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SC 64 - Tracking & Parenting Your Partner With Ellen Boeder

SC 64 - Tracking & Parenting Your Partner With Ellen Boeder

FromRelationship School Podcast


SC 64 - Tracking & Parenting Your Partner With Ellen Boeder

FromRelationship School Podcast

ratings:
Length:
39 minutes
Released:
Aug 10, 2016
Format:
Podcast episode

Description

Codependency gets a bad rap. Parenting your partner? Who wants be married to their mom or dad? But there’s more to the story here. And lots of gold if you’re willing to reframe and play the “attachment” game in your primary relationship. My wife Ellen joins me again with her attachment knowledge and personal experience on how to track and parent your partner. We give some personal examples from our marriage as well. SHOWNOTES Why do people freak out when they hear the idea of “parenting your partner” or “co-dependency”? [13:30] What is attachment in a relationship? [18:00] The huge benefit of using the lens of attachment in a relationship. [20:30] What does it mean to parent your partner? [21:45] Track my partner? What does that even mean? [23:45] The “secure home base” and how it can be a great barometer of the relationship. [25:30] The physiological cost of not giving attention to your primary relationship. [27:45] 3 action steps you can take today to improve your relationship. [29:30] Jayson’s action step for the listener. [36:30] Leave your comments in Monogamy and The Smart Couple Facebook Group
Released:
Aug 10, 2016
Format:
Podcast episode

Titles in the series (100)

A trail blazing relationship podcast for growth-development oriented people who want a deeply fulfilling long-term relationship. Here we re-write the outdated nonsense of marriage and monogamy and offer you practical, easy to apply tools so you can get the kind of relationship you deserve and then strengthen it over time. Your host Jayson Gaddis once again shares his own traumas and triumphs on the way to "winning*" in marriage (*winning means he can get his connection needs met without compromising his values or integrity). Join him, his wife, and many other relationship geeks as they explore the next chapter of modern monogamy.