley.

b:-)

A Baseball Fan/Has A Cap On.

:-\

Undecided smiley.

@:-}

Smiley just back from the hairdresser.

)O-)

Scuba smiley.

:\/

A Woodpecker.

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