Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 26

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 26

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-05-5

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: agc.arad@yahoo.com

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) Those who are willing to try new ways have more and greater chances to become more performing. 2) Those with the sense of objectivity have more and greater chances to participate in achieving efficient global co operations. 3) Those with the sense of objectivity must be appreciated. 4) Those with the sense of objectivity contribute a lot to global humanization. 5) Those with the sense of objectivity have more and greater chances to prevent more failures. 6) People who are full of energy and active are engines of progress in all areas of activity. 7) People who are full of energy and
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active have more and greater chances to achieve themselves. 8) People who are careful have more chances to achieve a mature love. 9) Prejudices must not be rewarded. 10) People with prejudice may not achieve their desired future because of prejudices. 11) People with prejudice may not achieve some personal goals because of prejudices. 12) People with prejudice may have in front of some other people no credibility because of some prejudices. 13) People with prejudice may not achieve some outstanding performances although they could achieve them, because of prejudices. 14) People with prejudice may not have a more beautiful life because of some prejudices.
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15) People with prejudice may not become more performing because of some prejudices. 16) People with the wrong ideas do not need any favorable situation because of some wrong ideas. 17) People with the wrong ideas may not achieve a happy marriage because of some wrong ideas. 18) People with wrong ideas may not find the right partner for life because of some wrong ideas. 19) People with wrong ideas may not achieve a more beautiful life because of wrong ideas. 20) People who inspire trust must be promoted. 21) People who inspire trust have more qualities. 22) People who inspire trust have more chances to achieve true friendships.
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23) People who inspire trust have a bigger capacity to maintain mature love. 24) People who inspire trust have a greater capacity to become more efficient. 25) People who inspire trust have a bigger capacity to achieve outstanding performances. 26) People with the sense of discipline must be rewarded. 27) People with the sense of discipline have a higher capacity to maintain a happy marriage. 28) People with the sense of discipline have more chances to meet more favorable situations. 29) People with the sense of discipline have chances to increase their credibility. 30) People with a sense of discipline have a higher capacity to achieve outstanding performances. 31) People who are not thoughtful with
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others must not be supported. 32) People who are not thoughtful with others have problems in maintaining a mature love. 33) People who are not thoughtful with others have problems in becoming more efficient. 34) The state of uncertainty harms economic progress. 35) Political uncertainties create many obstacles in achieving our own happiness. 36) Political uncertainties make it very hard to achieve efficient global co operations. 37) Those who solve problems only through constructive methods have a great capacity to achieve social relations. 38) Those who solve problems only through constructive methods can participate in achieving an efficient global cooperation.
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39) Those who solve problems only through constructive methods develop their trust in the future. 40) The state of anger is bad for our health. 41) The state of anger makes achieving a mature love more difficult. 42) The state of anger the makes maintaining true friendships more difficult. 43) The state of anger makes achieving the greater good a lot harder. 44) Assuring personal freedom is also an individual necessity. 45) Assuring personal freedom must be rewarded. 46) Assuring personal freedom contributes a lot in achieving a happy life. 47) Assuring personal freedom contributes to and helps us become more performing.
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48) A positive conception of life contributes a lot in achieving the desired future. 49) A positive conception of life contributes a lot in achieving mature love. 50) A positive conception of life contributes a lot in achieving efficient codevelopments. 51) A positive conception of life contributes a lot in preventing many failures. 52) An uncertainty of income immobilizes people. 53) An uncertainty of incomes makes it very hard to become more efficient. 54) An uncertainty of incomes makes achieving a more beautiful life more difficult. 55) Those who discover unique ways to work efficiently for a better life have more chances to achieve themselves.
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56) Those who discover unique ways to work efficiently for a better life increase their chances to find the right partner for life. 57) Those who know how to take advantage of the opportunity to create know how to achieve more social relations. 58) Those who know how to take advantage of the opportunity to create increase their ability to achieve efficient co-developments. 59) Those who control circumstances are engines of progress in all areas of activities. 60) Those who control circumstances have more capacities of achieving more and greater successes. 61) Those who control circumstances have more chances to find the right partner for life.
