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Table Of Contents
Hey, what’s up? ........................................................ 5 Preamble ................................................................10
Part 1: The Bigger Picture ..........................13
My story .................................................................13 What do I want out of this? .......................................17 Right and Wrong ......................................................18 Men v Women .........................................................23 Emotional Trigger Buttons .........................................25
Part 2: The Fundamentals About Attracting Women .........................................28
The Magnificent 7.....................................................28 Personality Traits That Attract Women ........................32 Why Women Bitch ....................................................38 Nice Guys Always Finish last ......................................40 The First Impression.................................................43 21st Century Women.................................................46 Just Be a Man ..........................................................48 Players Playing the Game ..........................................53 The Rich and Famous ...............................................54
Part3: Looking Through The LookingGlass The Other Way ....................................56
Everything Has a Reason...........................................56 Respect Yourself ......................................................56 How You View Yourself..............................................58 The Attitude ............................................................59 Changing your approach ...........................................62 Being Different From Everyone Else ............................64
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It’s All About Skill.....................................................65 Positive Thinking ......................................................66 Take Yourself to Your Happy Place..............................69 Attributes You DON’T Need........................................70
Part 4: The Techniques and Methods that Attract Women ......................................73
Hot Women Have Heard It Before...............................73 The Timeline ...........................................................75 Lead The Way..........................................................77 Women Test Men .....................................................79 Be a Man ................................................................82 Teasing Women .......................................................82 How to be Funny......................................................85 A Crash Course in Comedy ........................................86 “Let’s Just Be Friends” ..............................................88 More Tips................................................................90 Read My Body Language ...........................................92 What is Good Body Language? ...................................93 Reading Her Body Language ......................................95 Crash Course in Comebacks.......................................96 Don’t Be Predictable .................................................98 Be Persistent .........................................................100 Better Test Answers ...............................................100 Where to Find Women ............................................102 Predict Her Moves ..................................................105 An extra edge........................................................106
Part 5: Solving the Puzzle ........................108
Bringing It All Together ...........................................108 A Step-By-Step Plan To Approaching Women .............108 How To Get Her Number .........................................115 The Call ................................................................119 The First Date........................................................125 Where To Take Your Date........................................125
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...........4 -- .............................................130 Let Her Chase You...........132 How To Take Her Home .......................................................When You Meet Up ..................................136 The End of the Beginning ....................................................................137 -................................................................129 Don’t Be Boring On a Date ......................................134 Sex or Friends .....131 The Kiss.........
in the real world. go out and have immediate success with women. but was always the guy who women referred to as “oh him? Yeah he’s nice. but I wouldn’t sleep with him”.5 -- . Hey. There are millions of men out there who just don’t get it when it comes to meeting. get a date or a kiss. women like that”. dating and relationships. like getting a phone-number. -. every book about that topic out there just tells you basic stuff like “be funny” or “take charge. I couldn’t simply walk into a library and pick up a book about becoming more successful with women because … well to be honest. Most of the lines or techniques that all these dating experts were teaching just seemed a little bit “off” and didn’t really work out there. But what should I do? I didn’t know where to look or what to do to get better with women. something that I can use RIGHT NOW. I was one of them. That really sucked! But fact is I wasn’t alone. There wasn’t really anything available in terms of bestpractice. One day I just couldn’t take it anymore and I had to do something about it. attracting and dating women. I would always have many “female friends”. Many years ago I was a real loser when it came to girls. what’s up? Hi. my name is Nick and I think I can teach you one thing or two about attracting women.Hey.
there will always be a solution … you just have to find it.6 -- . … and I did! It took me many years to figure all this out. smart or gifted … I’m just a regular guy like you. Now I believe that everything can be explained if someone just sets his mind to it. not leaving me even more clueless. because if I don’t help myself here. NEEDED to find out what it really was women want in a man and what makes them attracted. and I wasn’t particularly talented. If there is a problem. I wanted to kiss those girls. have long-term relationships with beautiful women and basically just KNOW how I can make almost any woman attracted to me.What I wanted was something that actually HELPS me getting better. but what about the guys that are? What do they do? This got me thinking… There are some men out there who seem to get most of the women that are around. while most men seem to get hardly anything or are just “friends” with women. But what was it? -. So I was thinking … I’m really not the only guy isn’t as successful with the whole women and dating thing. Now I wasn’t really keen on being “just another friend” or a “nice guy”. then it’s going to be a lonely trip to the grave. But I desperately wanted … no.
the ones that always had at least 3 or 4 women on the go at the same time. drive a nice car and sort of wealthy. So when it comes to courting a woman. I really expected the real Playboys and Ladies-men to have a masculine body.7 -- . would I have the same success? The funny thing was that I expected every man who was really successful with women to be very good-looking or have a handsome baby-face. they didn’t pay lots of compliments to women and they didn’t bring flowers. None of these men had those traits. What if I was to do exactly the same as they did. be tall. But you know what? Nobody was! Every guy I met who was really successful with women wasn’t tall. be at least over 6 foot tall. rich or handsome … he was just a regular guy like you and me. have good model-like looks and wear an expensive watch or something. They KNEW how to act and behave around women. That was really weird let me tell you. didn’t buy drinks and never invited anyone to dinner or to the movies. these guys seemed to have it all figured out. But they did something different from me and all the other guys who always ended up getting rejected by women.What if I was to model the very successful men out there. They were not nice. -.
While every guy out there was trying to be very nice, polite and friendly to a woman he was trying to court in hopes that eventually she will like him too … it never happened. He always ended up as being rejected with “well you know, let’s rather be friends, you’re such a nice guy” or “you are just too good for me, you will find somebody else”. … but really, I’m not too good for you, I like you and want you!! … that’s what I’m saying, I don’t deserve you. But you can still be my friend. Cya! Ever heard this one? :) There is something invisible out there that all these successful Playboys and Ladies-Men do to get the women they want. It is really hard to spot if nobody ever tells you what it is or you never did GET IT in the first place. So what is it? What is it that those lucky guys do to get all the women? It certainly isn’t good-looks, height or money … it is something else, something that is difficult to see if you don’t know what to look for. I did figure it out and I can fairly say that I have become even MORE successful than the guys I modeled and analyzed when I first started out. I know what works, what doesn’t work at all and how to improve almost every single aspect of this dating game so YOU can have the same success as me! But I don’t want to tell you right now what that secret thing is that seems to attract almost any woman … I am going to LEAD you to the answer throughout this book.
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This way, you will feel much more like you deserve it and you will also be able to look through the looking glass the other way. What you are about to read took me a lot of years of analyzing, testing and summarizing so YOU can enjoy the secrets of the dating game, become successful and finally get the woman (or women) you always wanted. There is no bullshit, no hype … simply what works! Welcome to StreetSmartDating!
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The idea of this book is to prepare you for attracting the kind of women you want and desire. I will show you all the fundamental methods, lines and techniques to be successful with the woman of the 21st century … because most of the stuff that is out there right now is either too old and doesn’t work anymore, or doesn’t really help you because most tips are crap. What I want to do is to get you up to speed within 24 hours so you can go out tonight, and see results INSTANTLY! No, I’m really not kidding. After you are done reading this dating manual, you will see the code of the matrix and have all the core essentials down to meet and attract women on a daily basis. This is why I want to give you something you can use and that will help you right now. Not in a months time, not next week … TODAY! Most other books about dating don’t have that edge and only tell you what works in general. I will go deeper and show you some of the biggest kept secrets of the dating underground. After you are done reading the StreetSmartDating guide, you should be able to have a good understanding of what women want and have a good idea of how to pick up women. That’s why this book only covers what you really need to know. It is almost like a crash-course or dating women in
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This is the perfect place. but trust me. you will need to understand its predecessors if you want to get the most out of it. but take your time. You will get far more out of it if you successfully complete this course. practicing and then progressing. how to say it and so on. like I said this is the raw basics. Hopefully. this isn’t the only book available. It doesn’t mean that you can’t achieve it. Use this book as a journey. But first you will need to make sure you understand the principles outlined in this book … otherwise the advanced programs won’t mean anything to you. Some of you might lap this up like milk and have taken on all the challenges instantly. just don’t think that you will get less out of it because you don’t like talking to people or you are very intimidated by girls. whilst others will need to spend time thinking. -.11 -- . I know its tempting to skip forward to a section that you really are intrigued by. If you want to know more about how to attract women. It’s ideal for someone who doesn’t really know where they are with attracting women and wants to know where they should start. because there are a lot of ideas and principles in here that you need to understand if you want to become irresistible to women. It shouldn’t take you very long to read through this book. Of course. I’ve tried to put everything into the right order. then I suggest you get my killer program called Advanced Dating Series or study my other programs available from my website. you will understand each section and then progress to the next. what to say to them.a nutshell. There is nothing in here that can’t be done even by the most socially challenged people.
If you think something is not worth trying then you are guaranteed never to understand the concepts or gain new skills. If you find something hard to grasp. So get reading. you need to make sure you are willing to succeed. you will be a master in no time! -. but that doesn’t mean they can’t be done. but I can’t help you. Things are hard work at times.Most importantly. it just means you will get more satisfaction at the end of it. If you are too negative and too skeptical not to even give things a solid try. then I’m sorry.12 -- .
I would get women attracted to me because if you are nice to somebody.Part 1: The Bigger Picture My story One thing that everybody asks me at some point is where and how I learned to approach women. or would hang around girls as a “friend”. But when it came to women and dating. I didn’t really “learn” it. It -. generally … the other person is nice to you as well.13 -- . I guess after a lot of trial and error I just realized what worked and didn’t work with women. I acted nice and polite when around girls. at first I went for being the nice guy and using my personality to show I was attentive and caring. But I had to work for my success … I had to work very hard to get there! I never was the handsome type of guy and I wasn’t rich … heck. I always ended up getting rejected. I always thought that by being nice. I couldn’t have been more wrong. I tried what probably ever other man had in mind as well. But I really believed that you either had to be tall and handsome … or have a lot of money to get a girl. Since I wasn’t that handsome and wasn’t rich (like most men out there). I’m still far away as we speak. just like most guys out there who don’t get it. Was I getting anywhere? No! So you see.
Otherwise they would date the guys who treat them well.14 -- . there is something else out there. otherwise they wouldn’t go out and sleep with them. because shouldn’t women be with a man that treats them well? Yes they should! … but in reality. always look what she does and what really happens. they are not! That got me thinking. It’s a bad idea asking a woman what she wants. that just seemed kinda wrong. I would treat her so much better than him”. But what was it? Certainly no women loves being treated like shit. So … if I acted just like a jerk or an asshole towards women. That was very weird. he says to himself: “gosh what a jerk. 99% of men don’t get that. Every guy who gets jealous when some arrogant schmuck dates the women he would like to be with. -.didn’t take long before I realized that women found nice guys boring. they would get attracted to me?! But I didn’t want to become an arrogant jerk. we have a beautiful woman going out with a jerk that treats her like shit. while she ignores all the other guys who would treat her like a princess. act like perfect gentlemen and are really nice to them. she should go out with me. They always seemed to fall for the jerk or asshole that treated them like dirt. Here. I figured out that there must be something women find attractive in assholes and arrogant jerks.
If you were to “just be yourself” around women and didn’t get it yet … she would dump you or tell you to “let’s rather be friends”. So pay attention to every detail I am revealing here because it can take up most of someone’s life just to get -. I knew I was on my way… Women liked me being bad and joking around with them. They didn’t like a guy who they can just get. flowers.I realized that I had to start looking at everything from a different perspective and pay attention to more detail. they will walk all over you if you act like that. but it paid off. What I mean is. but ONLY because I did what most other men didn’t do. I had the privilege of being myself because I already did what got women attracted. One thing I always kept in mind when I was still working women out was this: To be good at something you have to get yourself over the hill.15 -- . Everything takes time and usually the harder it is. Women didn’t like being treated like a princess. and that made me special. I was different. the more rewarding. compliment her all the time. So I figured that I had to turn it around. There was no need to buy presents. In fact. offer to do everything for her or even take a girl out a lot. I had to work very hard at figuring all this out. They always liked me for who I was. They didn’t like someone “easy” or “nice … someone that acts like a wuss. you will just be another failure. unless you really stick it out.
And I will bet they gave up because they didn’t make the same kind of progress that they did when they started. ballet or whatever? How many of them gave up after just a few months? A lot I’ll bet. It’s not looks and it’s not money … it’s something completely else and I will show you exactly what it is. you will need to put in some effort as well and learn and apply it. But to get the most out of this.the basics down. Fortunately. piano.16 -- . But those who stuck it out probably became pretty darn good at it. The only reason why I got so good at attracting and seducing a lot of beautiful and intelligent women is because I tripped over my dick more times than all of you guys reading this manual together! Hey. After several years of trying almost EVERYTHING I could think of. Think of all the people you have known who did martial arts. I have the core stuff together that can make anybody successful with women. -. believe me when I tell you I know what doesn’t work. I think I nailed it! Right now. Once you have read this manual you will be so much better than before. but to get really good and make your success with women shoot through the roof you just need to stick at it. I’ve been there and I’ve basically rewritten the nono rules that get you rejected. I can teach you step-by-step what really works when you want a woman to think you are so sexy she will literally ask YOU for your phone-number. But on the other hand. you don’t have to because I have done all the hard work for you already.
I want you to read through this book and be able to go out and get 4 phone numbers the very same day! Now let me tell you this: It is very simple! Being successful with women isn’t difficult … IF you know what really works! But if I got good at it. Are you looking to improve you sex-life? Do you want a girlfriend? Do you want to become a Player? Are you looking to meet your soul mate and get married? • All of the above? I am not going to tell you that you should sleep with at least 10 different women a month or that you should get one woman and stay with her for the rest of your life. this is the most powerful tool to have.I really do know what works and what doesn’t.17 -- . that’s why I want to give you only the core fundamentals and concentrate on results. If you can choose what you want to do and actually be able • • • • -. What do I want out of this? This is a very important question and a good place to start. so will you! So let’s get started. But what I am going to give you is choice! In my opinion.
18 -- . I am going to show you how you will be able to do all of the above. whether you will decide to let one or 20 women be part of your life: The power of choice is something not many people have. then weed out all the women you don’t want to be with and keep the one you like. Perhaps you want to get to know them before you sleep with them or maybe take each stage very slowly. If you just want a girlfriend. So regard reading my material as a privilege … because I don’t teach them to just anyone! Right and Wrong You probably already have a rough idea of how someone in general “should” behave around women and how to treat them.to do it. It really is entirely up to you but nevertheless. Maybe you want to sleep with a woman within an hour of meeting her. this my friend is like having a personal remotecontrol for your life! Maybe you want to sleep with a woman within a day of meeting her. The question is: does it work? -. especially when it comes to women and dating … so appreciate it because many men don’t have it. If you don’t like having 23 women on the go. then you don’t need to. If you have been married already and would rather have a meaningful long-term relationship instead … do that instead. What you will do with my techniques is entirely up to you … but once thing I can tell you right now.
but also because you just don’t do that. If you just won a sports tournament or a competition and you feel and act like the champ. and what is generally perceived as good social behavior.19 -- . Not only because it is illegal. their boss and society in general that if they stepped out of line or did something a little bit different than anybody else. people would tell you to take it easy and come back down to earth. Need a couple examples? • Being cocky or cheeky to somebody • Acting arrogant because you are better at something • Breaking certain rules If you make a cheeky or cocky comment towards your teacher. you would get a laugh out of the entire class. -. Remember those words: Because you just don’t do that. parents. teachers. but you would get detention.Now I’m an not an arrogant jerk towards women (ok maybe sometimes ☺) but you need to realize that there is a huuuuuuuge difference between what works when it comes to attracting women. I know so many guys who had to listen to their friends. they got told “you can’t do that? Why? … because you just don’t”. is something that many people regard as immoral and wrong. You see. a lot of stuff that gets women attracted. Now you can’t just walk into a bank and shoot everybody just to get some cash.
you have been taught good ethics. Basically.20 -- . there are so many questions that pop up in someone’s mind when he is attracted to a woman. good manners and the right-behavior from when you were a little kid. But what should you do to actually GET HER! You know. What can a regular guy do? -. kiss her and get physical with her. • Always say thank you • Be a good.If you didn’t see the point of certain rules. you brake ‘em but would get into trouble for doing so. get her phone-number. • Do you just walk over to her and pay her a compliment? • Do you ask her if she wants to have a drink with you sometimes? • Do you invite her to the cinema? • Do you ask her if she just wants to “hang out?” • Do you tell her that you really like her and if she wanted go on a date with you? • Do you ask her for her phone-number? • Do you play it cool? • Do you wait until she looks at you? See. you aren’t particularly model-type handsome … you are just a regular guy. have a date. nice and polite towards others • Do what you have been told But what about when you wanted to date that special girl you had a crush on? How were you going to achieve that? Should you act like you always did around your friends? Should you do something different? You aren’t rich.
