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Table Of Contents
Hey, what’s up? ........................................................ 5 Preamble ................................................................10
Part 1: The Bigger Picture ..........................13
My story .................................................................13 What do I want out of this? .......................................17 Right and Wrong ......................................................18 Men v Women .........................................................23 Emotional Trigger Buttons .........................................25
Part 2: The Fundamentals About Attracting Women .........................................28
The Magnificent 7.....................................................28 Personality Traits That Attract Women ........................32 Why Women Bitch ....................................................38 Nice Guys Always Finish last ......................................40 The First Impression.................................................43 21st Century Women.................................................46 Just Be a Man ..........................................................48 Players Playing the Game ..........................................53 The Rich and Famous ...............................................54
Part3: Looking Through The LookingGlass The Other Way ....................................56
Everything Has a Reason...........................................56 Respect Yourself ......................................................56 How You View Yourself..............................................58 The Attitude ............................................................59 Changing your approach ...........................................62 Being Different From Everyone Else ............................64
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It’s All About Skill.....................................................65 Positive Thinking ......................................................66 Take Yourself to Your Happy Place..............................69 Attributes You DON’T Need........................................70
Part 4: The Techniques and Methods that Attract Women ......................................73
Hot Women Have Heard It Before...............................73 The Timeline ...........................................................75 Lead The Way..........................................................77 Women Test Men .....................................................79 Be a Man ................................................................82 Teasing Women .......................................................82 How to be Funny......................................................85 A Crash Course in Comedy ........................................86 “Let’s Just Be Friends” ..............................................88 More Tips................................................................90 Read My Body Language ...........................................92 What is Good Body Language? ...................................93 Reading Her Body Language ......................................95 Crash Course in Comebacks.......................................96 Don’t Be Predictable .................................................98 Be Persistent .........................................................100 Better Test Answers ...............................................100 Where to Find Women ............................................102 Predict Her Moves ..................................................105 An extra edge........................................................106
Part 5: Solving the Puzzle ........................108
Bringing It All Together ...........................................108 A Step-By-Step Plan To Approaching Women .............108 How To Get Her Number .........................................115 The Call ................................................................119 The First Date........................................................125 Where To Take Your Date........................................125
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........................4 -- .........................................137 -.........................................131 The Kiss..129 Don’t Be Boring On a Date ..................................................132 How To Take Her Home ..136 The End of the Beginning ....................................When You Meet Up .................130 Let Her Chase You.............................................................................................134 Sex or Friends ..................................
in the real world. like getting a phone-number. what’s up? Hi. go out and have immediate success with women. get a date or a kiss. attracting and dating women.Hey. That really sucked! But fact is I wasn’t alone. One day I just couldn’t take it anymore and I had to do something about it. but I wouldn’t sleep with him”. I was one of them. but was always the guy who women referred to as “oh him? Yeah he’s nice. Hey. Many years ago I was a real loser when it came to girls. Most of the lines or techniques that all these dating experts were teaching just seemed a little bit “off” and didn’t really work out there. There are millions of men out there who just don’t get it when it comes to meeting. women like that”. -.5 -- . dating and relationships. my name is Nick and I think I can teach you one thing or two about attracting women. something that I can use RIGHT NOW. every book about that topic out there just tells you basic stuff like “be funny” or “take charge. I couldn’t simply walk into a library and pick up a book about becoming more successful with women because … well to be honest. There wasn’t really anything available in terms of bestpractice. I would always have many “female friends”. But what should I do? I didn’t know where to look or what to do to get better with women.
But what was it? -. have long-term relationships with beautiful women and basically just KNOW how I can make almost any woman attracted to me. But I desperately wanted … no. Now I wasn’t really keen on being “just another friend” or a “nice guy”. because if I don’t help myself here. but what about the guys that are? What do they do? This got me thinking… There are some men out there who seem to get most of the women that are around. I wanted to kiss those girls. then it’s going to be a lonely trip to the grave. not leaving me even more clueless.6 -- . smart or gifted … I’m just a regular guy like you. there will always be a solution … you just have to find it.What I wanted was something that actually HELPS me getting better. NEEDED to find out what it really was women want in a man and what makes them attracted. and I wasn’t particularly talented. So I was thinking … I’m really not the only guy isn’t as successful with the whole women and dating thing. while most men seem to get hardly anything or are just “friends” with women. … and I did! It took me many years to figure all this out. If there is a problem. Now I believe that everything can be explained if someone just sets his mind to it.
be at least over 6 foot tall. rich or handsome … he was just a regular guy like you and me. They KNEW how to act and behave around women. drive a nice car and sort of wealthy. None of these men had those traits. would I have the same success? The funny thing was that I expected every man who was really successful with women to be very good-looking or have a handsome baby-face. What if I was to do exactly the same as they did. I really expected the real Playboys and Ladies-men to have a masculine body. have good model-like looks and wear an expensive watch or something. these guys seemed to have it all figured out. didn’t buy drinks and never invited anyone to dinner or to the movies. They were not nice. But they did something different from me and all the other guys who always ended up getting rejected by women.What if I was to model the very successful men out there. -. That was really weird let me tell you. they didn’t pay lots of compliments to women and they didn’t bring flowers. be tall. the ones that always had at least 3 or 4 women on the go at the same time. So when it comes to courting a woman.7 -- . But you know what? Nobody was! Every guy I met who was really successful with women wasn’t tall.
While every guy out there was trying to be very nice, polite and friendly to a woman he was trying to court in hopes that eventually she will like him too … it never happened. He always ended up as being rejected with “well you know, let’s rather be friends, you’re such a nice guy” or “you are just too good for me, you will find somebody else”. … but really, I’m not too good for you, I like you and want you!! … that’s what I’m saying, I don’t deserve you. But you can still be my friend. Cya! Ever heard this one? :) There is something invisible out there that all these successful Playboys and Ladies-Men do to get the women they want. It is really hard to spot if nobody ever tells you what it is or you never did GET IT in the first place. So what is it? What is it that those lucky guys do to get all the women? It certainly isn’t good-looks, height or money … it is something else, something that is difficult to see if you don’t know what to look for. I did figure it out and I can fairly say that I have become even MORE successful than the guys I modeled and analyzed when I first started out. I know what works, what doesn’t work at all and how to improve almost every single aspect of this dating game so YOU can have the same success as me! But I don’t want to tell you right now what that secret thing is that seems to attract almost any woman … I am going to LEAD you to the answer throughout this book.
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This way, you will feel much more like you deserve it and you will also be able to look through the looking glass the other way. What you are about to read took me a lot of years of analyzing, testing and summarizing so YOU can enjoy the secrets of the dating game, become successful and finally get the woman (or women) you always wanted. There is no bullshit, no hype … simply what works! Welcome to StreetSmartDating!
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The idea of this book is to prepare you for attracting the kind of women you want and desire. I will show you all the fundamental methods, lines and techniques to be successful with the woman of the 21st century … because most of the stuff that is out there right now is either too old and doesn’t work anymore, or doesn’t really help you because most tips are crap. What I want to do is to get you up to speed within 24 hours so you can go out tonight, and see results INSTANTLY! No, I’m really not kidding. After you are done reading this dating manual, you will see the code of the matrix and have all the core essentials down to meet and attract women on a daily basis. This is why I want to give you something you can use and that will help you right now. Not in a months time, not next week … TODAY! Most other books about dating don’t have that edge and only tell you what works in general. I will go deeper and show you some of the biggest kept secrets of the dating underground. After you are done reading the StreetSmartDating guide, you should be able to have a good understanding of what women want and have a good idea of how to pick up women. That’s why this book only covers what you really need to know. It is almost like a crash-course or dating women in
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like I said this is the raw basics. but take your time. There is nothing in here that can’t be done even by the most socially challenged people. whilst others will need to spend time thinking. It’s ideal for someone who doesn’t really know where they are with attracting women and wants to know where they should start. It shouldn’t take you very long to read through this book. but trust me. Some of you might lap this up like milk and have taken on all the challenges instantly. practicing and then progressing. then I suggest you get my killer program called Advanced Dating Series or study my other programs available from my website. Hopefully. You will get far more out of it if you successfully complete this course.11 -- . how to say it and so on. Of course. I know its tempting to skip forward to a section that you really are intrigued by. This is the perfect place. because there are a lot of ideas and principles in here that you need to understand if you want to become irresistible to women. you will understand each section and then progress to the next. Use this book as a journey. If you want to know more about how to attract women. -. It doesn’t mean that you can’t achieve it. I’ve tried to put everything into the right order. you will need to understand its predecessors if you want to get the most out of it. But first you will need to make sure you understand the principles outlined in this book … otherwise the advanced programs won’t mean anything to you. this isn’t the only book available. what to say to them. just don’t think that you will get less out of it because you don’t like talking to people or you are very intimidated by girls.a nutshell.
but that doesn’t mean they can’t be done. If you think something is not worth trying then you are guaranteed never to understand the concepts or gain new skills. you need to make sure you are willing to succeed. Things are hard work at times. you will be a master in no time! -. So get reading. If you find something hard to grasp. If you are too negative and too skeptical not to even give things a solid try.12 -- .Most importantly. but I can’t help you. then I’m sorry. it just means you will get more satisfaction at the end of it.
But I had to work for my success … I had to work very hard to get there! I never was the handsome type of guy and I wasn’t rich … heck. just like most guys out there who don’t get it. generally … the other person is nice to you as well. I didn’t really “learn” it.Part 1: The Bigger Picture My story One thing that everybody asks me at some point is where and how I learned to approach women. But when it came to women and dating. I couldn’t have been more wrong. I tried what probably ever other man had in mind as well. I acted nice and polite when around girls. or would hang around girls as a “friend”. Since I wasn’t that handsome and wasn’t rich (like most men out there). Was I getting anywhere? No! So you see. It -. I would get women attracted to me because if you are nice to somebody. I guess after a lot of trial and error I just realized what worked and didn’t work with women. But I really believed that you either had to be tall and handsome … or have a lot of money to get a girl. I always thought that by being nice. at first I went for being the nice guy and using my personality to show I was attentive and caring. I’m still far away as we speak.13 -- . I always ended up getting rejected.
It’s a bad idea asking a woman what she wants. But what was it? Certainly no women loves being treated like shit. they would get attracted to me?! But I didn’t want to become an arrogant jerk.14 -- . otherwise they wouldn’t go out and sleep with them. 99% of men don’t get that. there is something else out there. They always seemed to fall for the jerk or asshole that treated them like dirt. he says to himself: “gosh what a jerk. she should go out with me. they are not! That got me thinking. act like perfect gentlemen and are really nice to them. Otherwise they would date the guys who treat them well. we have a beautiful woman going out with a jerk that treats her like shit. That was very weird. So … if I acted just like a jerk or an asshole towards women. because shouldn’t women be with a man that treats them well? Yes they should! … but in reality. while she ignores all the other guys who would treat her like a princess.didn’t take long before I realized that women found nice guys boring. Every guy who gets jealous when some arrogant schmuck dates the women he would like to be with. always look what she does and what really happens. Here. I figured out that there must be something women find attractive in assholes and arrogant jerks. I would treat her so much better than him”. that just seemed kinda wrong. -.
but ONLY because I did what most other men didn’t do. They didn’t like a guy who they can just get. They always liked me for who I was. Everything takes time and usually the harder it is. Women didn’t like being treated like a princess. I had the privilege of being myself because I already did what got women attracted.15 -- . What I mean is. they will walk all over you if you act like that. the more rewarding. So I figured that I had to turn it around. They didn’t like someone “easy” or “nice … someone that acts like a wuss. One thing I always kept in mind when I was still working women out was this: To be good at something you have to get yourself over the hill. So pay attention to every detail I am revealing here because it can take up most of someone’s life just to get -. compliment her all the time. flowers.I realized that I had to start looking at everything from a different perspective and pay attention to more detail. and that made me special. There was no need to buy presents. In fact. offer to do everything for her or even take a girl out a lot. I was different. If you were to “just be yourself” around women and didn’t get it yet … she would dump you or tell you to “let’s rather be friends”. unless you really stick it out. but it paid off. you will just be another failure. I knew I was on my way… Women liked me being bad and joking around with them. I had to work very hard at figuring all this out.
piano. And I will bet they gave up because they didn’t make the same kind of progress that they did when they started. I’ve been there and I’ve basically rewritten the nono rules that get you rejected. you will need to put in some effort as well and learn and apply it. It’s not looks and it’s not money … it’s something completely else and I will show you exactly what it is. Once you have read this manual you will be so much better than before. I can teach you step-by-step what really works when you want a woman to think you are so sexy she will literally ask YOU for your phone-number. Fortunately. I think I nailed it! Right now. -.the basics down. After several years of trying almost EVERYTHING I could think of. The only reason why I got so good at attracting and seducing a lot of beautiful and intelligent women is because I tripped over my dick more times than all of you guys reading this manual together! Hey. But those who stuck it out probably became pretty darn good at it. ballet or whatever? How many of them gave up after just a few months? A lot I’ll bet. But to get the most out of this. you don’t have to because I have done all the hard work for you already.16 -- . Think of all the people you have known who did martial arts. but to get really good and make your success with women shoot through the roof you just need to stick at it. believe me when I tell you I know what doesn’t work. But on the other hand. I have the core stuff together that can make anybody successful with women.
17 -- . I want you to read through this book and be able to go out and get 4 phone numbers the very same day! Now let me tell you this: It is very simple! Being successful with women isn’t difficult … IF you know what really works! But if I got good at it.I really do know what works and what doesn’t. What do I want out of this? This is a very important question and a good place to start. Are you looking to improve you sex-life? Do you want a girlfriend? Do you want to become a Player? Are you looking to meet your soul mate and get married? • All of the above? I am not going to tell you that you should sleep with at least 10 different women a month or that you should get one woman and stay with her for the rest of your life. that’s why I want to give you only the core fundamentals and concentrate on results. this is the most powerful tool to have. so will you! So let’s get started. But what I am going to give you is choice! In my opinion. If you can choose what you want to do and actually be able • • • • -.
What you will do with my techniques is entirely up to you … but once thing I can tell you right now. whether you will decide to let one or 20 women be part of your life: The power of choice is something not many people have. If you just want a girlfriend. then weed out all the women you don’t want to be with and keep the one you like. then you don’t need to. I am going to show you how you will be able to do all of the above. especially when it comes to women and dating … so appreciate it because many men don’t have it. It really is entirely up to you but nevertheless. If you don’t like having 23 women on the go. If you have been married already and would rather have a meaningful long-term relationship instead … do that instead. this my friend is like having a personal remotecontrol for your life! Maybe you want to sleep with a woman within a day of meeting her.18 -- . Maybe you want to sleep with a woman within an hour of meeting her. The question is: does it work? -. Perhaps you want to get to know them before you sleep with them or maybe take each stage very slowly.to do it. So regard reading my material as a privilege … because I don’t teach them to just anyone! Right and Wrong You probably already have a rough idea of how someone in general “should” behave around women and how to treat them.
but you would get detention. If you just won a sports tournament or a competition and you feel and act like the champ. and what is generally perceived as good social behavior. I know so many guys who had to listen to their friends. You see. teachers. Not only because it is illegal. -.Now I’m an not an arrogant jerk towards women (ok maybe sometimes ☺) but you need to realize that there is a huuuuuuuge difference between what works when it comes to attracting women. a lot of stuff that gets women attracted. Remember those words: Because you just don’t do that. Now you can’t just walk into a bank and shoot everybody just to get some cash. you would get a laugh out of the entire class. people would tell you to take it easy and come back down to earth. is something that many people regard as immoral and wrong. parents. but also because you just don’t do that. they got told “you can’t do that? Why? … because you just don’t”. Need a couple examples? • Being cocky or cheeky to somebody • Acting arrogant because you are better at something • Breaking certain rules If you make a cheeky or cocky comment towards your teacher. their boss and society in general that if they stepped out of line or did something a little bit different than anybody else.19 -- .
• Do you just walk over to her and pay her a compliment? • Do you ask her if she wants to have a drink with you sometimes? • Do you invite her to the cinema? • Do you ask her if she just wants to “hang out?” • Do you tell her that you really like her and if she wanted go on a date with you? • Do you ask her for her phone-number? • Do you play it cool? • Do you wait until she looks at you? See. get her phone-number. have a date. Basically. • Always say thank you • Be a good. kiss her and get physical with her. you aren’t particularly model-type handsome … you are just a regular guy. you brake ‘em but would get into trouble for doing so. you have been taught good ethics. there are so many questions that pop up in someone’s mind when he is attracted to a woman. nice and polite towards others • Do what you have been told But what about when you wanted to date that special girl you had a crush on? How were you going to achieve that? Should you act like you always did around your friends? Should you do something different? You aren’t rich.If you didn’t see the point of certain rules. good manners and the right-behavior from when you were a little kid. But what should you do to actually GET HER! You know.20 -- . What can a regular guy do? -.
most of the stuff that women LOVE and get ATTRACTED to is morally wrong. Why? Because they think what you are doing is morally wrong! Does it work though? Hell yes! But some people might not like it as much as you do. Maybe even you might some of my techniques not really “clean” or “honest” or “not how you should do things”. Why? Because if I show you how to beat the system. how to seduce them and basically that you can get almost any woman’s phone-number under 3 minutes. my stuff works like a charm. ultimately.21 -- . -. feminists and even deeply religious folk. somebody will lose power. But. I’m talking about the moral majority of this country. I’m not talking about lying into someone’s face to get an advantage and I’m not talking about screwing people over here. In fact.Now look: Most of the stuff that really works with women is NOT what you think it is. Especially don’t tell your female friends that you know how a woman’s brain works. I’m talking about becoming a man … a real man! And a lot of folk don’t like me teaching you this stuff. So just to get the record straight … you shouldn’t tell the wrong kind of people that you know this stuff.
