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Unit I
Self
William James a psychologist
distinguished between two aspects of self as me and I. I is an active agent in the environment. Me contains three distinct entities as
Spiritual self:- inner core of identity. Material self:- persons physical attributes. Social self:- personal identity.
Self concept
The views about ones self is known as
self concept. It is the impression one holds about himself. Switching the role one plays can create a problem for ones self concept. Self concept is the picture of oneself accompanied by the feeling of the real me which is stable.
Johari window
Known to self Unknown to self
Known to others
Open Self
Blind self
Unknown to others
Hidden Self
Unknown self
Self Awareness
Process of discovering and
understanding various aspects of oneself like motivation, attitudes, belief, etc. Through: Dialogue, Listening, Reduce blind, Increase open, See different selves.
standards.
SELF AWARENESS
Awareness of mental process Objective self awareness or both -result of directing our attention inward 1. Labelling theory 2. Self comparisons 3. Judging ourselves by behaviour of others
Self Growth
Maximization of ones potential towards
clear, specific & planned objective. Individual development. Personal/social development. conscious/unconscious effort. Explore strength & weakness
Self perception
Individuals attitudes towards and beliefs about
themselves based on factors like physical appearance, work habits, etc., and develops over a time. Highly complex collection of diverse information. A scheme is a set of cognitions about an object, person or situation. Self schemas reflect our beliefs and behavior with regard to people, situation and events.
Schemas
Have subschemas reflecting our beliefs and
behaviour with regard to people Helps organising our impressions Scan and elate to the environment Self schemas- independent - schematic
Social inferences
By Markus the subjects who had schemas of
themselves as independent chose more independent words to describe themselves than those who thought of themselves as dependent. Self schemas and adaptability: (odd man out) Social schemas - 3 categories
For individuals For roles / groups
interested in money Infmn abt specific behaviours business lunches, selling things to people, investment in stock market Infmn abt personal physical characteristics well dressed, well groomed, and fairly attractive)
over gaining experience Variety of ways Cognitive dissonance and Self perception theory Cognitive dissonance : - a state of tension that results when people hold their cognitions ( belief, opinions) Nuclear power, TV
other inner states by inferring them from their own behaviour Based on few assumptions Sometimes by justifying their behaviour Cognitive dissonance and Self perception theory: - over justification and intrinsic motivation
We are motivated by a desire for cognitive consistency We experience psychological tension- (i.e., a state of negative
arousal, dissonance) when we are aware of inconsistencies among our attitudes, cognitions, and behaviors.
e.g., saying things you dont believe you look great in that outfit,
deciding among two attractive options (who to date, what to major in)
by adjusting their thinking which often often involves irrational or sometimes maladaptive behavior.
Ways to Reduce Dissonance: Embracing your chocolate mousse option despite that Youre Dieting
Self Esteem
Individuals degree of liking or disliking of
themselves. Thinking as highly of yourself as you think of your friends and peers. It is build upon the experience of success. High self esteem: Good, capable, worthy
SELF EFFECTIVENESS
Self esteem
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Self presentation
To present ourselves to others. Two self presentation concerns
Motive to please an audience Motive to construct and maintain a public
image.
through which people try to control the impressions other people form of them. It is usually synonymous with self presentation.
dangerous. Self promotion seeking respect and a wish to seem competent. Exemplification seeking people to feel guilt or shame and to be seen as worthy, suffering or dedicated. Supplication -- seeking to be nurtured, to make people feel an obligation towards them and to seem helpless, handicapped or unfortunate.
two different activities. Messages we give direct verbal symbols or their substitutes whose content is designed to convey information. Messages we give off involves actions, that others can treat as symptomatic of the actor, the expectation being that the action was performed for reasons other than the information conveyed.