I’m talking about the moral majority of this country. So just to get the record straight … you shouldn’t tell the wrong kind of people that you know this stuff. Especially don’t tell your female friends that you know how a woman’s brain works. feminists and even deeply religious folk. I’m not talking about lying into someone’s face to get an advantage and I’m not talking about screwing people over here. Why? Because they think what you are doing is morally wrong! Does it work though? Hell yes! But some people might not like it as much as you do.21 -- .Now look: Most of the stuff that really works with women is NOT what you think it is. Maybe even you might some of my techniques not really “clean” or “honest” or “not how you should do things”. how to seduce them and basically that you can get almost any woman’s phone-number under 3 minutes. Why? Because if I show you how to beat the system. ultimately. -. But. most of the stuff that women LOVE and get ATTRACTED to is morally wrong. somebody will lose power. my stuff works like a charm. In fact. I’m talking about becoming a man … a real man! And a lot of folk don’t like me teaching you this stuff.
or do you want to leave things as they were? But as I said before: I will give you the power of choice by teaching you what really works with women. Most people will tell you that having the same types of interests and being gentle and caring will attract you to a woman.It is highly advanced cutting edge material that I believe is the best in the world. HOW you are going to use my knowledge is entirely up to you. Maybe it’s time to change and become more of a man. If you try to be like her. she will see you as a friend. Perhaps that you are starting to realize that being nice and thoughtful won’t get you what you really want. -. are you going to change your outlook on life because of what you’ve just read. The real question is. Will you change YOUR goals or morals from reading my book? It all depends what you want personally. she will look for that in a friend. she might start to see you as a partner. But if you try to be a man.22 -- . Remember.
it will do.23 -- . but it really isn’t. sports (competition). titties (sex) and hanging out with his buddies.Men v Women Allright. Your average female will be interested in: drama (emotion). sex & relationships (romance) Now I have generalized this to the max! I know there’s loads of other stuff but to get my point across. beer (getting wasted). her looks (attention). then no wonder you are getting rejected all the time. d’oh ☺). shopping and clothes (appearance). obviously. Women might seem very complicated. Let me ask you one simple question: Why the difference? • Why are we men not interested in a movie about romance than women? -. If you fail to GET the how’s and why’s of female psychology. let’s very quickly go over the obvious differences: Your average guy will be interested in. styles). cars (performance. But most men can’t understand women at all. They don’t know how the female psyche works and how to effectively handle a woman. Ok. let’s get this party started then… Men and women are two completely different human beings (well. you just need to get the fundamentals right. talking to girlfriends (gossip).
It all goes back to the animal kingdom. the alpha male. Women like to compete between other women in terms of who gets more attention. porn-magazines and car engines don’t really make you look sexy for women: They don’t really care! Why? Because if you put all the pieces together. you are dead on the money. creates a need that most men don’t have! We men love the adrenaline and competing against each other to see who is better at something. That’s why talking about sports stats. We men just kick each other’s ass to determine who is stronger or better. This is the key! -. We compete to determine who is the dominant one. it’s all about driving her emotions nuts until they go wild. Cold facts don’t work here. you will see that women are emotional creatures! They need to be stimulated emotionally to do something with you. I think that’s obvious … but why? I tell you why: Because drama for instance. But long story short: Women and men have different needs! If you can press those buttons to GIVE her what she craves in a man. who “looks” better because that is how they compete.24 -- .• Why are women not as interested in a cars performance as guys? • Why we guys not as interested in gossip as girls? Just because we are men and they are women you say? Well.
etc. what do I say and how do I get her number?” Now look. how and when to kiss her. how much money you got or how big your biceps is…you have to be able to press her emotional trigger buttons that create attraction! Get it? So let’s talk about that for a second. So let me ask you this: If I just gave you lots of lines that work … at some point you will run out of material. Why does it work? -. There is also the date. you need to understand that to be successful in the dating game. Emotional Trigger Buttons Where are they? How do you press them? What’s it all about? Allright then … The biggest question you probably have right now is: “How do I approach a woman. Then what? Wouldn’t it be much more effective if I showed you how to create your own? Yes I do have some killer lines but I want you to grasp the CONCEPT of why women get attracted to whatever I say.25 -- . how to get her to your place.No point talking about what car you drive. you need to look beyond the phonenumber.
here’s the killer secret: If you don’t take yourself too seriously.26 -- . funny and a “hot-guy”. For instance. There’s no chemistry going on here. smile and tell you how full of yourself you are but they just got attracted to you! -. and add some humor: • “Hey! You know I don’t wanna brag but … [pause] … I just am the greatest” *smile* Get it? Women LOVE that shit! In fact. In other words.Because I figured out how the code looks like. It’s too arrogant and too dry. I know WHERE her emotional trigger buttons are. the ones that make any woman attracted to you within seconds! There is shitloads more to be successful in the dating game. they will giggle. but we have to get the fundamentals right first. How does that look like? Let’s use the example from above. I am the greatest” … then she would just make a “who’s that weirdo?” face at you. So how do you press a woman’s emotional trigger button? How do you get her ATTRACTED to you within seconds? Simple… You have to be just a little bit too arrogant. she gets attracted to you and thinks you are sexy. if you said • “Hey baby. add some humor to it and make it sound cheeky. but make a joke out of it. But. you will press her sexual trigger button.
Remember that women never go for the nice guy. giggle and get shiny eyes. This is key here! Everytime you create attraction or press her emotional trigger buttons. Keep doing what works! Allright. she will tell you that this is “harsh”. she will think you are hot and sexy.27 -- . If she laughs. she plays her cards right. hits you on the arm and calls you a bad boy with a huge ego … she absolutely loves what you are doing so don’t stop it. that you have such a huge ego or that you are so full of yourself…just look at how she reacts to it. lets you kiss her. -. now let’s get deeper into this. But you can SEE if she likes you or not. I know this sounds weird but that’s how a woman gets attracted to a guy. that you are so “mean” and “bad”. They never tell you that they like you when you are still dating her. Nice guys always finish last! Pay attention to what she does (such as dating a jerk or asshole) and not what she says (such as “I want a man who treats me like a princess”). Always pay attention to her behavior and not what she actually says. Don’t think just because she hasn’t told you anything yet that she isn’t attracted to you. If you pull this off right. hit you on the arm but she will smile. It doesn’t matter if she calls you mean.
women will get attracted to you instantly. All but one are truly important. They also are attracted to the idea of never having to work or worry about money anymore. But this need is purely a survival strategy and hasn’t changed over centuries. Women wouldn’t mind having a partner who has lots of money because he would be the perfect provider. Now the problem here is that looks alone give you a lot of attention and is NOT really a crucial factor in how successful you are. which is the last one. Women do prefer rich guys over poor guys. it doesn’t mean jack. Same goes for -. 1) Wealth Meaning how much money you have and how much you earn. here are the seven basic things that attract most women on this planet. Does that mean you can’t get a beautiful woman if you are poor? Dude. Anyhow. The most common reason why women (or gold-diggers) like a wealthy man is pretty obvious: Because they can buy lots of stuff like hundreds of shoes.28 -- . you couldn’t be more off here. but even if you DO have money. If you look like a Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp. clothes and jewelry … or generally speaking. 2) Looks Most women say they want a guy that is cute and tall. provide a better lifestyle.Part 2: The Fundamentals About Attracting Women The Magnificent 7 There are seven basic things that attract women.
But fact is that women find themselves naturally attracted to a guy who has lots of power. then people will recognize you on the street because they already know you. Nevertheless. Of course this is complete bullshit (look at Paris Hilton) but this is just the way it works in this world. Why? Because it’s sexy. Why do you think most of the guys that are really successful Playboys or Ladies-Men are not rich. Unfortunately. This is almost like the complete package of power and fame. not tall and don’t have model-looks. You don’t need to be a senator or a powerful business-man to qualify for this department. If you have status then people will assume that you are somehow better than somebody who -. People think that if you are famous. brings respect and shows you are not at the bottom of the food-chain. the alpha-male. To be honest. If you are famous. you are better than the average citizen. 99. some of them I am close friends dress like shit and don’t even shower before going out. 4) Fame Okay. women are attracted to guys who are famous.height: You don’t need to be tall to become a ladies-man.9% of men are not famous and can’t capitalize on this attractive trait.29 -- . 5) Status Men who have status have influence and power and usually money. this is a bit of a bummer. You really need to come off this trip that looks will give you a huge edge in this dating game because it’s just not true! 3) Power Power is a form of dominance and shows your leadership qualities…and women ALWAYS go for the leader of the pack.
your status rises instantly in the eyes of ALL women. you are being regarded as someone “special” which makes you unique and different. Your personality is the ONLY thing that you can tweak and improve in a short amount of time. This is because women tend to follow. -. then all the men out there who enjoy great success with women wouldn’t be where they are right now. 7) Personality This is more important than any of the above. then you must be sexy for every woman.doesn’t have status. and if they see other women being interested in you. Here’s another slick trick: If women see other women eyeballing you or trying to get your attention. Your personality is your greatest weapon and tool when it comes to success in the dating game. Having a special talent is a great turn on and automatically makes you stand out from the crowd… if you are GOOD at what you do and are enthusiastic about it. But your personality is the KEY when it comes to meeting and dating beautiful women. It also means that if you have talent. If it wasn’t for your personality. I mean you won’t get rich overnight and you certainly won’t grow two more inches if you are an adult. Get it? 6) Talent Men who have talent are seen as attractive because women feel they can provide for her.30 -- . I will show you how you can hone your personality into an irresistible powerhouse! … I’m not kidding.
It is your personality that makes a woman feel turned on. None of the others can do that as intense as your personality. intrigued and get that gut feeling called attracted. but we are the living proof that this stuff works. But once they have seen how incredible my techniques are. I don’t even have a car as I type this.31 -- . you will get ultimate success with women. not tall and certainly don’t have modellooks. excited. We have kept everything pretty quiet and underground. We are not rich. I have put a lot of effort in this and it nothing works better than my personality when I want to get a woman’s phone-number and get a date with her. happy. The reason … in fact the ONLY reason why I am so successful at what I do is because I have perfected my personality to naturally attract women everywhere I go. Most guys don’t believe me when I tell them. I know you don’t really believe me here that just by tweaking someone’s personality. Look. the jaw suddenly drops. I have lots of player friends and I am good buddies with some of the best seducers and womanizers the world has never seen … fortunately. To be honest.Your personality decides whether or not a woman will ultimately want to be with you and love you. it’s pretty much on auto-pilot right now ☺ -. the eyes open in astonishment and all they can say is “WOW!” Now listen.
Yu will need to learn and ultimately acquire most of these traits so they become a part of you. whilst others can work well when you combine them. -. but my personality is absolute killer! It’s the reason why I am such a chick-magnet right now. Some of them are best on their own.32 -- .But I was a struggling nice guy like many of you guys reading this. Here are the fundamental tools you can use to attract a woman. for once … we really got lucky! . difficult to change your status and difficult to get richer. the best thing about your personality is that you can change it for the better if you work on it. I am going to list the specific personality traits that give women that gut feeling called emotional attraction. It’s difficult to change the way you look. but strangely enough the most important of all your characteristics you can change. and all I could do at this point was to fix and enhance my personality that it would attract women in the near future … and it worked! I’m not richer. So you see. not taller and not more handsome than I was before. I guess … this time. Women have a pretty good idea of what a man should have and be like in order for them to consider you as boyfriend or lover material. and I am going to show you how YOU can become the same.-) Personality Traits That Attract Women In this chapter.
33 -- .• Humor – Make a woman laugh and she will eat out of your hand. keep her on her toes and make keep her -. I know this sounds very arrogant but even though women SAY they want a nice guy. it will bypass their bitch-shield. you will have a problem! • Confidence – What you need is cohones. • Be spontaneous and unpredictable – Don’t signal your intentions to her just like that.e. So make sure you use what works and get that big ego! • Be cheeky – Now this is one of the most powerful tools you will ever learn. walk up to her and do all the “dirty work”. they always end up with the slightly arrogant jerk who is full of himself. • Dominance – Women love a man who takes charge and leads. balls and some inner strength. where to go and what to do now on a date). but she will love it when you take control of situations and make the decisions (i. It will also make you an interesting and fun person to hang out with. Women are the weak ones. giggle and laugh. Women naturally follow so if you don’t lead. Be a little mysterious. This doesn’t mean she wants to be locked up. so they need a strong counterpart…you! You have to make the decisions. But don’t take yourself too seriously and play it down a notch. • Have a big ego – Make sure you are in love with yourself and have a big ego. you are being cheeky…and every woman will want to be around you because you they feel that gut-level emotion that magically attracts them to you. If you can make women smile. By being slightly arrogant AND funny. They can’t give you attitude either because you lowered their guard since they are laughing.
but DON’T try to be romantic early on. Have a charming personality. Every woman kinda knows how men behave or how her past dates went … so you have to show her that you are NOT like them. It doesn’t mean you should be all romantic and a goody-goody two shoes. flowers of take her out to a candle-light dinner. don’t respond text messages right away and make her know that just because she is beautiful doesn’t mean you will want to date her.34 -- . you will have to play your own thing here. Say things she wouldn’t expect .guessing. making you seem a hot and interesting man in a woman’s eyes. • Be charming – This isn’t an easy one. giving her gifts. You need to turn up the heat by creating attraction. • Be hard to get – You have to be a challenge. Don’t do everything for her whenever she wants to. All this will make you so much more interesting. It doesn’t work like that. and not the other way around. you instantly come off as different and special. And this is done by playing a little hard to get and by being busy sometimes. Play hard to get. By being spontaneous. otherwise women will lose interest if they can get you without putting in some effort or having to chase and fight to actually get you. make spontaneous decisions and don’t reveal everything about yourself early on. unpredictable and a little mysterious. Make her chase YOU. don’t call her all the time. But by any means. and being romantic kills everything early on! Most guys make this mistake so back off here! -. you are dead on the money. DO NOT be all cuddly and become a wimp by writing her poems. If you can acquire that strong JamesBond charm that can sweep women off their feet.
rebellious and adventurous guy? She will try to tame you. so have an attitude like this: Cool. That’s why my attraction techniques works so perfectly here: it will make you stand out. the bad boys of the jungle! • Clever – Women tend to be attracted to a sharp and bright mind…as long as you are NOT a nerd or a geek. you are boring and predictable.35 -- . make you different from the rest and therefore you come off as the sexy and interesting guy every woman wants to date. • Be original and different – Don’t do the same things like everyone else. and that’s half the fun right there for every woman on this planet. so why should she want to go out with you? The reason why her past dates didn’t go any further was simply because every man wasn’t special. • Be cool – This is a hard one to explain. but here’s my take on it: You just have to take it easy. Maybe I kiss her. If you do. maybe I let her hang out with me if she is interesting … we’ll see. Don’t say the same things like every other guy and don’t dress like every other guy. So many guys take this dating game -. they want the rebels. another woman wants a piece of me so let’s see what she’s got. Rules are here to be broken…and which woman doesn’t love a wild. They don’t like the nicey-nice guys who they KNOW they can get anytime. Dating women shouldn’t be a big deal for you. Being clever and street-smart are both huge turn-ons for women so make sure people don’t perceive you as a dumb cracker-jack. Women won’t be interested in facts and statistics. you ARE like every other guy she has dated before. but if you can show to a woman that you do have some brains she will find that very attractive. unique or different from one another.• Be rebellious – If you follow all the rules.
Those personality traits are what makes about 99% of women feel that gut level emotion called attraction towards you. sexy and as a challenge. cute and beautiful girl right? So why settle for what the unattractive guys go for? I just gave you CHOICE! -. No need! Just relax. But if you can acquire most of the personality traits that I just mentioned above.36 -- . Why? Because they know that most men don’t find them attractive. Now look. she knows that she doesn’t stand a chance. most women will not be able to resist you. You will come off so much more confident. obviously every woman is different. The only type of women that WON’T respond to you that well if you have all those personality traits above are ugly women.waaayyy to seriously. A better. The strongest one is if you can come off as slightly arrogant but still funny…called being cheeky! I haven’t found a beautiful woman who was not attracted to me when I was cheeky to her. so she gets jealous and won’t respond that positively towards you. and if you have an amazing personality that naturally attracts women. more beautiful woman can just come along and be instantly attracted to you as well. But that will be the least of you problems because what you want is an intelligent. play it by your own rules and do what YOU want.
polite or treated her like a princess.37 -- . then you become boring. Being perfect in general is just plain boring…small differences and imperfections are exactly what makes someone or something interesting. treats them well (like a princess. But in reality. obviously ☺) and plays the role of the perfect boyfriend. good-looking. Every man she’s been out with wasn’t nice. Get it? But you now know how attraction works so never listen to what a woman says she wants … pay attention to what is happening for real. the type of women me. Does she get what she wants? Does she go out with the guy she originally wanted? No! She goes out with the guy that makes her feel sexually attracted! And all those guys have at least half of the personality traits I mentioned above! -. you and probably every other guy wants to be with has NEVER dated a guy like that. so I want you to go for the type of woman you always wanted! Another thing I want to mention here is that most women SAY they want a man who is nice. If you are the perfect boyfriend.You can now make almost EVERY woman get sexually attracted to you.