But if you try to be a man. The real question is. -. Will you change YOUR goals or morals from reading my book? It all depends what you want personally.It is highly advanced cutting edge material that I believe is the best in the world. she will see you as a friend. HOW you are going to use my knowledge is entirely up to you. are you going to change your outlook on life because of what you’ve just read. Perhaps that you are starting to realize that being nice and thoughtful won’t get you what you really want. Remember. Maybe it’s time to change and become more of a man. or do you want to leave things as they were? But as I said before: I will give you the power of choice by teaching you what really works with women. Most people will tell you that having the same types of interests and being gentle and caring will attract you to a woman. she might start to see you as a partner. If you try to be like her.22 -- . she will look for that in a friend.
sex & relationships (romance) Now I have generalized this to the max! I know there’s loads of other stuff but to get my point across. If you fail to GET the how’s and why’s of female psychology. Ok. sports (competition). let’s get this party started then… Men and women are two completely different human beings (well. cars (performance. titties (sex) and hanging out with his buddies. then no wonder you are getting rejected all the time. But most men can’t understand women at all.23 -- . talking to girlfriends (gossip). styles). you just need to get the fundamentals right. let’s very quickly go over the obvious differences: Your average guy will be interested in. They don’t know how the female psyche works and how to effectively handle a woman. d’oh ☺). but it really isn’t. Let me ask you one simple question: Why the difference? • Why are we men not interested in a movie about romance than women? -. it will do.Men v Women Allright. her looks (attention). Women might seem very complicated. beer (getting wasted). shopping and clothes (appearance). Your average female will be interested in: drama (emotion). obviously.
24 -- . you will see that women are emotional creatures! They need to be stimulated emotionally to do something with you. creates a need that most men don’t have! We men love the adrenaline and competing against each other to see who is better at something. But long story short: Women and men have different needs! If you can press those buttons to GIVE her what she craves in a man. Women like to compete between other women in terms of who gets more attention. who “looks” better because that is how they compete. This is the key! -.• Why are women not as interested in a cars performance as guys? • Why we guys not as interested in gossip as girls? Just because we are men and they are women you say? Well. it’s all about driving her emotions nuts until they go wild. We compete to determine who is the dominant one. We men just kick each other’s ass to determine who is stronger or better. porn-magazines and car engines don’t really make you look sexy for women: They don’t really care! Why? Because if you put all the pieces together. the alpha male. I think that’s obvious … but why? I tell you why: Because drama for instance. Cold facts don’t work here. That’s why talking about sports stats. It all goes back to the animal kingdom. you are dead on the money.
how much money you got or how big your biceps is…you have to be able to press her emotional trigger buttons that create attraction! Get it? So let’s talk about that for a second.25 -- . Then what? Wouldn’t it be much more effective if I showed you how to create your own? Yes I do have some killer lines but I want you to grasp the CONCEPT of why women get attracted to whatever I say.No point talking about what car you drive. Why does it work? -. how to get her to your place. Emotional Trigger Buttons Where are they? How do you press them? What’s it all about? Allright then … The biggest question you probably have right now is: “How do I approach a woman. etc. what do I say and how do I get her number?” Now look. you need to understand that to be successful in the dating game. you need to look beyond the phonenumber. So let me ask you this: If I just gave you lots of lines that work … at some point you will run out of material. how and when to kiss her. There is also the date.
But. funny and a “hot-guy”. if you said • “Hey baby. There’s no chemistry going on here. So how do you press a woman’s emotional trigger button? How do you get her ATTRACTED to you within seconds? Simple… You have to be just a little bit too arrogant.26 -- . but make a joke out of it. How does that look like? Let’s use the example from above. smile and tell you how full of yourself you are but they just got attracted to you! -. and add some humor: • “Hey! You know I don’t wanna brag but … [pause] … I just am the greatest” *smile* Get it? Women LOVE that shit! In fact. you will press her sexual trigger button. For instance. I am the greatest” … then she would just make a “who’s that weirdo?” face at you. she gets attracted to you and thinks you are sexy. but we have to get the fundamentals right first. In other words.Because I figured out how the code looks like. they will giggle. I know WHERE her emotional trigger buttons are. It’s too arrogant and too dry. add some humor to it and make it sound cheeky. the ones that make any woman attracted to you within seconds! There is shitloads more to be successful in the dating game. here’s the killer secret: If you don’t take yourself too seriously.
she will think you are hot and sexy. Nice guys always finish last! Pay attention to what she does (such as dating a jerk or asshole) and not what she says (such as “I want a man who treats me like a princess”). she plays her cards right. giggle and get shiny eyes. Always pay attention to her behavior and not what she actually says. If you pull this off right. she will tell you that this is “harsh”. now let’s get deeper into this. that you are so “mean” and “bad”. I know this sounds weird but that’s how a woman gets attracted to a guy. But you can SEE if she likes you or not. Keep doing what works! Allright. hits you on the arm and calls you a bad boy with a huge ego … she absolutely loves what you are doing so don’t stop it. They never tell you that they like you when you are still dating her. lets you kiss her. Don’t think just because she hasn’t told you anything yet that she isn’t attracted to you. -. that you have such a huge ego or that you are so full of yourself…just look at how she reacts to it. If she laughs. It doesn’t matter if she calls you mean.27 -- .Remember that women never go for the nice guy. This is key here! Everytime you create attraction or press her emotional trigger buttons. hit you on the arm but she will smile.
Women wouldn’t mind having a partner who has lots of money because he would be the perfect provider. But this need is purely a survival strategy and hasn’t changed over centuries. Does that mean you can’t get a beautiful woman if you are poor? Dude. 2) Looks Most women say they want a guy that is cute and tall. All but one are truly important.Part 2: The Fundamentals About Attracting Women The Magnificent 7 There are seven basic things that attract women.28 -- . clothes and jewelry … or generally speaking. Now the problem here is that looks alone give you a lot of attention and is NOT really a crucial factor in how successful you are. 1) Wealth Meaning how much money you have and how much you earn. but even if you DO have money. Anyhow. women will get attracted to you instantly. If you look like a Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp. it doesn’t mean jack. which is the last one. The most common reason why women (or gold-diggers) like a wealthy man is pretty obvious: Because they can buy lots of stuff like hundreds of shoes. here are the seven basic things that attract most women on this planet. Same goes for -. They also are attracted to the idea of never having to work or worry about money anymore. Women do prefer rich guys over poor guys. you couldn’t be more off here. provide a better lifestyle.
not tall and don’t have model-looks. 5) Status Men who have status have influence and power and usually money. Nevertheless. 99. If you are famous. Of course this is complete bullshit (look at Paris Hilton) but this is just the way it works in this world. You really need to come off this trip that looks will give you a huge edge in this dating game because it’s just not true! 3) Power Power is a form of dominance and shows your leadership qualities…and women ALWAYS go for the leader of the pack. If you have status then people will assume that you are somehow better than somebody who -.height: You don’t need to be tall to become a ladies-man. this is a bit of a bummer.9% of men are not famous and can’t capitalize on this attractive trait. People think that if you are famous. You don’t need to be a senator or a powerful business-man to qualify for this department. To be honest.29 -- . brings respect and shows you are not at the bottom of the food-chain. Unfortunately. 4) Fame Okay. Why? Because it’s sexy. women are attracted to guys who are famous. you are better than the average citizen. This is almost like the complete package of power and fame. then people will recognize you on the street because they already know you. some of them I am close friends dress like shit and don’t even shower before going out. the alpha-male. Why do you think most of the guys that are really successful Playboys or Ladies-Men are not rich. But fact is that women find themselves naturally attracted to a guy who has lots of power.
Having a special talent is a great turn on and automatically makes you stand out from the crowd… if you are GOOD at what you do and are enthusiastic about it. then you must be sexy for every woman. you are being regarded as someone “special” which makes you unique and different. Get it? 6) Talent Men who have talent are seen as attractive because women feel they can provide for her. -. It also means that if you have talent. then all the men out there who enjoy great success with women wouldn’t be where they are right now. Your personality is your greatest weapon and tool when it comes to success in the dating game. your status rises instantly in the eyes of ALL women. If it wasn’t for your personality. and if they see other women being interested in you. I mean you won’t get rich overnight and you certainly won’t grow two more inches if you are an adult. I will show you how you can hone your personality into an irresistible powerhouse! … I’m not kidding.30 -- .doesn’t have status. Here’s another slick trick: If women see other women eyeballing you or trying to get your attention. But your personality is the KEY when it comes to meeting and dating beautiful women. Your personality is the ONLY thing that you can tweak and improve in a short amount of time. This is because women tend to follow. 7) Personality This is more important than any of the above.
It is your personality that makes a woman feel turned on. you will get ultimate success with women. I have lots of player friends and I am good buddies with some of the best seducers and womanizers the world has never seen … fortunately. but we are the living proof that this stuff works. We have kept everything pretty quiet and underground. I don’t even have a car as I type this. it’s pretty much on auto-pilot right now ☺ -. happy. the eyes open in astonishment and all they can say is “WOW!” Now listen. excited.Your personality decides whether or not a woman will ultimately want to be with you and love you. To be honest.31 -- . intrigued and get that gut feeling called attracted. We are not rich. not tall and certainly don’t have modellooks. I have put a lot of effort in this and it nothing works better than my personality when I want to get a woman’s phone-number and get a date with her. The reason … in fact the ONLY reason why I am so successful at what I do is because I have perfected my personality to naturally attract women everywhere I go. But once they have seen how incredible my techniques are. Look. None of the others can do that as intense as your personality. I know you don’t really believe me here that just by tweaking someone’s personality. Most guys don’t believe me when I tell them. the jaw suddenly drops.
It’s difficult to change the way you look. and all I could do at this point was to fix and enhance my personality that it would attract women in the near future … and it worked! I’m not richer. not taller and not more handsome than I was before. -. difficult to change your status and difficult to get richer.32 -- .But I was a struggling nice guy like many of you guys reading this. for once … we really got lucky! . So you see. I am going to list the specific personality traits that give women that gut feeling called emotional attraction. Yu will need to learn and ultimately acquire most of these traits so they become a part of you. and I am going to show you how YOU can become the same.-) Personality Traits That Attract Women In this chapter. Women have a pretty good idea of what a man should have and be like in order for them to consider you as boyfriend or lover material. but my personality is absolute killer! It’s the reason why I am such a chick-magnet right now. the best thing about your personality is that you can change it for the better if you work on it. Some of them are best on their own. Here are the fundamental tools you can use to attract a woman. whilst others can work well when you combine them. but strangely enough the most important of all your characteristics you can change. I guess … this time.
e. it will bypass their bitch-shield. but she will love it when you take control of situations and make the decisions (i. walk up to her and do all the “dirty work”. • Dominance – Women love a man who takes charge and leads. It will also make you an interesting and fun person to hang out with. you will have a problem! • Confidence – What you need is cohones. you are being cheeky…and every woman will want to be around you because you they feel that gut-level emotion that magically attracts them to you. • Have a big ego – Make sure you are in love with yourself and have a big ego.33 -- . where to go and what to do now on a date). This doesn’t mean she wants to be locked up. Be a little mysterious. If you can make women smile. So make sure you use what works and get that big ego! • Be cheeky – Now this is one of the most powerful tools you will ever learn.• Humor – Make a woman laugh and she will eat out of your hand. Women are the weak ones. They can’t give you attitude either because you lowered their guard since they are laughing. • Be spontaneous and unpredictable – Don’t signal your intentions to her just like that. so they need a strong counterpart…you! You have to make the decisions. By being slightly arrogant AND funny. Women naturally follow so if you don’t lead. keep her on her toes and make keep her -. giggle and laugh. they always end up with the slightly arrogant jerk who is full of himself. But don’t take yourself too seriously and play it down a notch. I know this sounds very arrogant but even though women SAY they want a nice guy. balls and some inner strength.
making you seem a hot and interesting man in a woman’s eyes. Have a charming personality. Don’t do everything for her whenever she wants to. you are dead on the money. but DON’T try to be romantic early on. unpredictable and a little mysterious. Every woman kinda knows how men behave or how her past dates went … so you have to show her that you are NOT like them. And this is done by playing a little hard to get and by being busy sometimes. Say things she wouldn’t expect . you will have to play your own thing here. • Be hard to get – You have to be a challenge. All this will make you so much more interesting. and being romantic kills everything early on! Most guys make this mistake so back off here! -. giving her gifts. • Be charming – This isn’t an easy one. You need to turn up the heat by creating attraction. don’t call her all the time.guessing. Play hard to get. otherwise women will lose interest if they can get you without putting in some effort or having to chase and fight to actually get you. It doesn’t work like that. make spontaneous decisions and don’t reveal everything about yourself early on. By being spontaneous. Make her chase YOU. But by any means. DO NOT be all cuddly and become a wimp by writing her poems.34 -- . If you can acquire that strong JamesBond charm that can sweep women off their feet. flowers of take her out to a candle-light dinner. and not the other way around. don’t respond text messages right away and make her know that just because she is beautiful doesn’t mean you will want to date her. It doesn’t mean you should be all romantic and a goody-goody two shoes. you instantly come off as different and special.
and that’s half the fun right there for every woman on this planet. Being clever and street-smart are both huge turn-ons for women so make sure people don’t perceive you as a dumb cracker-jack. you ARE like every other guy she has dated before. If you do. unique or different from one another. so have an attitude like this: Cool. maybe I let her hang out with me if she is interesting … we’ll see. but if you can show to a woman that you do have some brains she will find that very attractive. Maybe I kiss her. They don’t like the nicey-nice guys who they KNOW they can get anytime. Rules are here to be broken…and which woman doesn’t love a wild. rebellious and adventurous guy? She will try to tame you.35 -- . • Be cool – This is a hard one to explain.• Be rebellious – If you follow all the rules. you are boring and predictable. the bad boys of the jungle! • Clever – Women tend to be attracted to a sharp and bright mind…as long as you are NOT a nerd or a geek. Women won’t be interested in facts and statistics. So many guys take this dating game -. another woman wants a piece of me so let’s see what she’s got. Don’t say the same things like every other guy and don’t dress like every other guy. That’s why my attraction techniques works so perfectly here: it will make you stand out. • Be original and different – Don’t do the same things like everyone else. but here’s my take on it: You just have to take it easy. make you different from the rest and therefore you come off as the sexy and interesting guy every woman wants to date. Dating women shouldn’t be a big deal for you. so why should she want to go out with you? The reason why her past dates didn’t go any further was simply because every man wasn’t special. they want the rebels.
Now look. A better. You will come off so much more confident. The strongest one is if you can come off as slightly arrogant but still funny…called being cheeky! I haven’t found a beautiful woman who was not attracted to me when I was cheeky to her. more beautiful woman can just come along and be instantly attracted to you as well. play it by your own rules and do what YOU want. Those personality traits are what makes about 99% of women feel that gut level emotion called attraction towards you. most women will not be able to resist you. But that will be the least of you problems because what you want is an intelligent. so she gets jealous and won’t respond that positively towards you. But if you can acquire most of the personality traits that I just mentioned above. The only type of women that WON’T respond to you that well if you have all those personality traits above are ugly women. she knows that she doesn’t stand a chance. obviously every woman is different. sexy and as a challenge. and if you have an amazing personality that naturally attracts women.36 -- . Why? Because they know that most men don’t find them attractive. No need! Just relax. cute and beautiful girl right? So why settle for what the unattractive guys go for? I just gave you CHOICE! -.waaayyy to seriously.
polite or treated her like a princess. But in reality. treats them well (like a princess. so I want you to go for the type of woman you always wanted! Another thing I want to mention here is that most women SAY they want a man who is nice. Does she get what she wants? Does she go out with the guy she originally wanted? No! She goes out with the guy that makes her feel sexually attracted! And all those guys have at least half of the personality traits I mentioned above! -. good-looking.37 -- . the type of women me. obviously ☺) and plays the role of the perfect boyfriend. you and probably every other guy wants to be with has NEVER dated a guy like that.You can now make almost EVERY woman get sexually attracted to you. Get it? But you now know how attraction works so never listen to what a woman says she wants … pay attention to what is happening for real. If you are the perfect boyfriend. then you become boring. Being perfect in general is just plain boring…small differences and imperfections are exactly what makes someone or something interesting. Every man she’s been out with wasn’t nice.