Self monitoring
A personality trait that measures an individuals
ability to adjust his or her behavior to external situational factors. High self monitors: Pay attention to others, skillful at expressing their
their attitudes and behavior, prefer people they like regardless of the activity involved.
of vocal sounds used by human beings to transmit meaning to one another. Effective communication consists of four steps:
channel,to whom, to what effect Shannon & Weavers Mathematical model based on telephony analogy David berlos SMCR model source message channel reciever McGuires model transaction model & interactive model
communication. Comprises all the impressions we receive and that interpretations we make from what we perceive through our senses. The codes are proxemics, haptics, chronemics, kinesics, physical appearance, vocalics and artifacts.
phrases as Eyeing someone up and down, seeing eye to eye, Look me in the eye. It is difficult, disconcerting communicative factor. The comfort level for eye contact is three seconds
Facial expression:
Portray the moods and feelings of people. Charles Darwin was one of the first to observe and
describe facial expressions. Not only do our faces reflect our internal states, but our internal states might sometimes be the result of our facial expression.
Kinesics:
The study of body movements and postures is called
kinesics and is popularly known as body language. Much of the body language is involuntary or unconscious but it makes a powerful impact.
Visual symbols:
Colors are associated with different moods
and feelings. Motivation and state of mind of employees are influenced by the color in the place of work.
Postures:
Combines pictures and words. Used for education and persuasion in matters
like the importance of saving, the danger of drinking, the value of neat and clean appearance, etc.
Auditory signals:
Sound signals are used mainly for warning. Whistles are used by the police and the army
to call members assemble. Bells and Buzzers are used to indicate the starting and ending of work periods. Tuners are often used as an identification mark.
Silence:
Silence is not a negative absence of speech
but a positive withdrawal or suspension of speech. Short silences are very effective in giving emphasis to words.
Gestures:
Movements of hands or head or body, they
are natural accompanied of speech. May not have specific or definite meaning. No two persons make exactly the same gestures.
Space:
The study of space as a communicative
system is called proxemics. It is the study of the degree and effect of the spatial separation that individuals naturally maintain in various social and interpersonal situations.
Time:
Time given to listen and speak to people
creates a sense of self esteem in them; it is equated with care and concern for them.
Energy:
Energy conveys competence and inspires
respect.
Clothing:
What we wear says something about us.
Appearance:
Grooming and accessories
Unit II
Transactional Analysis
Introduction
TA is a technique used to help people better understand
their own and others behavior, especially in interpersonal relationships. It is a theory of psychotherapy founded by Dr.Eric Berne in the 1950s. TA provides to organizations a comprehensive model of personality, communication, motivation, conflict resolution, group dynamics, organization structure, leadership, goal-setting and problem solving. In an organization it is applied at three levels as personal level, group level, organizational level.
relating to corresponding consistent pattern of behavior. An ego states is a pattern of behavior that a person develops as he/she grows up, based on his/her accumulated network of feelings and experiences. There are three ego states : parent, adult and child.
feelings, attitudes, values and prejudices and behaviors introjected from parents and significant parental figures. Adult ego state is those feelings, attitudes, behaviors related to current her-and-now reality. Child ego state is the archaic feelings, emotions, attitudes, and behaviors, which are remnants of the persons past.
disappointed, aggrieved, feeling always right, patronizing, controlling, critical, putting down others. Nurturing parent, people act loving, caring, concerned, understanding, etc. Adult function as a computer, process data, organize information, estimate probabilities, make logical statements, and provide non-judgmental feedback. Adapted child exhibit behavior of rebellion or compliance. Rebellious child disobeys, throws temper tantrums, feels bored and distracts. Compliant child acts loyal, withdraws, pleases others, feels hurt, sulks and always fells one down. Free child tend to laugh, share fun, feel excited and enthusiastic, and express our anger, sadness and fear freely without any inhibition.
expression.
Social:
Response evoked from others around.
Historical:
Getting information about past from others.
phenomenological:
When a person reexperiences what he/she
Types of Transactions
Complementary transactions:
The transactional vectors are parallel and the ego states
Crossed transactions:
When the transactional vectors are not parallel, or in which the
Ulterior transactions:
Happens when a person appears to be sending one message
Gallows transactions:
Strokes
It is a unit of recognition. Strokes is an act implying recognition of
anothers presence verbally or nonverbally or by physical contact. Strokes may be positive or negative Positive strokes are those that help most people to feel good. They tell the other person youre OK. Negative strokes are those that would hurt most people. They do say youre not OK.
Types of strokes
Conditional strokes:
Is recognizing a person for doing something.
Unconditional strokes:
Is recognizing a person for being what he is.
