Episode 218: The Tigers in Your Kitchen

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Episode 218: The Tigers in Your Kitchen

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Apr 28, 2015

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TOPIC: Fear, Anxiety, and Existential Whack-A-Mole

This week, Dan and Merlin talk about Color Guard, the science of binge watching, and the uncertain future of podcasts.

But, mainly, they talk a lot about fear and anxiety. Deep dive here. How are fear and anxiety different? What's a habitual thought feel like? And, what are some little ways to start gently climbing out?

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Apr 28, 2015

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Back to Work is an award winning talk show with Merlin Mann and Dan Benjamin discussing productivity, communication, work, barriers, constraints, tools, and more. Hosted by Merlin Mann & Dan Benjamin.

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Episode 218: The Tigers in Your Kitchen

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