Or in other word’s. BUT…” -. That’s exactly why most guys can’t counter an argument with pure logic because it doesn’t sink into a woman’s brain. Do you know what’s going to happen? She will say.38 -- . driven by emotions! …and the love drama! Their decisions are not based on pure logic but rather how they feel at that given moment. and WHAT to do about it to effectively handle the situation. you need to realize that women are emotional creatures. they just won’t get it if you are reasonable and try to explain it with pure logic. Buy why? Most men just don’t know what to do when your date or girlfriend acts like a complete bitch. So let’s continue… Why Women Bitch Women will give you some attitude and behave like a brat sometimes. “Yeah. I’m going to teach you WHY they do it. First of all..That’s one of the many secrets of this dating game! I’m glad I taught you this just in time.
The problem here isn’t really the bitching itself. I’m the woman. -. that women NEED emotions. Women will just say “I don’t know”. If you can’t handle the situation and let her act like a brat. but not you. but you will have to know how to handle a woman when she gets emotional. So. I’m supposed to follow”. “Look. that’s what keeps them alive. I know women like to bitch sometimes but seriously…stop behaving like a brat” You need to be able to hold your ground when you deal with a real hottie because she WILL give you some attitude to see if you are up to the challenge. acts like a bitch and gives you a little attitude? You will have to let her know that she can do that with every other guy. but how a man reacts to it. And if you have needs to fulfill. what do you do when your woman or date is being all emotional. Get it? Another thing is. It’s just like when women get annoyed at you when you ASK a woman on a date “where do you want to go?” or “what do you want to do?”. then you need something that feeds them right? In other words…DRAMA! Men don’t really have that need. YOU make the decisions. then she will get annoyed because you LET her do it.39 -- . Don’t ask me. correctly translated to “Why are you asking me? You are the man.
It’s all about respect anyway: if you let her know. then she will accept it and respect your decision. But if you don’t. there is a pretty big chance that you might have been what women call a “nice guy” as well. and how far she can go and what you tolerate and what not. their lives have taken a complete turn for the better. I want to dig a bit further down the spine and explain WHY exactly being nice to women is a very. she will walk all over you because you LET HER DO IT! Women don’t have any respect for nice guys that act like wimps. I want you to think a bit as well here. the type of man women like to hang out with. And they do it all the time! You have to make sure that you let her know what your rules are. Now.They test you. it’s sayonara son! If you don’t put your foot down.40 -- . You know. so behave like a man! Nice Guys Always Finish last Allright. can share all -. About 90% of guys who read my books and other programs have been “just friends” with women and were being labeled as “nice guys” by women in their pasts. VERY bad idea. Fortunately. they really do.
…and you were still waiting for the right moment to kiss her and tell her how you really feel about her. she will turn her head. she will NOT treat it as a date but like a get-together with one of her girlfriends where you chat about girlie stuff over a cup of coffee. The big question I always get is: How can I get her and what have I done wrong? The answer is actually pretty simple if you paid attention in my newsletters. picking her up when she needed a lift and even talk to her for hours on the phone. Or the most common response: why do you want to ruin our relationship we have? If you try to kiss her. Then you started her buying drinks.their problems with (mostly relationships and men) and basically consider you as her personal girlfriend. she will be nice to you as well and like you in the end. So why did this happen? Why does she think of you as just a friend? -. You wouldn’t mind to kiss or sleep with her … even if it was just to go on a real date with her but she just doesn’t feel the same way.41 -- . Or maybe you even did. if you want to go on a date with her. and she just said that she needs some more space and needs to think about this. You thought that by being nice and polite to women.
needy and wimpy behavior … that’s a fact! If you were unable to press her emotional trigger buttons that make her feel that gut level emotion called attraction towards you. “You know. But it’s too late now. But because women don’t tell you to fuck off if you didn’t behave like a complete jerk. … and you go like “but I don’t want to be friends. So let’s summarize once and for all: Women will NEVER sleep with a clingy and wimpy niceguy! They will ALWAYS date the bad boy. but they just don’t feel sexually attracted to you. She has made up her mind about you already.42 -- . I can’t possibly give you a rude rejection because you are so nice”. women don’t get attracted to nice. the guy that our society likes to call a menace. NOT sexual mating indicators. You will send I WANT TO BE FRIENDS signals to her. a bad influence and a jerk! -. clingy.It all leads back to when you first met her because that’s when you lay out the ground rules and the foundation of the emotional connection between the two of you. I want to date you” in your head. then she will let you be friends with her. but I just got out of a relationship … but we can still be friends”. Now. They will look at you and see that you are a “nice” guy indeed. you are a nice guy. It’s also a nice way of saying “I’m not really attracted to you but you are so sweet. then something else will happen.
I just give you all the stuff that really works out there … the true secrets of womanizing and attracting women. Allright. But just to get this over one last time: Please. Once a woman has made up her mind about you. ditch everything what nice guys do and add the rest from StreetSmartDating … and you are made! See. think about this for a moment: Why is a good first impression so important? Simple: Because you can’t change it after a certain amount of time. I get so many emails from guys saying… -.Does that mean you have to become a jerk to get women? Hell no! You just need to take what works for jerks. PLEASE don’t fall for the oldest trick in the book and believe that you should be NICE to women to become successful … in reality and on the street. it just doesn’t work! The First Impression Ok look… Everybody keeps talking about first impressions at shit right? But what’s really going on here? Why is a first impression so important? I want to reveal the real secrets right now and that will give you an incredible advantage. StreetSmartDating doesn’t teach you to be a mean bastard or to become a jerk.43 -- . you are literally screwed! See.
This is why most mistakes either happen within the first 30 seconds to 3 minutes … or at the date when you are trying to kiss her or get her to come to your place. you won’t screw up like this in the first place. rebellious. What can I do to win her over?” The answer is very cruel but it’s the truth: There is NOTHING you can do to win her over! If you blew it by being nice. And if you do have amazing skills. But if you fuck up. I have tried winning a woman over with some form of jealousy and I’m not even going to lie here … it does work! But the only way you can win a woman over AFTER you screwed up.44 -- . I hope you can understand that argument. there is nothing you can do about it because she has made up her mind. etc … see above for more examples). is if you have top-notch game.“Hey Nick. You will have to start dating other women and get your skills up to speed. -. NEXT! … that’s all you can say here. dominant. you will have to move on. being cheeky. I even tried to kiss her but she always turned her face away. wimpy and needy. It will only work if you displayed to a woman in the first few minutes of talking to her that you are different. NOT a wimpy nice-guy and have some of the qualities women are looking for in a guy (like humor. I met this woman and I think I blew it by being nice and clingy and she said she only wanted to be friends.
But on the other hand. you instantly get attracted and want to meet her. I am sooo going to sleep with him”. If she gets attracted to you and sees you as a potential lover or boyfriend. She doesn’t say “wow.45 -- . you have passed the “nice-guy” test as I call it (she sees you are not a nice guy). if she make a good first impression. Doesn’t happen like that. she will get attracted to you just like that. There is no choice here either. then she will keep her options open. -. Rather. They don’t say to themselves: “he is so sexy. If she gets attracted. they will keep the option open and see what will happen next. and she will now keep her options open and will decide if you are boyfriend or lover material. he is funny. It happens instantly! Let me say it again: Attraction happens instantly! You see a beautiful woman walking down the street. If she sees you as a guy who is sweet but only girlfriend material … it will stay that way.. cute and kinda sexy … I think it’s time to get attracted to him”. you can’t change it. as in you display to her that you have the qualities women are looking for .That’s why you will have to make sure you get it right from now on … and from the start! Once she has this image of you planted in her head.
you won’t get it. You know. • If you are trying to be nice to her. she will NOT be nice to you. • If you act needy and clingy. • If you don’t lead.They don’t really say yes. and that the man has to show her that he is a good provider. she will sleep with you and tell her girlfriends “we had sex last night … but it just happened”. she will get annoyed and reject you. they only say no or “I wanna see more…” … and in 99% of the cases. • If you are hungry for sex. she can’t follow and will therefore leave. To tell you the truth … NOTHING has changed! Women are attracted to the exact same things like they used to get attracted to 50 years ago … and their dislikes of men who behave a certain way haven’t changed either. -. like it was YOUR fault for letting her sleep with you because she wanted to see what is going to happen. Everybody thinks that women have become more demanding.46 -- . Women got their first taste of emancipation and they liked it. That’s women for ya ☺ 21st Century Women A lot has changed in the past 50 years in the female mind and to women in our society.
Be light hearted about it. If you let a woman push you around in a relationship it will simply end badly. You don’t have to be aggressive or -. Here’s a great example. then she will think “oh that was easy … he’s not a wimp is he?” Sometimes it really is just a test for her to see what she can get away with and to check your rules. and then ask her what she will do for you in return. Make a small joke about her trying to bleed you dry. Not only do women like to hear a man taking control. they also want to feel like he’s not tip toeing around her and telling her what she wants to hear just incase she leaves him. There is just as fine a difference between mean and in control as there is between jerks and real ladies-men.47 -- . most women literally pity men who can’t stand up for themselves.Can you see where I am getting at here? Women don’t want to be in control as feminism and emancipation has suggested. I’m not just going to give you money to spend. If she wants some money from you and all you can say is “yeah sure … here’s some extra”. She would really like to hear him stand up for himself and say: “Look. But you can pay me back with an ice-cream ok?” The key of course is NOT to appear mean. Let’s say she asks you for some money to … I dunno … buy some make-up or hand cream. This is just another way in which women subconsciously test men. In fact.
Just Be a Man The most important underlying principle and driver of success with women and dating is to be a man. Seriously … Women just want a man! That’s it. That’s why women get so frustrated. If you show that you don’t follow the same patterns as the rest of the male population then she will see that you are sexy and different. But on the other hand. Most guys try the nice and caring approach because they think that she will leave them and they couldn’t cope with that. taking control of a woman shows you are different from the other men she has dated and never had a relationship with.angry with her if she constantly asks you to do things for her. there is almost zero competition for you out there once you know all the secret know-how about how to attract and date women. The women of today aren’t really more demanding or harder to handle. Above all. just laugh about it and be cool. But how come so many guys have problems with women and dating? They are men for sure (I sure hope so lol).48 -- . So what’s the problem? -. The reason why most women complain that there aren’t any real men out there who are single is simply because 9 out of 10 men are wimps.
they know that men can be dirty pigs … BUT … if you try to be all nice and DENY that you are not like all the other guys out there. You will have to SHOW her that you are not like all the others. You know. unless you find the right woman”. they want a real man. wimps and nice-guys but so few real men out there these days is simply because our society has changed. The real reason why there are way too many wussbags. she will wonder why? Heck. masculine and so stereotypical in their role as men anymore. Do you now how to do that? So. you are a man so act like one.49 -- . I think sex before marriage is wrong. if you see a beautiful woman you get attracted and wouldn’t mind kiss or sleep with her … so don’t deny it! Be a man! They know that we think about sex all the time. Society has -. C’mon dude. Guys aren’t allowed to be macho. It’s not the same like it used to be. she might even think you are gay if you act all nicey-nice at the same time. for instance: Don’t act needy or clingy because that’s your death-wish right there.Simple: They are not REAL MEN! Women don’t just want any type of guy. A man that has most of the attractive qualities women are looking for to brand you as sexy. But don’t deny what you are either: You do have to show her that you are not hungry for sex and not just say “well.
Blame movies. -. etc). Over time.changed and created a lot of men that aren’t attractive to women because of their new-age behavior. But even though it should be the nice and moral thing to do. ethics. And guess what. our society has changed and made everyone believe that men aren’t allowed to act as real men anymore (because of equal rights. religion. strong arms to hug them and a man that is sure of himself and knows where he is going in life. polite and feminine guy that deserves to get the woman because he really does care about her and listens to all her problems. morals. TV. somebody who listens to all her problems they have with men and They want a shoulder to lean on. you will need to bring flowers. most guys believe that crap! They forgot what women really want! They don’t want another friend. it just doesn’t work! This is one of the key factor or drivers of failure in the dating game: society has been conditioning men to THINK that in order to be a chick-magnet. magazines and even your mom who told you that you need to be “nice” to a woman because they need to be treated like princesses.50 -- . write nice cards and literally “court” a woman to get her. And the bad boy jerk and macho will ALWAYS lose to the girl because it’s the nice. emancipation.
It’s attraction that counts! This is why it is so important for you to go back to the roots of being a man! Okay… I want to give yourself another perspective here to get the “just be a man” ideology across so you are able to look through the looking glass the other way. Men simply aren’t designed to stick to the first woman they have sex with.But women really WANT a real man. In the animal kingdom. It isn’t natural. it makes no sense at all because you have already been conditioned. If it was. that’s why they hang out with the guys they shouldn’t really be with. it is NOT what the society has been telling you.51 -- . there will be the Alpha-Male. then there wouldn’t be so many guys out there who still don’t get it and always fail with women. You really have to differentiate here between what is being PERCEIVED as the right way. and what is really EFFECTIVE when it comes to women and dating. And in most cases. He will have several different families and father many different children. When you think about it. But to speak from an evolutionary point of view: Men are designed to pick and choose which women they find suitable to mother their offspring. The other -. the boss and leader of the pack. That’s why most people don’t think being a classical or stereotypical man is wrong or unattractive.
the factor of being successful as a male in the animal kingdom is simply force and strength. who gets more women? Jerks right? And what is far better than being a jerk? A real man! A jerk will literally treat a woman like dirt when it comes to sex. But this isn’t really the most important point here. If you want to be happy it’s far better to at least test the water before committing yourself to marriage. Now. We may all at some point in our lives decide to stick to one woman. lie -.52 -- . Women like a man who doesn’t cling to one woman for instance. Survival of the fittest remember? But today. He’d have more than one girlfriend at a time. but ultimately it all goes back to being the man you should be. Thinking back to nice guys and jerks. Attraction has become more complex. just like in the animal kingdom. women are more demanding than simply going for the strongest guy. You see. there really isn’t much difference between that scenario and human life today. and the rest don’t get anywhere. there are a few men out there who get all the women. Although we are now civilized.males will all have to wait in line behind him and the females will all fight to ensure he fathers their offspring. But one of the reasons for so many marriages breaking down is from people marrying too young before they’ve made up their mind.
cheekyness. politeness etc like you have been told by society) … here they are again in a short version: • Strength: confidence. leading The most important part that you will have to implement in your daily approach and confrontations with women is to not only ACT like the man women want … but to ultimately BECOME the man women want. ego. Like the wise man said: Fake it till you make it! Players Playing the Game You may wonder why women complain about certain guys trying to attract them. sure of himself. it isn’t just strength like in the animal kingdom or good-looks. wit • Charming: calmness. A real man. being a badboy • Interesting: being different.53 -- . arrogance. money.about where he was and generally treat her mean. aggressiveness • Attractive: humor. that is. sexy bodylanguage and voice. she just says: -. Let’s set aside the creepy overweight old men and focus on the average nice guy. The woman of today wants a real man with certain qualities to feel attracted to (remember. the nice guy might talk to her for 10-20 minutes and then instead of her telling him where to go. On the other hand. persistence. stories to tell. The creep might get told to get lost within 20 seconds of talking to a girl.
pretty faced girl across the bar and she was stuck with the nerd who didn’t know his fly was undone. You’re a really nice guy you’ll meet someone who’s perfect for you soon.” You may have wondered why most women complain about nice guys talking to them.“Awww that’s so sweet of you to say so. Remember that women love to play social games like bitch queen? Well that’s exactly how women play it with meeting men. that men have been after them and its so hard to get them to leave her alone. Again. -. A girl may not have the greatest looks. The Rich and Famous It is a general misconception that women find money and fame attractive. Women play games when it comes to dating so they can get a kick out of it. she uses the opportunity to show that she is attractive to other guys. It is almost like an ego boosting exercise. The truth is they’re not COMPLAINING. You can learn how to change this around so you will be playing games with her. feel slightly insecure and get jealous when most guys pass her by. they’re PLAYING. anyone. So instead of grasping the opportunity to be seen with a guy that she doesn’t find that attractive. but I’m seeing someone. guys they like. This is compensation for the fact that the nice looking guy preferred the slim.54 -- . and by now you should be aware that whatever TV and the internet tells you about attraction is wrong. They want to tell their friends. this is something that society has told us is true.