Positive strokes:
Are intended to create a pleasant feeling in the
receiver.
Negative strokes:
Put the receiver down.
No strokes:
when we are young and effect of this in later life. Stroke balance is the idea of stroke reservoir or credit bank
Life Positions
Positive Negative
Positive
TIME STRUCTURING
6 WAYS OF STRUCTURING
Withdrawal no contact with others Rituals socially programmed exchanges Pastimes superficial exchanges about non
threatening subjects Activity external goal directed behaviour Games recurring transactions with a concealed motivation Intimacy game free honesty and openess, free of exploitation
Rackets
Racket is an internal or external process by which a person
interprets or manipulates his/her environment as he/she identifies a not OK or discounted position. Rackets are self indulgence in feelings of guilt, inadequacy, hurt, fear and resentment. A racket is a dual strategy of getting permitted feelings and covering up those which we truly feel, as being not allowed. Racket feelings are collected at the end of a game as its payoff. When a person is in a racket within oneself and experiences racket feelings, it is an Internal racket. If another person becomes involved it is an external racket.
STAMPS
Stamps are feelings that an individual collects and
They are collected and stored until some future date Different indvls collect different types Eventually the stamps are redeemed People review their stamps Types red stamps -anger
Green stamps -envy Brown stamps taking crap from people, Real gold stamps love joy, acknowledgement
Scripts
A life script is a personal plan decided on
EPI
PR
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Types of scripts:
them and feel good. Loser scripts (negative) may not have a stated goal or may have one but not achieve them. Non-winner scripts (banal) have ordinary goals and may reach close to it.
and analyze the directive handles down from parents and grandparents and the role model shown to them, which influenced the script decision of a child. Sweat shirts: Tells how the individual likes to structure time. Hell always have a message of I cant.
Applications of TA
Aims of TA in training
Improve relationship Decrease manipulation Increase understanding Help people grow Reduce self defeat Increase assertiveness Increase self confidence
Areas of applications
In interpersonal communication New way of looking at management & leadership greater contribution to make OD A possible explanation of some forms of accident proneness A new approach to the old problem of effective time management.
The Research:
Example?
How about the mind affecting
Psychosomatic Medicine
Psyche (mind)
Soma (body)
Butterflies in the
stomach Anxious before giving speech Indigestion, nausea Stress may contribute to getting an ulcer.
ANXIETY
Personal & subjective feeling
Nervous breakdown
Occurs due to unpleasant times
FIGHT / FLIGHT SITUATION Arises mainly due to incompetence Acute stress prolonged anxiety
Bodily symptoms
Adrenaline - clotting of blood & embolism
- imaginary / real feeling loss of life avoid disclose the facts & face the reality
self esteem, job overload etc Every one has memeories, past exp, fears, worries which are locked but do not admit leads to unpleasant symptoms Nuerotic anxiety defence mech 1.repression 2. projection Other defence mech dependancy, messianic hope etc
stress
Stress is an experience that creates
physiological and psychological imbalances within a person. It is a body reaction to any demands or changes in its internal and external environment. In simple words, stress refers to pressures or tensions people feel in life. Selye has defined stress as the non-specific response of the body to any demand made upon it. Stress was equated with force, pressure or strain.
negative context, it also has a positive value. Stress is a dynamic condition in which an individual is confirmed with an opportunity, constraint, or demand related to what he or she desires and for which the outcome is perceived to be both uncertain and important. Typically stress is associated with constraints and demands. The former prevent you from doing what you desire. The latter refers to the loss of something desired. Two conditions are necessary for potential stress to become actual stress. There must be uncertainty over the outcome and the outcome must be important.
Performance
(Eustress)
Low
Stress
High
Individual differences
Perception
Job experience
Social support Belief in locus of control Self sufficiency Hostility
Consequences of stress
Physiological symptoms
Headaches High blood pressure Heart disease
Psychological symptoms
Anxiety Depression Decrease in job satisfaction
Behavioral symptoms
Productivity Absenteeism Turnover
Stress management
Coping strategies at the organizational level: Organizational role clarity Job redesign Stress reduction and stress management programmes Collateral programmes (personal wellness) Supportive organization climate Counseling Coping strategies by individuals Relaxation Time management Role management Mediation Support group
Coping mechanism.
