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Week 2 topics:
Sharing our Expectations, Standards & Values with our children Identifying Critical Rules for our kids Involving our children in the process Using Set Time Outs
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Week 3 topics:
Responding to our childrens choices Encouraging positive choices Redirecting negative choices Dealing w/ Emotional Outbursts
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Week 4 topics:
Active Supervision Creating Structure for our children Improving School Performance
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Week 5 topics:
Concrete Solutions for tough kids Highly impulsive/ special needs children Out-of-Control Behaviors Developing Personal Action Plans for behavior plans
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Week 6 topics:
Recognizing and Supporting Success The dynamics of change Problem solving Building a Strong Sense of Family Finding Support for our selves
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Week 7 topics:
Diagnosis & treatment of ADD/ADHD Working w/ your insurance & doctors Tips for helping ADD/ADHD kids
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Unit 1 Objectives
Parents will be able to:
List character traits of a strong-willed child Recognize successful ways to demonstrate love & affection Discuss influence vs. control Describe effective parenting strategies to increase cooperation & other positive behaviors
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What Works?
The keys to parenting tough kids: Love & Affection Positive Strokes Positive Consequences Time Outs Teaching New Tools
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Working in Groups
Group Facilitator Group Recorder Group Time Keeper Group Cheerleaders/ Nurturers
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Each member now takes a minute to explain their assigned job description to their group
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Ground Rules
Active Listening: Only 1 group member speaks at a time.
Give your complete & undivided attention. Groups STOP individual conversations when large group activities begin.
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NOT Children!
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Positive Consequences
Kids get to do what they like to do, AFTER they have followed a parents request.
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Time Out
Involves the loss of access to fun things and social interaction w/ others. Becomes an empty, boring and undesirable experience May follow a negative behavior; also may be used to encourage a positive behavior Lasts only a very short time - short Time Outs help maintain a childs hope & motivation.
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Teaching Tools
Taking time to teach kids a better way
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Appropriate? Does the behavior deserve a Time Out? - willful or just a mistake. Brief? Will it last just a short time? consequences must fit the way kids think. Consistent? Am I willing to follow through every time and for the entire time period? Design? Whats the whole picture? what happens, where and how? Educate? Did we take the time to plan & teach a better way?
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T.E.A.S.P.O.T.
Take everything away, for a short period of time.
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Using Self-Limiting Time Outs to encourage (AKA motivate) our children to do important yet unfun activities
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Brief?
Consistent? Design? (what, when, where & how) Educate? (plan & teach a better way)
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Home Practice
Tell your child how much they are loved every day this week. Catch your child doing something right, and give him/her a Positive Stroke. If you find it necessary to use a Self-Limiting Time Out, follow the guidelines in this unit. Remember the ABCs of Time Outs: Appropriate, Brief, Consistent, Design, and Educate a better way.
Make sure you bring back your success stories to share with your support group next week.
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Next Week
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Words of Wisdom
I wish I would have held you closer, hugged and kissed you more when you were little. Parent Author Unknown
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