NAGINDAS KHANDWALA COLLEGE OF MANAGEMENT STUDIES.

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INDEX:
INTRODUCTION WHAT ARE MARTIANS ALL ABOUT? WHAT ARE VENUSIANS ALL ABOUT? HOW THEY COMMUNICATE? TOPICS ON WHICH THEY COMMUNICATE. BARRIERS TO COMMUNICATION BETWEEN MEN AND WOMEN CONCLUSION.

INTRODUCTION
Imagine that men are from mars and women are from Venus. One day long ago the Martians looking through their telescopes discovered the venusian. Just glimpsing the venusians awaked feeling they had never known. They fell in love and quickly invented space travel and flew to venus. The venusians welcomed the martians with open arms. They had intuitively known that this day would come. Their hearts opened wide to a love they had never felt before.

The love between the venusians and the martians was magical. They were delighted with being together ,doing things together and sharing together. Though from different worlds they reveled in their differences. They spent months learning about each other, exploring and appreciating their different needs, preferences and behaviour patterns. For years they lived in love and harmony. Then they decided to fly to Earth. In the beginning everything was wonderful and beautiful. But the effects of Earths and its atmosphere took hold and one morning everyone woke up with a peculiar kind of amnesia.

Both the martians and venusians forgot that they were from different planets and were supposed to be different.

AND SINCE THAT DAY MEN AND WOMEN HAVE BEEN IN CONFLICT !!!!!!!!

MEN ARE FROM MARS WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS

WHAT ARE MARTIANS ALL ABOUT ?

They value power , competent, efficiency and achievement. They are always doing things to prove themselves and develop their power and skills. Their sense of self is defined through their ability to achieve results. They experience fulfillment primarily through success and accomplishments.

WHAT ARE VENUSIANS ALL ABOUT

Venusians.have

different values. They value love, communication, beauty and relationship.

They

spent a lot of time supporting, helping and nurturing one another. Their sense of self is defined through their feelings and the quality of their relationships. They experience fulfilment through sharing and relating.

HOW DO MEN AND WOMEN COMMUNICATE ?????

PRACTICAL

EMOTIONAL

PRACTICAL

MEN TAKE DECISION FROM BRAINS. MEN DONT OFTEN SHOW THEIR EMOTIONS.

MEN ARE CONTENT LISTENERS .

MEN TALK ABOUT THE REALITY.

EMOTIONS
WOMEN --HEART MEN ARE LOGICAL AND WOMEN ARE DILLOGICAL. WOMEN--- CONSIDERED AS WHOLE AND SOUL OF FAMILY ,WHY? TAKE TIME TO ACCEPT REALITY Satirically, TEARS---CAN BE DEFINED AS , THE HYDRAULIC FORCE BY WHICH MASCULINE WILL-POWER IS DEFEATED BY FEMININE WATER- POWER.

TOPICS ON WHICH THEY COMMUNICATE

LIKES

AND DISLIKES OF MEN AND WOMEN. WHEN TIMES ARE

COMMUNICATION

DIFFICULT .

LIKES AND DISLIKES OF MEN

Likes - Men like to be respected and listened to. Plus they like it when you value their opinion.

If you can be adventurous and spontaneous man love this

Dislikes- No man likes a nagging or smothering woman

Dont treat your man like he is a kid or belittle him in front of his buddies.

LIKES AND DISLIKES OF WOMEN

Likes -Women are more likely to feel love when they receive gifts, The old myth says that women prefer shopping more than men is proved true Dislikes -Women are not interested to date a guy who appears boring to them. Women do not like men being late when they have to meet at some place

COMMUNICATION WHEN TIMES ARE DIFFICULT

When

men are in problems they dont want to discuss but want to solve it where as women want to discuss their problems rather than solving it. When women are disappointed etc they sound more critical and when men are upset they are rude, mean and uncaring

BARRIERS TO THEIR COMMUNICATION

MISUNDERSTANDING

EGO

IGNORANCE

OPINION

DIFFERENCE

ATTITUDE

OPINION DIFFERENCE
When

men and women differ on a topic their communication mostly turn into arguments and debate It can cause half hearing, misunderstanding etc.

ATTITUDE

Feeling of superiority Friends and family influence attitude of a person Misunderstanding Half hearing

IGNORANCE

Women

hate when men ignore them or dont listen to them. women talk and men pretend to listen it is also a kind of ignorance.

When

EGO
I,ME

AND MYSELF + EGO = AGO

ARROGANCE

MEN

HAS LOT OF EGO AS COMPARE TO WOMEN

MISUNDERSTANDING

THERE CAN BE A NUMBER OF FACTORS LEADING TO MISUNDERSTANDING BETWEEN BOYS AND GIRLS:1)LACK OF OPINION 2)LACK OF INTEREST 3)BLAMING EACH OTHER 4)POOR COMMUNICATION 5) NOT GIVING SPACE TO EACH OTHER

MEN
Sense

MEN VS WOMEN WOMEN

Sense

of self: achievement Task-oriented Self-reliant Focus is on goal Competition

of self: relationships Relationaloriented Interdependent Enjoy the process.

Cooperation

CONCLUSION

SO ALL THIS BRING US TO THE CONCLUSION THAT GIRLS AND BOYS CAN NEITHER LIVE WITH EACH OTHER NOR WITHOUT EACH OTHER. IT SEEMS LIKE BATTLE WILL GO ON FOR EVER AND EVER BUT STILL THEY FEEL LOVE AND AFFECTION FOR EACH OTHER. IF IT WAS NOT SO THE WORLD WOULDNT EXIST.THIS IS A PHASE OF LIFE .THIS IS NOT WHERE IT ENDS BUT ITS WHERE IT ALL

BEGINS