Why give in to rudeness, when you can fight back with kindness.

A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who were pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person were safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When were two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are weve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life. There is a special bond between twin soul mates--unconditional love, respect for each other, bringing out the best in each other, and highly compatible. Soul mate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction and the one who makes life come to life.

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let the person know how you feel.
Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending. The difference between school and life? In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, you're given a test that teaches you a lesson. In love, it is better to know and be disappointed, than to not know and always wonder. This is my wish for you: Comfort on difficult days, smiles when sadness intrudes, rainbows to follow the clouds, laughter to kiss your lips, sunsets to warm your heart, hugs when spirits sag, beauty for your eyes to see, friendships to brighten your being, faith so that you can believe, confidence for when you doubt, courage to know yourself, patience to accept the truth, Love to complete your life. For everything you have missed, you have gained something else, and for everything you gain, you lose something else. Memory is a way of holding on to the things you love, the things you are, the things you never want to lose. Perhaps our eyes need to be washed by our tears once in a while, so that we can see Life with a clearer view again. Sometimes it's the smallest decisions that can change your life forever. Life is the art of drawing without an eraser. God allows us to experience the low points of life in order to teach us lessons we could not learn in any other way. The way we learn those lessons is not to deny the feelings but to find the meanings underlying them. One day at a time--this is enough. Do not look back and grieve over the past for it is gone; and do not be troubled about the future, for it has not yet come. Live in the present, and make it so beautiful it will be worth remembering. I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel. Life is a great big canvas, and you should throw all the paint you can on it. This life is yours. Take the power to choose what you want to do and do it well. Take the power to love what you want in life and love it honestly. Take the power to walk in the forest and be a part of nature. Take the power to control your own life. No one else can do it for you. Take the power to make your life happy.

I really don't think life is about the I-could-have-beens. Life is only about the I-tried-to-do. I don't mind the failure but I can't imagine that I'd forgive myself if I didn't try. Life is all about timing... the unreachable becomes reachable, the unavailable become available, the unattainable... attainable. Have the patience, wait it out It's all about timing. Always do what you are afraid to do. What makes life worth living is knowing that one day you'll wake up and find the person that makes you happier than anything in the whole world. So don't ever lose hope and give up, everything turns out okay and the good guy always wins. There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved. The secret of health for both mind and body is not to mourn for the past, worry about the future, or anticipate troubles, but to live in the present moment wisely and earnestly. Hope is the most exciting thing in life and if you honestly believe that love is out there, it will come. And even if it doesn't come straight away there is still that chance all through your life that it will. Love is when you shed a tear and still want him, it's when he ignores you and you still love him, it's when he loves another girl but you still smile and say I'm happy for you, when all you really do is cry. Meeting you was fate, becoming your friend was a choice, but falling in love with you I had no control over. Love is missing someone whenever you're apart, but somehow feeling warm inside because you're close in heart. I miss you when something really good happens, because you are the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you are the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry because i know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you most when i lay awake at night and think of all the wonderful times we spent with each other; for those were some of the best times of my life.

What is love? Love is when one person knows all of your secrets... your deepest, darkest, most dreadful secrets of which no one else in the world knows... and yet in the end, that one person does not think any less of you; even if the rest of the world does.

1. If it is wrong to love you, then my heart just wont let me be right. 2. Absence makes the heart grow fonder. 3. 4. 5. 6. In your absence, my heart grows stronger. In your presence, I fall in love again. Love is waiting behind every corner. I love it when my heart smiles but when it does, it smiles because of you. Life is the flower and love is the honey.

7. Think about it. There must be higher love. Down in the heart or hidden in the stars above. Without it, life is a wasted time. Look inside your heart. Ill look inside mine. 8. Love that we cannot have lasts the longest, is the strongest, and hurts the deepest. 9. Loving is not just looking at each other. It is looking in the same direction. 10. At the touch of love, everyone is a poet.

