By: Roa, Gustilo, Tagalongan, Supe, Tan, Dayrit, Go Pua
Roa, Delima, Co “Liars go to hell”. Definitely, we do not mean that liars go to hell but we understand why it is associated with “hell”. Lying does not only offend but can destroy basic relationship, without which, no possible care and love would take place. For this, we do not like liars. They cannot be trusted, and are unworthy of true friendship. WHAT IS LYING? Lying is saying or doing what is untrue with the intention of deceiving. Even with the presence of different gadgets, we still prefer to have someone to talk to, someone who responds and reacts to what we say. Unfortunately, the time we spend chatting with people becomes an opportunity to boast our accomplishments, put down others we diskike, and exaggerate matters to get the sympathy of the listeners. We start to lie and sin. Lying has the sole purpose of serving oneself by misrepresentation, deceit, and falsity. It may be done throughout words or actions. Why do we LIE? Though the reasons why we lie are manifold, it starts with self-deception. We lie when there is a gap that we cannot accept between who we are and what we want to be, what we want to have for ourselves and for others. What are the different lies according to kinds, motivations, and situations? WHITE LIES LIES ESCAPIST CARELESS LIES Other Serious Lies are : 1.Lies told from malice 2.LIES OF propaganda or for profit 3.LIES of Hypocrisy or of half truths 4.Contrive flattery of others 5.Silence Defamation is a lie against our neighbor. It is taking away or lessening an another man’s fame unjustly. Defamation has five kinds, namely: calumny or slander, detraction, gossip and backbiting, tale bearing, and derision. Calumny or slander : It injures reputation by stories that are not true and consists of accusing a person of faults of which he/she is not guilty of. Detraction :It is the unjust revelation of the person’s hidden faults or defects blackening his/her reputation. Gossip or backbiting: It is the criticism about real and known effect and by itself is not unjust. Tale-bearing : It is a speech unfavorable to another person, secretly made, with the purpose of breaking up a vood relationship.DD Derision : It is a jest or a prank that accuses another eith some defect in his presence with the purpose of putting him to confusion. What is a secret? A secret is something that is known privately to a person or only a few persons. Some kinds of secrets are: Natural Secret A Promised Secret An entrusted secret Confessional secret Seal of confession What does the Church call us about lying? Lying is contrary to who God is. “I am the truth”. (John 14:6) Lying is an abuse of speech and communication LYING IS AN INJURY AGAINST ITHER PIEOLE WHO ARE LEAD TO ERROR LYING IS AN INJURY TO SOCIETY SINCE PUBLIC WELFARE IS SACRIFICE THE END