38 -- . BUT…” -. they just won’t get it if you are reasonable and try to explain it with pure logic. Do you know what’s going to happen? She will say. you need to realize that women are emotional creatures. Buy why? Most men just don’t know what to do when your date or girlfriend acts like a complete bitch. I’m going to teach you WHY they do it.. So let’s continue… Why Women Bitch Women will give you some attitude and behave like a brat sometimes.That’s one of the many secrets of this dating game! I’m glad I taught you this just in time. driven by emotions! …and the love drama! Their decisions are not based on pure logic but rather how they feel at that given moment. Or in other word’s. That’s exactly why most guys can’t counter an argument with pure logic because it doesn’t sink into a woman’s brain. First of all. and WHAT to do about it to effectively handle the situation. “Yeah.
Get it? Another thing is. then she will get annoyed because you LET her do it. YOU make the decisions. I’m the woman. “Look. but not you. what do you do when your woman or date is being all emotional.39 -- . I’m supposed to follow”. I know women like to bitch sometimes but seriously…stop behaving like a brat” You need to be able to hold your ground when you deal with a real hottie because she WILL give you some attitude to see if you are up to the challenge. but you will have to know how to handle a woman when she gets emotional. Women will just say “I don’t know”. -. So. then you need something that feeds them right? In other words…DRAMA! Men don’t really have that need. acts like a bitch and gives you a little attitude? You will have to let her know that she can do that with every other guy. correctly translated to “Why are you asking me? You are the man.The problem here isn’t really the bitching itself. Don’t ask me. that women NEED emotions. It’s just like when women get annoyed at you when you ASK a woman on a date “where do you want to go?” or “what do you want to do?”. If you can’t handle the situation and let her act like a brat. And if you have needs to fulfill. that’s what keeps them alive. but how a man reacts to it.
But if you don’t. it’s sayonara son! If you don’t put your foot down. their lives have taken a complete turn for the better. VERY bad idea. there is a pretty big chance that you might have been what women call a “nice guy” as well.They test you. so behave like a man! Nice Guys Always Finish last Allright. they really do. and how far she can go and what you tolerate and what not. can share all -. she will walk all over you because you LET HER DO IT! Women don’t have any respect for nice guys that act like wimps. then she will accept it and respect your decision. It’s all about respect anyway: if you let her know. Fortunately. About 90% of guys who read my books and other programs have been “just friends” with women and were being labeled as “nice guys” by women in their pasts. Now. You know. the type of man women like to hang out with. I want to dig a bit further down the spine and explain WHY exactly being nice to women is a very.40 -- . And they do it all the time! You have to make sure that you let her know what your rules are. I want you to think a bit as well here.
their problems with (mostly relationships and men) and basically consider you as her personal girlfriend. …and you were still waiting for the right moment to kiss her and tell her how you really feel about her. So why did this happen? Why does she think of you as just a friend? -. if you want to go on a date with her. You thought that by being nice and polite to women. she will NOT treat it as a date but like a get-together with one of her girlfriends where you chat about girlie stuff over a cup of coffee. Or the most common response: why do you want to ruin our relationship we have? If you try to kiss her. The big question I always get is: How can I get her and what have I done wrong? The answer is actually pretty simple if you paid attention in my newsletters. she will turn her head. Or maybe you even did. picking her up when she needed a lift and even talk to her for hours on the phone. she will be nice to you as well and like you in the end. You wouldn’t mind to kiss or sleep with her … even if it was just to go on a real date with her but she just doesn’t feel the same way.41 -- . and she just said that she needs some more space and needs to think about this. Then you started her buying drinks.
But because women don’t tell you to fuck off if you didn’t behave like a complete jerk. needy and wimpy behavior … that’s a fact! If you were unable to press her emotional trigger buttons that make her feel that gut level emotion called attraction towards you. You will send I WANT TO BE FRIENDS signals to her. a bad influence and a jerk! -. So let’s summarize once and for all: Women will NEVER sleep with a clingy and wimpy niceguy! They will ALWAYS date the bad boy. I want to date you” in your head. … and you go like “but I don’t want to be friends. But it’s too late now. you are a nice guy. but I just got out of a relationship … but we can still be friends”. then she will let you be friends with her. then something else will happen. clingy. women don’t get attracted to nice. NOT sexual mating indicators.It all leads back to when you first met her because that’s when you lay out the ground rules and the foundation of the emotional connection between the two of you. They will look at you and see that you are a “nice” guy indeed. “You know. the guy that our society likes to call a menace. She has made up her mind about you already. but they just don’t feel sexually attracted to you. Now. It’s also a nice way of saying “I’m not really attracted to you but you are so sweet.42 -- . I can’t possibly give you a rude rejection because you are so nice”.
43 -- . it just doesn’t work! The First Impression Ok look… Everybody keeps talking about first impressions at shit right? But what’s really going on here? Why is a first impression so important? I want to reveal the real secrets right now and that will give you an incredible advantage. I get so many emails from guys saying… -. PLEASE don’t fall for the oldest trick in the book and believe that you should be NICE to women to become successful … in reality and on the street.Does that mean you have to become a jerk to get women? Hell no! You just need to take what works for jerks. But just to get this over one last time: Please. StreetSmartDating doesn’t teach you to be a mean bastard or to become a jerk. Allright. you are literally screwed! See. Once a woman has made up her mind about you. think about this for a moment: Why is a good first impression so important? Simple: Because you can’t change it after a certain amount of time. I just give you all the stuff that really works out there … the true secrets of womanizing and attracting women. ditch everything what nice guys do and add the rest from StreetSmartDating … and you are made! See.
you won’t screw up like this in the first place. I hope you can understand that argument. You will have to start dating other women and get your skills up to speed.“Hey Nick. etc … see above for more examples). This is why most mistakes either happen within the first 30 seconds to 3 minutes … or at the date when you are trying to kiss her or get her to come to your place. -. is if you have top-notch game. And if you do have amazing skills. I met this woman and I think I blew it by being nice and clingy and she said she only wanted to be friends.44 -- . there is nothing you can do about it because she has made up her mind. you will have to move on. NEXT! … that’s all you can say here. I even tried to kiss her but she always turned her face away. It will only work if you displayed to a woman in the first few minutes of talking to her that you are different. What can I do to win her over?” The answer is very cruel but it’s the truth: There is NOTHING you can do to win her over! If you blew it by being nice. dominant. rebellious. being cheeky. I have tried winning a woman over with some form of jealousy and I’m not even going to lie here … it does work! But the only way you can win a woman over AFTER you screwed up. wimpy and needy. But if you fuck up. NOT a wimpy nice-guy and have some of the qualities women are looking for in a guy (like humor.
Doesn’t happen like that. If she gets attracted to you and sees you as a potential lover or boyfriend. he is funny. they will keep the option open and see what will happen next. Rather. and she will now keep her options open and will decide if you are boyfriend or lover material. It happens instantly! Let me say it again: Attraction happens instantly! You see a beautiful woman walking down the street. you can’t change it. then she will keep her options open. If she sees you as a guy who is sweet but only girlfriend material … it will stay that way.. But on the other hand.45 -- . as in you display to her that you have the qualities women are looking for . if she make a good first impression.That’s why you will have to make sure you get it right from now on … and from the start! Once she has this image of you planted in her head. she will get attracted to you just like that. If she gets attracted. -. you instantly get attracted and want to meet her. There is no choice here either. I am sooo going to sleep with him”. cute and kinda sexy … I think it’s time to get attracted to him”. They don’t say to themselves: “he is so sexy. She doesn’t say “wow. you have passed the “nice-guy” test as I call it (she sees you are not a nice guy).
Everybody thinks that women have become more demanding. You know. That’s women for ya ☺ 21st Century Women A lot has changed in the past 50 years in the female mind and to women in our society. she will sleep with you and tell her girlfriends “we had sex last night … but it just happened”.46 -- . she will get annoyed and reject you.They don’t really say yes. • If you act needy and clingy. and that the man has to show her that he is a good provider. like it was YOUR fault for letting her sleep with you because she wanted to see what is going to happen. To tell you the truth … NOTHING has changed! Women are attracted to the exact same things like they used to get attracted to 50 years ago … and their dislikes of men who behave a certain way haven’t changed either. she can’t follow and will therefore leave. -. • If you are hungry for sex. Women got their first taste of emancipation and they liked it. you won’t get it. • If you are trying to be nice to her. • If you don’t lead. they only say no or “I wanna see more…” … and in 99% of the cases. she will NOT be nice to you.
I’m not just going to give you money to spend. Here’s a great example. Be light hearted about it. Let’s say she asks you for some money to … I dunno … buy some make-up or hand cream. Not only do women like to hear a man taking control. In fact. Make a small joke about her trying to bleed you dry. This is just another way in which women subconsciously test men. There is just as fine a difference between mean and in control as there is between jerks and real ladies-men. and then ask her what she will do for you in return. If she wants some money from you and all you can say is “yeah sure … here’s some extra”.47 -- . If you let a woman push you around in a relationship it will simply end badly. they also want to feel like he’s not tip toeing around her and telling her what she wants to hear just incase she leaves him.Can you see where I am getting at here? Women don’t want to be in control as feminism and emancipation has suggested. She would really like to hear him stand up for himself and say: “Look. You don’t have to be aggressive or -. then she will think “oh that was easy … he’s not a wimp is he?” Sometimes it really is just a test for her to see what she can get away with and to check your rules. most women literally pity men who can’t stand up for themselves. But you can pay me back with an ice-cream ok?” The key of course is NOT to appear mean.
That’s why women get so frustrated. The women of today aren’t really more demanding or harder to handle. So what’s the problem? -. Most guys try the nice and caring approach because they think that she will leave them and they couldn’t cope with that. Above all. Just Be a Man The most important underlying principle and driver of success with women and dating is to be a man.48 -- . But how come so many guys have problems with women and dating? They are men for sure (I sure hope so lol). Seriously … Women just want a man! That’s it. there is almost zero competition for you out there once you know all the secret know-how about how to attract and date women. just laugh about it and be cool. If you show that you don’t follow the same patterns as the rest of the male population then she will see that you are sexy and different. The reason why most women complain that there aren’t any real men out there who are single is simply because 9 out of 10 men are wimps. taking control of a woman shows you are different from the other men she has dated and never had a relationship with. But on the other hand.angry with her if she constantly asks you to do things for her.
C’mon dude. Society has -. You will have to SHOW her that you are not like all the others. you are a man so act like one. they want a real man.49 -- . masculine and so stereotypical in their role as men anymore. It’s not the same like it used to be. if you see a beautiful woman you get attracted and wouldn’t mind kiss or sleep with her … so don’t deny it! Be a man! They know that we think about sex all the time. for instance: Don’t act needy or clingy because that’s your death-wish right there. The real reason why there are way too many wussbags. You know.Simple: They are not REAL MEN! Women don’t just want any type of guy. they know that men can be dirty pigs … BUT … if you try to be all nice and DENY that you are not like all the other guys out there. unless you find the right woman”. Guys aren’t allowed to be macho. I think sex before marriage is wrong. But don’t deny what you are either: You do have to show her that you are not hungry for sex and not just say “well. wimps and nice-guys but so few real men out there these days is simply because our society has changed. she might even think you are gay if you act all nicey-nice at the same time. she will wonder why? Heck. Do you now how to do that? So. A man that has most of the attractive qualities women are looking for to brand you as sexy.
changed and created a lot of men that aren’t attractive to women because of their new-age behavior. most guys believe that crap! They forgot what women really want! They don’t want another friend. But even though it should be the nice and moral thing to do. And guess what. morals. Over time. emancipation. it just doesn’t work! This is one of the key factor or drivers of failure in the dating game: society has been conditioning men to THINK that in order to be a chick-magnet. religion. strong arms to hug them and a man that is sure of himself and knows where he is going in life. polite and feminine guy that deserves to get the woman because he really does care about her and listens to all her problems. -. TV. you will need to bring flowers. And the bad boy jerk and macho will ALWAYS lose to the girl because it’s the nice. etc). our society has changed and made everyone believe that men aren’t allowed to act as real men anymore (because of equal rights.50 -- . somebody who listens to all her problems they have with men and They want a shoulder to lean on. ethics. Blame movies. write nice cards and literally “court” a woman to get her. magazines and even your mom who told you that you need to be “nice” to a woman because they need to be treated like princesses.
He will have several different families and father many different children. the boss and leader of the pack. there will be the Alpha-Male. that’s why they hang out with the guys they shouldn’t really be with.But women really WANT a real man. then there wouldn’t be so many guys out there who still don’t get it and always fail with women. and what is really EFFECTIVE when it comes to women and dating.51 -- . In the animal kingdom. And in most cases. That’s why most people don’t think being a classical or stereotypical man is wrong or unattractive. it makes no sense at all because you have already been conditioned. When you think about it. If it was. You really have to differentiate here between what is being PERCEIVED as the right way. It isn’t natural. The other -. But to speak from an evolutionary point of view: Men are designed to pick and choose which women they find suitable to mother their offspring. it is NOT what the society has been telling you. Men simply aren’t designed to stick to the first woman they have sex with. It’s attraction that counts! This is why it is so important for you to go back to the roots of being a man! Okay… I want to give yourself another perspective here to get the “just be a man” ideology across so you are able to look through the looking glass the other way.
but ultimately it all goes back to being the man you should be. Now. and the rest don’t get anywhere. Although we are now civilized. You see. If you want to be happy it’s far better to at least test the water before committing yourself to marriage.males will all have to wait in line behind him and the females will all fight to ensure he fathers their offspring. Women like a man who doesn’t cling to one woman for instance. just like in the animal kingdom. there really isn’t much difference between that scenario and human life today. Survival of the fittest remember? But today. there are a few men out there who get all the women. who gets more women? Jerks right? And what is far better than being a jerk? A real man! A jerk will literally treat a woman like dirt when it comes to sex. the factor of being successful as a male in the animal kingdom is simply force and strength. But one of the reasons for so many marriages breaking down is from people marrying too young before they’ve made up their mind. lie -. He’d have more than one girlfriend at a time. But this isn’t really the most important point here. Attraction has become more complex. women are more demanding than simply going for the strongest guy. We may all at some point in our lives decide to stick to one woman.52 -- . Thinking back to nice guys and jerks.
Let’s set aside the creepy overweight old men and focus on the average nice guy. the nice guy might talk to her for 10-20 minutes and then instead of her telling him where to go. The creep might get told to get lost within 20 seconds of talking to a girl. sure of himself. she just says: -. aggressiveness • Attractive: humor. cheekyness. money. The woman of today wants a real man with certain qualities to feel attracted to (remember. being a badboy • Interesting: being different. Like the wise man said: Fake it till you make it! Players Playing the Game You may wonder why women complain about certain guys trying to attract them.53 -- . it isn’t just strength like in the animal kingdom or good-looks. A real man. sexy bodylanguage and voice.about where he was and generally treat her mean. stories to tell. leading The most important part that you will have to implement in your daily approach and confrontations with women is to not only ACT like the man women want … but to ultimately BECOME the man women want. ego. wit • Charming: calmness. that is. persistence. arrogance. politeness etc like you have been told by society) … here they are again in a short version: • Strength: confidence. On the other hand.
she uses the opportunity to show that she is attractive to other guys. The Rich and Famous It is a general misconception that women find money and fame attractive. -. It is almost like an ego boosting exercise. Remember that women love to play social games like bitch queen? Well that’s exactly how women play it with meeting men. Again.54 -- . The truth is they’re not COMPLAINING. Women play games when it comes to dating so they can get a kick out of it. You’re a really nice guy you’ll meet someone who’s perfect for you soon. This is compensation for the fact that the nice looking guy preferred the slim. They want to tell their friends. A girl may not have the greatest looks. this is something that society has told us is true. You can learn how to change this around so you will be playing games with her. guys they like.” You may have wondered why most women complain about nice guys talking to them.“Awww that’s so sweet of you to say so. pretty faced girl across the bar and she was stuck with the nerd who didn’t know his fly was undone. and by now you should be aware that whatever TV and the internet tells you about attraction is wrong. they’re PLAYING. but I’m seeing someone. anyone. feel slightly insecure and get jealous when most guys pass her by. So instead of grasping the opportunity to be seen with a guy that she doesn’t find that attractive. that men have been after them and its so hard to get them to leave her alone.
And yet they seem to get all the interesting women. Films. unhealthy. rich people are portrayed as attractive. For women. healthy. You may be thinking that this means that women will always go for rich and powerful men. Generally speaking. untrustworthy. How many attractive. You can get women to flock to you as well. It will take her a lot of disappointment for her to realize that this is not true and the reason it will take her so long is because it has been embedded in her sub conscious so deeply. as long as you make them FEEL the way they thought a rich and powerful man would. -. funny. aggressive and cold hearted. well mannered. This is completely untrue. these ideas stick strongly in her mind and start to form pictures of her perfect man. TV. interesting and generous. evil. They are not interested in the wealth or fame that comes from wealthy men. she assumes that rich men can fulfill her desires. Most of my best buddies are broke or very nearly broke.The reason for this is pretty obvious. cool rich people do you know? In my experience money makes you boring and difficult to socialize with.55 -- . books and all the rest tell you that rich people are good and poor people are bad. Poor people are portrayed as scruffy. Because of Disney and all the other false influences in her life. This is the image we have been given from a very young age. they are interested in the experiences and emotions that he will offer. good natured.