11. Love is a game two people can play. You can both win and you can both lose your heart. 12. To the world you might be one person. But to one person you might be the world. 13. 14. 15. 16. 17. 18. 19. 20. 21. 22. 23. 24. It is better to have loved and lost than not to have loved at all. Love is a canvas furnished by nature and embroidered by imagination. With love and patience, nothing is impossible. Love is not a weakness. It is strong. Only the sacrament of marriage can contain it. Love is not finding someone to live with. It is finding someone you cant live without. Love is the irresistible desire to be desired irresistibly. If I had roses for every time I thought of you, Id be picking roses for a lifetime. In dreams and in love, there are no impossibilities. You are my strength but loving you is my biggest weakness. Other men see angles but I have seen thee and thou art enough. Lets commit the perfect crime. Ill steal your heart and youll steal mine. If a kiss was a raindrop, Id send you a shower. If a hug was a second, Id send you an hour.

If a smile was water Id send you the sea. If you needed love, Id send you me. 25. There are only two times I want to be with youNow and forever. 26. I miss you a little, I guess you could say. A little too much, a little too often. A little more each day. 27. Sometimes I wonder if love is worth fighting for. Then I think of you, and I am ready for war. 28. Everyone has their own reason for waking up in the morning. Mine is you. 29. Just the thought of being with you tomorrow is enough to get me through the day. 30. You have to kiss a lot of toads before you find your prince. 31. A man wants a woman to be his first love. A woman wants a man to be her last. 32. Sitting next to you doing absolutely nothing means absolutely everything to me. 33. I love you not because I need you. I need you because I love you. 34. Our love is like the wind. I cant see it but I can feel it. 35. She said to him I am afraid of falling. He said I have wings 36. One person all by themselves is nothing. Two people together are everything. 37. One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life. That word is love. 38. No one is perfect until you fall in love with them. 39. If this is a crush, then I dont know if I can handle the real thing if it happens. 40. Love is the master key that can open the gates of happiness. 41. Love is like smiling. It never fades and is contagious. 42. Anyone can be passionate. But it takes real lovers to be silly. 43. All that I love loses half its pleasure when you are not there. 44. Your prince will one day come. He may not ride a white horse or live in a big castle but he will love you and only you.

45. Some gifts are big. Others are small. But the ones that come from the heart are the best gifts of all. 46. 47. 48. 49. Sometimes the heart sees what is invisible to the eye. The best things in life arent things. Love is one of the bravest traits you can have. Life without love is like a tree without blossoms or fruit.

50. Love is like a pair of socks. You gotta have two and they gotta match.

51. A champion is someone who gets up when he can t. Victory is sweetest when you ve known defeat. The harder you work, the harder it is to surrender. I care not what others think of what I do, but I care very much about what I think of what I do. That is character! We can only be said to be alive in those moments when our hearts are conscious of our treasures. It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey that matters in the end. You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late. If you re going through hell, keep going. Friendship consists in forgetting what one gives and remembering what one receives. Happiness is not a state to arrive at, but a manner of traveling. The will to win is not nearly as important as the will to prepare to win. I no doubt deserved my enemies, but I don t believe I deserved my friends. Always look at what you have left. Never look at what you have lost. Champions aren t made in the gyms. Champions are made from something they have deep inside them a desire, a dream, a vision Keep away from small people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great make you feel that you, too, can become great. I expect to pass through this world but once. Any good therefore that I can do, or any kindness that I can show to any fellow creature, let me do it now. Let me not defer or neglect it, for I shall not pass this way again. Pain is temporary. Quitting lasts forever The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost. Life is short. Be swift to love! Make haste to be kind! It is one of the most beautiful compensations of life that no man can sincerely try to help another without helping himself If you can fill the unforgiving minute With sixty seconds worth of distance run, Yours is the Earth and everything that s in it, And which is more you ll be a Man, my son! Treat people as if they were what they ought to be, and you help them to become what they are capable of being Pain is good; Extreme pain is extremely good It never gets easier, you just go faster. Destiny is not a matter of chance, it is a matter of choice; it is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved. You can t wait for inspiration. You have to go after it with a club. There is one quality which one must possess to win, and that is definiteness of purpose, the knowledge of what one wants, and a burning desire to possess it. Do not let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do. Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall. Keep your fears to yourself, but share your courage with others. Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we re here we should dance. True religion is the life we lead, not the creed we profess. Character may be manifested in the great moments, but it is made in the small ones. A loyal friend laughs at your jokes when they re not so good, and sympathizes with your problems when they re not so bad. You can t build a reputation on what you are going to do. Obstacles can t stop you. Problems can t stop you. Most of all, other people can t stop you. Only you

