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TYPES OF HUSBAND – WIFE RELATIONSHIPS
PATTERN ONE : The thrusting husband and the caring wife: no cause for stress
PATTERN TWO : Both husband and wife are thrusting. A lot of stress can be seen.
PATTERN THREE : Two involved people: not only are they enjoying their own careers but are
also understanding each other
PATTERN FOUR : Involved husband and a caring wife: the husband may have guilt feelings
leading to problems
STAGES IN A MARRAIGE
The three stages in a typical marriage are :-
1. Mad for each other
2. Made for each other
3. Mad at each other
Role of Relationship
INVOLVEMENT
•Testing Exit
•Intensifying
INTIMACY
•Interpersonal commitment Exit
•Social Bonding
Me
Lose Win
Lose
Both lose I win – you lose
You
Win
You win – I lose Both win
Parallel Win/Lose Conversations
Position X
Position X
Conversational
Conversational Distance
Distance
Position Y Position Y
Time Time
Sequential Win/Win Conversation
Position X Position X
Conversational Conversational
Distance Distance
Position Y Position Y
Time Time
Conversation Direction Chart
Rejection
Disagreement
Consideration
Agreement
Commitment
1 2 3 4 5
Complementary Transactions
P P P P
Stimulus S
A A A A
Response
C R
C C C
Crossed Ulterior
P P P P
R R
A A A A
S S
C C C C
I II Known to
Public Blindspot others
III IV Unknown
Private Unknown to others
Life positions
Other’s Images
How do significant others see me ?
Cultural Teachings
How do I fulfill the teachings of my
culture ?
What is personality :
Personality is the brand image of an
individual. It is made up of three Broad
aspects :
Character
Behavioural Traits
Attitude
Character Traits :
Integrity
Discipline
Dedication
Behaviour traits :
Interpersonal Skills
Communication Skills
Leadership qualities
Stress Management
Time Management
Attitude :
Positive Attitude
Win-Win Situation
Keeping the end in mind
Synergistic Approach
Developing an Assertive Personality
Developing an assertive personality calls for
paying attention to eight major components. These are
progressive and hierarchical in order