Part3: Looking Through The Looking-Glass The Other Way Everything Has a Reason Just as you learned why women shoot men down. Respect Yourself Appearance isn’t as important as your charm. Take time to analyze your appearance. In all these tests and games both men and women are looking for the same thing. bitch about each other and test you. Its not just for the sake of it. This might seem difficult to beat at first. Men on the other hand want many different partners and don’t want to be tied to any particular woman. not by a long way. But it can give you a head start and it can improve you’re game. Sex. Women want sex from the same man who can be faithful and loyal to her. It may seem pretty hard trying to attracting someone that wants something different from yourself.56 -- . What do you want to change about your body? There’s no point in saying -. they all have a motive and a reason for doing so. but you simply have to work on giving them what they want rather than what you think they want.
Now to your style: This is important. Wash every day. Not to look fashionable as such. The reason you want to make sure that you don’t dress too smart is so that you show a woman you’re not trying too hard. Wear clothes that compliment your body. Sort out your hair. Try and get clothes online. You are 5’ 4”. not only is it bad for your health. But there are things you can change. Your hair is a mess. Keep away from baggy clothes and try to steer clear of clothing that makes you look as though you’re trying to hard. Get rid of the grubby sweatpants. One of the worst things you can do is dress like everyone else. Start by exercising everyday and reducing what and the amount you eat gradually. Keep it short and wash it at least once every 2 days. you are in the worst case scenario. Of course if you have a few extra pounds then this shouldn’t pose any real problem. What about all that extra body weight? Lose it. You weigh 250Ibs and all of it is fat. Make sure you buy clothes that are slightly different from everyone else. Get some new shoes. you are letting women slip through your fingers. If you weigh that much. but to show you have your own style and you look good in it.57 -- . You wear tracksuits and sneakers all the time.you want to change it all and look like Johnny Depp. Dressing differently shows you have originality -. think hard about each factor of your body. but being obese will. Not only are they cheaper but you can make yourself look more stylish. What do you need to change? Well you wont suddenly grow to 6 foot and then shed off all that extra weight. For example.
Not only is it choking. Nothing is worse than something that smells too strong. it also shows a woman that you are trying far too hard to impress her. they just assist you. The real magic comes from the charm. Not a good look. This can also be stopped with mouthwash. Keep the fragrance low so that she can only smell it when she is a few inches away from you Remember that these image enhancers wont get you a woman. Clean your teeth at least twice a day. Use antiperspirant to get rid of sweat patches. Brush your tongue to get rid of bacteria that causes bad breath. Keep the scent down to a minimum.and women will assume you’re different and more interesting that everyone else simply because you dress differently. What gives you great charm and confidence when you walk up to a woman and start talking to her. Get a subtle and mild smelling aftershave. Long nails not only scratch but they make men look feminine. If you don’t like antiperspirant then use a roll on or spray deodorant. How You View Yourself This will be the foundations for your success. Keep your toenails short and your fingernails shorter. what makes a woman immediately interested in you from the first thing you say -.58 -- . If they’re not very white make sure u brush three times a day and use baking soda with your toothpaste to help bring out those pearly whites.
but it comes out all wrong. laid-back tone that shows her your just kidding around so it sounds insulting and above all you sound too nervous. This was all caused because you just didn’t think or believe in yourself. That comes with experience and you get experience from persistence. If there was one part of the book that had more importance than any other. There really is no stopping someone who has a good selfimage. that’s just way too scary. You try to say to her that her dress looks like the lower half is missing. The Attitude So how do you fake that initial confidence so you can jump start your progress to becoming a professional player with women? You don’t want to just walk up to a woman and start talking.59 -- . I bet you think these kind of things: • What if she has a boyfriend and he gets really angry that I’m talking to her? • What if she thinks I’m a loser and tells me to get lost? • What if she turns around and tries to ignore me? -. You don’t have a relaxed. Imagine you feel very nervous and worried as you approach a woman. make sure you work on it. You don’t say it with a smile. Your confidence is your foundation.to her and what prevents you from feeling to down if you get rejected is self-image. it would be this.
The chances are you will meet at least 5 who will be interested in you. So what happens if a woman is cold towards you. And I doubt they will ever happen to you. I’ll see you around or something” and walk away. to speak to as many women as possible. None of those things have ever happened. That is what a player can do. If this is a magical average place you’re in. Don’t worry about the ones that aren’t. -. They may joke around ant talk to you and say it was really nice to meet you. doesn’t really say much or worse tells you she doesn’t want anything to do with you? You laugh. Even if you do come across women who are married/engaged/lesbians/unsociable it doesn’t always mean they will scream at you or insult you for speaking to them.60 -- . Lets say you talk to 10 women. say something like “Okay girl.• What if she says something and I cant think of an answer? • What if people see me talking to her and think I’m desperate? • What if she laughs at me and then goes and tells her friends that some loser tried to talk to her? I have thought similar things when I was starting to try to meet women. then: • • • • • 1 1 1 1 5 of of of of of them them them them them will will will will will be married have a boyfriend be a lesbian be nervous and shy be wanting to meet someone The trick is. If you are worried about any of the situations above then simply talk to 10 women.
Even if you do feel slightly insulted. You are just like my little bratty sister … you have about the same eye color” Don’t be confrontational about it. which will make her very frustrated. You can leave this situation feeling more confident. First. Women might get a little annoyed when a nervous nice guy or a drunk approaches them.61 -- . You need to show that you’re not some chump that gets all emotional just because some girl isn’t interested in you. Laugh at any insults you get and be relaxed. she says something like: “Look. This will show her that you’re a player. What happens if you get a really harsh response? The one of your worst nightmares. by just keeping your relaxed and chilled attitude. I don’t talk to losers” Hit back with this: “Aw you’re so cute. this situation has shown you that its not all that bad and your worst thoughts never even came close. If you stay relaxed and light hearted. Second. Far too many people do this and its counter productive. You will probably get an apology as she realizes you’re not to be messed around: -. you can make her see that she has just turned down a hot payer. but its not like guys walking up to them in the street and talking to them is anything they haven’t experienced before. she will react well to it even if you don’t leave with her number. Don’t worry that she will be terrified of you. Its far worse than being ignored or being told she has a boyfriend.Never take it personally.
If you have the opportunity to speak to them over a longer period of time you will probably be able to prove them wrong. you’re not their type. You might know her well. Remember. I’ve had a hard day and some jerk was bugging me in the mall earlier” etc etc. -. Don’t change your style or image for the woman. you can gradually begin to understand what attracts women. Don’t worry about women like this. Tell your friends and other people that you meet about the bad experiences if there are any. Try to think what she would find attractive. Think about women’s love for bitching. Changing your approach Perhaps you know a woman that you really like. have seen her around or just heard about her.“Look I’m sorry I didn’t mean to snap at you. but what SHE finds attractive. You can stretch the story out and give everyone a really good laugh. Attracting this girl might not make any logical sense and that is why you have to grasp this new approach to attracting her. its not what you find attractive. You might even tell it to a girlfriend or on a date that this bitch insulted you and then you hit back with a sharp comeback.62 -- . In the short time you meet them you might not be able to convince them that you are the man of their dreams as they may assume because you dress a certain way. There are some women who are very picky and set in their ways. just stick with a style you’re comfortable with. By persevering with what works. Try to think about the things that don’t really make any sense. Keep doing what works and ditch what doesn’t work.
but you might get a fake number or she may tell you she has a boyfriend. Of course.Going back to the male way of thinking. In the same way that in nature a female will grow attractive feathers. Try something that is not only original. but the female will also decline any unsuitable males. Try to think in your mind when you see a nice girl: -. Giving her a rehearsed line that has been used by every chump in the country is not going to show her you’re different. You must have seen those natures programs where they fight off ugly males? The same is true in our society today. but at the same time you’re good fun and not arrogant. but funny and light hearted. Why do you think the attractive girls get all the attention and the fat ugly ones spend all their time on the shelf? Because as in nature.63 -- . Because we are very different to animals. Men choose women and women reject the ones they don’t want. so will females in human society. Joking around with her and teasing her are the best ways to get her attention. depending on how angry you make her. For decades people have wasted the power of words and come up with things like “chat up lines”. These are the root of all evil. display bright colors and sound a strong mating call. you need to show her you are different from other guys. You might not get scratching or biting. a male will decide what kind of woman he wants. You want to show her you’re confident. there are many more ways in which we can communicate. This is also true of females. To attract a woman with words. the rejection happens in lots of different forms. Yes. of course the male will initiate mating in the animal kingdom. males will want to mate with the best looking females.
64 -- . Farmers used to brand their cattle with a hot iron to mark and distinguish them from other cattle. These are like attributes but -. act and dance just like every other average guy out there. EXCITING in a woman’s eyes? Of course not! I’m going to show you now what women find attractive in men. with your new understanding of women. the woman you’re trying to pick up will automatically assume that you are just a regular guy. Showing that whatever you are trying to sell is different from everyone else. What she is attracted to by a higher power and cant do anything to change it. Does that make you SPECIAL. This is really all branding is. To help you gain confidence and experience you must always stick to what works and ditch what doesn’t. walk. Branding is a very important part of marketing. People wont want to buy something that they think is similar to what they already have or similar to something that they have decided they don’t want.What does everybody else say to her? What is would she find interesting/funny that she least expects right now? To successfully change your approach you have to look at yourself from a female perspective. Many people don’t realize just how important branding is. You promote yourself towards a particular type of woman and you sell yourself to her. talk. If you dress. Being Different From Everyone Else Marketing is very similar to attracting women. INTERESTING.
In these games your character has a basic set of spells or whatever.65 -- . This isn’t true. That could be because you don’t have the same kind of attraction when you speak on the phone and that is a skill that you need. It was because you didn’t have the right charm or game. It’s All About Skill People automatically assume that when things don’t work out with a woman it was because they have something that’s just not right with them. You choose what attributes you want to display to a woman to attract her. You don’t have to start thinking that there is something wrong with you and you need to get yourself some new -. As you play and take part in challenges you earn more spells and moves that help you defeat different players. If you can use these tools effectively and in the right combination. these are more like tools. your game is just a set of skills that you have and use when you meet women. Final Fantasy or even World of Warcraft. This is just the same as learning skills with women Perhaps you are good at walking up to a woman and getting her number within just a few minutes of talking to her. Some might only be attractive to 30%. To put it another way. then you will be able to attract almost any woman. Maybe when you text or call her she looses interest quickly and doesn’t reply or speak to you.because different women are attracted to different attributes. You must have played or heard of a game like Pokemon. Some of these attributes will attract 90% of women.
You never get out of it because you always think about what could go wrong or something catastrophic that might happen to them if they try something to sort themselves out. I disagree with this. dull and generally a poor girlfriend. Obviously it was frustrating for her boyfriend who frequently told her otherwise and she was less attractive because of her low self-esteem. then that is a sign that you need to learn a new skill. Throughout this relationship she thought that she was unattractive. you just have to learn a new skill. To give you an example I will talk briefly about a friend of mine who had recently split up with her boyfriend.66 -- . Despite what all -. Positive Thinking There are ways of creating a positive image about yourself to help you get new skills and improve your game.clothes to impress her or gain 20lbs by working out in the gym. It built up until it was a problem and her boyfriend genuinely didn’t find her attractive anymore. I don’t have time to go into great detail but basic positive thinking has immeasurable benefits. This had a snowballing effect. then you need to gain a new skill. If you find yourself being challenged. After breaking up with him she went online simply because she didn’t have the confidence to meet people face to face. Most people will dismiss positive thinking because they think its another way to kid yourself and you will never succeed until you have genuine confidence. Negative thinking is like a rut. If at any point in talking to a woman you struggle with interesting or funny things to say.
then you will forget to think of the positive successes you can have from sticking through something. they think of the most unrealistic consequences.her friends told her she insisted that things would never work out for her and trying would only result in failure. I ask myself some questions about it but most importantly I will make sure that the answers are also things that I want. You may have fantasized about these kind of things. they work. That kind of thinking is almost impossible to break. There are so many factors that are involved in success and positive thinking. The reality is if you think of all the negative things that will happen to you. It might be because you appear relaxed and confident that women believe in the image you give to them of yourself. Not only do they not give themselves enough confidence to succeed. -. People that do realize the power of positive thinking do succeed. Have you ever actually taken time to really think hard about what successes you could have and how you could achieve them? I doubt it. has thinking about something negatively all the time got you what you wanted? No. I relax. close my eyes and picture myself as a success. People you think negatively throughout their lives are guaranteed to fail. So don’t ignore positive thinking.67 -- . but you probably didn’t want to think that these things would really happen. simply because you didn’t want to tempt fate and seem arrogant. There are many ways you can use positive thinking. but it wont work if you keep focusing on those things. but I’m going to stick to just the one that I use. It might be that because you think positively you use the “higher energy” to your advantage. Well. Whatever the factors are. Nothing that bad will happen.
-. Even if by some chance you get what you want. There’s no point in life if all you want to do is be negative. Stop reading this book and just give up on life. negative people are never happy or relaxed because they keep thinking about all the bad things and what might happen. What will her expression be like? How will she laugh? Remember these are all positive things that will happen. Look at all the fine details they have and picture what kind of details would be in your life when you have what you want. If you don’t want to try any of this and you think that its far better to be negative there is something you can do. Maybe it’s a girl you pass sometimes in the street and you want to think what it would be like to go and talk to her.• • • • • • • • • What clothes will I be wearing? What will I be doing? What job will I have? Will I be smiling? What will my posture be? How will I talk? Who am I with? Where am I? What is the weather like? You are almost trying to picture a postcard style image or a snapshot of the life and success you want. I cant help you if you want to be negative and try nothing positive. Try applying the scene you picture in your head to a situation with a woman. Look at really cheesy adverts for holiday homes and even alcoholic drinks. You could even picture a short movie as you go and talk to her and maybe at first she is cold towards you.68 -- . noone can. then she is head over heels for you as successfully turn things around.
try and think of things that would bring back the memory. then you can use it as a trigger to bring back those feelings you had. These are basically called “triggers” and they are just what you need when you want to feel good instantly. Maybe the best holiday you’ve been on there was a song that was number one that summer in every country and you heard it all the time. What was the feeling like? If you don’t really remember it. went on a good holiday. Find the piece of music that brings those feelings back and play it to yourself in the morning with your eyes closed. out with a friend or maybe watching something funny on TV.69 -- . This is about using your happy experiences to promote positive thinking. These are usually subtle things that where happening at the time or in the background that your memory has used to “file” these experiences under. You might have the best memories when you were at school.Take Yourself to Your Happy Place No this has nothing to do with being high. maybe when you passed your driving test. Let the song form pictures and images -. What are some of the happiest memories you have? Everyone must have some happy memories. What was the last really happy memory you had? You might have been at the beach. Maybe there was a song you heard for the first time. had your first kiss. If you find the song that gave you that feeling at that time. no matter how bad your life has been. If you can think of them then you can “load” the feeling of your choice.
70 -- . nerds and social outcasts aren’t much fun anyway. These people are too shy for you. If you stick with people who are confident and sociable then women will assume that you are like your friends. -.of the first time you heard it. I can remember the smell of wax crayons from when I passed my driving test. look for others. Then use that positive feeling to walk up to women with confidence. Sadly. These characteristics are VERY destructive. Insecurity shows that you aren’t confident with yourself. Just one of them can turn a woman right off. Women want a man who knows who is. most guys have one or all of these characteristics. savor it and listen to it before you get on the bus to work so you feel good about approaching a woman. Attributes You DON’T Need Some characteristics are very unattractive to almost every woman on the planet. Don’t be insecure. That brings back a great feeling for me. Worse are people who don’t like meeting real people and prefer to stick to dating websites. If you find a song that makes you feel upbeat. likes himself and doesn’t constantly worry about what other people think about him. Try to stop hanging around people who think negatively. Perhaps the air freshener in the examiners car when you passed your driving test. And lets face it. Maybe it was a scent that you associate with a good experience. When you find the things that made you feel good.
71 -- . Show that you are relaxed and laid back by only making occasional light contact with her. Equally. Touching her too much in the early stages of a relationship. • Don’t do or say things to get attention. • Not taking control and making decisions. Tell her you are both going to X tonight because they’ve got a great atmosphere there and she’ll like the place. Don’t go on about your outstanding performances or greatest moments. A woman wont want a man who worships the ground she walks on and has to have her with him or talking to him all the time. Don’t talk about how much money you make or how difficult your job is. • Talking negatively about things. • Don’t try to change someone’s opinion on something. avoid saying anything negative about women and their faithfulness unless it is meant in a light hearted and fun way. Here are the most common: • Crowding a woman. If you argue with someone about their opinion it will -. Of course. like you cant say to a woman that you’re confident and sexy. Saying your past relationships have all been disastrous and women treat you like dirt. This is frustrating and unattractive. Holding her hand all the time when you’re walking. showing her that you are needy and weak happens in certain ways. Always asking a woman where she wants to go and what she wants to do shows you have no control and wont excite her. It shows you are insecure and looking for attention. Don’t ask her if she is okay with this that and the other all the time.Don’t show her that you’re needy.
