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cambodian lesbian activist chork Suphorn (right); opposite, clockwise from left: campaigner ly pisey; gay women celebrate pride; cambodian pride banner the words say We Who love the Same Sex
years that I lived in cambodia, I was fortunate enough to meet the very brave women who are fighting oppression and living openly as lesbians in their communities. When I arrived in cambodia, I was instantly struck by the warm smiles and hospitality that is ingrained in the countrys customs. I quickly learned of the high value placed on family and culture and the understandable wish to remain true to cambodian traditions and values in the midst of nationwide development and transformation. traditionally, cambodian women are expected to be gentle and subservient; it is taken for granted that they will marry men and fulfill their roles as obedient wives. Long hair, gentle mannerisms and feminine clothing are highly valued. Women who do not
comply with these strong gender expectations often face exclusion from their families. until very recently, the chbap Srey (Womens code of conduct) was taught in schools to educate girls about the role of women in society and it indicates how women are viewed in cambodia. the chbap Srey teaches girls not only how to dress and act in feminine ways, but also how to fufil their duties as a wives: Suppress your emotions to avoid the risk of having your husband insult you; even if your husband has a terrible temper you must never dare to reply. many cambodian lesbians find their identities in constant conflict with the values set out in the chbap Srey. a large proportion of cambodian lesbians identify as the third gender, believing that they were born neither entirely
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