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62) Those who have had better economic and social conditions during their evolution have a higher potential to succeed in life. 63) Those who have had better social and economic conditions during their evolution have the capacity to maintain social relations. 64) Those who are oriented towards lasting successes make fewer mistakes. 65) Those who live their life passionately and not at random have a higher capacity to maintain true friendships. 66) Those who live their life passionately and not at random have a high capacity to achieve efficient codevelopments. 67) Those who have the opportunity to grow have more chances to achieve more and greater successes.
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68) Those who have opportunities to grow have more chances to maintain a happy marriage. 69) Those who willingly expand their positive experience have many exchanges of information. 70) Those who willingly expand their positive experience have a higher capacity to achieve a happy marriage. 71) Those who willingly expand their positive experience have the capacity to achieve more and greater outstanding performances. 72) The need to succeed sometimes creates big problems in maintaining mature love. 73) The need to succeed sometimes contributes a lot in achieving efficient codevelopments. 74) Most of those who wonder without a purpose in life have fewer chances to
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achieve more and greater successes. 75) Those who have the ability to consciously choose must be rewarded. 76) Those who have the ability to consciously choose have a higher capacity to achieve true friendships. 77) The majority of those who have the ability to consciously choose have a higher capacity to become more efficient. 78) The majority of those who have the ability to consciously choose have a greater capacity to achieve outstanding performances. 79) A positive operative spirit increases our ability to achieve mature love. 80) A positive operative spirit increases our ability to have more and greater chances to meet more and greater favorable situations. 81) People who are effective in positive actions must be supported.
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82) People who are effective in positive actions have higher chances to achieve a happy life. 83) The sense of quality imposes us to have zero tolerance for mistakes. 84) The sense of quality increases our chances to achieve efficient codevelopments. 85) The sense of quality increases our credibility. 86) Constructive thinking makes us have zero tolerance for the lack of common sense. 87) Constructive thinking helps us a lot to achieve our desired future. 88) Constructive thinking is an engine of development in all areas of activity. 89) Constructive thinking helps us become more creative. 90) Constructive thinking helps us prevent more possible mistakes.
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91) The sense of fairness helps us a lot to contribute to global humanization. 92) The sense of fairness develops our trust in the future. 93) The sense of fairness helps us achieve a happy marriage. 94) The sense of fairness increases our chances to find the right partner for life. 95) The majority of those who have the ability to react with understanding must be rewarded. 96) The majority of those who have the ability to react with understanding have a greater capacity to participate in efficient global co operations. 97) The majority of those who have the ability to react with understanding have more chances to achieve more and greater successes. 98) The majority of those who have the capacity to react with understanding have
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more chances to achieve their personal goals. 99) People who know how to motivate other people have a great capacity to maintain true friends. 100) People who know how to motivate other people have a greater capacity to maintain a happy marriage. 101) People who know how to motivate other people must be supported. 102) People who know how to motivate other people have bigger chances to find the right partner for life. 103) People who know how to motivate other people have more chances to achieve outstanding performances. 104) People who know how to motivate other people have a bigger capacity to achieve a more beautiful life. 105) Solving problems through positive methods increases our chances to succeed
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in life. 106) Solving problems through positive methods helps us a lot to achieve our own happiness. 107) Solving problems through positive methods contributes a lot in achieving the desired positive social relations. 108) Solving problems through positive methods helps us a lot to achieve the efficient co operations we desire. 109) Solving problems through positive methods must be supported. 110) The sense of commitment in work helps us a lot to prevent many possible failures. 111) The sense of commitment in work develops our trust in the future. 112) The sense of commitment in work creates more and greater chances to live more and greater favorable situations. 113) Humanist ideas help people achieve
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their own happiness very much. 114) Humanist ideas help people find a right workplace very much. 115) Humanist ideas help people achieve new positive relations very much. 116) The certainty of respecting human rights is a necessity for all states. 117) The certainty of respecting human rights is an obligation for all states. 118) Respecting human rights is a necessity for each individual. 119) Respecting human rights is an obligation for each person. 120) Not respecting human rights is a serious abuse done by states. 121) Each state is obligated to take the necessary measures to prevent all forms of non compliance with human rights. 122) Favorable situations help us a lot to achieve our desired future. 123) Favorable situations are engines of
