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Communication - Meaning
Communication is a dynamic process
through this process we convey a thought
Hearing
Smell
Seeing
Taste
Touch
need
must
must
must
must
Self-Confidence
Understand People
be Enthusiastic
make Eye Contact
be Interested in them
Communication
Is Affected By...
Personal Factors
mood
energy level / fatigue
body language
Environment
noise
temperature
other distractions
Whether we use old technology or new, effective
Barriers in Communication
(that have to do with the COMMUNICATOR)
Unwillingness to say things differently
Unwillingness to relate to others differently
Unwillingness to learn new approaches
Lack of Self-Confidence
Lack of Enthusiasm
Voice quality
Prejudice
Barriers in
Communication
(that have to do with the
COMMUNICATOR)
messages
Negative Self Image
Lack of Feedback
Lack of Motivation and Training
Language and Vocabulary Level
Lack of Self Awareness
Barriers in Communication
(that have to do with the RECEIVER)
Selective Perception
Unwillingness to Change
Lack of Interest in the Topic/Subject
Prejudice & Belief System
Rebuttal Instincts
Personal Value System
Here-and-Now internal & external factors
External Barriers in
Communication
Environment
The venue
The effect of noise
Temperature in the room
Other People Status, Education
Time
responsibility to:
Be listened to
Acknowledge the concerns of others
Say what we feel and think
Say "No" to something we don't want to do
or don't believe in, without feeling guilty
Say "I need time to think about that"
Negotiate to resolve differences
Listening
Active listening sends the message that
Thanks a lot! I'll wash my shirt myself. Then you think (but don't say):
That's the last time I lend you anything - I don't care how many times you
ask. And you slam the door.
I found my shirt on the floor in your room and it needs to be washed. I'm
angry that you didn't return it or take care of it. I need my shirt cleaned and
returned today.
Communication Styles
Passive
Hesitates, apologizes, gives in or says nothing.
Makes little eye contact, frowns.
Speaks in a shy or timid voice, or mumbles.
Aggressive
Interrupts, exaggerates, blames, makes demands;
uses sarcasm.
Makes glaring eye contact.
Yells, swears, calls names, clenches fist.
Ignores feelings of others.
Communication Styles
Passive-Aggressive
Initially apologizes, then makes plan to get even.
Avoids eye contact.
Expresses anger through body language or actions
firm voice.
commitment that
Sometimes you can decrease tension in problem situations with humour, the
tone of your voice and a smile, as you make your point.
The same 3 steps are a great way to compliment, support and encourage
someone you care about. Being assertive builds healthy relationships.
Difficult People
However, the world is not made up of all reasonable people.
Lines are the pressure statements that people throw at you when
3. If the criticism is
inaccurate
Resolving Conflict
Conflict is a part of the range of
interactions we have with other people.
Resolving conflict often leads to a
stronger relationship.
Two sides working together to solve a
problem often arrive at a better
solution than if each side worked alone.
Resolving Conflict
Watch Out for Communication
Blocks...
Arguing
Withdrawing
Blaming or accusing
Not listening
Changing the subject
Resolving Conflict
Try to Avoid...
Jumping to conclusions
Mind reading
Unrealistic expectations... such as perfection
Cool Down Time
Take 4 or 5 deep breaths.
Put the brakes on hostile thoughts... change your focus.
Buy yourself some time with "I need some time to think about
this".
Discharge the adrenaline with some exercise... go
for a walk.
Talk yourself down... listen to music... laugh.
Clear your mind for some creative solutions.
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