can stop you. There are many ways to measure success; not the least of which is the way your child describes you when talking to a friend. Many persons have a wrong idea of what constitutes true happiness. It is not attained through selfgratification but through fidelity to a worthy purpose. Behind every successful person there s a lot of unsuccessful years. A life without love, no matter how many other things we have, is an empty, meaningless one. Our business in life is not to get ahead of others, but to get ahead of ourselves to break our own records, to outstrip our yesterday by our today. Always demanding the best of oneself, living with honor, devoting one s talents and gifts to the benefits of others these are the measures of success that endure when material things have passed away. Our best success comes after our greatest disappointments. Those who do not know how to weep with their whole heart don t know how to laugh either. There are two things to aim at in life: first, to get what you want; and, after that, to enjoy it. Only the wisest of mankind achieve the second. It is no use saying, We are doing our best. You have got to succeed in doing what is necessary. Waste your money and you re only out of money, but waste your time and you ve lost part of your life. The fragrance always stays in the hand that gives the rose. A man should never be ashamed to own that he has been in the wrong, which is but saying that he is wiser today than he was yesterday. I long to accomplish a great and noble task, but it is my chief duty to accomplish small tasks as if they were great and noble. If we had no winter, the spring would not be so pleasant: if we did not sometimes taste of adversity, prosperity would not be so welcome. Vision without action is a daydream, Action without vision is a nightmare. The mediocre teacher tells. The good teacher explains. The superior teacher demonstrates. The great teacher inspires. You can preach a better sermon with your life than with your lips. There is nothing noble in being superior to some other man. The true nobility is in being superior to your previous self. There is no exercise better for the heart than reaching down and lifting people up. A friend is one who sees through you and still enjoys the view. You can get anything in life you want if you just help enough other people get what they want. Your friends love you anyway. The most destructive force in the universe is gossip. Fear is the opportunity for courage, not proof of cowardice. Any person capable of angering you becomes your master; he can anger you only when you permit yourself to be disturbed by him. When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. Bravery is the capacity to perform properly even when scared half to death. Enjoy the little things, for one day you may look back and realize they were the big things. Most people are so busy knocking themselves out trying to do everything they think they should do, they never get around to do what they want to do. Just for today I will be happy. Just for today I will try to live through this day only, not to tackle my whole life problem at once. I can do things for twelve hours that would appall me if I had to keep them up for a lifetime. Just for today. The gem cannot be polished without friction, nor man perfected without trials. You only live once but if you work it right, once is enough. It s never too late to be what you might have been. The will to win is not nearly as important as the will to prepare to win. Nearly every person who develops an idea works at it up to the point where it looks impossible, and then gets discouraged. That s not the place to become discouraged If you re still hanging onto a dead dream of yesterday, laying flowers on its grave by the hour, you cannot be planting the seeds for a new dream to grow today.

Everyone has inside of him a piece of good news. The good news is that you don t know how great you can be! How much you can love! What you can accomplish! And what your potential is! It has been said that our anxiety does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow, but only empties today of its strength. Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead. Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around. I was asking myself why I was having these obstacles in my life then I suddenly became aware that these obstacles were my life, and I began to enjoy them. Achievement seems to be connected with action. Successful men and women keep moving. They make mistakes, but they don t quit Never does a man portray his character more vividly than his proclaiming the character of another. I make the most of all that comes and the least of all that goes. Those who love deeply never grow old; they may die of old age, but they die young. People of mediocre ability sometimes achieve outstanding success because they don t know when to quit. Most people succeed because they are determined to. Look at a day when you are supremely satisfied at the end. It s not a day when you lounge around doing nothing; it s when you ve had everything to do, and you ve done it. What we see depends mainly on what we look for. The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart. There is no scarcity of opportunity to make a living at what you love; there s only a scarcity of resolve to make it happen. Constant kindness can accomplish much. As the sun makes ice melt, kindness causes misunderstanding, mistrust, and hostility to evaporate. Be of good cheer. Do not think of today s failures, but of the success that may come tomorrow. You have set yourself a difficult task, but you will succeed if you persevere; and you will find a joy in overcoming obstacles. The only way to live is to accept each minute as an unrepeatable miracle, which is exactly what it is a miracle and unrepeatable. One of the greatest discoveries a man makes, one of his great surprises, is to find he can do what he was afraid he couldn t do. No matter what you ve done for yourself or for humanity, if you can t look back on having given love and attention to your own family, what have you really accomplished? In the confrontation between the stream and the rock, the stream always wins not through strength but by perseverance. Good, Better, Best, Never rest until good is better and better is best! The difference between the impossible and the possible lies in a person s determination. Four steps to achievement: Plan purposefully. Prepare prayerfully. Proceed positively. Pursue persistently. Being able to do something well is one of life s great joys. Goals are not only absolutely necessary to motivate us; they are essential to really keep us alive. Whether you believe you can do a thing or not, you are right. The great thing in this world is not so much where we are, but in what direction we are moving. If you forget you have to struggle to improvement, you go backward. Be like a duck keep calm and unruffled on the surface, but paddle like crazy underneath. Motivation is what gets you started. Habit is what keeps you going. Abilities are like tax deductions we use them or we lose them. Enthusiasm and persistence can make an average person superior; indifference and lethargy can make a superior person average. You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don t try. Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards. The harder we work, the luckier we get. The difficulties of life are intended to make us better not bitter. Outlook determines outcome.

