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Stephanie Wagerer
ECD 420
Guidance in Social & Emotional Behavior
Objectives
Distinguish the differences between caregiving styles
Discuss how caregiving styles affect the ability to demonstrate self control
To gain knowledge of the stages of development and how self control grows with
each stage
To understand aggression and aggressive behaviors
Learn how to model appropriate self control techniques in the classroom and
home
Assessment Results
1. 60% answered yes 40% no
2. 60% answered yes 40% no
3. 70% answered yes 30% no
4. 90% answered yes 10% no
5. 70% answered yes 30% no
6. 100% answered yes 0% no
7. 90% answered yes 10% no
8. 40% answered yes 60% no
Authoritarian
Helps children feel safe and secure. This type of caregiving style allows children to
develop prosocial behavior, responsibility for their actions, good self esteem, and
self control. Authoritative caregiving promotes appropriate self control by modeling
it, communicating expectations, giving specific information on how children can
control themselves, recognizes, and encourages children who act in
developmentally appropriate self controlled ways.
Caregivers are demanding but lack responsiveness. Rules are laid out but not
enforced and caregivers use physical punishment, threats, lies, shaming, hostile
humor, and disconnecting. Caregivers with this style do not understand that
children are just learning self control and expect children to meet their unrealistic
standards. This type of caregiving leads to poor self esteem and self control, rather
the parents try to control the child externally instead of developing internal control
of self. Children are more likely to exhibit the same angry outbursts and aggression
patterns as their caregivers.
Indulgent
Caregivers are permissive and allow children to dictate their own rules and choices.
Discipline is ineffective and unheeded by the child. Permissive caregivers overlook
bad behaviors or attempt to enforce rules only to become frustrated with the child
ignoring them. Often limits that are set are not consistently enforced. Children tend
to be dependent, lack impulse control, and are lacking in self-reliance and selfresponsibility.
Unengaged
Though both parents are permissive, the differences lie in responsiveness to the
child. Both are low in demanding but indulgent parents are high in responsiveness.
They often give their child what they want to make the child happy and set few
limits. Unengaged caregivers are simply there in presence only. They lack
responsiveness to their childs needs and are low in their demands as well.
Children are often left to fend for themselves.
In one case children are given everything they want, in the other children are
neglected often to the point of harm.
24 mos.
3 years +
Infants do not possess the ability to have control of self. At this stage they are learning
that they are separate people from others.
Children can follow an adults lead, they can start, stop, change, or maintain motor
acts of emotional signals, communication develops between receptive and spoken
language, and children develop an emerging awareness of demands made by
caregivers.
Children can recall some events and represent experiences. At this age children are
only developing self control such a limited delayed gratification or waiting in line to take
a turn.
By 3, most children can wait in line patiently for a short period of time and can use
methods to distract themselves. Children can share, have a greater range of words to
use, and have developed a stronger sense of self reliance.
Some disabilities such as ADHD and autism can affect self-control and have greater difficulties in self regulation than their
neurotypical peers.
What is Aggression?
Aggression takes many
forms such as:
Physical
Emotional
Psychological
Verbal
Direct
Indirect
Planned
Unplanned
Building
Relationships
and supportive
environments
Conclusion
Self control develops from the outside in; children master their bodies before they master their
emotions
Self control develops slowly and haltingly
Children can not think and act the same way adults do and extreme expectations lead to increased
behavioral issues
Children develop self control by how they are taught
Authoritarian and permissive caregiving styles lead to greater problems with self-regulation,
independence, and self control
Poor self control leads to inappropriate behavior such as tantrums, defiance, and aggression
Parents and teachers can model self control using words, books, stories, and positive feedback
References
CSEFEL: Center on the Social and Emotional Foundations for Early Learning. (n.d.). Retrieved March 27, 2016, from
http://csefel.vanderbilt.edu/resources/strategies.html#teachingskills
DeBord, K. (n.d.). Childhood Aggression: Where does it come from? How can it be managed? North Carolina Cooperative
Extension Service. Retrieved March 27, 2016, from https://www.ces.ncsu.edu/depts/fcs/pdfs/fcs_504.pdf
Marion, M. (1981). Guidance of young children (9th ed.). St. Louis: Mosby