Because of Disney and all the other false influences in her life. well mannered. they are interested in the experiences and emotions that he will offer. TV. Generally speaking. For women. You can get women to flock to you as well. evil. And yet they seem to get all the interesting women.The reason for this is pretty obvious. Most of my best buddies are broke or very nearly broke. It will take her a lot of disappointment for her to realize that this is not true and the reason it will take her so long is because it has been embedded in her sub conscious so deeply. interesting and generous. books and all the rest tell you that rich people are good and poor people are bad. good natured. This is the image we have been given from a very young age. Films. as long as you make them FEEL the way they thought a rich and powerful man would.55 -- . unhealthy. these ideas stick strongly in her mind and start to form pictures of her perfect man. funny. How many attractive. healthy. You may be thinking that this means that women will always go for rich and powerful men. aggressive and cold hearted. rich people are portrayed as attractive. This is completely untrue. cool rich people do you know? In my experience money makes you boring and difficult to socialize with. They are not interested in the wealth or fame that comes from wealthy men. untrustworthy. Poor people are portrayed as scruffy. -. she assumes that rich men can fulfill her desires.
bitch about each other and test you. It may seem pretty hard trying to attracting someone that wants something different from yourself. Take time to analyze your appearance. What do you want to change about your body? There’s no point in saying -. In all these tests and games both men and women are looking for the same thing.Part3: Looking Through The Looking-Glass The Other Way Everything Has a Reason Just as you learned why women shoot men down. Sex. Women want sex from the same man who can be faithful and loyal to her. But it can give you a head start and it can improve you’re game.56 -- . not by a long way. This might seem difficult to beat at first. Men on the other hand want many different partners and don’t want to be tied to any particular woman. Respect Yourself Appearance isn’t as important as your charm. but you simply have to work on giving them what they want rather than what you think they want. they all have a motive and a reason for doing so. Its not just for the sake of it.
Start by exercising everyday and reducing what and the amount you eat gradually. Your hair is a mess. Wash every day. Not to look fashionable as such. But there are things you can change. One of the worst things you can do is dress like everyone else. Make sure you buy clothes that are slightly different from everyone else. you are letting women slip through your fingers. The reason you want to make sure that you don’t dress too smart is so that you show a woman you’re not trying too hard. but to show you have your own style and you look good in it. Get some new shoes.57 -- . If you weigh that much. Not only are they cheaper but you can make yourself look more stylish. but being obese will. You weigh 250Ibs and all of it is fat. Keep away from baggy clothes and try to steer clear of clothing that makes you look as though you’re trying to hard. you are in the worst case scenario. Wear clothes that compliment your body. Get rid of the grubby sweatpants. Now to your style: This is important. Of course if you have a few extra pounds then this shouldn’t pose any real problem. Sort out your hair. For example. What about all that extra body weight? Lose it. You are 5’ 4”.you want to change it all and look like Johnny Depp. Dressing differently shows you have originality -. think hard about each factor of your body. not only is it bad for your health. Try and get clothes online. You wear tracksuits and sneakers all the time. Keep it short and wash it at least once every 2 days. What do you need to change? Well you wont suddenly grow to 6 foot and then shed off all that extra weight.
what makes a woman immediately interested in you from the first thing you say -. Clean your teeth at least twice a day.and women will assume you’re different and more interesting that everyone else simply because you dress differently. This can also be stopped with mouthwash. Use antiperspirant to get rid of sweat patches. Nothing is worse than something that smells too strong. Long nails not only scratch but they make men look feminine. Not a good look. Keep your toenails short and your fingernails shorter. Not only is it choking. If you don’t like antiperspirant then use a roll on or spray deodorant. Keep the scent down to a minimum. they just assist you. If they’re not very white make sure u brush three times a day and use baking soda with your toothpaste to help bring out those pearly whites. Brush your tongue to get rid of bacteria that causes bad breath. it also shows a woman that you are trying far too hard to impress her. What gives you great charm and confidence when you walk up to a woman and start talking to her. The real magic comes from the charm. How You View Yourself This will be the foundations for your success. Keep the fragrance low so that she can only smell it when she is a few inches away from you Remember that these image enhancers wont get you a woman. Get a subtle and mild smelling aftershave.58 -- .
This was all caused because you just didn’t think or believe in yourself. You try to say to her that her dress looks like the lower half is missing. That comes with experience and you get experience from persistence. but it comes out all wrong.to her and what prevents you from feeling to down if you get rejected is self-image. laid-back tone that shows her your just kidding around so it sounds insulting and above all you sound too nervous. that’s just way too scary. I bet you think these kind of things: • What if she has a boyfriend and he gets really angry that I’m talking to her? • What if she thinks I’m a loser and tells me to get lost? • What if she turns around and tries to ignore me? -. Imagine you feel very nervous and worried as you approach a woman. The Attitude So how do you fake that initial confidence so you can jump start your progress to becoming a professional player with women? You don’t want to just walk up to a woman and start talking. You don’t have a relaxed. If there was one part of the book that had more importance than any other. Your confidence is your foundation.59 -- . There really is no stopping someone who has a good selfimage. it would be this. make sure you work on it. You don’t say it with a smile.
And I doubt they will ever happen to you. say something like “Okay girl. Don’t worry about the ones that aren’t. So what happens if a woman is cold towards you. -. They may joke around ant talk to you and say it was really nice to meet you. The chances are you will meet at least 5 who will be interested in you.• What if she says something and I cant think of an answer? • What if people see me talking to her and think I’m desperate? • What if she laughs at me and then goes and tells her friends that some loser tried to talk to her? I have thought similar things when I was starting to try to meet women.60 -- . If you are worried about any of the situations above then simply talk to 10 women. Even if you do come across women who are married/engaged/lesbians/unsociable it doesn’t always mean they will scream at you or insult you for speaking to them. I’ll see you around or something” and walk away. doesn’t really say much or worse tells you she doesn’t want anything to do with you? You laugh. then: • • • • • 1 1 1 1 5 of of of of of them them them them them will will will will will be married have a boyfriend be a lesbian be nervous and shy be wanting to meet someone The trick is. Lets say you talk to 10 women. If this is a magical average place you’re in. None of those things have ever happened. That is what a player can do. to speak to as many women as possible.
but its not like guys walking up to them in the street and talking to them is anything they haven’t experienced before. You will probably get an apology as she realizes you’re not to be messed around: -. by just keeping your relaxed and chilled attitude. You need to show that you’re not some chump that gets all emotional just because some girl isn’t interested in you. First. Even if you do feel slightly insulted. What happens if you get a really harsh response? The one of your worst nightmares.61 -- . this situation has shown you that its not all that bad and your worst thoughts never even came close. Don’t worry that she will be terrified of you. Women might get a little annoyed when a nervous nice guy or a drunk approaches them. This will show her that you’re a player. Far too many people do this and its counter productive. You are just like my little bratty sister … you have about the same eye color” Don’t be confrontational about it. she says something like: “Look. If you stay relaxed and light hearted.Never take it personally. she will react well to it even if you don’t leave with her number. You can leave this situation feeling more confident. Its far worse than being ignored or being told she has a boyfriend. I don’t talk to losers” Hit back with this: “Aw you’re so cute. you can make her see that she has just turned down a hot payer. Laugh at any insults you get and be relaxed. which will make her very frustrated. Second.
Don’t worry about women like this. Don’t change your style or image for the woman. Keep doing what works and ditch what doesn’t work. -. In the short time you meet them you might not be able to convince them that you are the man of their dreams as they may assume because you dress a certain way. You might even tell it to a girlfriend or on a date that this bitch insulted you and then you hit back with a sharp comeback. you’re not their type. you can gradually begin to understand what attracts women. Attracting this girl might not make any logical sense and that is why you have to grasp this new approach to attracting her. You might know her well. You can stretch the story out and give everyone a really good laugh.62 -- . have seen her around or just heard about her. just stick with a style you’re comfortable with. Think about women’s love for bitching. its not what you find attractive. Tell your friends and other people that you meet about the bad experiences if there are any.“Look I’m sorry I didn’t mean to snap at you. Remember. There are some women who are very picky and set in their ways. Try to think what she would find attractive. Try to think about the things that don’t really make any sense. Changing your approach Perhaps you know a woman that you really like. but what SHE finds attractive. If you have the opportunity to speak to them over a longer period of time you will probably be able to prove them wrong. I’ve had a hard day and some jerk was bugging me in the mall earlier” etc etc. By persevering with what works.
Giving her a rehearsed line that has been used by every chump in the country is not going to show her you’re different. but funny and light hearted. the rejection happens in lots of different forms. but the female will also decline any unsuitable males. Yes. You might not get scratching or biting. These are the root of all evil. but you might get a fake number or she may tell you she has a boyfriend. To attract a woman with words. males will want to mate with the best looking females. This is also true of females. Because we are very different to animals.63 -- . Try to think in your mind when you see a nice girl: -. depending on how angry you make her. Men choose women and women reject the ones they don’t want. Joking around with her and teasing her are the best ways to get her attention. but at the same time you’re good fun and not arrogant. Why do you think the attractive girls get all the attention and the fat ugly ones spend all their time on the shelf? Because as in nature. You must have seen those natures programs where they fight off ugly males? The same is true in our society today. there are many more ways in which we can communicate. a male will decide what kind of woman he wants.Going back to the male way of thinking. For decades people have wasted the power of words and come up with things like “chat up lines”. display bright colors and sound a strong mating call. Of course. In the same way that in nature a female will grow attractive feathers. of course the male will initiate mating in the animal kingdom. you need to show her you are different from other guys. You want to show her you’re confident. Try something that is not only original. so will females in human society.
INTERESTING.What does everybody else say to her? What is would she find interesting/funny that she least expects right now? To successfully change your approach you have to look at yourself from a female perspective. act and dance just like every other average guy out there. Many people don’t realize just how important branding is. Branding is a very important part of marketing. Showing that whatever you are trying to sell is different from everyone else. These are like attributes but -. What she is attracted to by a higher power and cant do anything to change it. To help you gain confidence and experience you must always stick to what works and ditch what doesn’t. People wont want to buy something that they think is similar to what they already have or similar to something that they have decided they don’t want. EXCITING in a woman’s eyes? Of course not! I’m going to show you now what women find attractive in men. talk.64 -- . the woman you’re trying to pick up will automatically assume that you are just a regular guy. This is really all branding is. with your new understanding of women. Farmers used to brand their cattle with a hot iron to mark and distinguish them from other cattle. Being Different From Everyone Else Marketing is very similar to attracting women. You promote yourself towards a particular type of woman and you sell yourself to her. If you dress. walk. Does that make you SPECIAL.
This is just the same as learning skills with women Perhaps you are good at walking up to a woman and getting her number within just a few minutes of talking to her. If you can use these tools effectively and in the right combination. Some of these attributes will attract 90% of women. You must have played or heard of a game like Pokemon. As you play and take part in challenges you earn more spells and moves that help you defeat different players. your game is just a set of skills that you have and use when you meet women. In these games your character has a basic set of spells or whatever. You don’t have to start thinking that there is something wrong with you and you need to get yourself some new -. It’s All About Skill People automatically assume that when things don’t work out with a woman it was because they have something that’s just not right with them. To put it another way. This isn’t true. Maybe when you text or call her she looses interest quickly and doesn’t reply or speak to you. these are more like tools. It was because you didn’t have the right charm or game. then you will be able to attract almost any woman. That could be because you don’t have the same kind of attraction when you speak on the phone and that is a skill that you need. Some might only be attractive to 30%.65 -- . Final Fantasy or even World of Warcraft. You choose what attributes you want to display to a woman to attract her.because different women are attracted to different attributes.
then you need to gain a new skill. I disagree with this. If at any point in talking to a woman you struggle with interesting or funny things to say. I don’t have time to go into great detail but basic positive thinking has immeasurable benefits. You never get out of it because you always think about what could go wrong or something catastrophic that might happen to them if they try something to sort themselves out. Negative thinking is like a rut. To give you an example I will talk briefly about a friend of mine who had recently split up with her boyfriend. Obviously it was frustrating for her boyfriend who frequently told her otherwise and she was less attractive because of her low self-esteem. Throughout this relationship she thought that she was unattractive. This had a snowballing effect. dull and generally a poor girlfriend. Despite what all -. you just have to learn a new skill. After breaking up with him she went online simply because she didn’t have the confidence to meet people face to face. Positive Thinking There are ways of creating a positive image about yourself to help you get new skills and improve your game.clothes to impress her or gain 20lbs by working out in the gym. It built up until it was a problem and her boyfriend genuinely didn’t find her attractive anymore. Most people will dismiss positive thinking because they think its another way to kid yourself and you will never succeed until you have genuine confidence. then that is a sign that you need to learn a new skill. If you find yourself being challenged.66 -- .
has thinking about something negatively all the time got you what you wanted? No. People that do realize the power of positive thinking do succeed.her friends told her she insisted that things would never work out for her and trying would only result in failure. It might be because you appear relaxed and confident that women believe in the image you give to them of yourself. That kind of thinking is almost impossible to break. simply because you didn’t want to tempt fate and seem arrogant. they work.67 -- . Whatever the factors are. but you probably didn’t want to think that these things would really happen. Have you ever actually taken time to really think hard about what successes you could have and how you could achieve them? I doubt it. There are many ways you can use positive thinking. I ask myself some questions about it but most importantly I will make sure that the answers are also things that I want. There are so many factors that are involved in success and positive thinking. then you will forget to think of the positive successes you can have from sticking through something. they think of the most unrealistic consequences. -. close my eyes and picture myself as a success. Not only do they not give themselves enough confidence to succeed. The reality is if you think of all the negative things that will happen to you. People you think negatively throughout their lives are guaranteed to fail. I relax. You may have fantasized about these kind of things. but it wont work if you keep focusing on those things. So don’t ignore positive thinking. Well. but I’m going to stick to just the one that I use. It might be that because you think positively you use the “higher energy” to your advantage. Nothing that bad will happen.
-. Try applying the scene you picture in your head to a situation with a woman. There’s no point in life if all you want to do is be negative. negative people are never happy or relaxed because they keep thinking about all the bad things and what might happen. then she is head over heels for you as successfully turn things around. You could even picture a short movie as you go and talk to her and maybe at first she is cold towards you. Stop reading this book and just give up on life. Look at really cheesy adverts for holiday homes and even alcoholic drinks. Even if by some chance you get what you want. What will her expression be like? How will she laugh? Remember these are all positive things that will happen. If you don’t want to try any of this and you think that its far better to be negative there is something you can do.68 -- . Look at all the fine details they have and picture what kind of details would be in your life when you have what you want. noone can. Maybe it’s a girl you pass sometimes in the street and you want to think what it would be like to go and talk to her.• • • • • • • • • What clothes will I be wearing? What will I be doing? What job will I have? Will I be smiling? What will my posture be? How will I talk? Who am I with? Where am I? What is the weather like? You are almost trying to picture a postcard style image or a snapshot of the life and success you want. I cant help you if you want to be negative and try nothing positive.
out with a friend or maybe watching something funny on TV. What was the last really happy memory you had? You might have been at the beach. had your first kiss.69 -- . Find the piece of music that brings those feelings back and play it to yourself in the morning with your eyes closed. This is about using your happy experiences to promote positive thinking.Take Yourself to Your Happy Place No this has nothing to do with being high. These are basically called “triggers” and they are just what you need when you want to feel good instantly. Maybe the best holiday you’ve been on there was a song that was number one that summer in every country and you heard it all the time. If you can think of them then you can “load” the feeling of your choice. Let the song form pictures and images -. then you can use it as a trigger to bring back those feelings you had. maybe when you passed your driving test. What was the feeling like? If you don’t really remember it. Maybe there was a song you heard for the first time. If you find the song that gave you that feeling at that time. These are usually subtle things that where happening at the time or in the background that your memory has used to “file” these experiences under. try and think of things that would bring back the memory. went on a good holiday. What are some of the happiest memories you have? Everyone must have some happy memories. no matter how bad your life has been. You might have the best memories when you were at school.
If you find a song that makes you feel upbeat. Just one of them can turn a woman right off.70 -- . Sadly. I can remember the smell of wax crayons from when I passed my driving test. Maybe it was a scent that you associate with a good experience. Women want a man who knows who is. Insecurity shows that you aren’t confident with yourself. If you stick with people who are confident and sociable then women will assume that you are like your friends. savor it and listen to it before you get on the bus to work so you feel good about approaching a woman. nerds and social outcasts aren’t much fun anyway. Worse are people who don’t like meeting real people and prefer to stick to dating websites. Don’t be insecure. Perhaps the air freshener in the examiners car when you passed your driving test. most guys have one or all of these characteristics. Try to stop hanging around people who think negatively. -. These characteristics are VERY destructive. When you find the things that made you feel good. And lets face it. likes himself and doesn’t constantly worry about what other people think about him. Then use that positive feeling to walk up to women with confidence. Attributes You DON’T Need Some characteristics are very unattractive to almost every woman on the planet. That brings back a great feeling for me.of the first time you heard it. look for others. These people are too shy for you.
Don’t show her that you’re needy. Don’t ask her if she is okay with this that and the other all the time. Holding her hand all the time when you’re walking. • Not taking control and making decisions. Don’t go on about your outstanding performances or greatest moments. like you cant say to a woman that you’re confident and sexy. Saying your past relationships have all been disastrous and women treat you like dirt. avoid saying anything negative about women and their faithfulness unless it is meant in a light hearted and fun way. Here are the most common: • Crowding a woman. Always asking a woman where she wants to go and what she wants to do shows you have no control and wont excite her.71 -- . It shows you are insecure and looking for attention. • Talking negatively about things. Don’t talk about how much money you make or how difficult your job is. Equally. Touching her too much in the early stages of a relationship. Of course. If you argue with someone about their opinion it will -. • Don’t do or say things to get attention. showing her that you are needy and weak happens in certain ways. This is frustrating and unattractive. • Don’t try to change someone’s opinion on something. A woman wont want a man who worships the ground she walks on and has to have her with him or talking to him all the time. Tell her you are both going to X tonight because they’ve got a great atmosphere there and she’ll like the place. Show that you are relaxed and laid back by only making occasional light contact with her.