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progress in all areas of activity. 124) Favorable situations help us a lot to achieve ourselves. 125) Favorable situations increase our chances to succeed in life. 126) Efficient thinking increases are possibility to achieve our own happiness. 127) Efficient thinking increases our possibilities to achieve positive social relations. 128) Efficient thinking helps us a lot to be able to participate in achieving efficient co operations. 129) Efficient thinking increases our ability to contribute more in achieving the greater good. 130) The state of certainty is also created by the necessary changes of information. 131) The state of certainty is a necessity. 132) The state of certainty increases our chances to participate in achieving
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efficient global co operations. 133) The state of certainty must be appreciated. 134) The state of certainty must be promoted. 135) The state of certainty must be supported. 136) The state of certainty creates the environment in which we can achieve more and greater successes. 137) The certainty of respecting the human rights of non discrimination is a necessity for each state. 138) The certainty of respecting the rights to non discrimination of people is an obligation for each state. 139) Not respecting the right to nondiscrimination of people by the state is a great abuse. 140) Respecting the right to nondiscrimination of people is mandatory
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for each person of the planet. 141) Respecting the right to nondiscrimination of people contributes a lot to preventing many conflicts. 142) The sense of planning positive actions contributes a lot in achieving personal goals. 143) The sense of planning positive actions helps us participate in achieving efficient co-developments. 144) The sense of planning positive actions contributes a lot in preventing many possible failures. 145) Correct thinking helps us a lot in achieving true friendships. 146) Correct thinking contributes a lot in maintaining mature love. 147) Correct thinking boosts our trust in ourselves. 148) Correct thinking creates the conditions to achieve more and greater
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successes. 149) Correct thinking contributes a lot in achieving mature love. 150) Correct thinking contributes a lot in maintaining a happy marriage. 151) Our own value system contributes a lot in achieving efficient co operations. 152) Our own value system must also have humanist values. 153) Our own value system prevents many possible failures. 154) Our own value system must contribute to developing our trust in the future. 155) Our own value system must create more and greater chances to meet more favorable situations. 156) The right partner for life helps us a lot to achieve a happy marriage. 157) We can find the right partner for life if we persevere.
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158) The right partner for life makes our life more beautiful. 159) A happy marriage can be achieved only with the right partner for life. 160) A happy marriage creates the conditions to achieve a happy life. 161) A happy marriage increases our ability to achieve more and greater successes. 162) Efficient co-developments contribute a lot to achieving the greater good. 163) Efficient co-developments must be encouraged. 164) Efficient co-developments are potential engines of development in all areas of activity. 165) Motivating people is a human necessity. 166) Motivating people is an art but also a science.
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167) The science of motivating people is a necessity. 168) Without a proper motivation of people no outstanding performances can be achieved. 169) A proper motivation of people sometimes leads to obtaining surprising outstanding performances. 170) A proper motivation of people leads to accomplishing more and greater successes. 171) Hopes make people happy many times. 172) Hopes often contribute to maintaining our state of health. 173) The strategies of achieving happiness must be learned and applied in order to achieve our own happiness. 174) Trying the strategies of achieving happiness has made many people happy. 175) Learning and applying strategies of
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achieving happiness do not require many efforts but many people do almost nothing to learn and apply them although they may help create their own happiness. 176) Happiness cannot be obtained without having its achievement as an objective. 177) Ideas that can change a mans life for the better are many and diverse. 178) Ideas and that can change a mans life for better can be easily found in books, on the Internet, in the media, through contacts with people who have achieved successes, etc. 179) Ideas that can change peoples life for the better must be more and more efficiently advertised. 180) The majority of those who make true friends easily also have a good heart. 181) The majority of those who easily make true friends also have more qualities
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among which human qualities can be found. 182) The majority of those who easily make true friends also have a happy life. 183) Persons who are involved in projects have more chances to meet the right partner for life. 184) People who are involved in projects make many exchanges of information. 185) People who are involved in projects have more opportunities to take more positive experiences from many persons. 186) Seductive women can see these chances because they have at least one advantage. 187) Seductive women have great chances of seducing. 188) Seductive women have greater chances of maintaining a happy marriage. 189) Sometimes a smile is seductive. 190) Women can be seductive at any age.
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191) Seductive women have more chances to achieve a happy marriage. 192) The ability to seduce can be formed and developed. 193) Life is a lot easier when both spouses are optimistic. 194) When spouses are optimistic they have greater chances to achieve a happy marriage. 195) When spouses are optimistic they have a lot more chances to maintain a happy marriage. 196) When spouses are optimistic they have more chances of having optimistic children. 197) When spouses are optimistic they have more chances of achieving their personal goals. 198) When spouses are optimistic they have more chances to achieve more successes.
