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LIFESTYLE
Presented By
Datin Melor Wati Darus
INTRODUCTION
•First Impressions
•Circle of Success
•What Is Image?
FIRST IMPRESSIONS
Research has shown that in the first 30-40
seconds of meeting you, a person’s first
impressions are based on the following:
55% is from your appearance
38% is from the way you carry yourself
7% is from what you say
People make long-term judgments of you in
the first minute they meet you
An attractive appearance is the key to an
attractive personality
CIRCLE OF SUCCESS
WHAT IS IMAGE?
Image is defined as
a combination of
behavior and
appearance of an
individual
A successful Image
does not just rely on
a pretty face
Good akhlak and
appropriate dressing
results in a desirable
Image
DRESSING FOR YOUR BODY
TYPE
•Body Proportion
•Body Shape
•The Right Fabric Texture, Colour and Motifs for
You
BODY PROPORTION
BODY SHAPE:
ANALYSING YOUR BODY SHAPE
Stand in front of a mirror wearing a leotard or
other tight-fitting clothes
1. Take a lipstick and tie your hair to the back
2. Ignore any lumps and bumps you may see!
3. Trace your body outline from top to bottom
•Events
•Social Surroundings
LIFESTYLE
Are you a working parent, Work
single professional, a
student or a homemaker?
Dressing appropriately for
your lifestyle will allow
you to reflect a successful
image.
For example, it would be
more appropriate for a
homemaker to dress in
comfortable blouse and
pants rather than a short
dress and high heels. A
student would portray a
better image if dressed in
a smart casual attire
rather than torn jeans
and an old t-shirt.
Shopping The activities that you
participate in daily will
dictate what you
should wear. A working
professional should
wear a sharp suit or
baju kurung because
he or she might have
to meet a lot of clients
daily and would want
to portray a
professional image.
However, a stay-at-
home mum wouldn’t
feel as comfortable in
that kind of attire
when chasing after the
kids and finishing the
household chores.
EVENTS
Cocktail / Hi-Tea
A smart casual look would be
most appropriate for this kind of
event.
This includes a simple baju
kurung or kebaya or a simple
dress without too much
embellishments. For men, a
smart collared shirt and tailored
pants is best.
Formal Evening Function
A formal look would be best.
Clothes with a lot of
embellishments and more
ornate accessories would be
appropriate for this kind of
event. In our country,
traditional clothes is a safe
bet regardless of your race.
Be sure to check the dress
code for the occasion – some
hosts are very specific on
the theme for the night and
as their guest, you are
expected to oblige as best
you can.
Jeans are absolutely
forbidden for this kind of
event!
Weddings
Regardless of the race(s)
of the couple involved, it
is best to wear your
traditional clothes when
attending a wedding.
If you choose not to
wear traditional clothes,
your outfit should be
similar to what you
would wear for a formal
evening function.
Out of respect for the
couple and their
families, refrain from
wearing outfits that are
too revealing.
Again, jeans are not
appropriate for this kind
of formal occasion.
Conferences and
Seminars
You should wear
professional clothes or
traditional attire when
attending conferences and
seminars. Remember, you
are acting a
representative of your
company and should
always dress as such.
Some exceptions include
personal enrichment
seminars such as
motivational talks, fashion
seminars and the like. In
this case, a smart casual
look based on your
individual taste would be
best. No jeans!
Open house and house
parties
An open house for a
specific occasional such
as Eid Ul-Fitr, Chinese
New Year, Deepavali or
Christmas allows for both
formal and smart-casual
attire, depending on your
host. If you are unsure, it
is always best to call
ahead and ask.
A house party such as a
bridal shower, baby
shower or birthday party
allows for more casual
wear. In some cases, this
even includes jeans.
Again, sometimes the
host has a specific dress
code in mind, so call
ahead if you are unsure.
SOCIAL SURROUNDINGS
The image you would want to portray will be
different based on the people that will surround
you.
If you are going to royal function or an event
hosted by high-ranking socialite (Tan Sris, Puan
Sris, Dato’s and Datins), pick an outfit that is not
too casual.
By contrast, if you are attending a barbecue
lunch with friends, don’t wear a glittery ballgown.
A more casual laid-back look would be
appropriate.
Remember, you want to fit in with the crowd, but
you don’t want to fade into the background
either. Make sure you wear what is both
comfortable for you and appropriate to those that
surround you for that specific occasion.
AGE
Your body changes as you age. What may be
appropriate at one point in your life may not
be appropriate anymore.
That is not to say that you should dress in a
dull, old-fashioned manner as you get older.
You should just dress age-appropriately. It is
totally possible to be stylish no matter how
old you are, but sometimes there are parts of
our body that betrays our age too much to be
exposed. Remember, style is about
highlighting your best features and
downplaying your worst features.
One example would be wrinkly, flabby arms.
After a certain age, this area loses elasticity,
and one should not wear sleeveless outfits as
this just highlights the unflattering feature.
However, you can always cover up with a
stylish pashmina or shawl. This would
actually act as a stylish accessory for your
outfit.
Another example is flabby love-handles (the
sides of your torso). As we age, our body
tends to retain fat around this area, and
certain outfits will bring unwanted attention
to this area, like a close-fitting kebaya or a
tight dress. Wearing a pesak-gantung kebaya
or tailoring your dress to fit you well would
be a better idea.
CHOOSING ACCESSORIES
CHOOSING ACCESSORIES
A basic rule to choosing any accessory,
especially those near your face, is to
accentuate your features.
For example, a curved outline face would be
flattered by curvy accessories such as hoop
earrings, round diamond stud earrings,
pendants with curvy motifs and curved
spectacle frames.
By contrast, faces with an angular outline
would look best with angular-shaped
accessories.
Also, remember to choose accessories based
on your outfit and the event you are
SCARVES
For a face with a curved outline, the motifs
on the scarf should be curvy.
SCARVES
WORK
WORK / CASUAL
EVENING
CASUAL
WORK / CASUAL
HANDBAGS - CURVY
CASUAL
EVENING /
CASUAL
WORK
EVENING
WORK / CASUAL
SHOES
Shoes are the most taken-forgranted
accessory in a person’s wardrobe. Often,
people will think that one shoe will fit all
occasions. This is not true!
A woman needs different shoes for work,
formal wear and casual wear.
Remember the rules in the
EVENING
Proportions topic! Find a shoe that
suits your body proportions.