-.72 -- .show a woman that you are insecure about your own opinions and you’re not at ease with other people having different views than your own.
Part 4: The Techniques and Methods that Attract Women Hot Women Have Heard It Before Attractive women have been approached many times before. but hot women have had more compliments than they have had ass grabs. its because they’re after something. They have probably heard every single cheesy pick up line. or maybe just that month. Even if the compliment comes from a nice guy.73 -- . confident and hold back on any kind of compliment. how nice her hair is and how great you think she is. they have probably been through every embarrassing attempt there is when it comes to trying to pick up a woman so you need to think differently. In her head she fantasizes about her perfect partner just as much as -. To attract a rich bitch or sleep with a famous and beautiful woman. They have probably been whistled at. try approaching her by being funny. How does this work? Well as I’ve already said she isn’t just used to being complimented. they don’t only think “This guy is a wimp” they also think “He’s trying to sleep with me”. Women might like compliments. Rather than telling her how good she looks. had their ass pinched and told they look beautiful perhaps a hundred times in their life. there are new skills that you need to learn. she’s pretty darn sick of it. they know and expect it from some men. They also know that when a man compliments them.
I’m not going to be pushed around. A far more effective way. They don’t want more money. She dresses well. “This kid doesn’t get the attention they want and that is why they misbehave”. If you approach her and the first thing she says to you is a request. You are walking past a restaurant on a sunny day and seated outside at a table is a beautiful girl with one of her friends. they want a man to take control of her and say “NO. she gets far less of what she really wants in a partner than everyone else.everyone else does. don’t backhand her across the face and tell her to shut up. you’ll notice what the psychological coach will say to the parents. Sadly for her. and a way to also show that you are light hearted and funny is to tease her about herself. If you have ever watched anything like nanny 911 or driving mum and dad mad. If you meet a girl who looks like a spoilt and beautiful rich kid. Her real wish is to meet someone that will take control of her. looks rich and has loads of shopping with her. Spoiled kids are exactly the same. You go and say hi to her and she says something like: “Can you pass me that pepper shaker?” You reply: “And what’s wrong with your arms? Are they tired from buying all that stuff you don’t really need?” -. This is just as true about spoiled little rich girls. it’s probably a test. This wont work. put their foot down when they ask for something they want. perfume or shoes. tease her about being such a little bitch and toy with her about it.74 -- . Set the scene. I can keep you under control and there’s nothing you can do about it”.
Yes. If you were to tell her to give you her number and you still haven’t had a chance to work your magic. women like to toy with men but they don’t toy with the ones they are attracted to incase they lose them. That’s why if you know what they are you can use them to your advantage. Women basically have a set of dislikes and likes programmed into them long before birth. Because of these factors they are very powerful and impossible for her to control. not men who chase after them. I love spoiled little rich girls. They are subconscious. As long as you show you’re not phased by her tests or surprised with her responses then she will see that you are the type of guy she’s been looking for. The Timeline Women go with men who attract them. she might say something like this: “I’m hardly in your league” Respond with: “Quite the opposite.75 -- . I love their little tantrums when they don’t get what they want! I bet you look so cute when you’re angry”. Most men try to be nice guys by assuming that a woman will want a man who is openly faithful and ready to -. She will probably open her mouth and gasp and then laugh. These are out with their control. you’re not trying to insult her or make her angry just tease her.Be relaxed and funny about it. which means she likes what you said.
The reason most men who are good looking or fun to be around just go into the “Long Term” category is because -. They are 5 rough categories that a woman will put men into. Let’s be Friends: Interested in friendship but nothing more. Its important to understand that these aren’t stages or phases that you pass through when getting to know a woman. Sexually Interested: Wants sex as soon as possible but possibly a long-term relationship. Too many guys make this mistake when they try to attract a woman. Interested in Long-Term: Would like a relationship but will wait for the right time for sex. Not interested: Nothing other than a civil relationship. Dislike: No chance of any kind of relationship. WRONG.76 -- . Women put men into categories of like and dislike. She will put you into this category and it is unlikely you will move.commit. A guy cant go from being a friend in a girl’s eyes to being someone she is sexually interested in.
Don’t do -. confident and funny.77 -- . I don’t meet a lot of guys like him. but when it comes to romance. They assume that acting like they are around for the long haul will show a woman they are the right kind of guy for them. To put a stop to all this is very simple. dating and sex she wants you to be in control. This doesn’t mean that you focus everything towards yourself. Maybe if I stick with him I might find him sexually attractive. Lead The Way Women like to be controlled and they also like to have some control themselves. but you must make sure that most of the things you do for a woman are initiated by yourself. buying her fancy gifts and flowers are just some of the things that men do when they are trying to pick up women. Maybe they didn’t show they were confident enough. This is why some very attractive men don’t ever get anywhere other than friendship. but they wont always sleep with a man who shows he wants a long-term relationship.” Taking a woman to dinner. Women will have a long-term relationship with someone their sleeping with. they want an attractive guy IN a long-term relationship. Whatever it is it makes a woman think: “This guy is pretty attractive. Attract her to you by showing that you’re sexy. Women don’t want long-term relationships.they don’t push the right buttons to turn a woman on. Don’t show a woman that you are trying to get her into a long-term relationship by courting her. Maybe they aren’t funny or cheeky enough.
for example. when to have sex. If she has to rush to hospital. Spot all the little tricks she tries to pull. If you think about taking control for women as looks and fitness are for men. her father has just died or she has glandular fever. don’t tell her that its okay and you can do something another night. She could wash her hair anytime.everything that a woman asks. If she says that she’s washing her hair. This is not just more attractive. you know you almost had me for a minute. what to eat. If a woman tries to test you or play games with you. she wouldn’t be any fun anyway. If you know what you’re going to do on a date. Take control of the situation. c’mon go play hairstylist and I’ll meet you at my place in an hour”. These are tests and you need to show they haven’t worked on you. Don’t ask or give in to all her demands. don’t go along with it. just like with a spoilt and bitchy woman don’t let her push you around by giving her all the things she asks and hints for.78 -- . surprise her and turn it around. Now you can see that just as -. its much easier to manage. then its easier to understand. what tricks you’ll pull. She might of course try things like saying she has to look over things for work tomorrow or go shopping because she hasn’t got anything to eat. then it will be 100 times easier than follow all hers. what games you’ll play with her. Make sure that you decide where to go. A woman wants a man who takes control but very few men do that. women wash their hair all the time. say “Haha. A man wants an attractive woman but there are very few. it’s the oldest excuse in the book. Men settle for less attractive women and women settle for boring men. don’t expect her to rush over to your place. so don’t let her make you think its something you have to give way to.
They realize that men will try various different things to attract them and sleep with them. the woman you are trying to attract wants a confident in control man. She will find you funny and smart and eventually even the bitchiest and most cold hearted of women will open up and tell you how much they like you. Some of them aren’t even aware that they’re doing it. Not just able to control her and her “give me what I want because I’m beautiful” attitude. these hot women are women all the same. Women Test Men All women test men at least once or twice. But almost all hot women test men at various stages of a relationship. Being funny and confident and not playing up to a woman will frustrate her and make her think about you all the time. Most of them learn at some point to use this to their advantage. But of course. Hot women go through an experience in their lives that makes them think differently about men. but also in control of his emotions.much as you want an attractive woman. perhaps as young as 13 or 14. These women will have had male attention from a young age.79 -- . This is why they have seen and heard pretty much every pick up line there is. which is why they test and manipulate men. the situation and even himself. but they are still women with needs. But if you were a hot girl and you wanted to find out if this man is going to be able to control you and stop you -. They might not get very many guys they are attracted to in their lives. And they want a man who is in control.
then they give her a compromise and apologize another 100 times. You would make sure you were as subtle as possible so that you could make sure you got a valid answer. not what you tell them. Wait for a woman to actually test you. Most men will panic and screw up when a woman throws a tantrum because she cant get what she wants. But if its her birthday. however. This is the same when women test you. to be nice to a woman. This will have lost all the respect she had for you. Don’t use them too often either. -. but you give and do nice things for her in your own way. If they cant give in to what she demands. It isn’t a fair trial if you ask a criminal “Did you steal this car?” and then accept their answer.80 -- . or they will just become meaningless.from throwing tantrums. It is important. If she wants a new pair of shoes. They will apologize and tell her that they are really sorry. how would you go about it? Would you ask him directly? Of course you wouldn’t. This way she will actually believe you that you wont put up with her moods. laugh and tell her there’s no way. Call her up another time and tell her you’re taking her out. Spot the times when she is actually asking for something and teasingly say no. Don’t tell her randomly at some point that you would never put up with tantrums or moods when she tries to get what she wants. get her a different pair of shoes as a surprise. This doesn’t mean that you give her what she wants. They want the truth. If she says she wants to go out that night tell her you cant at such short notice because your busy. You must make sure you use your skills at the right time.
If she wants you to go to her house tell her you’ll be over later because you’re busy right now. Be unpredictable and don’t kiss her every time she comes close to you. -.If a hot girl tries to kiss you first. 3. say “Hey. you’ve got something in your teeth” Being smooth is vital here. tell her you need to keep making out for a while longer before you’re ready. Never give a hot woman what she wants right away. You are allowed to just say “NO”. Here are some basic rules you can follow: 1. That is why you have to challenge them more than other women because they are so used to getting anything their bratty heart desires. jokingly let her know that you wont stop doing it. Instead of just saying “I’m sorry I wont do that again” say to her “Well. 4. Remember that very hot women can get anything they want. I like doing that. If she tells you that she wants you to have sex with her. 2. not right now. Never say just “YES” to a woman. Mix things up. If a woman says she dislikes something about you. so you better start moving if you want to avoid it”. don’t come across as arrogant and unhappy. Women will always try to get you to obey them and do whatever they want.81 -- . tease her about it and then shortly afterwards you go to kiss her. As soon as you do that they will either marry you or ditch you.
he doesn’t like thrills. he doesn’t get physical.Be a Man Don’t let anyone tell you that women like kind. Colin Farrell stars in action movies. he sits in an office all day. If you at any point show you’re shy or timid then a woman will start to see you as feminine. but it is far better to be masculine than feminine. Why do they get so many women? If they are rich and famous that is usually a side issue. You need to make sure that you walk tall. you can communicate that in a walk. he’s rough. Think of all the badboys and real men out there. You don’t want to show that you’re so masculine you would slap a woman and then demand she sleeps with you. daring and even if he was poor women would much rather sleep with him than poor old Bill. relaxed around women and above all you have a good sense of humor. A woman wants a masculine guy that doesn’t take himself too seriously and believe it or not.82 -- . emotional and caring men. Teasing Women Teasing is the best way to show you are confident. sensitive. but why do you think so many women prefer guys like Colin Farrell than guys like Bill Gates? Bill Gates wears boring clothes. -. You can walk like a man and just end up looking like a prick. stick your chest out and above all stay relaxed. he doesn’t get dirty. Whilst they might like to be treated well and have fun with a man women always prefer masculine men over feminine men.
This totally messes with a girls ideas about you and she will find it pretty funny. kiss her good night and then tell her: “You know you’re not like all my other friends.83 -- . weirder. This way she will be really stuck. But now he just said I was his friend? What does this mean? Don’t tell me that he’s not interested in me. but you have also confused her and given her a panic attack by telling her you think of her as a friend. For example. you’re giving the message that you know all her little games and you wont fall for them.” This implies she was the one that started holding your hand as you were walking and she was the one that was being to forward. then take it away and tell her: “You cant hold my hand just yet! I don’t know you well enough. this guy likes me. because she hasn’t got any moves left! Messing up a woman’s mind is another good way of teasing her. I mean we go out and we kiss and I really like him. do it. Tell her that you think she’s cute when she tries to test you out. When you are walking take her hand for a few minutes. that wouldn’t be fair! I really like this guy!” -. Trying to work out a woman very early on is a good way you can tease her. In her head she will think: “Wait a minute here. I like it” You have obviously just teased her by telling her that she’s weird. you’re a little different. Basically. If you ever get the chance to let her think she’s now just a friend. I dunno.Here is a way you might tease a girl on a date.
Of course she will know that you like her deep down but the doubt will toy with her mind so you can tease her constantly with this method and not have to actually be there. Try and go for a woman’s insecurities. As always, you want to be light hearted about it because you don’t want to end up insulting her. Maybe when you go out and she always gets a light drink or doesn’t have dessert. Tease her about her weight. Try tickling her belly at some point and say: “So, you’re trying to get rid of your little friend then? Is he ticklish?” This is most likely just another test if a woman ever asks what you think about her weight. She expects you to say that she looks wonderful and even if she did put on weight, she would still look beautiful. Please, don’t tell me at this stage of reading you’d still try something like that. When it comes to fat, less is more. Small, toned and flexible people make for much better sex. Don’t let anyone on Jerry Springer or any other daytime show tell you they are happy with being overweight or that fat people are attractive. To 99% of the world’s population, fat women are ugly. She knows this damn well so there’s no point in lying to her. On a final note about fat, what do you do if she asks you if you would still love her if she was fat? “Heck no! I’d leave you like a shot. Actually, I would sell or you’re clothes and then leave you.”
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How to be Funny
This is the biggest and most powerful tool of attraction. It will always beat fame, money, power etc and you can change your humor unlike the others. It doesn’t matter what you look like, if you’re a man and you can talk, then you will be able to make a woman laugh. The idea is to make her feel happy and good by making her laugh. It doesn’t always have to be belly shaking laughter like you’re the funniest person she’s ever met, she might even give you an unimpressed look but have a grin on her face like she’s trying not to laugh. The main thing is laughter makes her feel good and shows that you are clever. In adult life, we laugh only about 10% compared to when we were infants. She has probably had a difficult day with boring people that cant even be mildly interesting. Having a guy making her laugh will certainly draw her attention to you. The key to being funny has very little to do with what jokes you use. It’s the whole persona that you have when talking to a woman. Just as picking up women is about your personality and confidence rather than giving her words and phrases to attract her, the same can be said for humor. Don’t say humor, BE humor. Women want the funny personality. If you want to see someone that has a funny personality think of Jim Carey. He might be goofy but he is a good example of what a funny personality is. You don’t want to be like him of course, you want to be smart and confident, but it’s a good example because he uses a personality and doesn’t just copy routines or say funny phrases.
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Men who try to say funny things without having a humorous personality will just come across as jerks. TV personalities are notorious for doing this. Think of award ceremonies and the like, where celebrities like Madonna, Paris Hilton, Mick Jagger and the rest, will all have jokes written for them that they reel out. How often have you felt like telling them to just shut the hell up? Now compare that with people like Eddie Murphy, Billy Connolly and so on. They are funny because they know how to actually BE funny, not just say jokes. Learn to develop a plan for when you meet a girl that you like. If she likes what you do initially and seems to be into you think how you will develop that. You can try: • • • • • • Teasing her at every opportunity Make fun of her Show her you wont be pushed around Get her interested in you sexually Accuse her of coming on too strong Reject her kisses and then go back for more
If you don’t have a plan, the chances are you will slip into the same old routine. You might keep the funny act up for a while but you will let her down when it really counts and she will lose interest quickly.
A Crash Course in Comedy
Anyone can become a funny person. You just have to make sure you can deliver, engage and get into the groove of being quick witted. One of the best ways of doing this is to watch comedy shows and stand up routines. My best advice is to keep away from sitcoms like Friends, The Simpsons and so on and go for more intellectual quick-witted humor. Some of the best to watch are stand up comedians like Peter Kaye, Eddy
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Try saying “Aww do the nasty people keep pushing in front of you because you’re too small and cute?” • Try to make it look like you are digging yourself out of a difficult situation and that you said something embarrassing. The first is to pick up on things that she says have a double meaning. if she said she has to go to Toys r Us try to make out that she is a bit old to be buying toys for herself. I mean when I rob banks I aim for at least… er yeah you’re right it was terrible”. if she mentions something about a bank robbery for instance. There are two ways you can do this. tease her. • Deliberately misread what a woman is saying. Here are some tips for making good humor: • Tease a woman when she shows she has strong views about something. even if you know she is buying a present for a nephew etc. Try watching sitcoms that have been written by comedians and cult comedy series. try and make out that you were responsible and then back track: “Oh that bank robbery was nothing. Friends is just a little too feminine to be good humor and everyone watches The Simpsons so you need something original. if a woman says to you that she doesn’t like people who cut in line. For example. Look a little confused and say: -. I like that.87 -- . For example. We should do it sometime. The second way is to put words out of context.Murphy and Chris Rock. For example. The Office and Extras by Ricky Gervais are two of the funniest shows on the planet. If a woman says “Yeah. For example. don’t just agree with her.
