Equality In Raising A Child.

In modern era, there are many challenges for most of parents in raising their children. The lifes dynamic which increase rapidly made some parents found a difficulties to raising their children. Most of parents have their own job, both a father and mother. This situation made them depends on pre-elementary school (kindergarten) which can care and raise a children. On the other hand, some parents consider that raising children becomes their responsibility. They state that the best way to raise a child is educating them in their own house. Actually, should both parents have equal responsibility to raising a child? To know more about it, here will be explained the importance of parents in raising a child, the effect of inequal parents responsibility to children, and the way to give responsibility in raising a child. A parent must take responsibility for their child. Children look up to their parents. Parents are the role models that their children aspire to. Parents set examples for their children and expect them to behave in a moral and ethical way. This is clearly the reason why parent needs to take responsibility for their children. Parents will lose the ability to control the actions of their children, if they didnt give an equal reponsibility both mother and father. Both parents must accept their children and take a responsibility for them from the moment they are born. Some people may agree with Hillary Clinton who states that to raise a child it takes a village. However if parent doesnt give any respects to children, there will no other people who want to care with them, so both parents have their own responsibility to raise a child. Example for mother they should teach their children in built a independence and the rule in table manner and father should teach their children to disclipline. Children will not be armed with the tools that they need in order to make the right decisions in life. They will not know the difference between right and wrong. Parents will lose their position of authority. Not all of parent gives an equal responsibility to their child. It makes childrens knowladge less than other, because thy cant get it perfectly from their

parents. Sometimes there are children who afraid to talk with their mother or their father more over to other people. That is one of effect an inequal responsibility to rising a child. Children may brave to make a communication with one of parents because they are much closer with one of them. Now, there are many children abduct. It caused both parent doesnt give a respectable to the children. Here both parent should give their children some understanding about kidnapping, if it just give by one of parent it still make children not understand and make them built a different point of view about that. Both parent, child, and abductor may deal with the kidnapping differently. For some it is very frightful and requires years of psychological evaluation to overcome. Moreover children will do some criminal action ii their parent doesnt give a brief explanation about that. Children will do a good habit from their parents, but if one of parents done a wrong habit children may do it too. It prohibits for both parent to ignore about raising a child. Some people may said that raising a child is a difficult one. However, they forget one fact that children is easier to learn about the realities of socially unacceptable behaviour from their parents. Children spent most of their time in a house with their parent. They will imitate everything that parents do in their house, so indirectly parent should give a knowledge to raising them. Just give them a good explanation and a good attitude since they are a baby, it will be easy to raising a child in a home. Moreover childrens emotional can be controlled in house by both parents. Parent should give a good respect to their children in order to make them comfortable in a home. From the explanation above both parent prohibit to ignore their responsibility in raising a child. Raising a child in every aspects of life is parents responsibility. They should give an equal responsibility in raising a child in order to prevent the effect of inequal responsibility of parents which is very dangerous for children. Once more, it is not difficult to raising a child with an equal reponsibility of parents. It can be done anytime and anywhere by parents. Because of that lets raise our children by ourself.

Thesis statement: Should both parents have equal responsibility to raising a child? Supporting idea: The importance of parents in raising a child. The effect of inequal parents responsibility to children. The way to give responsibility in raising a child.

Counter argument: Raising a child is a difficult thing to do.

Conclusion: It is not difficult to raising a child with an equal reponsibility of parents.