72 -- . -.show a woman that you are insecure about your own opinions and you’re not at ease with other people having different views than your own.
confident and hold back on any kind of compliment. they have probably been through every embarrassing attempt there is when it comes to trying to pick up a woman so you need to think differently. They also know that when a man compliments them. In her head she fantasizes about her perfect partner just as much as -. Rather than telling her how good she looks.73 -- .Part 4: The Techniques and Methods that Attract Women Hot Women Have Heard It Before Attractive women have been approached many times before. they know and expect it from some men. They have probably been whistled at. they don’t only think “This guy is a wimp” they also think “He’s trying to sleep with me”. How does this work? Well as I’ve already said she isn’t just used to being complimented. she’s pretty darn sick of it. try approaching her by being funny. Even if the compliment comes from a nice guy. its because they’re after something. had their ass pinched and told they look beautiful perhaps a hundred times in their life. They have probably heard every single cheesy pick up line. but hot women have had more compliments than they have had ass grabs. or maybe just that month. To attract a rich bitch or sleep with a famous and beautiful woman. how nice her hair is and how great you think she is. there are new skills that you need to learn. Women might like compliments.
They don’t want more money. If you meet a girl who looks like a spoilt and beautiful rich kid. Her real wish is to meet someone that will take control of her.74 -- . A far more effective way. If you approach her and the first thing she says to you is a request. you’ll notice what the psychological coach will say to the parents. You go and say hi to her and she says something like: “Can you pass me that pepper shaker?” You reply: “And what’s wrong with your arms? Are they tired from buying all that stuff you don’t really need?” -. perfume or shoes.everyone else does. You are walking past a restaurant on a sunny day and seated outside at a table is a beautiful girl with one of her friends. Spoiled kids are exactly the same. she gets far less of what she really wants in a partner than everyone else. and a way to also show that you are light hearted and funny is to tease her about herself. it’s probably a test. put their foot down when they ask for something they want. I’m not going to be pushed around. looks rich and has loads of shopping with her. don’t backhand her across the face and tell her to shut up. If you have ever watched anything like nanny 911 or driving mum and dad mad. they want a man to take control of her and say “NO. This wont work. tease her about being such a little bitch and toy with her about it. “This kid doesn’t get the attention they want and that is why they misbehave”. I can keep you under control and there’s nothing you can do about it”. Set the scene. She dresses well. This is just as true about spoiled little rich girls. Sadly for her.
That’s why if you know what they are you can use them to your advantage. As long as you show you’re not phased by her tests or surprised with her responses then she will see that you are the type of guy she’s been looking for. she might say something like this: “I’m hardly in your league” Respond with: “Quite the opposite. The Timeline Women go with men who attract them.75 -- . women like to toy with men but they don’t toy with the ones they are attracted to incase they lose them. Yes. If you were to tell her to give you her number and you still haven’t had a chance to work your magic. Women basically have a set of dislikes and likes programmed into them long before birth. Because of these factors they are very powerful and impossible for her to control. I love their little tantrums when they don’t get what they want! I bet you look so cute when you’re angry”. I love spoiled little rich girls. Most men try to be nice guys by assuming that a woman will want a man who is openly faithful and ready to -. They are subconscious. She will probably open her mouth and gasp and then laugh. These are out with their control. which means she likes what you said.Be relaxed and funny about it. not men who chase after them. you’re not trying to insult her or make her angry just tease her.
Too many guys make this mistake when they try to attract a woman. Women put men into categories of like and dislike. WRONG. Dislike: No chance of any kind of relationship. The reason most men who are good looking or fun to be around just go into the “Long Term” category is because -. Its important to understand that these aren’t stages or phases that you pass through when getting to know a woman.commit. Let’s be Friends: Interested in friendship but nothing more. Not interested: Nothing other than a civil relationship. A guy cant go from being a friend in a girl’s eyes to being someone she is sexually interested in. Sexually Interested: Wants sex as soon as possible but possibly a long-term relationship.76 -- . Interested in Long-Term: Would like a relationship but will wait for the right time for sex. She will put you into this category and it is unlikely you will move. They are 5 rough categories that a woman will put men into.
but they wont always sleep with a man who shows he wants a long-term relationship. This doesn’t mean that you focus everything towards yourself. Maybe they didn’t show they were confident enough. To put a stop to all this is very simple. Maybe they aren’t funny or cheeky enough. Don’t show a woman that you are trying to get her into a long-term relationship by courting her. This is why some very attractive men don’t ever get anywhere other than friendship. Women don’t want long-term relationships. Attract her to you by showing that you’re sexy. Maybe if I stick with him I might find him sexually attractive.” Taking a woman to dinner.77 -- . confident and funny. they want an attractive guy IN a long-term relationship. Lead The Way Women like to be controlled and they also like to have some control themselves. Don’t do -. Whatever it is it makes a woman think: “This guy is pretty attractive. Women will have a long-term relationship with someone their sleeping with. buying her fancy gifts and flowers are just some of the things that men do when they are trying to pick up women. but when it comes to romance. dating and sex she wants you to be in control. They assume that acting like they are around for the long haul will show a woman they are the right kind of guy for them. I don’t meet a lot of guys like him.they don’t push the right buttons to turn a woman on. but you must make sure that most of the things you do for a woman are initiated by yourself.
surprise her and turn it around. c’mon go play hairstylist and I’ll meet you at my place in an hour”. This is not just more attractive.everything that a woman asks. These are tests and you need to show they haven’t worked on you. Take control of the situation. If you know what you’re going to do on a date. Men settle for less attractive women and women settle for boring men. Now you can see that just as -. what games you’ll play with her. what tricks you’ll pull. when to have sex. Make sure that you decide where to go. her father has just died or she has glandular fever. it’s the oldest excuse in the book. then it will be 100 times easier than follow all hers. just like with a spoilt and bitchy woman don’t let her push you around by giving her all the things she asks and hints for. so don’t let her make you think its something you have to give way to. If you think about taking control for women as looks and fitness are for men. what to eat. for example. don’t expect her to rush over to your place. don’t tell her that its okay and you can do something another night. then its easier to understand. Don’t ask or give in to all her demands. its much easier to manage. she wouldn’t be any fun anyway. She might of course try things like saying she has to look over things for work tomorrow or go shopping because she hasn’t got anything to eat. women wash their hair all the time. you know you almost had me for a minute. If she has to rush to hospital. A woman wants a man who takes control but very few men do that. If a woman tries to test you or play games with you. A man wants an attractive woman but there are very few. If she says that she’s washing her hair. say “Haha. Spot all the little tricks she tries to pull.78 -- . She could wash her hair anytime. don’t go along with it.
Hot women go through an experience in their lives that makes them think differently about men. these hot women are women all the same. but they are still women with needs. But almost all hot women test men at various stages of a relationship. And they want a man who is in control. These women will have had male attention from a young age. which is why they test and manipulate men. Most of them learn at some point to use this to their advantage. Being funny and confident and not playing up to a woman will frustrate her and make her think about you all the time. perhaps as young as 13 or 14.much as you want an attractive woman. This is why they have seen and heard pretty much every pick up line there is. the situation and even himself. They realize that men will try various different things to attract them and sleep with them.79 -- . but also in control of his emotions. But if you were a hot girl and you wanted to find out if this man is going to be able to control you and stop you -. the woman you are trying to attract wants a confident in control man. Some of them aren’t even aware that they’re doing it. She will find you funny and smart and eventually even the bitchiest and most cold hearted of women will open up and tell you how much they like you. Women Test Men All women test men at least once or twice. They might not get very many guys they are attracted to in their lives. Not just able to control her and her “give me what I want because I’m beautiful” attitude. But of course.
however. It isn’t a fair trial if you ask a criminal “Did you steal this car?” and then accept their answer. But if its her birthday. They will apologize and tell her that they are really sorry. If she says she wants to go out that night tell her you cant at such short notice because your busy. then they give her a compromise and apologize another 100 times. to be nice to a woman. Don’t tell her randomly at some point that you would never put up with tantrums or moods when she tries to get what she wants. This way she will actually believe you that you wont put up with her moods. get her a different pair of shoes as a surprise. If she wants a new pair of shoes. how would you go about it? Would you ask him directly? Of course you wouldn’t. Call her up another time and tell her you’re taking her out.80 -- . Spot the times when she is actually asking for something and teasingly say no. You must make sure you use your skills at the right time. but you give and do nice things for her in your own way. Most men will panic and screw up when a woman throws a tantrum because she cant get what she wants. or they will just become meaningless. not what you tell them. This will have lost all the respect she had for you. It is important. Don’t use them too often either. This is the same when women test you. -. You would make sure you were as subtle as possible so that you could make sure you got a valid answer. If they cant give in to what she demands.from throwing tantrums. They want the truth. This doesn’t mean that you give her what she wants. Wait for a woman to actually test you. laugh and tell her there’s no way.
If she tells you that she wants you to have sex with her. say “Hey. Be unpredictable and don’t kiss her every time she comes close to you. Remember that very hot women can get anything they want. don’t come across as arrogant and unhappy. You are allowed to just say “NO”. 4. Instead of just saying “I’m sorry I wont do that again” say to her “Well. tell her you need to keep making out for a while longer before you’re ready. As soon as you do that they will either marry you or ditch you. not right now. 3. Never give a hot woman what she wants right away. That is why you have to challenge them more than other women because they are so used to getting anything their bratty heart desires. -. If a woman says she dislikes something about you. Here are some basic rules you can follow: 1. 2. you’ve got something in your teeth” Being smooth is vital here. If she wants you to go to her house tell her you’ll be over later because you’re busy right now. tease her about it and then shortly afterwards you go to kiss her.81 -- . so you better start moving if you want to avoid it”.If a hot girl tries to kiss you first. Never say just “YES” to a woman. Mix things up. I like doing that. jokingly let her know that you wont stop doing it. Women will always try to get you to obey them and do whatever they want.
relaxed around women and above all you have a good sense of humor. emotional and caring men. A woman wants a masculine guy that doesn’t take himself too seriously and believe it or not. he doesn’t get dirty. but it is far better to be masculine than feminine. Think of all the badboys and real men out there. he sits in an office all day. but why do you think so many women prefer guys like Colin Farrell than guys like Bill Gates? Bill Gates wears boring clothes. You need to make sure that you walk tall. he doesn’t get physical.Be a Man Don’t let anyone tell you that women like kind. sensitive. Teasing Women Teasing is the best way to show you are confident. You can walk like a man and just end up looking like a prick. daring and even if he was poor women would much rather sleep with him than poor old Bill. -. you can communicate that in a walk. You don’t want to show that you’re so masculine you would slap a woman and then demand she sleeps with you. he doesn’t like thrills. If you at any point show you’re shy or timid then a woman will start to see you as feminine. Why do they get so many women? If they are rich and famous that is usually a side issue. Whilst they might like to be treated well and have fun with a man women always prefer masculine men over feminine men. Colin Farrell stars in action movies.82 -- . stick your chest out and above all stay relaxed. he’s rough.
I mean we go out and we kiss and I really like him. When you are walking take her hand for a few minutes. But now he just said I was his friend? What does this mean? Don’t tell me that he’s not interested in me. kiss her good night and then tell her: “You know you’re not like all my other friends. because she hasn’t got any moves left! Messing up a woman’s mind is another good way of teasing her. I dunno.Here is a way you might tease a girl on a date. Basically. this guy likes me. you’re a little different. but you have also confused her and given her a panic attack by telling her you think of her as a friend. weirder. In her head she will think: “Wait a minute here. I like it” You have obviously just teased her by telling her that she’s weird.” This implies she was the one that started holding your hand as you were walking and she was the one that was being to forward. For example. This way she will be really stuck. that wouldn’t be fair! I really like this guy!” -. Tell her that you think she’s cute when she tries to test you out. then take it away and tell her: “You cant hold my hand just yet! I don’t know you well enough.83 -- . This totally messes with a girls ideas about you and she will find it pretty funny. do it. Trying to work out a woman very early on is a good way you can tease her. If you ever get the chance to let her think she’s now just a friend. you’re giving the message that you know all her little games and you wont fall for them.
Of course she will know that you like her deep down but the doubt will toy with her mind so you can tease her constantly with this method and not have to actually be there. Try and go for a woman’s insecurities. As always, you want to be light hearted about it because you don’t want to end up insulting her. Maybe when you go out and she always gets a light drink or doesn’t have dessert. Tease her about her weight. Try tickling her belly at some point and say: “So, you’re trying to get rid of your little friend then? Is he ticklish?” This is most likely just another test if a woman ever asks what you think about her weight. She expects you to say that she looks wonderful and even if she did put on weight, she would still look beautiful. Please, don’t tell me at this stage of reading you’d still try something like that. When it comes to fat, less is more. Small, toned and flexible people make for much better sex. Don’t let anyone on Jerry Springer or any other daytime show tell you they are happy with being overweight or that fat people are attractive. To 99% of the world’s population, fat women are ugly. She knows this damn well so there’s no point in lying to her. On a final note about fat, what do you do if she asks you if you would still love her if she was fat? “Heck no! I’d leave you like a shot. Actually, I would sell or you’re clothes and then leave you.”
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How to be Funny
This is the biggest and most powerful tool of attraction. It will always beat fame, money, power etc and you can change your humor unlike the others. It doesn’t matter what you look like, if you’re a man and you can talk, then you will be able to make a woman laugh. The idea is to make her feel happy and good by making her laugh. It doesn’t always have to be belly shaking laughter like you’re the funniest person she’s ever met, she might even give you an unimpressed look but have a grin on her face like she’s trying not to laugh. The main thing is laughter makes her feel good and shows that you are clever. In adult life, we laugh only about 10% compared to when we were infants. She has probably had a difficult day with boring people that cant even be mildly interesting. Having a guy making her laugh will certainly draw her attention to you. The key to being funny has very little to do with what jokes you use. It’s the whole persona that you have when talking to a woman. Just as picking up women is about your personality and confidence rather than giving her words and phrases to attract her, the same can be said for humor. Don’t say humor, BE humor. Women want the funny personality. If you want to see someone that has a funny personality think of Jim Carey. He might be goofy but he is a good example of what a funny personality is. You don’t want to be like him of course, you want to be smart and confident, but it’s a good example because he uses a personality and doesn’t just copy routines or say funny phrases.
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Men who try to say funny things without having a humorous personality will just come across as jerks. TV personalities are notorious for doing this. Think of award ceremonies and the like, where celebrities like Madonna, Paris Hilton, Mick Jagger and the rest, will all have jokes written for them that they reel out. How often have you felt like telling them to just shut the hell up? Now compare that with people like Eddie Murphy, Billy Connolly and so on. They are funny because they know how to actually BE funny, not just say jokes. Learn to develop a plan for when you meet a girl that you like. If she likes what you do initially and seems to be into you think how you will develop that. You can try: • • • • • • Teasing her at every opportunity Make fun of her Show her you wont be pushed around Get her interested in you sexually Accuse her of coming on too strong Reject her kisses and then go back for more
If you don’t have a plan, the chances are you will slip into the same old routine. You might keep the funny act up for a while but you will let her down when it really counts and she will lose interest quickly.
A Crash Course in Comedy
Anyone can become a funny person. You just have to make sure you can deliver, engage and get into the groove of being quick witted. One of the best ways of doing this is to watch comedy shows and stand up routines. My best advice is to keep away from sitcoms like Friends, The Simpsons and so on and go for more intellectual quick-witted humor. Some of the best to watch are stand up comedians like Peter Kaye, Eddy
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if she said she has to go to Toys r Us try to make out that she is a bit old to be buying toys for herself. even if you know she is buying a present for a nephew etc. For example. We should do it sometime. I like that. For example.Murphy and Chris Rock. Try saying “Aww do the nasty people keep pushing in front of you because you’re too small and cute?” • Try to make it look like you are digging yourself out of a difficult situation and that you said something embarrassing. if she mentions something about a bank robbery for instance. try and make out that you were responsible and then back track: “Oh that bank robbery was nothing. tease her. There are two ways you can do this. don’t just agree with her.87 -- . • Deliberately misread what a woman is saying. Try watching sitcoms that have been written by comedians and cult comedy series. Look a little confused and say: -. if a woman says to you that she doesn’t like people who cut in line. For example. If a woman says “Yeah. Friends is just a little too feminine to be good humor and everyone watches The Simpsons so you need something original. For example. The first is to pick up on things that she says have a double meaning. The second way is to put words out of context. The Office and Extras by Ricky Gervais are two of the funniest shows on the planet. I mean when I rob banks I aim for at least… er yeah you’re right it was terrible”. Here are some tips for making good humor: • Tease a woman when she shows she has strong views about something.