88 -- . There are loads of different jokes you can make about current affairs and you can even steal jokes from political shows and news quizzes. it just makes you seem arrogant. at least until we are alone. If you try and make out your serious about ridiculous things it makes them seem even funnier. I think we should wait a while. It has nothing to do with a -. If gas prices are rising tell her that you had to sell your car to pay for gas. why cant we take things a little slower?” • Over exaggerate things every now and then.“Right here? You know kids might see us if we do. If she asks you how much money you make say $8bn a month. “Let’s Just Be Friends” As a man you never want to hear the phrase “I think we should just be friends”.” • Try to make out that she uses too much innuendo and she has a one track sex mind. If she says that she something about wanting to go to bed it back with: “You want to go to bed with me right now? You know I don’t like this being too forward thing. • Don’t laugh at your own jokes. If she wants to know how your day was say that it was awful and you had to speak to a million customers today. • Use current events and culture in your humor. If it’s the Olympics that summer try and make a joke about her winning the gold medal for shopping and spending money.
if you are on a date with this girl and you have finished toying with her about whether or not you like her. But to make sure that you completely avoid ending up as her friend. confident. Let her know that you intend to be involved with her sexually. you need her to be thinking about you in a positive way. but a woman isn’t going to tell you that straight. so toy with -. It means she just doesn’t want anything to do with you.89 -- .woman actually wanting to be your friend. I just thought you were sexy and simple” NOTE: Don’t try this with VERY hot women who you need to break down gradually. but you’re pretty funny. daring and exciting then she will probably like you. try and say something cheeky that will be related to sex and attraction. If you have made sure that you have been funny. There is nothing more frustrating for both of you than an uncertainty about where the relationship is going. To avoid the “let’s be friends” situation you need to make sure that you have her attention. If she thinks that you just want to be friends she will be unsure how to act if you both become physical. For example. Telling her she is beautiful and anything like that will just undo the all the hard work you’ve been putting in. you may also need to do something else. Instead. They already have a good idea that you’re attracted to them. Of course. This wont just help you avoid ending up as her friend but it will also help you if she is your girlfriend already. this doesn’t mean that you can have negative attention. try saying: “You know I didn’t realize it.
It leaves them thinking. women really like that. but in fact women love it when men do this to them. She will see that he is the one with all the control and as you know. Call me tomorrow and we can fix something up for another day. 1. It says that this guy is not the clingy type.” This might sound as though she will be hurt and angry that you don’t want to see her. you know I like you and we’re having a good time. but I have to go now. 2. He isn’t going to come across all wussy and needy. If a woman tries to accuse you of not liking her. It lets her see that you want to be a challenge and she is a lot more interested in him than he is her.them a lot more and avoid giving any signals that you find them attractive. She will wonder why this guy doesn’t want to talk to her right in the middle of having so much fun. A woman will read two things from a guy that ends a conversation first.90 -- . -. She wont have to worry about being constantly harassed with messages and calls and she wont feel like she’s being stalked. More Tips Make sure that you end phone and text conversations first. Even if things seem to be going really well. guessing and fantasizing about what you really think of her. simply tell her that: “Yeah.
anyway. Instead. I have already said this briefly but its very important. If she tries teasing you. they will lose meaning very quickly. This means you pick up on very small details that she has gone to a lot of trouble for. Don’t give her something every time or every second time you see her. He has gone for material things that are vague and probably have little value to her.91 -- . She might have a new bracelet so say something about it that shows you like it. we seem to get on really well. a man that buys a woman a necklace or a diamond ring or a bunch of flowers isn’t going to win her over. Give a woman gifts sparingly. Her hair might have been done so tell her it looks sexy. If you are aggressive and funny then she will find that attractive. Women like it when you act confident and funny. So it doesn’t matter if she wonders if you like her or not. Do things that show you have paid attention to a woman. Confidence shows that you are proud of yourself but being funny means you don’t take yourself too seriously. Try to do things that contradict each other.“I really like him. What about getting her neat looking plectrum if she plays the guitar? What about if she likes rabbits getting her a small cuddly rabbit? This will only work if you get her gifts rarely. because she likes you and the way you don’t seem to want to let her know. A gift says a lot about you and what you think of her. For example. This is one of the reasons women like confident and funny men. get her something that she likes that would make her laugh or show that you know what she likes. then you could say: -. then why isn’t he calling me all the time and wanting to spend a lot of time with me?” Women like it when a man is in control.
The actual words maybe only make up around 25% of what will attract a woman. -. but you’re not a brute and you like to be playful. I mean really hurt you. and so they invent the other 95% of the person they imagine and fill in for themselves. The other 75% is all about how you deliver those words. you cant say that you are confident and sexy to a woman. And I don’t mean just rough you up or be rough. them I’m going to have to hurt you.“If you don’t give me what you want. you have to show it. What I tell them is that no lines or words can really be used on their own to attract women. Why do you think people fall in love on line? They never see or hear the person face to face. I’m talking about tickling you. but how you say it. Psychologists and analysts all agree. And anyway.” If you act all tough and serious when you say this a woman will love it.92 -- . Read My Body Language People always ask me what lines and trick phrases win women over. Here is how you do it. In other words. its not what you say. She likes the fact you can be strong and authoritative. only around 5% of communication is actually verbal. The other 95% will communicate far more effectively.
Posture Keep your back up and straight so that your head is up. 3. this is a sign of nervousness. Show off your masculine and firm pecks. If you have large shoulders. Allow them to be just less than shoulder width apart. The things you should focus on most are: 1. Don’t tap your feet or raise your heels. Many people stoop and slouch which makes them look shy and afraid. Hand Movements Keep hand movements smooth and simple. Don’t bring your arms or hands above your head or start flailing them around. This is another way to hit something or someone and look like a complete moron. Chest Put your chest out slightly. This is helped by having a good posture and in turn also helps you to have good posture. Feet Don’t stand with your feet too close together. Women are very perceptive to body language and can pick up on small details.What is Good Body Language? Ask a female friend of yours how someone is feeling by looking at their body language. 4. 2. Facial Expression -. 5. This will also help you to walk tall and it makes you appear taller.93 -- . don’t stand too far apart so that you look like you have back pain. You will be amazed at just how much a woman can tell you about someone from just their stance and posture. Walk with good posture and a woman will be able to see you are confident.
Try to be like James Bond. That is good body language. Its because of these small details that women become so strongly attracted to men. you cant do it. Does he roar his head off with a geeky laugh when someone says something clever? No. 6.Look happy and relaxed. we don’t realize we are communicating. Give gentle and cheeky grins when you say funny and rude things to her to show her you’re not arrogant. If you watch every James Bond film ever made. don’t look too excited or amazed. it will also make the woman more interested if you take time and add a sense of mystery to what you are saying. -. you will never find him laughing or goofing around. not the killing. Folded arms usually means someone is feeling threatened. The body language and the sex. Try to keep your facial expression cool and calm. You have to pay very close attention to small details. That’s why nonverbal communication is so powerful. he grins and nods his head. Lean back slightly when you talk and draw her in. Arms Keep your arms unfolded. small and subtle.94 -- . Personal Space Don’t invade her own personal space. If someone tries to convince you to be attracted to them. As with your hands keep movement to a minimum and make any movement slow. Leaning forward can make you seem needy or too desperate. You cant decide or choose who you are attracted to. He is the epitome of suave and cool. Look at any masculine hero from the movies or fantasy world. This will make you look open and relaxed. Pause and take whatever you are saying slowly. This doesn’t only tie in with the idea of being cool and sexy. 7.
though women will lick their lips as a reaction to the swelling as this can be very difficult to spot. her body will help you to understand what she’s really meaning. Look into a woman’s eyes when you are talking to her at some point. If a woman starts to lean her chest towards you then this is a sign. If a woman plays with her hair it’s a sign that she finds you attractive. No matter what she says. Obviously if she is facing you this doesn’t always count. just look for a few seconds into her pupils. By that I mean if you don’t see those signs it doesn’t always mean that she is not attracted to you. If she twirls the ends of her hair round her fingers its usually a way of saying she is aroused and in turn she is try to arouse you. I have looked for all these -. If they start to swell this is a sign.Reading Her Body Language If a woman is interested she wont be able to hid her body language from you. But watch if she moves herself and her chest and pushes it towards you. this is a sign that she really likes you. but it’s similar to the way you can tell if she finds you sexually attractive. Of course. Do you see them get slightly bigger? If you do it’s a sign she is becoming aroused shown by her dilated pupils. Don’t try to stare her out or interrogate her. or just wants sex. If you find she is in your personal space and thrusting her breasts at you.95 -- . these things don’t always work. Have you ever thought why women wear lipstick? Its to show that they are ready for sex. Is she licking her lips? We usually associate this with food.
I think I better just give you some examples of conversations where women try to catch men out. Unfortunately most men don’t understand that this means that you should move up a gear and progress on to the next stage. Crash Course in Comebacks Comebacks with women have nothing to do with insults. You don’t want to insult someone you are trying to attract you just want to tease them. you’re razor sharp. I’m just waiting for my friends to get back from the bar. then she probably likes you.signs in several women and when I didn’t see them I was pretty disappointed. Are you worried I might try and steal them from you? You: That’s a nice dress. Keep smiling and grinning if you ever get hit with a tricky put down. get her number as soon as possible.96 -- . where’s the rest of it? -. If a woman is laughing and enjoying your company. You get the idea? Don’t wait for her to do it. So here we go: You: Hey. then kiss her. VERY attracted to me. take it up a level. if its going well. If a woman is having a good time with you on a date. If a woman is making out with you at her place then take her to the bedroom. You: Aww. hows it going? Her: (A little moody) Look. The chances are if she is acting friendly towards you. You just have to show that if a woman tries to phase you or catch you out. But then I quickly found out that they were in fact VERY. A great comeback doesn’t have to be that funny.
You: No really. you would make a good politician. Her: Yeah sure. How old are you really? You: What do you do for a living? Her: I’m studying pharmacology. I’ve never said that to any girl. I’m not interested. I was just kidding. Her: Wait. I love it. here you go. how you doing? Her: Look. if you like me why don’t you just talk to me? -. You: Girl. Her: What’s wrong with it? You: Nothing. Her: Do you often see a girl as beautiful as me? You: And who said modesty is out of fashion?! You: Hey. You know. I have a boyfriend okay. You: You mean you’re a drug dealer?! Her: Why do you keep staring at me?! You: Me?! You were staring at me! Look. you can help me with my homework Her: You’re crazy.97 -- . What do you think I am? A nerd? See ya around. that is a crazy dress you have there. I think its crazy! Where did you get it? Her: Actually why don’t you give me your number instead? You: Haha. And I’ve seen some REALLY short skirts.Her: (Shocked and trying not to laugh) Do you say that to every girl you meet? You: Nope. You: I didn’t ask you that. Her: And how old are you? You: I’m 17.
And anyway who needs that when you have alcohol and a dryer for pleasure? Hit a woman with something unexpected when she least expects it. She will find this funny especially if you already know her and the conversation is naturally heading towards sex. They are safe.98 -- . You can always be too unpredictable just like you can be too confident. Don’t Be Predictable Women want to marry predictable men. If a woman ever brings up anything about sex. Make sure that you show you’re not embarrassed by it as well as teasing her about it. don’t always hug her when she wants to be hugged. -. secure and very boring. keep her guessing what and when you will do something. tease her about it and accuse her of having a one track mind. but also a sign that she enjoys talking about sex. not insane. Try telling her that you are not the type of guy that just sleeps with anyone and joke about her trying to get you into bed. fun or excitement out of it but at least they know they are safe. This is usually just another test. tease her about it no end. Don’t scare a woman by driving down the wrong way of a highway or kidnapping her. Just have lots of fun. They might not get much pleasure. If she says anything that carries any kind of innuendo. You want to show you are unpredictable. Don’t always kiss her when you’re saying goodbye.And there are many more that you can probably come up with.
Don’t keep touch her all the time. Even if your voice is high and naturally fast. She will start thinking: “I wonder if he will text me today” “Will he kiss me when I next see him?” “What will he say to me?” “What is he going to do?” It’s All in the Voice Making a woman think you are confident and sexy comes from the tone and speed of your voice. You just have to make sure that you speak slowly and deeply. you can work on slowing it down. If you are unpredictable then you will keep her guessing. An ideal voice is: • • • • Low Slow Calm Distinct Make sure that you finish every word your saying.99 -- . especially when you’re getting to know her. Talking quickly and at a high pitch will just make her think that you are feminine and weak. An attractive girl will expect this from most men so surprise her. if -. Women love to wonder about things like “does this guy like me?” and so on. Don’t try to skip words and skip the annunciation of others. Being unpredictable is a lot like being mysterious. but it is also predictable. Anybody can improve their voice. Mix it up and use your skills sparingly.Needy is bad.
you do. What will it be?” The key is simple. Better Test Answers When a woman tests you it doesn’t mean that you have to just say no. so the ball is in your court. No does not mean “No” it just means “Not right now”. I don’t want sex tonight” it actually means. “I want sex and I want good sex right now. you can attract women with the power of your voice. ask through your actions. because you just heard me say I didn’t want it. There are many ways that you can tease her.” I have had this happen to me on several occasions. I just said that was okay and kept kissing her. Tease me and tempt me until I beg you for it. It’s also a way for her to say subtly: “Its now up to you if you want to have sex. Just don’t keep ASKING.100 -- . then you will sound like you’re nervous and that is bad when talking to a woman. Just a few minutes later she was asking me to make love to her. -. There are loads of voice training books and manuals out there so go and read some of them. Simply by practicing saying words and making sure you sound sure of yourself. just keep persisting and she will soon say yes. Then get practicing! Be Persistent When you are kissing a woman and she says “Look. Don’t give up when She says “No”.
Her: Do you want children? You: As long as I don’t have to pay for them or see them. Her: So you think I’ve put on weight? You: No.101 -- . why not? Her: Do you ever think about getting married? You: Yeah. I dream about it. Her: Would you like me better if I had bigger breasts? You: I can always feel other people’s if you don’t think yours are big enough? -. I think its called a nightmare. We’re not counting supermodels and strippers are we? Her: Are you seeing another woman? You: No. Another man. but that doesn’t mean you couldn’t lose a few pounds.Have you had a lot of girlfriends? Just a few. Her: Have you ever been in love? You: Other than with myself you mean? Her: What did you get up to yesterday? You: Well I thought about you for a while and then I decided to hire some hot strippers because you didn’t call me.
intelligent yet feminine women? Here are the best hot-spots: • Go to your gym and talk to the women filling up their water bottles or whilst you’re in the steam room.102 -- . but I know that you are looking for a certain type of woman…right? So where do you find beautiful. They are full of women. Try going to the Yoga class where there’s more women than guys. -. • Check out the mall. You get the idea. cute. Women love to shop at the weekends. Where to Find Women Okay… Let’s go through the best places to find women. heck they shop anytime. If it’s a nice day try going early afternoon and catch girls sitting outside having lunch. • Cafes and sandwich bars.Her: Do you look at other women? You: Only when you cant see me. Some of them might be busy so pick the ones that look like they’re taking their time and relaxing. This may look like a very easy one to answer since women can be found everywhere.
This is why you need to understand what women like. If you can approach a woman on the street. Women that go out with girlfriends are generally speaking. despite the fact they have failed on many previous occasions. this should be easy. you might just find one in a library that also has the brains to hold a stimulating conversation without mentioning the words pink and shopping every second. These are probably the easiest places to meet women. so give it a shot. But what kind of women will you meet there? • DECIDE what kind of woman you want to meet • LEARN how to become attractive to women • VISIT the places you are most likely to find those kinds of women • APPROACH them and attract them People who fail with women don’t always decide to do what they are told. -. Competition from other guys will be almost zero! You could probably have thought of these places yourself. You now have a choice. You will do one or the other. Most guys really don’t know about this one.• Bars and clubs. I guarantee it. single and looking for a guy. This is what you have been building up to. • The library: Don’t assume that only geeks and bookworms visit libraries.103 -- . You can decide at this point you don’t want to approach women because its all too new to your or you can grasp the challenge and become a player. They assume that their techniques are better. you will be surprised. what women want and how to act around women. If you are into classy and smart women.
there a 1000 times more people in the city. Do you like attractive. You might like where you live. even in the suburbs. animals head to certain breeding grounds. Women go to the city so they can meet the man of their dreams. so do you. What if you like women who know how to dance? Head down to dance classes. swimmers even bowlers. so they decided to live here. -. You have something in common and by the end of it you both should be able to dance. cute and straightforward women with no real interests? Go to a coffee shop or an average bar where they hang out. Go out into your local mall or head into town and start looking around for what type of women hang around in different areas. I live just a few minutes walk from the city and there’s always loads of young women shopping late night on weekdays or in the afternoon at the weekend. and driving to the nearest city on a regular basis is too far. but think about it. then you might want to think about moving. women in their mid 20’s head to places where there are lots of rich men. Apply this to almost anything you like about women. Do you like women who are into sport and keeping in shape? Get a gym membership and hang around there a few days each week. you might meet a woman who is also a beginner. Tennis players.104 -- . If you live in the back of beyond. If you are a beginner at dancing. At university I know people who live in towns about an hours train ride from here. As she learns to dance. Do you like attractive little rich girls? Then go to an expensive bar or sandwich shop.So where can you find these hot women? Slow down. first you need to think what type of women you want to meet. Its just like with nature.