Successful people are not gifted; they just work hard then succeed on purpose. If you re coasting, you re either losing momentum or else you re headed downhill. If you don t invest very much, then defeat doesn t hurt very much and winning isn t very exciting. The athlete does not embark upon a sport but upon a way of life. Instead of putting others in their place, put yourself in theirs. Necessary evils are never necessary and always evil. Having a child does not make you a parent, just as having a kitchen does not make you a chef. Do something today to improve someone else s life. There is always a way to get there from here. Hold fast to your dreams. Never allow the enemy of self-doubt to destroy them. Change for the better requires effort. Change for the worse needs none. People often think of happiness as something abstract, somehow separate from immediate reality. The grass is never greener on the other side. There is no other side. Form is more important than pace. There is no substitute for hard work. One word from a person who is trusted carries more weight than ten thousand from someone who is not. Always act upon a generous impulse. Of two evils, choose neither. Live for this day as if there were no other. Today is tomorrow. People don t stop enjoying life when they become old; people become old when they stop enjoying life. One does not win by making others lose. To observe evil acts and do nothing to stop them is to share responsibility for such acts. Someone is always doing what someone else said couldn t be done. There are two things you should never worry about things you can change, and things you can t. Stop complaining. Without wisdom, knowledge can be more harmful than ignorance. Wherever you go, go with all your heart. There is no greater aid on the road to happiness than a true friend. Your teacher can open the door, but you must enter by yourself. One of these days is none of these days. A great mentor is one who aims for others ability is to surpass his own. It is better to have a heart without words than words without a heart. Time spent feeling sorry for yourself is time wasted. Fall seven times, stand up eight. Live in a way that leaves no regrets. Beware of articulate fools. Loneliness is a choice. A dynamic life is a constant struggle against complacency. What irritates us most about others is often what we dislike most about ourselves. The person worth listening to is often the quietest person. Manifest the courage to follow your talents wherever they lead. Seek to find the positive in everyone. Guessing is cheap; guessing wrong is expensive. Winter always turns to spring. What is possible for one is possible for all. Greed arises from an inaccurate perception of one s true desires. When someone s character is not clear to you, look at that person s friends. Doing the right thing is easy knowing the right thing to do is difficult. Strive to achieve whatever you think you cannot, for it is on the path toward your impossible dream that you will find what you truly seek. It takes a long time to get good. Technique is a choice. Slow is smooth, smooth is fast.

You never fail, you simply produce results. Learn from these. The only easy day was yesterday.

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter: "Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl said: "No, Dad. You hold my hand." "What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father. "There's a big difference," replied the little girl. "If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go." In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours...

Most of the problems in life are because of two reasons: 1st: we act without thinking.. 2nd: we keep on thinking without acting..