Some way to relieve stress. Positive attitude.
Relieve stress
Meditation
Listening to soothing
affect healing. Thought, beliefs and emotions have major impact on physical health. Link between mind and body is the immune system.
What is Emotion?
Internal conscious states that we infer in ourselves and others. Emotions are private experiences. We use operational definitions because we cannot actually see feelings. We infer observable behavior associated with emotion.
SocialExpressive
Emotion
Bodily Arousal
Sense of Purpose
Feeling component
Emotions are subjective feelings Make us feel in a particular way. Anger or joy. Meaning and personal significance. Vary in intensity and quality. Rooted in mental processes (labeling).
Bodily Arousal
Biological activation.
behavior during emotion. Body prepared for action. Alert posture, clenched fists.
Purposive component
Give emotion its goal-directed force.
Social-Expressive component
Emotions communicative aspect.
expressions make our emotions public. Verbal and nonverbal communication. Helps us interpret the situation. How person reacts to event.
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
The ability to monitor ones own and others feelings and emotions, to discriminate among them and use this information to
Motivation
Social Competence:
Empathy
Social Skills
Personal Competence
Self-Awareness Self-Management Motivation
Self-Awareness
Personal Competence
Self-Awareness Emotional Awareness Accurate Self-Assessment Self-Confidence
Self-Management Motivation
Self-Management
Personal Competence
Self Management Self Control Trustworthiness Conscientiousness Adaptability Innovation Self-Awareness Emotional Awareness Self-Assessment Self-Confidence Motivation
Motivation
Motivation Self-Awareness Achievement Drive Emotional Awareness Commitment Self-Assessment Initiative Self-Confidence Optimism
Self Management Self Control Trustworthiness Conscientiousness Adaptability Innovation
Social Competence
Empathy
Social Competence
Empathy Understanding Others Developing Others Service Orientation Leveraging Diversity Political Awareness
Social Skills
Social Skills
Social Competence
Empathy Understand Others Developing Others Service Orientation Leveraging Diversity Political Awareness
Social Skills Influence Communication Conflict Management Leadership Change Catalyst Building Bonds Collaboration/Cooperation Team Capabilities
Models of EI
Ability based model
Mixed model Trait model
environment. Includes 4 types of abilities-Perceiving emotions- ability to detect and interpret emotions in faces, pictures, voices and cultural articrafts including the ability to identify ones own emotions. - Using emotions ability to harness emotions to facilitate various cognitive activities, such as thinking and problem solving.
emotions. Managing emotions ability to regulate emotions in both ourselves and in others.
Mixed models
Emotional Competencies (Goleman) Model
Bar On Model of Emotional Social
Intelligence (ESI)
Mixed models
Emotional Competencies ( Goleman) Model
Self Awareness- ability to read ones emotions and
recognize their impact while using gut feelings to guide decisions. Self Management- involves controlling ones emotions and impulses and adapting to changing circumstances. Social Awareness ability to sense, understand and reacts to others emotions while comprehending social networks. Relationship Management- ability to inspire, influence and develop others while managing conflict.
Trait model
Petrides et al proposed a conceptual distinction between the ability based model and trait based model Trait EI /Trait emotional self efficacy refers to a collection of behavioral dispositions and self perceptions concerning ones ability to
Advantages
Improves Relationships
Improves communication with others Better empathy skills Acting with integrity Respect from others Manage change more confidently.
Identifying Emotions
Skills needed to perceive and express feelings.
Recognizing facial expressions.
Non-verbal communication.
Tell when someone is being authentic. Express accurate emotions for situation. Foundation for other branches.
Facilitation (MSCEIT)
What mood(s) might be helpful to feel when meeting in-laws for the very first time?
a) Tension
b) Surprise
Not Useful 1 2 1 2
3 3
Useful 4 5 4 5
c) Joy
tobacco or other drugs. Stress coping strategies. Use optimistic explanatory style.