• Have a selection of drinks and neat things to offer guests when they come round. Predict Her Moves If you can guess roughly what will happen when you meet on a date with a woman. and then ends up having sex. On the other hand. • Make sure your house is tidy. have an untidy home themselves. Los Angeles. Women wont get into something that looks like another woman has been there before her.105 -- . Showing a woman you are a better host than she is will impress her as women love these kinds of things. New York. I’ve been to loads of places like these and there’s always a good few nice looking women around. Keep your bedroom looking presentable so she will want to spend as much time as possible there.simply so they could stay in town till 4am and not have to worry about paying a months salary for a taxi home. then you will be able to make the right finish touches so you can control what will happen. especially young women.000 population. Women love tidy and clean. and women love that remember. or she is coming over to your house. I do know women who think a house that is slightly messy is a good excuse for her to say she’s coming over to tidy. Even if you don’t live near a huge city like London. think about a large town with a population of around 50. though a lot of women. This is why keeping neat and tidy will impress her. -. This is all about taking control. • Make sure your room is tidy and has a clean bed.
Even focus down to details such as the condition of your car. You can pick some original oil paintings up for next to nothing at antiques stores and yard sales. One thing I noticed was that a lot of new homes in my area have the same kind of square plates and square bowls. she won’t have anything she can really ask you about. If a trend has already set in go for something similar but slightly different to show you are ahead of fashion. so now I always make sure I have a backup. Make sure that your house is ready to have a woman over. I have ripped one on one occasion. Don’t decorate your house in the typical modern style. Is it clean? Will it get you both home without breaking down? An extra edge Women will be drawn to certain things in your home. Is there anything that might put her off slightly or that might prevent you from sleeping with her? Pay attention to small details. -. You might not notice things yourself. then she will not only assume you are like everybody else. but she will.106 -- .• Make sure you always have at least two condoms in the house that HAVENT been used. Get some interesting and original paintings in your house. because you are so used to your own home. If you fill your home with the same fragrances. This is why making your own original style is so important. pictures and furniture as everyone else.
then go! Even just a photograph of a famous landmark you have visited or maybe a picture of somewhere you would like to go.107 -- . tell me I’m great!” Not comfortable for the lady. or maybe something you can do with a stuffed rabbit. Really you are saying “Wow. what would you do if a woman started playing music or singing? Would you dance. Whilst she is watching the trick she will be wondering what will happen next. Why not have a book on how to be a great lover or something dark and masculine like The Football Factory. Keep all your sports trophies and awards out of sight in a glass cabinet.Get interesting books on your bookshelf. Go and find some simple card tricks on the internet. Think about it. just like you would hold back on mentioning your achievements when you meet a girl. Keep them tucked away. Don’t have romance novels and books about macroeconomics. Presenting a magic trick to a woman can show her you are interesting and can hold her suspense. This can be an absolute bore for younger women listening to music they don’t really like. then she will really be interested. Put something up there that will intrigue her and make her ask lots of questions. If you haven’t been anywhere interesting. Avoid playing musical instruments. clap. Have some souvenirs of places you have been. Try to learn some magic tricks. I’m so great. get something interesting. annoying and unattractive than listening to someone bragging about their achievements and how great they are. There is nothing more boring. -. almost hanging on your every word. If she sees your photo of you receiving your award for salesman of the year. simply because you never mentioned it. Magic tricks are again all about delivery. say you thought it was great? It’s a really awkward and unpleasant situation to be in.
I want to focus entirely on bringing all the various puzzle-pieces together and form them into an action plan. -. It will be as easy as ABC … and I’m not kidding. it will take you another 24hrs to absorb all the knowledge properly and you may even have to re-read certain chapters of this book. So let’s break it down… A Step-By-Step Plan To Approaching Women Most people think there is some magical line you can just say to a woman and she will fall head over heels for you. In the next part of the StreetSmartDating book. I have narrowed it down to the core essentials so you will only be equipped with what you really need to get a woman to like you and be attracted to you so she gives you her phone-number.108 -- . In fact.Part 5: Solving the Puzzle Bringing It All Together You have learnt a lot today. If I am honest … this is true to some extent. It will only have one purpose: To give you a ready-to-use tool so you can get an unlimited amount of phone-numbers from almost any woman you want to meet and date.
so is it okay if I was to like talk to you? • Hey there … can I offer you a drink or something? • Hi. can you help me. So let’s talk about the initial approach: The best approaches and ice breakers are structured very simple. The key point to remember here is that you should not “hit” on women like every other guy does like “Hey baby. This means you need to approach her differently. why don’t you give me your number. THEN the magic happens: she gets attracted. you are really pretty. do you know what time it is? Oh ok … so how are you? -. I was just hanging around. but rather suck her into a stimulating conversation that is spiked with sentences that create attraction. the more effective they are. so there really is no choice. Attraction isn’t a choice here remember? She will get attracted to you instantly if you do it right.But it’s not one single line … one line just gets her hooked. What’s your name? • Hey. And as you already know the most important attraction is your personality. and …ehm … I noticed you were on your own. The simpler. talk to her differently and even leave her differently than every other man does.109 -- . If you string more of them same kind together though. Have you ever tried or seen this kind of approach: • Hey.
Her: Tehehe. I’ve never really thought about that. It’s been used a thousand times. If she is a little cold and withdrawn at first and accuses you of trying to pick her up. forget her. accuse her of approaching you and saying indecent things. … it was on like Donkey Kong! What you need to learn is how to make interesting conversation about everyday dull things. There was a cute girl next to me.These are all terrible lines. I was on the subway the other day heading to a lecture. For example. If you are going to ask a woman for help or offering them drinks. you are as lame as your line sounds like: AWFUL! The best way of breaking the ice without looking like you are hitting on her is to ask for her female opinion about something.110 -- . Can you tell me why it’s impossible for women to put eyeliner on without opening their mouths? Her: (laughing) Yeah. so I approached her: Me: Hey … what’s up? Listen I need a female perspective on this. Me: I bet you’re one of those girls that are spending hours in front of the mirror. As long as you avoid chat up lines. maybe. If she’s still cold and unsociable after that. it doesn’t matter what -. ready made conversation openers and so on. Look at ways that you can turn the conversation around and tease the girl you are trying to pick up.
even if you’re not attracted to her. slow and distinct. unless she had a personality bypass. Say it with a little grin. I was nervous when I started approaching women.you say. I was doing some late night shopping in the supermarket at 1 am. Make sure that you either have a serious and relaxed approach or if you are being confident and cheeky you are relaxed and funny about it. The key is to just do it. -. Don’t act nervous and start with anything formal or serious. just how you say it. You will start feeling REALLY nervous. I can guess how you will feel.111 -- . Be clear. Since it was late I just said: “How can you be so happy at 1am?!” She smiled and said she enjoyed this time of night and couldn’t sleep anyway. just start talking to every woman you meet. it was all a matter of experience. so don’t think she wont be keen to at least chat. When you do it and do it right there’s no way. If you cant talk to women you find attractive in the street. No ear to ear smiles like you are trying to sell her something. that she wont want to at least talk to you. It doesn’t matter if you get one or two who ignore you or just aren’t interested. The girl at the till was about 10-15 years older than me and just average looks. All I had to do was make a couple of comments while she was putting my card in the pin machine and in just a few seconds of chat I’d boosted my confidence and improved my skill. nobody cares and you probably wont ever see them again. Interesting men are literally one in a thousand. Don’t worry about being nervous when you approach women. Remember your voice tone. Look calm and sexy. But I still had a quick chat with her just to get that bit extra experience. relax it passes.
then work on everybody else. If you are on the train and there’s a guy across from you. Now. just go right on in there and talk to attractive women. -. The worst that will happen is a few girls might not respond very well to you. I’ve found the ones that don’t. What do you do? Yes. Most people who have friends like to make new ones. then by all means. All those puzzle pieces I have revealed for you are about to come together. If you talk to people it will help you prepare for the jump of moving from just seeing women and then actually approaching them to talk. forget them and move on. The only way you will ever become good at it and become instantly attractive is if you keep practicing.112 -- . find out if he’s got a personality. even if you think it will. The first step now is to go to places that are crowded with women which shouldn’t be too hard.Keep talking to everyone. let’s put everything you have learned so far into a system you can use right off the bat. The problem here is that once a guy spots a beautiful woman and is about to walk over … he stalls. And remember. If you are too nervous to approach women. Okay. you see a very attractive woman just a couple yards away from you that you really want to meet. If you feel just a little nervous. you have to get your butt over there and start with a line. You see a senior citizen at the bus stop talk to them. aren’t very interesting. nothing terrible is going to happen to you.
If you have used one line at least 10 times with women already and KNOW how a woman will respond once you say it. don’t know what to say or that you are afraid you will get rejected and make a fool out of yourself. use a default line. you do not have the experience to calmly walk over there and say a line that you have used in the past with great success.113 -- . You will also avoid the boring “Yes” or “No” answers and suck her into a stimulating conversation. Why do you get nervous? The real reason isn’t because you aren’t confident. It’s because you don’t know what will happen! You just don’t have a clue how she will react. His stomach starts to tense.His feet just don’t want to move. that shitty feeling in your stomach will go away! So here’s what I want you to do: Whenever you see a woman and you can’t think of nothing cheeky to say to create attraction. he gets nervous and just stands there until the opportunity is gone. A default line is. in most cases asking for her opinion about something. Okay… So here’s what I want you to do when you see a beautiful woman: -. So in other words. This way you are just talking and it doesn’t look like you are hitting on her.
so you can use it today and get 9 out of 10 women hooked right away. I will take away all your fear of approaching. Say: Listen … I’ve heard. by giving you a killer line like this that I have tested already and is guaranteed to work for almost anybody to break the ice. say “Hi…” …wait another 1-2 seconds to let your bodylanguage do some magic here (using pauses in sentences helps big time). wait for 2 seconds. ever!) 3. Now she is hooked but wait for her response and heat up the attraction immediately with… 6. I know it works. You see.114 -- . The mascara line is one of the most effective ones I ever came up with.1. there is nothing that can stop you. Just keep teasing. (don’t tap her on the shoulder. Here are two more examples of killer default lines I use almost every time: -. that woman can only put on mascara … when their mouth is open. 4. So what about you? Are you a real girlie girl and you spend what … how many hours in front of the mirror? 7. busting her balls and create attraction until she asks for your name. Walk over and plant yourself next to her 2. and once you see that it works so incredibly well. Wait for her to look you in the eyes. [pause] Is that true? *cheeky smile* 5. Say “HEY” to make her turn around and to get your attention.
all you need to do is keep pressing her emotional trigger buttons. tell ya what … let’s swap number …” -. I need your opinion about something … does moisturizing as a man make gay or just metrosexual? After you broke the ice. busting her balls and generally just creating more attraction. What is the best way to get a woman’s phone number? I’ll show you: What you need to do first is pushed her Emotional Trigger Buttons for about 3-5 minutes (rough estimate with mediocre-good skills) by creating attraction.• Hey. the phone-number. accusing her of whatever. Example: “Hey listen. Then you cut the conversation short and tell her you need to run. I really need to run and get this sorted out before the mall closes. Here. teasing her. she will be ready to give you her number.115 -- . making her laugh etc. Then after only 2-3 minutes. but we should continue this conversation. How To Get Her Number Ah. See… [pause] would you ever get some guys name tattooed on your body? Get this … my little sister met this dude who is like 30 years older than her … • Hey. listen … I need your opinion about something.
-. Women never ever call a guy the first time. that’s a man’s job. but most of all you need to lead! If you do. It is the most common test women pull right before they give you their phone number. Women know that. The key here is to not let her answer or take charge. she will follow. And this is one fine example of what happens when you lead: She will take your phone and type in her number right away. But watch out here: If she says “Why don’t you give me YOUR number and I call you?” your spidey-sense should be tingling and the alarm bells ringing! This is a test! Don’t fall for it. but to just TAKE her phone number without asking for it.116 -- . Nice guys will always fail this one and hand out their phone number without taking hers. They need to see if you are the real deal or just another nice guy who will eventually waste their time if she goes on a date with you. and they also know that they will NEVER call if a guy gives out his phone number without getting hers. Don’t wait for her to agree or say something when you say “swapping numbers” … just do it! She will know what to do anyway.Then you hand her your cell-phone and let her type in her number.
or only take hers. no.Always make sure that you either trade them. Sometimes she will give you a fake one to get rid of you (meaning you made a mistake in the beginning or didn’t create enough attraction). just hit the road. don’t hug her or say “you’re really nice. I give ya a call and then we can sort something out. okay? Cya then” and just leave. get the hell out of there. Here. But from experience please double-check if the number she gave you is the right one by calling her cell. type in your number and we’ll sort something out. or simply can’t remember hers correctly and made a mistake (it can happen.117 -- .” This is a better way if you want to smoothen out the transition process from the call to setting up the date. But once you have her number in your cell. I hope we can go on a date”... Another way of getting a number real quick is to make the transition to the date immediately. you already lead her towards the initial date which will make it easier for you when you eventually call her. I can’t remember my number either *lol*). No. seriously! Say “it was nice meeting you . By making an indication towards get together in the very near future. LEAVE! Don’t stick around. Don’t kiss her. such as “Hey. whatchya doing tomorrow? I need to go to town/the mall/whatever … you can keep me company if you’re nice. no! -.
if its going well just press for her phone number. I would have given him my number”. I gotta go and finish off this essay/work (whatever). but if you are talking and she seems interested. Don’t just beat about the bush. she will think you don’t have the guts and confidence to just ask or go for it.” -. Whatever the conversation is about. maybe he just wanted to chat…what a pitty. she is probably just waiting for you to ask for it. she will think “hmm. She will not only gladly give it to you if she’s attracted to you (giggles.Just get outta there before you mess something up. type in your number and I’ll sort something out. In fact. The longer you hang around and try to tip toe around the number. laughing. Also. then go ahead and just TAKE her number. She does want to. This is a step up from approaching a woman. smiles. Before I forget.118 -- . How we continue this conversation tomorrow or something. hits you on the arm). she WANTS you to ask her for her number so she can give it to you. but it is you who needs to make the move. Here. Don’t ask. here is some more general knowledge about getting the phone number and background information you should know. just take it. just like with a phone conversation with a girl you’ve been out with: “Look. If you don’t go for it. ask for it! Maybe you were asking her about eyeliner and you can drop this into the question. break the conversation up in the middle of things going well.
-. The most important rule you have to remember when calling a woman is keep it short! I know it is very seductive to let her emotions go and just keep talking for over 15 minutes. I would give it 1 day in between before you call … just to let her know that you are hard to get and not a needy wimp. This is the 21st century and everybody has a cell-phone these days. call her the next day. Just hand her your cell and let her type in her digits from her cell-phone. This isn’t Hollywood where the woman hands you her phone number on a small napkin written in lipstick. If she says she just moved house … same deal. ring it once to confirm and you got yourself a date! The Call Once you got her number. It’s a test.Just be straight and forward about it and she is bound to give you her number. But if you are new to this. you enter danger-zone! The purpose is not to talk to her on the phone for hours and create some more attraction there … it’s to get her to meet you again. Another point I would like to make here is that it is also possible to hand her a piece of paper and a pen … but this is soooo out of date. If you do this. If she gives you her landline number … don’t bother.119 -- . If she says she doesn’t have a phone … call her on it.
So you give her a quick call, make her laugh a little bit, fluff for 2-3 minutes and then CUT the conversation short again just like you did when you got her number. Tell her that you need to go do X in town and that she should meet you at 2pm or whatever. Don’t say: Do you want to go have a drink sometime • Do you want to…like…hang out? • Do you want to have dinner with me? You have to stick to what works here: Create some small attraction, just by small talk. Ask her how she has been and what she has been doing. Don’t go into a lot of detail, just pick up on the important things she says and make a cheeky or funny comment about them. Finish the conversation by saying that you have to go and do something, even if you want to talk to her. This will help her to see that you are not needy or obsessed with her. This way you will come off as a challenge and as hard to get. Avoid pauses and hesitation and repeating yourself. If at any point you don’t know what to say, or you run out of ideas, move on to the next item on the list. If that has run out then just be concise and end the call. But keep the conversation short and to a maximum of 15 minutes. You should aim for about 5-7minutes to hit the sweet spot. Here’s an example of a good telephone call, the way I make them all the time … and they work every single time and have a huge success rate, meaning I get almost all of
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the women to see me again. Don’t copy anything directly here but rather use them as a guideline to help you work out what you should say in your own situation so you can structure your own. Her: Hi You: Hey, it’s [your name]. What’s up? Her: Hi You: Soooo … have you been behaving? Her: Yeah, I’m always nice. You: Oh really? … is that why you always wear a Gucci handbag? You might want to polish your halo a little. Her: *tehehe* Naw I was working really hard today. You: Aww poor you, did you have to actually do some work today? I bet you were stealing some drinks from the bar were ya? Her: Hey! MY job is really tough! You: Uh huh (sounding unconvinced) Her: Well, what job do you do? You: I’m … Employee of the month at Burger King. Her: LOL. Seriously! I want to know what job you have! You: I work in a bank … and launder money for some mobsters, anyway… I’ll tell you later my boss isn’t listening in so I can give my honest opinion without being fired.