” • Try to make out that she uses too much innuendo and she has a one track sex mind. If she asks you how much money you make say $8bn a month. it just makes you seem arrogant. “Let’s Just Be Friends” As a man you never want to hear the phrase “I think we should just be friends”. It has nothing to do with a -. • Use current events and culture in your humor. If it’s the Olympics that summer try and make a joke about her winning the gold medal for shopping and spending money. There are loads of different jokes you can make about current affairs and you can even steal jokes from political shows and news quizzes. • Don’t laugh at your own jokes. If you try and make out your serious about ridiculous things it makes them seem even funnier. If gas prices are rising tell her that you had to sell your car to pay for gas. If she says that she something about wanting to go to bed it back with: “You want to go to bed with me right now? You know I don’t like this being too forward thing.“Right here? You know kids might see us if we do. why cant we take things a little slower?” • Over exaggerate things every now and then. at least until we are alone. If she wants to know how your day was say that it was awful and you had to speak to a million customers today.88 -- . I think we should wait a while.
Let her know that you intend to be involved with her sexually. There is nothing more frustrating for both of you than an uncertainty about where the relationship is going. They already have a good idea that you’re attracted to them. For example. This wont just help you avoid ending up as her friend but it will also help you if she is your girlfriend already. if you are on a date with this girl and you have finished toying with her about whether or not you like her. try and say something cheeky that will be related to sex and attraction.woman actually wanting to be your friend. try saying: “You know I didn’t realize it. If you have made sure that you have been funny. so toy with -. but you’re pretty funny. confident. you need her to be thinking about you in a positive way. this doesn’t mean that you can have negative attention. you may also need to do something else. Instead. Of course. If she thinks that you just want to be friends she will be unsure how to act if you both become physical. but a woman isn’t going to tell you that straight. Telling her she is beautiful and anything like that will just undo the all the hard work you’ve been putting in. But to make sure that you completely avoid ending up as her friend. I just thought you were sexy and simple” NOTE: Don’t try this with VERY hot women who you need to break down gradually.89 -- . daring and exciting then she will probably like you. It means she just doesn’t want anything to do with you. To avoid the “let’s be friends” situation you need to make sure that you have her attention.
She wont have to worry about being constantly harassed with messages and calls and she wont feel like she’s being stalked. It leaves them thinking.them a lot more and avoid giving any signals that you find them attractive. simply tell her that: “Yeah. Even if things seem to be going really well. you know I like you and we’re having a good time. More Tips Make sure that you end phone and text conversations first. -. It lets her see that you want to be a challenge and she is a lot more interested in him than he is her. 2. He isn’t going to come across all wussy and needy. Call me tomorrow and we can fix something up for another day. women really like that. She will wonder why this guy doesn’t want to talk to her right in the middle of having so much fun. but I have to go now. 1. but in fact women love it when men do this to them. If a woman tries to accuse you of not liking her.” This might sound as though she will be hurt and angry that you don’t want to see her.90 -- . A woman will read two things from a guy that ends a conversation first. guessing and fantasizing about what you really think of her. She will see that he is the one with all the control and as you know. It says that this guy is not the clingy type.
For example. we seem to get on really well. Don’t give her something every time or every second time you see her. She might have a new bracelet so say something about it that shows you like it. I have already said this briefly but its very important. a man that buys a woman a necklace or a diamond ring or a bunch of flowers isn’t going to win her over. get her something that she likes that would make her laugh or show that you know what she likes. So it doesn’t matter if she wonders if you like her or not. This is one of the reasons women like confident and funny men. because she likes you and the way you don’t seem to want to let her know. then why isn’t he calling me all the time and wanting to spend a lot of time with me?” Women like it when a man is in control. He has gone for material things that are vague and probably have little value to her. Try to do things that contradict each other. then you could say: -. A gift says a lot about you and what you think of her. If she tries teasing you. anyway. Do things that show you have paid attention to a woman. Women like it when you act confident and funny. This means you pick up on very small details that she has gone to a lot of trouble for. Her hair might have been done so tell her it looks sexy. If you are aggressive and funny then she will find that attractive. Give a woman gifts sparingly.91 -- . Instead. they will lose meaning very quickly. Confidence shows that you are proud of yourself but being funny means you don’t take yourself too seriously. What about getting her neat looking plectrum if she plays the guitar? What about if she likes rabbits getting her a small cuddly rabbit? This will only work if you get her gifts rarely.“I really like him.
you have to show it.“If you don’t give me what you want. Psychologists and analysts all agree. The other 75% is all about how you deliver those words. And I don’t mean just rough you up or be rough. only around 5% of communication is actually verbal. The other 95% will communicate far more effectively. but how you say it. What I tell them is that no lines or words can really be used on their own to attract women. but you’re not a brute and you like to be playful. you cant say that you are confident and sexy to a woman. them I’m going to have to hurt you. And anyway. I mean really hurt you. I’m talking about tickling you. She likes the fact you can be strong and authoritative. Read My Body Language People always ask me what lines and trick phrases win women over. The actual words maybe only make up around 25% of what will attract a woman.92 -- . In other words.” If you act all tough and serious when you say this a woman will love it. and so they invent the other 95% of the person they imagine and fill in for themselves. its not what you say. -. Here is how you do it. Why do you think people fall in love on line? They never see or hear the person face to face.
Many people stoop and slouch which makes them look shy and afraid. This is another way to hit something or someone and look like a complete moron. 4. You will be amazed at just how much a woman can tell you about someone from just their stance and posture. 2. This will also help you to walk tall and it makes you appear taller. 3. This is helped by having a good posture and in turn also helps you to have good posture. 5. If you have large shoulders.93 -- . Show off your masculine and firm pecks. Facial Expression -. Allow them to be just less than shoulder width apart. Chest Put your chest out slightly. Women are very perceptive to body language and can pick up on small details. Walk with good posture and a woman will be able to see you are confident. The things you should focus on most are: 1. Posture Keep your back up and straight so that your head is up. Feet Don’t stand with your feet too close together. Hand Movements Keep hand movements smooth and simple. Don’t tap your feet or raise your heels. Don’t bring your arms or hands above your head or start flailing them around. this is a sign of nervousness.What is Good Body Language? Ask a female friend of yours how someone is feeling by looking at their body language. don’t stand too far apart so that you look like you have back pain.
it will also make the woman more interested if you take time and add a sense of mystery to what you are saying. Pause and take whatever you are saying slowly. As with your hands keep movement to a minimum and make any movement slow. If someone tries to convince you to be attracted to them. Try to keep your facial expression cool and calm. Personal Space Don’t invade her own personal space. That is good body language. This doesn’t only tie in with the idea of being cool and sexy. not the killing. If you watch every James Bond film ever made. You cant decide or choose who you are attracted to. You have to pay very close attention to small details. 7. He is the epitome of suave and cool.94 -- . Does he roar his head off with a geeky laugh when someone says something clever? No. Its because of these small details that women become so strongly attracted to men. Look at any masculine hero from the movies or fantasy world. he grins and nods his head. This will make you look open and relaxed. Leaning forward can make you seem needy or too desperate. That’s why nonverbal communication is so powerful. we don’t realize we are communicating. you will never find him laughing or goofing around. Lean back slightly when you talk and draw her in. Give gentle and cheeky grins when you say funny and rude things to her to show her you’re not arrogant. -. don’t look too excited or amazed. Arms Keep your arms unfolded. Folded arms usually means someone is feeling threatened. 6. small and subtle. The body language and the sex.Look happy and relaxed. you cant do it. Try to be like James Bond.
Look into a woman’s eyes when you are talking to her at some point.95 -- . these things don’t always work. Don’t try to stare her out or interrogate her. her body will help you to understand what she’s really meaning. But watch if she moves herself and her chest and pushes it towards you. or just wants sex. but it’s similar to the way you can tell if she finds you sexually attractive. Of course. Do you see them get slightly bigger? If you do it’s a sign she is becoming aroused shown by her dilated pupils. Obviously if she is facing you this doesn’t always count. If she twirls the ends of her hair round her fingers its usually a way of saying she is aroused and in turn she is try to arouse you.Reading Her Body Language If a woman is interested she wont be able to hid her body language from you. though women will lick their lips as a reaction to the swelling as this can be very difficult to spot. By that I mean if you don’t see those signs it doesn’t always mean that she is not attracted to you. If you find she is in your personal space and thrusting her breasts at you. If a woman plays with her hair it’s a sign that she finds you attractive. If a woman starts to lean her chest towards you then this is a sign. I have looked for all these -. Have you ever thought why women wear lipstick? Its to show that they are ready for sex. just look for a few seconds into her pupils. this is a sign that she really likes you. No matter what she says. If they start to swell this is a sign. Is she licking her lips? We usually associate this with food.
then kiss her. The chances are if she is acting friendly towards you. take it up a level.signs in several women and when I didn’t see them I was pretty disappointed. get her number as soon as possible. Unfortunately most men don’t understand that this means that you should move up a gear and progress on to the next stage. You get the idea? Don’t wait for her to do it. Crash Course in Comebacks Comebacks with women have nothing to do with insults. If a woman is making out with you at her place then take her to the bedroom. But then I quickly found out that they were in fact VERY. you’re razor sharp. You don’t want to insult someone you are trying to attract you just want to tease them. You just have to show that if a woman tries to phase you or catch you out. Are you worried I might try and steal them from you? You: That’s a nice dress. then she probably likes you. if its going well. If a woman is having a good time with you on a date. VERY attracted to me. So here we go: You: Hey. where’s the rest of it? -. If a woman is laughing and enjoying your company.96 -- . I think I better just give you some examples of conversations where women try to catch men out. A great comeback doesn’t have to be that funny. Keep smiling and grinning if you ever get hit with a tricky put down. You: Aww. I’m just waiting for my friends to get back from the bar. hows it going? Her: (A little moody) Look.
how you doing? Her: Look. You: No really. Her: Wait. And I’ve seen some REALLY short skirts. you would make a good politician.97 -- . Her: Do you often see a girl as beautiful as me? You: And who said modesty is out of fashion?! You: Hey.Her: (Shocked and trying not to laugh) Do you say that to every girl you meet? You: Nope. You: You mean you’re a drug dealer?! Her: Why do you keep staring at me?! You: Me?! You were staring at me! Look. I have a boyfriend okay. You: Girl. Her: What’s wrong with it? You: Nothing. I’ve never said that to any girl. Her: And how old are you? You: I’m 17. that is a crazy dress you have there. You know. I love it. if you like me why don’t you just talk to me? -. What do you think I am? A nerd? See ya around. I was just kidding. you can help me with my homework Her: You’re crazy. How old are you really? You: What do you do for a living? Her: I’m studying pharmacology. I’m not interested. You: I didn’t ask you that. here you go. I think its crazy! Where did you get it? Her: Actually why don’t you give me your number instead? You: Haha. Her: Yeah sure.
Don’t Be Predictable Women want to marry predictable men. If a woman ever brings up anything about sex. They might not get much pleasure. -. Don’t always kiss her when you’re saying goodbye. This is usually just another test. secure and very boring. Just have lots of fun. don’t always hug her when she wants to be hugged. but also a sign that she enjoys talking about sex. Make sure that you show you’re not embarrassed by it as well as teasing her about it. not insane. If she says anything that carries any kind of innuendo. You can always be too unpredictable just like you can be too confident. She will find this funny especially if you already know her and the conversation is naturally heading towards sex.98 -- . Don’t scare a woman by driving down the wrong way of a highway or kidnapping her. tease her about it and accuse her of having a one track mind. fun or excitement out of it but at least they know they are safe. Try telling her that you are not the type of guy that just sleeps with anyone and joke about her trying to get you into bed. And anyway who needs that when you have alcohol and a dryer for pleasure? Hit a woman with something unexpected when she least expects it.And there are many more that you can probably come up with. tease her about it no end. You want to show you are unpredictable. keep her guessing what and when you will do something. They are safe.
if -.99 -- . She will start thinking: “I wonder if he will text me today” “Will he kiss me when I next see him?” “What will he say to me?” “What is he going to do?” It’s All in the Voice Making a woman think you are confident and sexy comes from the tone and speed of your voice. An attractive girl will expect this from most men so surprise her. You just have to make sure that you speak slowly and deeply. Mix it up and use your skills sparingly. but it is also predictable. Talking quickly and at a high pitch will just make her think that you are feminine and weak. Anybody can improve their voice. If you are unpredictable then you will keep her guessing. Women love to wonder about things like “does this guy like me?” and so on. you can work on slowing it down. An ideal voice is: • • • • Low Slow Calm Distinct Make sure that you finish every word your saying. Don’t try to skip words and skip the annunciation of others. Even if your voice is high and naturally fast.Needy is bad. Don’t keep touch her all the time. Being unpredictable is a lot like being mysterious. especially when you’re getting to know her.
Just a few minutes later she was asking me to make love to her.you do. -.” I have had this happen to me on several occasions. Tease me and tempt me until I beg you for it. because you just heard me say I didn’t want it. “I want sex and I want good sex right now. just keep persisting and she will soon say yes. I don’t want sex tonight” it actually means. then you will sound like you’re nervous and that is bad when talking to a woman. you can attract women with the power of your voice. It’s also a way for her to say subtly: “Its now up to you if you want to have sex. so the ball is in your court. No does not mean “No” it just means “Not right now”. Just don’t keep ASKING. What will it be?” The key is simple. Don’t give up when She says “No”. I just said that was okay and kept kissing her. There are loads of voice training books and manuals out there so go and read some of them. Simply by practicing saying words and making sure you sound sure of yourself. ask through your actions.100 -- . Better Test Answers When a woman tests you it doesn’t mean that you have to just say no. There are many ways that you can tease her. Then get practicing! Be Persistent When you are kissing a woman and she says “Look.
I dream about it. We’re not counting supermodels and strippers are we? Her: Are you seeing another woman? You: No.Have you had a lot of girlfriends? Just a few.101 -- . I think its called a nightmare. Her: So you think I’ve put on weight? You: No. Her: Do you want children? You: As long as I don’t have to pay for them or see them. Her: Would you like me better if I had bigger breasts? You: I can always feel other people’s if you don’t think yours are big enough? -. Another man. why not? Her: Do you ever think about getting married? You: Yeah. but that doesn’t mean you couldn’t lose a few pounds. Her: Have you ever been in love? You: Other than with myself you mean? Her: What did you get up to yesterday? You: Well I thought about you for a while and then I decided to hire some hot strippers because you didn’t call me.
Try going to the Yoga class where there’s more women than guys.Her: Do you look at other women? You: Only when you cant see me. -. cute. Where to Find Women Okay… Let’s go through the best places to find women. • Cafes and sandwich bars. If it’s a nice day try going early afternoon and catch girls sitting outside having lunch. • Check out the mall. Some of them might be busy so pick the ones that look like they’re taking their time and relaxing. but I know that you are looking for a certain type of woman…right? So where do you find beautiful. They are full of women. This may look like a very easy one to answer since women can be found everywhere. You get the idea. heck they shop anytime. intelligent yet feminine women? Here are the best hot-spots: • Go to your gym and talk to the women filling up their water bottles or whilst you’re in the steam room. Women love to shop at the weekends.102 -- .
• Bars and clubs. despite the fact they have failed on many previous occasions. This is what you have been building up to. If you are into classy and smart women. single and looking for a guy. so give it a shot. I guarantee it. They assume that their techniques are better. Women that go out with girlfriends are generally speaking. -. Competition from other guys will be almost zero! You could probably have thought of these places yourself. If you can approach a woman on the street. what women want and how to act around women.103 -- . Most guys really don’t know about this one. You can decide at this point you don’t want to approach women because its all too new to your or you can grasp the challenge and become a player. • The library: Don’t assume that only geeks and bookworms visit libraries. This is why you need to understand what women like. you might just find one in a library that also has the brains to hold a stimulating conversation without mentioning the words pink and shopping every second. But what kind of women will you meet there? • DECIDE what kind of woman you want to meet • LEARN how to become attractive to women • VISIT the places you are most likely to find those kinds of women • APPROACH them and attract them People who fail with women don’t always decide to do what they are told. You will do one or the other. this should be easy. You now have a choice. These are probably the easiest places to meet women. you will be surprised.
As she learns to dance. first you need to think what type of women you want to meet. What if you like women who know how to dance? Head down to dance classes. At university I know people who live in towns about an hours train ride from here. women in their mid 20’s head to places where there are lots of rich men.So where can you find these hot women? Slow down.104 -- . Women go to the city so they can meet the man of their dreams. Its just like with nature. there a 1000 times more people in the city. I live just a few minutes walk from the city and there’s always loads of young women shopping late night on weekdays or in the afternoon at the weekend. You might like where you live. but think about it. Tennis players. If you are a beginner at dancing. then you might want to think about moving. -. You have something in common and by the end of it you both should be able to dance. animals head to certain breeding grounds. swimmers even bowlers. cute and straightforward women with no real interests? Go to a coffee shop or an average bar where they hang out. you might meet a woman who is also a beginner. so they decided to live here. Apply this to almost anything you like about women. even in the suburbs. If you live in the back of beyond. Do you like attractive. and driving to the nearest city on a regular basis is too far. Do you like women who are into sport and keeping in shape? Get a gym membership and hang around there a few days each week. Do you like attractive little rich girls? Then go to an expensive bar or sandwich shop. so do you. Go out into your local mall or head into town and start looking around for what type of women hang around in different areas.