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One of the hardest things you'll ever have to do is to stop loving someone because they've stopped loving you. Even if he doesn't like me tomorrow, I knew he loved me yesterday. The wounds of love can only be healed by the one who made them. True love burns the brightest, but the brightest flames leave the deepest scars. Where my future leads, I don't know. But if you're not there, I don't want to go. Sometimes the memories are worth the pain. Every love gone wrong is one step closer to your own true love. He looked deeply into my eyes, he lied and said "I'll never make you cry", and when I thought it was too good to be true, he blew me off and found someone new. The hottest love has the coldest end. I dont miss him, I miss who I thought he was.

Life without love is a life without meaning. A million words couldnt bring you back, I know because Ive tried. Neither could a million tears, I know because Ive cried. Sunsets remind me that life is still beautiful without him. When forever is through, then I'll be over you. Tears are the words the heart can't express. You taught me how to love, but not how to stop. The hardest part of loving someone is knowing when to let go, and knowing when to say goodbye. The only person who can make me smile, made me cry. Falling in love is awfully simple, but falling out of love is simply awful. Love is on the lips of many, but in the hearts of a few. Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option. Once upon a time I was falling in love, but now I'm only falling apart. Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened. It's better to be with no one than to be with the wrong one. Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together. Don't cry when the sun is gone, because the tears won't let you see the stars. When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal. When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us. Time goes by, life goes on; and all I can think of is why you're gone. God can heal a broken heart, but you have to give Him all the pieces.

"Throughout life people will make you mad, disrespect you and treat you bad. Let God deal with the things they do, cause hate in your heart will consume you too. Will Smith Sometimes we need to be hurt in order to grow. We must fail in order to know. We must lose in order to gain. Some lessons are learned best through pain.
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Top 20 Letting Go Quotes

1. When one door closes another door opens; but we so often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door, that we do not see the ones which open for us. Alexander Graham Bell 2. We can never turn back the pages of time, though we may wish to relive a happy moment, or say goodbye just one last time, we never can, because the sands of time continue to fall, and we cant turn the hourglass over. Unknown 3. Some of us think holding on makes us strong, but sometimes it is letting go. Herman Hesse 4. One problem with gazing too frequently into the past is that we may turn around to find the future has run out on us. Michael Cibenko 5. All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on. Havelock Ellis 6. In everyones life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit. Albert Schweitzer 7. Change is never easy, you fight to hold on, and you fight to let go. The Wonder Years 8. Theres no need to miss someone from your past- Theres a reason they didnt make it to your future Unknown 9. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. Headstone 10. Every exit is an entry somewhere. -Tom Stoppard 11. True love doesnt have a happy ending, because true love never ends. Letting go is one way of saying I love you. Unknown 12. There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind. But keep in mind that letting go isnt the end of the world, its the beginning of a new life. Unknown

13. Hanging onto resentment is letting someone you despise live rent-free in your head. Ann Landers 14. We need in love to practice only this: letting each other go. For holding on comes easilywe do not need to learn it. Rainer Maria Rilke 15. Every breath is an opportunity to receive and let go. I receive love and I let go of pain. Brenda MacIntyre 16. When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. Lao Tzu 17. Sometimes you have to let go to see if there was anything worth holding on to. Anonymous 18. Dont cry because its over. Smile because it happened. Dr. Seuss 19. We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the life that is waiting for us. Joseph Campbell 20. The Tao Te Ching says, When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. When I let go of what I have, I receive what I need. Have you ever struggled to find work or love, only to find them after you have given up? This is the paradox of letting go. Let go, in order to achieve. Letting go is Gods law. Mary Manin Morrissey
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Here are some love quotes for those who are still trying to get his/her lover. Some of us think holding on makes us strong; but sometimes it is letting go. May God put a spell on you so you won?t forget me. A lost love is never lost unless whats lost is the love for your lover. When I see you smile and know that it is not for me, that is when I will miss you the most. How do you say goodbye to someone who had you at hello? A teardrop is insignificant in a pool of water, but it can touch the soul as it runs down someone?s face. Dont hold to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love. Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love. The saddest thing in the world, is loving someone who used to love you. Its hard to tell your mind to stop loving someone, when youre heart still does. I still love you with all the little pieces of my heart that you left,but dont take them its the only thing I have that still has your name on it.

The saddest love is to love someone, to know that they still want you, but the circumstances dont let you have them. There is no remedy for love but to love more. Looking back, I have this to regret, that too often when I loved, I did not say so.