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Volume 1, Issue 2
Sarah K Reece
20 December 2011
Ed. Sarah K Reece
Bridges starts again on January 6th and continues every week as usual from there. Remember its an open group so theres no pressure to come, drop by as often as you find helpful.
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Dissociation Link
the 17th Feb is being planned for an afternoon tea type event that will be open to everyone
Contribute to Mindshare
Mindshare is a new online Mental Health community, and they're very keen to hear from other people who live with or care for someone with a mental illness. www.mindshare.org.au The site has a regular blog from guest bloggers - including Sarah! There's also an area for creative content such as artwork, music, and poetry. They have an area called Consumer Resources which includes current news, events and articles. Worth keeping an eye on as new content is being added frequently. So, if you've been wanting to share wanting to share your story or experiences with dissociation with a wider audience, a short story, some thoughts you'd like to write into a blog post, or art you could photograph, why not submit it? You can ask to have your work put up under a pen name if you'd prefer to remain anonymous. You can read the instructions for how to submit your work at the page called Get Involved, if anything's not clear, give them a call and they'll help you out. Very friendly people. :)
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It can get pretty noisy in there and chaotic, and good luck to the driver with all that going on.
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Focusing on getting rid of a symptom like dissociation sets the stage for power struggles, for making assumptions about what is healthy, and for a 'russian roulette' of symptom swapping. Dissociation for many people serves as a protective mechanism. Think of it as a fuse blowing in a house with dangerous wiring. You don't wire over the fuse, or you risk burning down the house. You sort out the wiring problems so the house is safe, then you work on resetting the fuse. Good therapy always starts with helping people feel safe, and swapping out harmful coping mechanisms with healthy ones. You don't just start kicking crutches out. Therapists can become very frustrated with highly dissociative clients, thinking that if they could get rid of the dissociation, then they could get some 'real' therapy done. Trying to beat down dissociative defences with an anxious client is likely make them worse. If therapy is perceived as a threat, the mind will con-
tinue to put all it's energy into disconnecting as much as possible, using any method it can come up with. Not only can dissociation be protective, but the current definitions are so broad that getting rid of it entirely doesn't sound like a good goal to me. If any form of disconnection from the present moment is defined as a form of dissociation, then we need some. We need space to daydream, time to get lost in our thoughts, in books or films. This is not black and white 'dissociation bad', 'connection good'. In order to focus deeply, we disconnect from distractions around us. Creative people often describe this lack of awareness when they are deeply involved in their work. It's healthy, inspiring, magic. This can be called 'flow', or being 'in the zone', absolutely immersed in your task. Experiences of flow are thought to be highly protective against depression and anxiety. Some theories about hypnotic states are that we are all going into and out of different states throughout
our days, without even noticing. We disconnect from events around us to ruminate and process thoughts and feelings, drive on auto-pilot, focus intensely during a stressful conversation, warm to friends and 'come out of ourselves' in their company, all the time changing our level of awareness of things going on around us and inside us. There can be a natural kind of rhythm to this process, we can have our own cycles of energy and focus, times when we are most focused externally and others when we are most aware of our inner lives. In some of these states we are very receptive, taking in deeply the things we say to ourselves, at others we have all our psychological defences up. The thought of holding up a life where none of these things happen as the goal to strive for is horrifying to me. I value being able to disconnect from the day to day to find a place my heart soars. While I loathe being lost in severe dissociation, unable to see, feel, smell or taste, I also hate
We need space to daydream, time to get lost in our thoughts, in books or films
the 'flatland' of a totally symptom free life that somehow keeps being set up as the goal for people like me. A little madness is not a bad thing, a little dissociation that frees us to dream, likewise. The goal is about freedom, hope, peace, meaning, love, connection, art... being human. Even our weaknesses and limitations can be part of that goal. What I need when I'm lost and trying to find my way back isn't someone trying to carve dissociation out of me like a tumour. I need to find a way back, like coaxing a terrified creature to come out of the dark. The right person holding my hand can be enough to bring me home. Standing in a thunderstorm can be the intense sense of connection I need for a mind in flight to re-inhabit my body. Sometimes everyday life doesn't have a strong enough call, it's the song of the sublime that reminds me of who I am. It's poems that make me cry and music that makes me feel safe and books that are paper receptacles for my shattered heart. These things that remind me that I am human, that I want to be alive, and that the world is deeper, sadder, richer and stranger than we think.