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199) When spouses are optimistic they have more chances to prevent pessimism in their marriage. 200) When spouses are optimistic they have more chances of being aware that they are optimistic and that they can achieve whatever they want. 201) When spouses are optimistic they have more chances to become more efficient. 202) When spouses are optimistic they have more chances to excite their children as well. 203) When spouses are optimistic they have more chances to have fewer failures in life. 204) You always need to be optimistic. 205) Optimism can help us get over a lot of troubles. 206) Optimism can help us become stronger.
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207) Optimism can help us become more efficient. 208) Optimism can help us become more loved. 209) Optimism can help us become more confident in others. 210) Optimism can help us become more willing. 211) When we are optimistic we can feel life more beautiful. 212) When we are optimistic we also feel happy. 213) When we are optimistic we can get over many difficulties. 214) When we are optimistic we make people become optimistic as well. 215) When we are optimistic we sometimes become more efficient. 216) Any abuse may cause another or other abuse. 217) The law must prevent any possible
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abuse. 218) Abuse must be prevented by law. 219) Abuse must be discouraged by the law. 220) Many times abuse causes many negative effects. 221) Most abuses can be prevented with the help of an effective law. 222) Illegal accusations mostly produce many and great negative effects. 223) Illegal accusations can be prevented by effective laws and their correct application. 224) The truth remains the truth in any situation. 225) The truth can never become lie. 226) Sometimes the truth is hard to believe. 227) Sometimes, unfortunately, the truth may be considered a lie. 228) Life exists through reality and not
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through lying. 229) Sometimes the truth can be very harmful but it can be even more harmful. 230) The way in which we love can be learned. 231) Love is not accomplished by itself but by us. 232) Love does not maintain itself. 233) Love must be maintained. 234) Love must be supported. 235) The majority of people understand later how to maintain mutual love. 236) Mutual love creates mutual happiness. 237) Mutual love creates many mutual joys. 238) Mutual love creates many mutual pleasant surprises. 239) Mutual love creates many mutual marriages. 240) Mutual love makes us a lot stronger.
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241) Mutual love gives us power. 242) Mutual love makes us feel alive. 243) The majority of people do much less than they should do in order to achieve mutual love. 244) Mutual love makes us more optimistic. 245) Mutual love gives us wings. 246) Mutual love makes us more enthusiastic. 247) Mutual love makes some of us better. 248) Mutual love makes some of us more tolerant. 249) Mutual love makes some of us more understanding. 250) Mutual love must be supported daily. 251) Mutual love can be learned. 252) Those who have inner beauty can achieve mutual love a lot easier.
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253) True friendships can sometimes contribute a lot to achieving mutual love. 254) Respect demands respect. 255) Friendship demands friendship. 256) Fairness demands fairness. 257) Love demands love. 258) Honesty demands honesty. 259) Loyalty also demands loyalty. 260) Friendship must be rewarded with friendship. 261) Respect must be rewarded with respect. 262) Love must be repaid with love. 263) Fairness must be repaid with fairness. 264) Loyalty must be repaid with loyalty. 265) Open minded people manage to make friends a lot easier. 266) Open minded people more easily maintain true friendships. 267) Open minded people more easily
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achieve true friendships. 268) Open minded people earn the trust of others more quickly. 269) Open minded people are more communicative. 270) Open minded people progress faster. 271) Communicative people more quickly make true friends. 272) Communicative people achieve a lot easier true friendships. 273) Communicative people earn the trust of others a lot faster. 274) Communicative people are more open-minded. 275) Communicative people get into contact with people a lot faster. 276) True friendships rely on honesty. 277) True friendships can be achieved if we do everything necessary to achieve them.
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278) True friendships are not achieved by themselves, automatically. 279) True friendships must be supported in order to last. 280) True friendships bring us many joys. 281) True friendships bring us pleasant surprises. 282) True friendships make us stronger. 283) True friendships prevent many troubles. 284) True friendships make some of us more confident in ourselves. 285) True friendships help us understand what a true friendship really means a lot easier. 286) True friendships assume fairness between friends. 287) True friends appreciate each other. 288) True friends support each other. 289) True friends give one another
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advice. 290) True friends respect each other.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: agc.arad@yahoo.com www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-606-8048-05-5

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