Always start meetings on timeeven if some participants are missing. Waiting for latecomers causes resentment and sets a bad precedent. Dont give a quick recap to anyone who arrives late. At the appointed time, open the meeting by having all participants introduce themselves if necessary. Make a three- to five-minute introduction that includes the following: Goal and length of the meeting. Background of topics or problems. Possible solutions and constraints. Tentative agenda. Ground rules to be followed: Ground Rules arriving on time, communicating openly, being supportive, listening carefully, participating fully, confronting conflict frankly, turning off cell phones and pagers, and following the agenda. determining how decisions will be made. The next step is to assign one attendee to take minutes and one to act as a recorder. The recorder stands at a flipchart or whiteboard and lists the main ideas being discussed and agreements reached. Starting a Meeting: What to say? MOVING THE MEETING ALONG: Handling Monopolizers Chairperson should say as little as possible. Remember that the purpose of a meeting is to exchange views, not to hear one person do all the talking. An effective leader makes sure that each participant gets a chance to speak, while no one member steals the show. If the group has one member who monopolizes, the leader might say, Thanks, Gary, for that perspective, but please hold your next point while we hear how Rachel would respond to that. This technique encourages quieter participants to speak up. MOVING THE MEETING ALONG: Handling Digressions/Deviations To avoid allowing digressions to sidetrack the group, try generating a Parking Lot list: a list of important but divergent issues that should be discussed at a later time. Another way to handle digressions is to say, Look, folks, were veering off track here. Lets get back to the central issue of . . . . Its important to adhere to the agenda and the time schedule. MOVING THE MEETING ALONG: Summarizing When the group seems to have reached a consensus, it is important to summarize the groups position and check to see whether everyone agrees. HANDLING CONFLICTS: Are conflicts useful?
Conflict is a normal part of every workplace. Conflict is not always
negative. In fact, conflict in the workplace can even be desirable. When managed properly, conflict can: improve decision making, clarify values, increase group cohesiveness, stimulate creativity, decrease tensions, and reduce dissatisfaction. However, unresolved conflict can destroy productivity and reduce morale. When Conflicts Occur? How to Handle them? Conflict develops when people feel unheard or misunderstood. If two people are in conflict, the best approach is to Encourage each to make a complete case while group members give their full attention. Let each one question the other. Chairperson summarizes what was said, and the group should offer comments. HANDLING DYSFUNCTIONAL PARTICIPANTS
Dysfunctional Participants are those who block discussion,
monopolize conversation, attack other speakers, joke excessively, not pay attention, or withdraw. How to handle: Warn that speakers who digress will be interrupted. Seat potentially dysfunctional members strategically: seat him/her immediately next to the leader. Make sure the person with dysfunctional behavior is not seated in a power point, such as at the end of table or across from the leader. Avoid direct eye contact. In American society direct eye contact is a nonverbal signal that encourages talking. Thus, when asking a question of the group, look only at those whom you wish to answer. Ask members to speak in a specific order. Encourage non-talkers by asking them direct questions about their information or opinions. Give praise and encouragement to those who seem to need it, even dysfunctional participants WHEN TO STOP A MEETING?
When the original objectives have been accomplished
(met); When the group has reached an impasse (dead-end); When the agreed-upon ending time occurs; When it becomes necessary to table (postpone for another meeting) some unfinished agenda items. CONCLUDING THE MEETING: Ending a Meeting Summarize what has been decided and who is going to do what. Establish deadlines for action items. No one should leave the meeting without full understanding of what was accomplished. Technique of once around the table: Everyone is asked to summarize briefly his/her interpretation of what was decided and what happens next. Ask the group to set a time for the next meeting. Thank participants for attending. Distributing Minutes
Follow up by distributing meeting minutes.
The term minutes refers to a written report of what was said in a meeting. The minutes are taken during the meeting and distributed within a couple of days after the meeting. Send the minutes to all meeting participants and to anyone else who needs to know what was accomplished and discussed during the meeting. COMPLETING ASSIGNED TASKS
It is the leader's responsibility to see that what was
decided at the meeting is accomplished. The leader may need to call people to remind them of their assignments and also to volunteer to help them if necessary. Meeting participants should complete any assigned tasks by the agreed-upon deadline.