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negotiating skills
Housekeeping
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toilets
emergencies
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Workshop overview
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Workshop expectations
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Influence:
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Activity
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Topic 1
Understanding influence.
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Activity
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Power, influence and negotiation are interrelated.
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Influential people are:
confident
trustworthy
positive
focused
goal oriented
action oriented
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7 behavioural styles:
assertive
autocratic
democratic
emotional
logical
negotiating
persuasive
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Activity
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Topic 2
Perspectives
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Sphere of influence
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Circle of concern and influence
Circle of concern
Circle of
Things I truly influence Things I think
cannot control I cannot control
Things I can
control
Things about
which I care
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Listening
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Take the time to understand what others say.
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Perspectives
Your Objective
own observers
Other
persons
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Activity
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Topic 3
Influencing behaviours
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Listening
(Diogenes)
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Rapport
Always get to know the other party. Never negotiate with a stranger.
(Somers White)
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Acuity
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Calibration
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Framing
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Emotional framing
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End framing
(Sydney J. Harris)
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Activity
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Topic 4
Advanced communications
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Passive people:
do not express their views, feelings and beliefs
make it easy for others to disregard their views
put themselves down to accommodate others
avoid confrontation at all costs
place themselves only in easy situations
let others make decisions
expect others to know what they want or mean
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Aggressive people:
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Passive-aggressive people:
respond indirectly and control others by manipulation
make others feel guilty, awkward or inadequate, to get
what they want
use insincere flattery, sarcasm, barbed humour or telling
body language
appear to think highly of others but disapprove
underneath
use silence as an intimidation strategy
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Assertiveness:
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The 3 step response
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Conflict
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Negotiating
(Hubert Humphrey)
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Strategies:
stay calm
be positive
address issues not personalities
validate the other's point of view
be sure of your facts
avoid exaggeration
state your needs
strive for a resolution in which everyone gains something
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Dealing with aggression
Respond assertively.
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Fight or flight instinct
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Activity
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Topic 5
Negotiating
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Goals
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Tips
(P Dean Acheson)
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Work together
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To deal or not to deal?
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Influence may be the highest level of human Skills.
(Thomas Kempis)
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Activity
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Summary
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