Even if you don’t live near a huge city like London. and women love that remember. • Make sure your room is tidy and has a clean bed. Keep your bedroom looking presentable so she will want to spend as much time as possible there. think about a large town with a population of around 50. especially young women. New York. then you will be able to make the right finish touches so you can control what will happen. have an untidy home themselves. Women love tidy and clean. -. I do know women who think a house that is slightly messy is a good excuse for her to say she’s coming over to tidy.simply so they could stay in town till 4am and not have to worry about paying a months salary for a taxi home. On the other hand. and then ends up having sex. Predict Her Moves If you can guess roughly what will happen when you meet on a date with a woman. This is all about taking control. • Make sure your house is tidy.000 population. • Have a selection of drinks and neat things to offer guests when they come round. though a lot of women. Women wont get into something that looks like another woman has been there before her. or she is coming over to your house. I’ve been to loads of places like these and there’s always a good few nice looking women around. This is why keeping neat and tidy will impress her. Los Angeles.105 -- . Showing a woman you are a better host than she is will impress her as women love these kinds of things.
Is it clean? Will it get you both home without breaking down? An extra edge Women will be drawn to certain things in your home. but she will. then she will not only assume you are like everybody else. because you are so used to your own home. Is there anything that might put her off slightly or that might prevent you from sleeping with her? Pay attention to small details. Even focus down to details such as the condition of your car. You can pick some original oil paintings up for next to nothing at antiques stores and yard sales. she won’t have anything she can really ask you about. Don’t decorate your house in the typical modern style.106 -- . One thing I noticed was that a lot of new homes in my area have the same kind of square plates and square bowls. If you fill your home with the same fragrances. If a trend has already set in go for something similar but slightly different to show you are ahead of fashion. Make sure that your house is ready to have a woman over. This is why making your own original style is so important. Get some interesting and original paintings in your house. pictures and furniture as everyone else. You might not notice things yourself.• Make sure you always have at least two condoms in the house that HAVENT been used. so now I always make sure I have a backup. I have ripped one on one occasion. -.
Get interesting books on your bookshelf. then she will really be interested.107 -- . Try to learn some magic tricks. clap. then go! Even just a photograph of a famous landmark you have visited or maybe a picture of somewhere you would like to go. get something interesting. Keep all your sports trophies and awards out of sight in a glass cabinet. tell me I’m great!” Not comfortable for the lady. If you haven’t been anywhere interesting. Magic tricks are again all about delivery. Don’t have romance novels and books about macroeconomics. I’m so great. There is nothing more boring. Avoid playing musical instruments. almost hanging on your every word. say you thought it was great? It’s a really awkward and unpleasant situation to be in. Think about it. Really you are saying “Wow. just like you would hold back on mentioning your achievements when you meet a girl. Presenting a magic trick to a woman can show her you are interesting and can hold her suspense. Have some souvenirs of places you have been. annoying and unattractive than listening to someone bragging about their achievements and how great they are. what would you do if a woman started playing music or singing? Would you dance. or maybe something you can do with a stuffed rabbit. -. Why not have a book on how to be a great lover or something dark and masculine like The Football Factory. simply because you never mentioned it. If she sees your photo of you receiving your award for salesman of the year. Keep them tucked away. Put something up there that will intrigue her and make her ask lots of questions. This can be an absolute bore for younger women listening to music they don’t really like. Whilst she is watching the trick she will be wondering what will happen next. Go and find some simple card tricks on the internet.
it will take you another 24hrs to absorb all the knowledge properly and you may even have to re-read certain chapters of this book. In fact. If I am honest … this is true to some extent.Part 5: Solving the Puzzle Bringing It All Together You have learnt a lot today.108 -- . In the next part of the StreetSmartDating book. -. I have narrowed it down to the core essentials so you will only be equipped with what you really need to get a woman to like you and be attracted to you so she gives you her phone-number. So let’s break it down… A Step-By-Step Plan To Approaching Women Most people think there is some magical line you can just say to a woman and she will fall head over heels for you. I want to focus entirely on bringing all the various puzzle-pieces together and form them into an action plan. It will only have one purpose: To give you a ready-to-use tool so you can get an unlimited amount of phone-numbers from almost any woman you want to meet and date. It will be as easy as ABC … and I’m not kidding.
The simpler. so is it okay if I was to like talk to you? • Hey there … can I offer you a drink or something? • Hi. Attraction isn’t a choice here remember? She will get attracted to you instantly if you do it right.109 -- . Have you ever tried or seen this kind of approach: • Hey. the more effective they are. why don’t you give me your number. do you know what time it is? Oh ok … so how are you? -. you are really pretty. THEN the magic happens: she gets attracted. can you help me. This means you need to approach her differently. If you string more of them same kind together though. talk to her differently and even leave her differently than every other man does. What’s your name? • Hey. So let’s talk about the initial approach: The best approaches and ice breakers are structured very simple. The key point to remember here is that you should not “hit” on women like every other guy does like “Hey baby. so there really is no choice. but rather suck her into a stimulating conversation that is spiked with sentences that create attraction. and …ehm … I noticed you were on your own. I was just hanging around. And as you already know the most important attraction is your personality.But it’s not one single line … one line just gets her hooked.
110 -- . For example. it doesn’t matter what -. Look at ways that you can turn the conversation around and tease the girl you are trying to pick up. you are as lame as your line sounds like: AWFUL! The best way of breaking the ice without looking like you are hitting on her is to ask for her female opinion about something. accuse her of approaching you and saying indecent things. It’s been used a thousand times. Her: Tehehe. If she’s still cold and unsociable after that.These are all terrible lines. so I approached her: Me: Hey … what’s up? Listen I need a female perspective on this. If you are going to ask a woman for help or offering them drinks. … it was on like Donkey Kong! What you need to learn is how to make interesting conversation about everyday dull things. There was a cute girl next to me. As long as you avoid chat up lines. If she is a little cold and withdrawn at first and accuses you of trying to pick her up. maybe. Me: I bet you’re one of those girls that are spending hours in front of the mirror. ready made conversation openers and so on. I’ve never really thought about that. I was on the subway the other day heading to a lecture. forget her. Can you tell me why it’s impossible for women to put eyeliner on without opening their mouths? Her: (laughing) Yeah.
111 -- . The girl at the till was about 10-15 years older than me and just average looks. But I still had a quick chat with her just to get that bit extra experience. You will start feeling REALLY nervous. relax it passes. If you cant talk to women you find attractive in the street. The key is to just do it. Look calm and sexy. Interesting men are literally one in a thousand. Make sure that you either have a serious and relaxed approach or if you are being confident and cheeky you are relaxed and funny about it. It doesn’t matter if you get one or two who ignore you or just aren’t interested. Be clear. No ear to ear smiles like you are trying to sell her something. I was nervous when I started approaching women. Since it was late I just said: “How can you be so happy at 1am?!” She smiled and said she enjoyed this time of night and couldn’t sleep anyway. so don’t think she wont be keen to at least chat. All I had to do was make a couple of comments while she was putting my card in the pin machine and in just a few seconds of chat I’d boosted my confidence and improved my skill. -. Don’t act nervous and start with anything formal or serious. that she wont want to at least talk to you. slow and distinct. just start talking to every woman you meet. I was doing some late night shopping in the supermarket at 1 am. nobody cares and you probably wont ever see them again. Say it with a little grin.you say. just how you say it. I can guess how you will feel. it was all a matter of experience. Don’t worry about being nervous when you approach women. When you do it and do it right there’s no way. even if you’re not attracted to her. Remember your voice tone. unless she had a personality bypass.
find out if he’s got a personality. The only way you will ever become good at it and become instantly attractive is if you keep practicing. forget them and move on. Now. Okay. let’s put everything you have learned so far into a system you can use right off the bat. even if you think it will. I’ve found the ones that don’t. nothing terrible is going to happen to you. just go right on in there and talk to attractive women. The problem here is that once a guy spots a beautiful woman and is about to walk over … he stalls. If you feel just a little nervous. What do you do? Yes. you have to get your butt over there and start with a line. then work on everybody else. then by all means. If you are too nervous to approach women. The worst that will happen is a few girls might not respond very well to you. You see a senior citizen at the bus stop talk to them. Most people who have friends like to make new ones. you see a very attractive woman just a couple yards away from you that you really want to meet. All those puzzle pieces I have revealed for you are about to come together. aren’t very interesting. If you talk to people it will help you prepare for the jump of moving from just seeing women and then actually approaching them to talk. The first step now is to go to places that are crowded with women which shouldn’t be too hard.112 -- . -.Keep talking to everyone. If you are on the train and there’s a guy across from you. And remember.
If you have used one line at least 10 times with women already and KNOW how a woman will respond once you say it. You will also avoid the boring “Yes” or “No” answers and suck her into a stimulating conversation. A default line is. Okay… So here’s what I want you to do when you see a beautiful woman: -. don’t know what to say or that you are afraid you will get rejected and make a fool out of yourself. in most cases asking for her opinion about something.113 -- . This way you are just talking and it doesn’t look like you are hitting on her.His feet just don’t want to move. His stomach starts to tense. use a default line. he gets nervous and just stands there until the opportunity is gone. you do not have the experience to calmly walk over there and say a line that you have used in the past with great success. So in other words. Why do you get nervous? The real reason isn’t because you aren’t confident. It’s because you don’t know what will happen! You just don’t have a clue how she will react. that shitty feeling in your stomach will go away! So here’s what I want you to do: Whenever you see a woman and you can’t think of nothing cheeky to say to create attraction.
1. Now she is hooked but wait for her response and heat up the attraction immediately with… 6. wait for 2 seconds.114 -- . The mascara line is one of the most effective ones I ever came up with. and once you see that it works so incredibly well. say “Hi…” …wait another 1-2 seconds to let your bodylanguage do some magic here (using pauses in sentences helps big time). I know it works. Wait for her to look you in the eyes. Say “HEY” to make her turn around and to get your attention. Walk over and plant yourself next to her 2. Say: Listen … I’ve heard. So what about you? Are you a real girlie girl and you spend what … how many hours in front of the mirror? 7. Here are two more examples of killer default lines I use almost every time: -. Just keep teasing. so you can use it today and get 9 out of 10 women hooked right away. that woman can only put on mascara … when their mouth is open. [pause] Is that true? *cheeky smile* 5. (don’t tap her on the shoulder. by giving you a killer line like this that I have tested already and is guaranteed to work for almost anybody to break the ice. You see. ever!) 3. busting her balls and create attraction until she asks for your name. I will take away all your fear of approaching. 4. there is nothing that can stop you.
I need your opinion about something … does moisturizing as a man make gay or just metrosexual? After you broke the ice. Then you cut the conversation short and tell her you need to run. How To Get Her Number Ah. accusing her of whatever. the phone-number.115 -- . busting her balls and generally just creating more attraction. See… [pause] would you ever get some guys name tattooed on your body? Get this … my little sister met this dude who is like 30 years older than her … • Hey. she will be ready to give you her number. but we should continue this conversation. teasing her. I really need to run and get this sorted out before the mall closes. listen … I need your opinion about something. Example: “Hey listen. making her laugh etc. What is the best way to get a woman’s phone number? I’ll show you: What you need to do first is pushed her Emotional Trigger Buttons for about 3-5 minutes (rough estimate with mediocre-good skills) by creating attraction. Here. all you need to do is keep pressing her emotional trigger buttons. Then after only 2-3 minutes.• Hey. tell ya what … let’s swap number …” -.
It is the most common test women pull right before they give you their phone number. But watch out here: If she says “Why don’t you give me YOUR number and I call you?” your spidey-sense should be tingling and the alarm bells ringing! This is a test! Don’t fall for it. but to just TAKE her phone number without asking for it. They need to see if you are the real deal or just another nice guy who will eventually waste their time if she goes on a date with you.116 -- . -.Then you hand her your cell-phone and let her type in her number. Women know that. but most of all you need to lead! If you do. she will follow. that’s a man’s job. Don’t wait for her to agree or say something when you say “swapping numbers” … just do it! She will know what to do anyway. Women never ever call a guy the first time. and they also know that they will NEVER call if a guy gives out his phone number without getting hers. The key here is to not let her answer or take charge. Nice guys will always fail this one and hand out their phone number without taking hers. And this is one fine example of what happens when you lead: She will take your phone and type in her number right away.
I can’t remember my number either *lol*).” This is a better way if you want to smoothen out the transition process from the call to setting up the date. But from experience please double-check if the number she gave you is the right one by calling her cell. you already lead her towards the initial date which will make it easier for you when you eventually call her. Here. or simply can’t remember hers correctly and made a mistake (it can happen. whatchya doing tomorrow? I need to go to town/the mall/whatever … you can keep me company if you’re nice. seriously! Say “it was nice meeting you . or only take hers. I hope we can go on a date”.117 -- .. okay? Cya then” and just leave. Don’t kiss her. just hit the road. no. By making an indication towards get together in the very near future.Always make sure that you either trade them. Another way of getting a number real quick is to make the transition to the date immediately. get the hell out of there. don’t hug her or say “you’re really nice. I give ya a call and then we can sort something out. Sometimes she will give you a fake one to get rid of you (meaning you made a mistake in the beginning or didn’t create enough attraction). type in your number and we’ll sort something out. no! -.. But once you have her number in your cell. LEAVE! Don’t stick around. No. such as “Hey.
she WANTS you to ask her for her number so she can give it to you. The longer you hang around and try to tip toe around the number. hits you on the arm). I would have given him my number”. How we continue this conversation tomorrow or something. break the conversation up in the middle of things going well. maybe he just wanted to chat…what a pitty. Don’t just beat about the bush.Just get outta there before you mess something up. She does want to.118 -- . she will think you don’t have the guts and confidence to just ask or go for it. I gotta go and finish off this essay/work (whatever). Here. but it is you who needs to make the move. Before I forget. In fact. type in your number and I’ll sort something out. ask for it! Maybe you were asking her about eyeliner and you can drop this into the question. Whatever the conversation is about. Also. if its going well just press for her phone number. just like with a phone conversation with a girl you’ve been out with: “Look. smiles. she is probably just waiting for you to ask for it. Don’t ask. then go ahead and just TAKE her number. she will think “hmm. This is a step up from approaching a woman. but if you are talking and she seems interested.” -. laughing. She will not only gladly give it to you if she’s attracted to you (giggles. here is some more general knowledge about getting the phone number and background information you should know. just take it. If you don’t go for it.
If you do this. This is the 21st century and everybody has a cell-phone these days.119 -- . This isn’t Hollywood where the woman hands you her phone number on a small napkin written in lipstick. Another point I would like to make here is that it is also possible to hand her a piece of paper and a pen … but this is soooo out of date. you enter danger-zone! The purpose is not to talk to her on the phone for hours and create some more attraction there … it’s to get her to meet you again. ring it once to confirm and you got yourself a date! The Call Once you got her number. If she gives you her landline number … don’t bother. If she says she doesn’t have a phone … call her on it. -. It’s a test. Just hand her your cell and let her type in her digits from her cell-phone. call her the next day. The most important rule you have to remember when calling a woman is keep it short! I know it is very seductive to let her emotions go and just keep talking for over 15 minutes.Just be straight and forward about it and she is bound to give you her number. If she says she just moved house … same deal. I would give it 1 day in between before you call … just to let her know that you are hard to get and not a needy wimp. But if you are new to this.
So you give her a quick call, make her laugh a little bit, fluff for 2-3 minutes and then CUT the conversation short again just like you did when you got her number. Tell her that you need to go do X in town and that she should meet you at 2pm or whatever. Don’t say: Do you want to go have a drink sometime • Do you want to…like…hang out? • Do you want to have dinner with me? You have to stick to what works here: Create some small attraction, just by small talk. Ask her how she has been and what she has been doing. Don’t go into a lot of detail, just pick up on the important things she says and make a cheeky or funny comment about them. Finish the conversation by saying that you have to go and do something, even if you want to talk to her. This will help her to see that you are not needy or obsessed with her. This way you will come off as a challenge and as hard to get. Avoid pauses and hesitation and repeating yourself. If at any point you don’t know what to say, or you run out of ideas, move on to the next item on the list. If that has run out then just be concise and end the call. But keep the conversation short and to a maximum of 15 minutes. You should aim for about 5-7minutes to hit the sweet spot. Here’s an example of a good telephone call, the way I make them all the time … and they work every single time and have a huge success rate, meaning I get almost all of
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the women to see me again. Don’t copy anything directly here but rather use them as a guideline to help you work out what you should say in your own situation so you can structure your own. Her: Hi You: Hey, it’s [your name]. What’s up? Her: Hi You: Soooo … have you been behaving? Her: Yeah, I’m always nice. You: Oh really? … is that why you always wear a Gucci handbag? You might want to polish your halo a little. Her: *tehehe* Naw I was working really hard today. You: Aww poor you, did you have to actually do some work today? I bet you were stealing some drinks from the bar were ya? Her: Hey! MY job is really tough! You: Uh huh (sounding unconvinced) Her: Well, what job do you do? You: I’m … Employee of the month at Burger King. Her: LOL. Seriously! I want to know what job you have! You: I work in a bank … and launder money for some mobsters, anyway… I’ll tell you later my boss isn’t listening in so I can give my honest opinion without being fired.