Debbie just came back from vacation. She was feeling peaceful and content. How well would each action preserve her mood? Action 1: She started to make a list of things at home that she needed to do. Very Ineffective..1.....2.....3.....4.....5..Very Effective Action 2: She began thinking about where and when she would go on her next vacation. Very Ineffective..1.....2.....3.....4.....5..Very Effective Action 3: She decided it was best to ignore the feeling since it wouldn't last anyway. Very Ineffective..1.....2.....3.....4.....5..Very Effective
Conduct a personal inventory. Analyze the setting & identify skills needed. Enlist trusted friends. Focus on a few competencies. Practice, practice, practice. Be observant and reflective. Dont expect immediate results. Learn from your mistakes. Acknowledge your successes.
Unit IV
onone process to help employees solve their problem. Psychotherapy through counseling provides opportunities for those seeking help to live more satisfying and happy lives. A counselor does not label or diagnose you.
subordinates in analyzing their performance and other job behavior in order to increase the job effectiveness.
Objectives of counseling
It aims at development of the counselee.
Types of counseling
Directive counseling: Process of listening to a members problem, deciding with the member what should be done, and then encouraging and motivating the person to do it. Nondirective counseling: Or client centered counseling is the process of skillfully listening to a counselee, encouraging the person to explain bothersome problems, helping him/her to understand those problems and determine courses of action. Listen between the lines
Outreach and student development: Student workshops, seminars and other educational
programmes.
immediate intervention.
Faculty and staff intervention: Faculty and staff are in a unique position to recognize
Counseling process
Responding Empathy
Listening
Communication
Helping Counseling
Development
Feedback
Mutuality
Determine goals choose & prioritize the goals and objectives, making commitment,.
Decide plan of action generating and
exploring alternatives, decision making, specific steps Follow up All talk & No action, Emotional Block.
other rewards Being patient while listening to the employee Not jumping to conclusions
and caring about the client as a person, regardless any evaluation of his behaviors or thoughts.
authentic in our dealings with our client. It also involves knowing our limits in terms of skills, time and energy and not committing ourselves beyond those limits.
during a counseling session is held as absolutely private and not discussed elsewhere. This is essential to the client feeling safe in speaking about intimate and painful matters.
Approaches to counseling:
Humanistic approach client centered. Behavioral approach Cognitive approach thinking Transaction analysis nurturing parent.
Theory input Self exploration Make a skill framework Relating practice to theory.
ELEMENTS OF COUNSELLING
Listening
experience, promotion Problem reality differs from expectation revenue expected cash flow proposed pdtn actual pdtn Problem in orgn technical, human
Personality problems
Stems from nature of individuals(behaviour)
- poor self image but high opinion of others - poor self image but low opinion of others - an over estimation of his own abilities People in orgn develop variety of feelings (beh) go in for counselling Causes for anxiety tech. competence,under work, over work, uncertain future, relationship
- alcoholism
Organisational problems
Behavioural predictors due to dynamics which
affect perf. at work. problems may be due to - marriage, bereavement, depression Frued work of mourning requires a great deal of mental & emotional energy & effort Depression lack of sleep,drive, alcoholism,smoke illness requires professional help
understanding between the force is a must LS of adult kurt 5 stages - Easier to establish contact with children - Gaining entry not an easy task - Every one develops phisical way of defending others
threatening Ways to explore LS - People tend to push unpleasant facts & memories - Cr to help people see things in difft angles - Cr leads the process by putting difft type of questions
MENTORING
Mentorship
A mentor is an individual with expertise
who can help develop the career of a mentee. The mentor guides, trains, advises, and promotes the career development of the mentee. Two types of mentoring functions:
Career Psychosocial
Mentoring Functions
Career Functions: Help the mentee learn
Mentoring Functions
Psychosocial Functions: Help the mentee
Stages of Mentoring
Initiation Stage
Cultivation Stage
Separation Stage Redefinition Stage
Not all stages are beneficial to the mentor or to
the mentee.
Advantages of Mentoring
Advantages for the mentee:
Career advancement Salary Organizational/professional identification
Disadvantages of Mentoring
Disadvantages for the mentee:
Overdependence on the mentor Micro-management from the mentor Negative halo from mentor who fails
psychologists establish and develop their careers Program participation is voluntary Matching of mentors and mentees uses input from participants
Interest areas in psychology Demographics Experiences
Role of Mentees
Seek counsel and advice, not a supervisor who
directs actions. Be aware of potential pitfalls: Overbearing mentor, mentor exploitation of mentees work. Be sensitive to the difference between asking for help/advice from your mentor and demanding favors from your mentor. Synthesize lessons learned from all mentors become your own person. Recognize dynamics of relationship.
