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Objectives: Self-Concept
1. 2. 3. Define self-concept; explain how it develops. Explain how culture influences self-concept. Define & give examples of ego boosters/busters. List & explain 5 characteristics of self-concept. Define self-fulfilling prophecy & give example. Explain why self-concept is often distorted. Suggest how a distorted self-concept can be changed.
4. 5. 6. 7.
I. Self-Concept
A. Definition
1. How you view yourself; self-image 2. Feelings & thoughts about your strengths, weaknesses 3. Relatively stable set of perceptions you hold of yourself: emotional states, talents, likes, dislikes, values, roles, etc.
2.
Social Comparisons
a. Superior/Inferior b. Same/Different
3. 4.
Social Comparisons
Self Concept
Cultural Teachings
Recall an ego booster who helped enhance your self-esteem. Recall an ego buster from your life. Recall a time when you were an ego booster to someone else. Recall a time when you were an ego buster.
C. Characteristics of Self-Concept
The self-concept: 1. 2. 3. 4. 5. affects communication. is subjective. resists change. is flexible, if it is healthy. is multi-dimensional
Low Self-Esteem
1. Likely to disapprove of others 2. Expect to be rejected 3. Evaluate own performance less favorably 4. Perform poorly when being watched 5. Work harder for undemanding less critical people 6. Feel threatened by those perceived as superior 7. Have difficulty defending self against criticism; easily influenced
Self-Fulfilling Prophecy
1. We make a prediction based on a belief. 2. We act toward person/situation as if prediction/belief is true. 3. BECAUSE we act as if the belief is true, it becomes true. 4. We observe this effect, which strengthens our belief.
Cant Exercise
Write a sentence which states something you cant do. Cross out the cant and replace it with wont or havent yet. How does this change the meaning of this sentence? What does this have to do with selfconcept?
b. IDEAL ME
1) Desired self 2) Picture of person you wish you were
c.
PUBLIC ME
1) Presenting self 2) Face you try to show others
II. Self-Awareness
A. Johari Window -- a tool that represents your communication behaviors
Known to Self
Known to Others
Blind Self
Unknown Self
Johari Window
WOMEN
MEN
B. Rewards of SelfDisclosure
1. Get to know self better
2. Increases communication effectiveness 3. Increases physiological health
C. Dangers of SelfDisclosure
1. 2. 3. Personal risks Relational risks Professional risks
Objectives: Apprehension
1. Define communication apprehension & distinguish between state & trait apprehension. List 7 apprehensive behaviors. List & explain 7 influences on apprehension. Explain how cultural differences impact apprehension. Briefly describe 3 apprehension management theories.
2. 3. 4. 5.
V. Apprehension
A. Nature of comm. apprehension
1. Comm. apprehension--fear/anxiety about interaction 2. Trait apprehension--fear of comm., regardless of situation 3. State apprehension--specific to a given comm. situation
B. Apprehensive Behaviors
1. Decrease in frequency, strength, & likelihood of engaging in comm. 2. Less willing to volunteer 3. Lack of satisfaction w/dating 4. Talk less & avoid leadership 5. Disclose less 6. Avoid jobs requiring comm. 7. Less likely to get job interviews
The End
Presenting Self?
Appropriate Self-Disclosure?
NOT!!!!!
Surveys/Exercises
*Weighing Rewards & Costs of SelfDisclosure Self-Concept Scales Locus of Control Scales Self-Fulfilling Prophecy cartoons & stories Self-Actualization Survey Self-Disclosure Survey Self-Monitoring Survey