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Her: LOL. Okay. You: I tell you what, why don’t you meet in town on Tuesday? I have to go and get some new shirts, you can keep me company if your nice. I can meet you at, 2pm at Starbucks downtown Her: Okay! Well I can’t make 2 because I’m still working, but what about 4pm? You: Yeah ok, I’ll get some stuff done and I can get you there, okay? Don’t be late! Her: I won’t, cya there. You: Cya. Don’t try to get to know her on the phone (what job you do or what kinda hobbies you have) … just a little small talk is fine but keep the real conversation for your date. Keep her on her toes and be a little bit interesting and mysterious so she really does want to meet you again and find out more. The conversations above was just an example, don’t follow them to the letter. Use them to work out how you will plan the conversation, but remember the simple procedure of CAATH: she laughs, finds you funny, you ask the question, confirm the arrangements and then hang up. If she happens to give you some kind of excuse like “I can’t meet you then because I’m working (or anything else)” BUT counteroffers like “but I can meet you later that day or on Saturday, is that ok for you?” then you know she really does want to see you again but just
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happens to work that time you asked her out. No biggie. -. You can use smiley-faces 5. Works all the time. Always get to the point 6. Texting her is pretty much the same as calling her. Only text when you need to 2. scratch those plans and come see me … I’m far more interesting than X (whatever it is she has to do)”. but for the first meeting. cheeky and playful to create attraction 4. this will also help you to keep the message as brief and to the point as possible as well as sending her a message that she can understand without decoding it. Always make a funny comment and tease her about something. but the conversation will be one way. leave about 15min Those simple rules apply only to arranging the date. Some of them still apply and have different variations in other situations of dating. 1. don’t put any kisses at the end of the message. it will make u look desperate and pathetic or too forward and sleazy. Keep it to as few messages as possible 3. Do not reply instantly to a message. just say “I tell ya what. Be cocky. As a final warning. There are a few basic rules you must stick to when texting rather than calling her. But if she is just trying to test you ( meaning she doesn’t counteroffer right away).123 -- . Try to limit the abbreviations that you use as well. stick to those rules. really.
spark up the attraction first and THEN ask her to meet or join you (remember.124 -- . you are going somewhere or have to do something anyway. I got feelings too you know? . Most times girls are late too so you can start busting her balls for that right away. it ain’t 4 sale. try to keep it short (here: as few messages as possible).Now listen up: You only need 3 messages to arrange a date with a woman. The first one asks how she is and gets the attraction going. like I’m going to believe you ☺ What’s up? Nick” • “Hey you. and the third one is to confirm the date. Stop thinking about my sexy body. you behaving? … Yeah right. Then you confirm the date like “ok. -. Nick” and then show up for the date because she will. wanna keep me company? Nick” Just like the phone-call.-P I'm going to town tomorrow/on Thursday. so she can join you if she wants … that way you evade the classic dating courtship which is boring). Here are some examples: • “Hey you wannabe angel. The second one is serious and straight to the point as in “why don’t you come and meet me tomorrow etc”. cya there at 7pm.
Meet up with her during your lunch break or something. don’t make it too serious or let her think you are really into her. The date is almost like an interview to see if you like her and this shows you are not hooked on her. Go for a walk with her in the park after you have been to the gym. So let me get this straight: -. Where To Take Your Date This is very simple. use it as an opportunity to decide if you really want to see this girl or not. Whatever you do.125 -- . she will start to let her mind run wild with questions like. She will enjoy the fact you are being mysterious and again. Women can also realize that you’re not taking this seriously and you haven’t fallen for her spell like every other guy around. “Why isn’t he all over me like other guys?” Don’t dare take a woman OUT on a first date. don’t use it as the beginning of a relationship.The First Date If you get a girls number and set up a first date. but that you want to get to know her better. Many guys make the mistake of trying to impress a woman by planning a romantic date with all sorts of fancy crap you don’t need. Try to make her realize that she is there not because you want to spend time with her.
• Don’t just go for “let’s have a drink sometime” and then head straight for the next bar in the evening. This is done by talking to her and doing certain things together. If you do exactly what everybody else has done before such as going for a beer in a bar. Remember that she wants to meet you and see if you are an interesting and sexy person she would like to meet again. In fact. the key here is to do something that you had to do anyway. You see. It just doesn’t work and isn’t a good idea. you can even go window shopping for crying out loud. This might have worked in high school and may be an “ok” possibility for a fourth date. invite her to keep you company and then do something that is FREE! Now. the idea of a date is to spend time with her and get to know her. The very best way of accomplishing both is a) b) c) Shopping in town or in a mall Chill in the park Have a coffee You don’t need to buy stuff. this is the WORST idea for a first date.• You don’t need to take her out to dinner. having a candle light dinner or going to the movies … how different are you? -. but don’t even try it. • You should not get cinema tickets and invite her to go see a movie with you.126 -- .
-. make sure you tease her. The tips and techniques from this book though have been tested many many times and work every single time! Why? Because if you pull this off it will make you look different. This is why she “can keep you company because you need to do X in town anyway”.But you also need to make it look like you are a challenge (hard to get). But to make this easy for you: Go window shopping in town and then have a coffee. But on that date. Here’s what happens if you take her on a classical date like every other nice guy and wimp has done before her: She gets bored immediately. interesting and sexy in a woman’s eyes. It won’t work. This is a very slick trick but it works extremely well for her to trust you. This way it will seem like you have spend more hours together than you actually have by changing the venue. Forget all that formal dating stuff with flowers. not needy for sex and don’t see this as a classic date but rather as a get together. dinner dates etc. Then you REALLY need to be different. This works especially well when you are dealing with very attractive women … you know the type that get hit on at least 49 times a day. bust her balls and treat her like your little sister.127 -- .
buying her a rose and then going to a fancy restaurant. You can make clever remarks about what is on sale.128 -- . -. not those kinds of things. You can take her handbag or cigarettes and tease her with them. don’t just date her. But how can you work your magical charming skills in a theatre or eating a plate full of pasta that you can’t pronounce the name of? The key is to make sure you end up somewhere you can do fun things with a woman. There will be a different kind of atmosphere there than the usual classy department stores. I mean actually have fun when you go out and have a great time together. that will give you loads to laugh about. rather than a chance to attract her.Let’s have a deeper look at why every guy seems to think it is a good idea for a date. It sounds so damn boring and simple. You may think a good date is taking her to the theatre. Try just walking about or browsing in shops with crazy items. In park on a nice day you can enjoy the sun. It may be simple but it sure isn’t boring. No. Go to the park. Or you can go in for the kill and find out how ticklish she is. • Take her to places that allow for easy conversation and where there are a lot of conversation starters. You might even meet some mad people around town. Some factors that ensure you have a good time: • Treat the date as an opportunity for you to see if you like her and want a relationship. Take her to a market that sells funny junk stuff.
If she says “Oh. You want to give her the impression that you are not so much interested in her. Let her get into you and then make occasional contact after that. Leaving out the touching creates more energy between you and when you do touch her. • On the first date don’t cling to her wherever she walks. Give her space and walk around her. Then start teasing her and flirting with her. Initially. but you are interested in getting something to eat. be prepared to go.129 -- . especially if she is a hot girl. sparks will fly. As the date progresses you can start to tease her more and look for little insecurities. you want to make it appear that you are just intending to be friends. so denying it and ignoring how she looks for a bit will send her mind wandering again. So for the first 10 minutes or so act like friends. She will already think she’s hot. • Build up a good friendship during the date and then start to tease her • Don’t make too much contact at first. When You Meet Up If she arrives early or late. Don’t compliment her. or going for a walk in the park. Don’t let her think that because you are on a date that you are more than friends yet.• Show her that you are not going to just be a friend by avoiding buying her gifts and taking her to expensive places early on. I hate the -. Keep touching and physical contact to a minimum. This will send out more mixed messages to her.
don’t try to fall back into your old ways and bore the pants off her. -. People love to talk about themselves.way the back of my hair looks” make a joke about it and tease her for worrying. probably most of those dumb questions above. so let her talk loads and then you can make fun of her for being a motor mouth as well as get her point across. Women like drama. like the latest celebrity scandal. If you don’t. Say a statement or something funny that she can expand on. Avoid questions and conversations like: “Do you come here often?” “Do you have any brothers or sisters?” “What do you do at work?” “What school did you go to?” “What do you think about the recent crisis in the middleeast?” Basically. or heard that she doesn’t really have an interest in? The chances are. Don’t Be Boring On a Date Just as you wouldn’t try to talk about boring things when you first meet a girl. Go for something interesting and new. change the conversation to something else dramatic. Give her an opportunity to talk uninterrupted. avoid talking about anything mundane and everyday. What has she probably talked about to death already. Talk about reality TV and make jokes about it.130 -- . You might even try mocking her about her boring TV viewing but at the same time you show you have an opinion and knowledge about her shows.
I can’t believe that Big Brother show. If you ever see a woman and you think she is far too into herself to respond to your casual charm. “What.131 -- . he doesn’t like me? Does he think I’m not that attractive?” -. I think that Nikki maybe lied about her age. Always keep her guessing as to how much you really like her. I think she was the only person to take her own weight in cocaine. but joke around and don’t be serious about it. wander off sometimes and don’t be clingy. Steal from comedy shows and so on if you struggle with making your own jokes and conversation starters. Don’t show too much interest in her.“Man. Let Her Chase You Never directly show a woman when you first meet her that you are having a great time. Maybe drop a hint or a word in that she’s cute. That means you certainly don’t say it but you also keep yourself calm and reserved. What a relationship that was. Hold yourself back from ever telling a woman that you think she looks beautiful. It makes her mind go crazy again.” You get the idea. I mean he is a footballer and she is just famous for losing too much weight. You will be amazed at how well it works. I think she’s just a 9 year old with fake titties.” “Pete Doherty and Kate Moss. take it up another level and start teasing her and acting disinterested. You throw tantrums like her?” “What is David Beckham doing with Victoria.
If she meets you again. The key is attraction. yet so many men just can’t get this to work for them. you need to know WHEN she is ready to be kissed. -. You just need to know HOW to do it. So let’s get this one fixed right now. This is even BEFORE you have gotten her number. she already feels enough attraction that she wants you to kiss her. If she goes on a date with you. she WANTS to kiss you. Forget all the mumbo-jumbo about psychology and “she needs to be ready first” yadda yadda crap. it is possible to kiss her. So let’s make this one easy for you. The real problem isn’t that guys are lacking initial “kissing” skills … it’s being able to make a smooth transition from talking to kissing her.132 -- .The Kiss Being able to kiss a woman is one of the easiest things in the world. I can answer the first one right away: You can have a woman ready for a hot kissing session within around 3 minutes of meeting her the very first time. you will need to MOVE IN and kiss her gently. There are two key factors involved here: First. If she is attracted to you. Second.
133 -- . tease her and turn up the heat. she will not pull her head back. women have seen all those movies as well and they KNOW what’s coming. You see. touch the back of her beck with your hand … and if you can see her eyes glowing (like when she gets attracted to you) and smile … just move in for the kiss. to kiss her you need to make a smooth transition from talking. This is exactly where you want her. All they want is that you don’t storm the doors like an inexperienced kid who has never kissed a woman. that she WANTS you to kiss her … and by signaling her what is coming. playing and teasing to touching your lips with hers right? All you need to do is STOP TALKING. what you have to do is talk to her for at least 20 – 30 minutes and spend some time with her. You need to be smooth here. -. as in having a good time. I know this sounds cheesy and corny but I’m not stupid … I know what I’m doing here. look into her eyes for 5 seconds.The only way you can kill this attraction is if you go back to being a nicey-nice guy and bring her flowers on the date. Now. This way you will press her emotional trigger buttons enough times that she will wonder “when is he going to kiss me?”. But the trick here is. Don’t say a word for about 5 seconds and look into her eyes. enjoying yourself. So stop talking. Now.
otherwise she won’t feel comfortable going to your house. really. So just go for it because if she comes on a date with you. There are two ways of getting a woman to your place: Set up the second date directly at your place or go to your place on the first date after you are finished with the coffee and shopping. How To Take Her Home So you have spent some time with her and had great fun on your first date or get together. otherwise she will think you are a wimp for not even trying. As a sidenote: never try to go to her place if you can avoid it. Just don’t make the mistake and wait with the kiss after 1 or 2 hours into the date. You will have much more control and less obstacles (like friends etc) to deal with if you go to yours. It’s time to go to your place.134 -- . Now you want to see her naked and take her clothes off. This is key! Another factor that is involved her is that she needs to trust you as well.This really is so freakin’ easy. she wants to be kissed. First of all. you should have kissed her already before you decide to go to your house. -. But how do you get her to come to your place without seeming pushy or hungry for sex? Women KNOW what will happen when they go to your place. but again it is up to you to make a smooth transition.
The best technique to get a woman to your place is to rent a DVD or buy some food and cook dinner at your house. So. she will gladly follow you home where you can escalate things on your couch.135 -- . then get her home where you can relax. Or. You see. you can set up the second date at your house and tell her to bring the chicken and you will get the pasta sauce. Now really. But don’t forget: No glove. That’s it. You have to be cool about it and kind of act like you don’t really care if she comes or not. Then. Today. pushy or desperate. kiss her. The rest is a piece of cake. get a DVD and tell her to buy the popcorn. years ago guys used the now infamous line “wanna see my stamp collection” and it worked. cuddle and then slowly let things escalate until she gets so horny she doesn’t want you to stop. -. She has to know and feel that this is a completely normal and natural thing for you to do. no love! So always use a condom. this is much simpler than it looks like. you need a different angle … I mean this IS the 21st century. get physical with her and sleep with her. All you have to do is spend around 2-3 hours with her on a date. The key here is simply to get her to your place without looking needy.
A sexual partner is someone who they will become more and more attracted to and eventually want a long term relationship with. but it doesn’t happen in real life.136 -- . calling her all the time. And I mean struggle. Unless she is desperate (which does happen even if there is slight attraction. you can fall out of that category if you don’t stay alert. You can have time to think about what you want to say. When you get stuck in the friendship rut.Sex or Friends Women will decide pretty early on if you are going to be a friend or a sexual partner. let me tell you). The sexually interested category is far easier and more rewarding. you will struggle to get out of there. although beware. Most guys have a warped idea that if they just keep dating a woman. she will sleep with them eventually. Then you are back to being a “friend”. Sometimes sending a text message can be a lot better than actually talking on the phone. This might sound like it makes sense from a logical point of view. she will lose interest instantly. but there is absolutely no attraction. speaking to her just to hear her voice and doing anything she asks of you. This is -. she won’t sleep with you unless she feels that gut level emotion called attraction. The whole dating thing isn’t enough to convince a woman that you will be more than just a friend. If you end up buying her gifts. You can of course completely ruin things even after she has decided that you are the right kind of person to sleep with her. A friend just means you are ok. you can look back and analyze what she has said and you don’t have to be under so much pressure to impress her when you talk.
also a good way of attracting her at the beginning of a relationship. That my friend. -. is when you know you are truly getting it! The End of the Beginning This isn’t the end. women will respond to you completely different than they used to: They start to giggle when you talk to them. But if you have had sex with her. to transform yourself from the wimpy nice guy that most men are.137 -- . you will be able to attract women naturally without even thinking about it. But don’t fall back to being a needy wimp and nice guy. into a real ladies-man and better person. otherwise she will think you have just used her for sex. I have prepared you to step up to the big table. Keep the attraction up and never forget what you have learnt! Your new persona has to become a part of you … and once it IS. make sure you give her a text the next day. This StreetSmartDating book was intended to teach you the fundamentals and most important key areas when it comes to women and dating. From now on. they start to get those shiny eyes when you make them feel that gut level emotion called attraction. it’s only the beginning. and they now see you as boyfriend and lover material…IF you pull it off the right way.
drop me an e-mail and let me know how you are getting on. For now. Get familiar with the basic fundamentals and core essentials of the dating game so you won’t make the biggest and most crucial mistakes anymore.138 -- . Then come back. -. Remember. I really want to know how you are doing. Then you have to start using and practicing the key techniques. I also recommend that you check out my advanced dating techniques. To speed up your learning curve drastically. especially the ones that make women feel that magical emotion called attraction. you don’t have to take it any further. go here: http://www. just talk.There’s still lots to learn. Once you got the fundamentals down. I recommend that you get yourself out there and start to practice on what you know. If you want to learn some more techniques and more lines. To find out more. But go and practice a bit first before you make the next step.com/advancedseries BUT the only way you will get the most out of it is if you have understood and worked on the material from this book. so send me some success stories. I will teach you my most powerful techniques that I have taught to a select few ONLY…and I might never teach them anymore. So here’s what I want you to do now: Re-read the important parts of this book again and take some notes.streetsmartdating. then this is a must.
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