Role of Mentors
Offer advice that helps mentee develop
role is NOT to make decisions for mentee or micromanage. Train to be efficient. Guidance and advice for one mentee may also be appropriate for another. Be aware of potential pitfalls: overdependence of mentee, mentee exploitation of mentors influence. Be sensitive to difference between developing a mentee and using a mentee. Be aware of dynamics of relationship: Developmental needs may change.
Distance Mentoring
How to use e-mail
Use e-mail to set up meetings (face-to-face or phone),
clarify plans/goals, pose non-time urgent questions, review plans, maintain contact. Dont use e-mail to give critical or complex feedback, provide impressions of others behavior, provide impressions of third parties, exchange sensitive information.
Communication Challenges
Listen for nonverbal cues (e.g., pregnant pauses, voice
tone, tempo, volume) Push for specific information, clarify meanings Summarize agreements
Unit V
Assertiveness
Assertiveness
It is the ability to express yourself and your
rights without violating the rights of others. It is appropriately direct, open and honest communication which is self enhancing and expressive. Will allow you to feel self-confident and will generally gain you the respect of your peers and friends. Will improve your decision making ability and possibly your chances of getting what you really want from life.
Legitimate rights
The right to decide how to lead your life. The right to your own values, beliefs, opinions, and
emotions. The right not to justify or explain your action or feelings to others. The right to tell others how you wish to be treated. The right to express yourself and say No, I dont know, I dont care. The right to ask for information or help. The right to change your mind. The right to like yourself even though youre not perfect. The right to have positive, satisfying relationships within which you feel. The right to change, enhance, or develop your life in anyway you determine.
Assertiveness is expressing our thoughts, feelings and beliefs in a direct, honest and appropriate way. We are consciously working toward a win-win solution. Aggressiveness is we put our wants,
needs, and rights above those of others. Strives for a win-lose solution. Nonassertive behavior is passive and indirect. It permits others to violate our rights and shows a lack of respect for our own needs. It creates a lose-win situation.
Chrisoff and Kelly at 1985 Refusal assertiveness how to say no at the right time and in the right way. State your position Explain your reason Express understanding Commendatory assertiveness telling people how you feel. Express positive feelings Express negative feelings Request assertiveness to get information, clarification, and ask for what you want. State the problem Make a request Getting clarification
Assertiveness cycle
Assertiveness
Self confidence
state your goals Dont let your friends, etc to reinforce their behavior on you. Be honest in giving & receiving complement. Learn to say NO to unreasonable requests. Avoid why questions then you tend to be defensive. Recognize & respect rights of your friends & others. Ask for feedback. Use appropriate tone and body posture. Develop your vocabulary Dress well Maintain dignity always Focus on your strengths Keep cool
behavior state the effect ask for change Giving & receiving feedback Win-win situation
Assertiveness techniques
Behavior rehearsal:
Literally practicing how you want to look and sound.
Fogging
this technique allows you to receive criticism comfortably, without getting anxious or defensive, and without rewarding manipulative criticism.
Negative enquiry
Seeks out criticism about yourself in close relationships by prompting the
Negative assertion
Lets you look more comfortably at negatives in your own behavior.
Workable compromise
When you feel that your self-respect is not in question, consider a workable
Assertive Communication
Make statements that are honest, clear, brief, and to the point
Use I statement : Id like, I appreciate, I think Distinguish between fact and opinion Ask, dont tell Offer improvement suggestions, not advice and commands
Assertive Communication
Offer constructive criticism, free of blame, assumptions, and shoulds Ask questions to find out the thoughts and feelings of others
Assertive Communication
Non Verbally, assertive people :
Make appropriate eye contact Sit or stand firmly and comfortably erect Gesture openly to support their comments Speak in a clear, steady, firm tone of voice
Assertive Communication
Non Verbally, assertive people :
Maintain open, steady, relaxed facial expressions, smiling when pleased, frowning when angry
Speak a steady, even pace, emphasizing key words, with few awkward hesitations