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Her: LOL. Okay. You: I tell you what, why don’t you meet in town on Tuesday? I have to go and get some new shirts, you can keep me company if your nice. I can meet you at, 2pm at Starbucks downtown Her: Okay! Well I can’t make 2 because I’m still working, but what about 4pm? You: Yeah ok, I’ll get some stuff done and I can get you there, okay? Don’t be late! Her: I won’t, cya there. You: Cya. Don’t try to get to know her on the phone (what job you do or what kinda hobbies you have) … just a little small talk is fine but keep the real conversation for your date. Keep her on her toes and be a little bit interesting and mysterious so she really does want to meet you again and find out more. The conversations above was just an example, don’t follow them to the letter. Use them to work out how you will plan the conversation, but remember the simple procedure of CAATH: she laughs, finds you funny, you ask the question, confirm the arrangements and then hang up. If she happens to give you some kind of excuse like “I can’t meet you then because I’m working (or anything else)” BUT counteroffers like “but I can meet you later that day or on Saturday, is that ok for you?” then you know she really does want to see you again but just
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Do not reply instantly to a message. Always get to the point 6. Texting her is pretty much the same as calling her. But if she is just trying to test you ( meaning she doesn’t counteroffer right away). stick to those rules. 1. Try to limit the abbreviations that you use as well.123 -- . don’t put any kisses at the end of the message. There are a few basic rules you must stick to when texting rather than calling her. just say “I tell ya what. scratch those plans and come see me … I’m far more interesting than X (whatever it is she has to do)”. Only text when you need to 2. this will also help you to keep the message as brief and to the point as possible as well as sending her a message that she can understand without decoding it. Some of them still apply and have different variations in other situations of dating. it will make u look desperate and pathetic or too forward and sleazy. Keep it to as few messages as possible 3. As a final warning. You can use smiley-faces 5. but the conversation will be one way. Works all the time. Always make a funny comment and tease her about something. but for the first meeting. really. cheeky and playful to create attraction 4. -. leave about 15min Those simple rules apply only to arranging the date. Be cocky.happens to work that time you asked her out. No biggie.
Then you confirm the date like “ok.-P I'm going to town tomorrow/on Thursday. try to keep it short (here: as few messages as possible). so she can join you if she wants … that way you evade the classic dating courtship which is boring). spark up the attraction first and THEN ask her to meet or join you (remember. Here are some examples: • “Hey you wannabe angel. and the third one is to confirm the date. cya there at 7pm. you behaving? … Yeah right. Stop thinking about my sexy body. Nick” and then show up for the date because she will. it ain’t 4 sale. Most times girls are late too so you can start busting her balls for that right away. you are going somewhere or have to do something anyway. -. wanna keep me company? Nick” Just like the phone-call. The second one is serious and straight to the point as in “why don’t you come and meet me tomorrow etc”. The first one asks how she is and gets the attraction going. I got feelings too you know? .124 -- . like I’m going to believe you ☺ What’s up? Nick” • “Hey you.Now listen up: You only need 3 messages to arrange a date with a woman.
The First Date If you get a girls number and set up a first date. Many guys make the mistake of trying to impress a woman by planning a romantic date with all sorts of fancy crap you don’t need. Where To Take Your Date This is very simple. She will enjoy the fact you are being mysterious and again. Go for a walk with her in the park after you have been to the gym. she will start to let her mind run wild with questions like. Meet up with her during your lunch break or something. Women can also realize that you’re not taking this seriously and you haven’t fallen for her spell like every other guy around. Whatever you do. use it as an opportunity to decide if you really want to see this girl or not. The date is almost like an interview to see if you like her and this shows you are not hooked on her. So let me get this straight: -. Try to make her realize that she is there not because you want to spend time with her. don’t use it as the beginning of a relationship.125 -- . “Why isn’t he all over me like other guys?” Don’t dare take a woman OUT on a first date. don’t make it too serious or let her think you are really into her. but that you want to get to know her better.
This might have worked in high school and may be an “ok” possibility for a fourth date. It just doesn’t work and isn’t a good idea.126 -- . the key here is to do something that you had to do anyway. this is the WORST idea for a first date. The very best way of accomplishing both is a) b) c) Shopping in town or in a mall Chill in the park Have a coffee You don’t need to buy stuff. you can even go window shopping for crying out loud.• You don’t need to take her out to dinner. Remember that she wants to meet you and see if you are an interesting and sexy person she would like to meet again. This is done by talking to her and doing certain things together. In fact. If you do exactly what everybody else has done before such as going for a beer in a bar. having a candle light dinner or going to the movies … how different are you? -. You see. invite her to keep you company and then do something that is FREE! Now. but don’t even try it. the idea of a date is to spend time with her and get to know her. • Don’t just go for “let’s have a drink sometime” and then head straight for the next bar in the evening. • You should not get cinema tickets and invite her to go see a movie with you.
The tips and techniques from this book though have been tested many many times and work every single time! Why? Because if you pull this off it will make you look different. But to make this easy for you: Go window shopping in town and then have a coffee. Forget all that formal dating stuff with flowers. This is a very slick trick but it works extremely well for her to trust you. Then you REALLY need to be different. Here’s what happens if you take her on a classical date like every other nice guy and wimp has done before her: She gets bored immediately. make sure you tease her. But on that date. It won’t work.127 -- .But you also need to make it look like you are a challenge (hard to get). -. This works especially well when you are dealing with very attractive women … you know the type that get hit on at least 49 times a day. This way it will seem like you have spend more hours together than you actually have by changing the venue. not needy for sex and don’t see this as a classic date but rather as a get together. bust her balls and treat her like your little sister. This is why she “can keep you company because you need to do X in town anyway”. dinner dates etc. interesting and sexy in a woman’s eyes.
-. But how can you work your magical charming skills in a theatre or eating a plate full of pasta that you can’t pronounce the name of? The key is to make sure you end up somewhere you can do fun things with a woman. You can make clever remarks about what is on sale. rather than a chance to attract her. • Take her to places that allow for easy conversation and where there are a lot of conversation starters. You might even meet some mad people around town. that will give you loads to laugh about. Try just walking about or browsing in shops with crazy items.128 -- .Let’s have a deeper look at why every guy seems to think it is a good idea for a date. You may think a good date is taking her to the theatre. There will be a different kind of atmosphere there than the usual classy department stores. Some factors that ensure you have a good time: • Treat the date as an opportunity for you to see if you like her and want a relationship. It sounds so damn boring and simple. No. Or you can go in for the kill and find out how ticklish she is. In park on a nice day you can enjoy the sun. not those kinds of things. It may be simple but it sure isn’t boring. don’t just date her. I mean actually have fun when you go out and have a great time together. Go to the park. You can take her handbag or cigarettes and tease her with them. buying her a rose and then going to a fancy restaurant. Take her to a market that sells funny junk stuff.
Leaving out the touching creates more energy between you and when you do touch her. especially if she is a hot girl. When You Meet Up If she arrives early or late. but you are interested in getting something to eat. As the date progresses you can start to tease her more and look for little insecurities. Then start teasing her and flirting with her. Don’t compliment her. or going for a walk in the park. Let her get into you and then make occasional contact after that. Keep touching and physical contact to a minimum. This will send out more mixed messages to her. Don’t let her think that because you are on a date that you are more than friends yet. • Build up a good friendship during the date and then start to tease her • Don’t make too much contact at first. If she says “Oh. Initially. You want to give her the impression that you are not so much interested in her. be prepared to go. so denying it and ignoring how she looks for a bit will send her mind wandering again. I hate the -. sparks will fly. Give her space and walk around her. She will already think she’s hot. So for the first 10 minutes or so act like friends. you want to make it appear that you are just intending to be friends. • On the first date don’t cling to her wherever she walks.• Show her that you are not going to just be a friend by avoiding buying her gifts and taking her to expensive places early on.129 -- .
People love to talk about themselves. Go for something interesting and new. or heard that she doesn’t really have an interest in? The chances are. avoid talking about anything mundane and everyday. don’t try to fall back into your old ways and bore the pants off her. Say a statement or something funny that she can expand on. so let her talk loads and then you can make fun of her for being a motor mouth as well as get her point across. Give her an opportunity to talk uninterrupted. Avoid questions and conversations like: “Do you come here often?” “Do you have any brothers or sisters?” “What do you do at work?” “What school did you go to?” “What do you think about the recent crisis in the middleeast?” Basically. like the latest celebrity scandal. If you don’t. change the conversation to something else dramatic. Don’t Be Boring On a Date Just as you wouldn’t try to talk about boring things when you first meet a girl.130 -- . Talk about reality TV and make jokes about it. You might even try mocking her about her boring TV viewing but at the same time you show you have an opinion and knowledge about her shows. probably most of those dumb questions above. Women like drama. What has she probably talked about to death already.way the back of my hair looks” make a joke about it and tease her for worrying. -.
I think she’s just a 9 year old with fake titties. I think she was the only person to take her own weight in cocaine. I can’t believe that Big Brother show. You throw tantrums like her?” “What is David Beckham doing with Victoria.“Man. Steal from comedy shows and so on if you struggle with making your own jokes and conversation starters. If you ever see a woman and you think she is far too into herself to respond to your casual charm. wander off sometimes and don’t be clingy. I think that Nikki maybe lied about her age. take it up another level and start teasing her and acting disinterested. Always keep her guessing as to how much you really like her.” “Pete Doherty and Kate Moss. It makes her mind go crazy again. You will be amazed at how well it works.” You get the idea. Hold yourself back from ever telling a woman that you think she looks beautiful. but joke around and don’t be serious about it. he doesn’t like me? Does he think I’m not that attractive?” -. What a relationship that was. I mean he is a footballer and she is just famous for losing too much weight.131 -- . Maybe drop a hint or a word in that she’s cute. That means you certainly don’t say it but you also keep yourself calm and reserved. Don’t show too much interest in her. Let Her Chase You Never directly show a woman when you first meet her that you are having a great time. “What.
So let’s make this one easy for you.132 -- . I can answer the first one right away: You can have a woman ready for a hot kissing session within around 3 minutes of meeting her the very first time. If she meets you again. So let’s get this one fixed right now. you need to know WHEN she is ready to be kissed. This is even BEFORE you have gotten her number. you will need to MOVE IN and kiss her gently. she WANTS to kiss you. she already feels enough attraction that she wants you to kiss her. If she is attracted to you. yet so many men just can’t get this to work for them. Forget all the mumbo-jumbo about psychology and “she needs to be ready first” yadda yadda crap. -. If she goes on a date with you. There are two key factors involved here: First. Second. it is possible to kiss her.The Kiss Being able to kiss a woman is one of the easiest things in the world. The key is attraction. You just need to know HOW to do it. The real problem isn’t that guys are lacking initial “kissing” skills … it’s being able to make a smooth transition from talking to kissing her.
touch the back of her beck with your hand … and if you can see her eyes glowing (like when she gets attracted to you) and smile … just move in for the kiss. This is exactly where you want her.The only way you can kill this attraction is if you go back to being a nicey-nice guy and bring her flowers on the date. as in having a good time. All they want is that you don’t storm the doors like an inexperienced kid who has never kissed a woman. -. she will not pull her head back.133 -- . So stop talking. that she WANTS you to kiss her … and by signaling her what is coming. enjoying yourself. Now. Now. Don’t say a word for about 5 seconds and look into her eyes. playing and teasing to touching your lips with hers right? All you need to do is STOP TALKING. to kiss her you need to make a smooth transition from talking. But the trick here is. what you have to do is talk to her for at least 20 – 30 minutes and spend some time with her. This way you will press her emotional trigger buttons enough times that she will wonder “when is he going to kiss me?”. look into her eyes for 5 seconds. I know this sounds cheesy and corny but I’m not stupid … I know what I’m doing here. You need to be smooth here. You see. women have seen all those movies as well and they KNOW what’s coming. tease her and turn up the heat.
It’s time to go to your place. otherwise she won’t feel comfortable going to your house. There are two ways of getting a woman to your place: Set up the second date directly at your place or go to your place on the first date after you are finished with the coffee and shopping. First of all.134 -- . But how do you get her to come to your place without seeming pushy or hungry for sex? Women KNOW what will happen when they go to your place. Just don’t make the mistake and wait with the kiss after 1 or 2 hours into the date. but again it is up to you to make a smooth transition. -. You will have much more control and less obstacles (like friends etc) to deal with if you go to yours. Now you want to see her naked and take her clothes off. otherwise she will think you are a wimp for not even trying. really.This really is so freakin’ easy. How To Take Her Home So you have spent some time with her and had great fun on your first date or get together. So just go for it because if she comes on a date with you. you should have kissed her already before you decide to go to your house. As a sidenote: never try to go to her place if you can avoid it. she wants to be kissed. This is key! Another factor that is involved her is that she needs to trust you as well.
get a DVD and tell her to buy the popcorn. you can set up the second date at your house and tell her to bring the chicken and you will get the pasta sauce. Now really. That’s it. -. But don’t forget: No glove. you need a different angle … I mean this IS the 21st century. cuddle and then slowly let things escalate until she gets so horny she doesn’t want you to stop.The best technique to get a woman to your place is to rent a DVD or buy some food and cook dinner at your house. she will gladly follow you home where you can escalate things on your couch.135 -- . The rest is a piece of cake. pushy or desperate. then get her home where you can relax. All you have to do is spend around 2-3 hours with her on a date. So. no love! So always use a condom. Then. Or. this is much simpler than it looks like. get physical with her and sleep with her. The key here is simply to get her to your place without looking needy. years ago guys used the now infamous line “wanna see my stamp collection” and it worked. Today. kiss her. She has to know and feel that this is a completely normal and natural thing for you to do. You see. You have to be cool about it and kind of act like you don’t really care if she comes or not.
You can have time to think about what you want to say. although beware. she won’t sleep with you unless she feels that gut level emotion called attraction. calling her all the time. You can of course completely ruin things even after she has decided that you are the right kind of person to sleep with her. but it doesn’t happen in real life. Then you are back to being a “friend”. This is -. but there is absolutely no attraction. If you end up buying her gifts. A friend just means you are ok. she will sleep with them eventually.Sex or Friends Women will decide pretty early on if you are going to be a friend or a sexual partner. you will struggle to get out of there.136 -- . Most guys have a warped idea that if they just keep dating a woman. When you get stuck in the friendship rut. let me tell you). The whole dating thing isn’t enough to convince a woman that you will be more than just a friend. This might sound like it makes sense from a logical point of view. Unless she is desperate (which does happen even if there is slight attraction. The sexually interested category is far easier and more rewarding. you can fall out of that category if you don’t stay alert. A sexual partner is someone who they will become more and more attracted to and eventually want a long term relationship with. And I mean struggle. speaking to her just to hear her voice and doing anything she asks of you. Sometimes sending a text message can be a lot better than actually talking on the phone. she will lose interest instantly. you can look back and analyze what she has said and you don’t have to be under so much pressure to impress her when you talk.
otherwise she will think you have just used her for sex. you will be able to attract women naturally without even thinking about it. make sure you give her a text the next day. But if you have had sex with her. they start to get those shiny eyes when you make them feel that gut level emotion called attraction. -. women will respond to you completely different than they used to: They start to giggle when you talk to them.also a good way of attracting her at the beginning of a relationship. This StreetSmartDating book was intended to teach you the fundamentals and most important key areas when it comes to women and dating. I have prepared you to step up to the big table. to transform yourself from the wimpy nice guy that most men are. But don’t fall back to being a needy wimp and nice guy. into a real ladies-man and better person. and they now see you as boyfriend and lover material…IF you pull it off the right way.137 -- . is when you know you are truly getting it! The End of the Beginning This isn’t the end. From now on. That my friend. Keep the attraction up and never forget what you have learnt! Your new persona has to become a part of you … and once it IS. it’s only the beginning.
com/advancedseries BUT the only way you will get the most out of it is if you have understood and worked on the material from this book. Get familiar with the basic fundamentals and core essentials of the dating game so you won’t make the biggest and most crucial mistakes anymore. drop me an e-mail and let me know how you are getting on. Once you got the fundamentals down. If you want to learn some more techniques and more lines. I recommend that you get yourself out there and start to practice on what you know. -. I also recommend that you check out my advanced dating techniques. For now. Then you have to start using and practicing the key techniques. I really want to know how you are doing. so send me some success stories. I will teach you my most powerful techniques that I have taught to a select few ONLY…and I might never teach them anymore. just talk.There’s still lots to learn.streetsmartdating. To find out more. To speed up your learning curve drastically. Then come back. But go and practice a bit first before you make the next step. then this is a must. Remember. So here’s what I want you to do now: Re-read the important parts of this book again and take some notes. especially the ones that make women feel that magical emotion called attraction.138 -- . you don’t have to take it any further. go here: http://www.
139 -- . Inc. www.com -.Wishing you success Your buddy Nick Street Smart Dating.StreetSmartDating.
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